Leo disappearing and reappearing magic trick?

Hello all who wonder. I will attempt to settle the question of "why Leo's disappear and reappear?"fully and finally.

First Leo's will spend lot of time with those who love,however Leo also need time to pursue its goals and dreams and make disappear and use the time required to do it and they expect their partner to understand that.

Further when a Leo disappears, it could also mean that the Leo is reflecting on life

Leos also disappear to escape negativity , if you are a negative person a Leo will disappear.

Leos dislike individuals who make no attempt to resolve their own problems and will disappear .

Leo will also disappear if you place to much burden on the Leo in which the Leo thinks you should manage.


Usually and ultimately a Leo would have made all attempts to resolve an issue before disappearing so you will probably be able to sense when a Leo will disappear.

Leos disappear because they dont want the negativity to rub of on them, they do not want to become apart of something negative.

Leo will reappear when we think the sun is shining and may not reappear if we think the sun will never shine again.


How to stop or slow disappearing :

To excite your Leo handle a problem with confidence it shows strength,leos like that.

Show that you are willing to resolve arguments quickly and get back to having fun

Leos understand the world has problems however will believe then can be dealt with a positive attitude.

If a leo gets upset, just believe the leo tried and used all of the leo power which is reserved for battles that seem fit.

On the flip side...Playing the devil's advocate, they also disappear, to spend time with that new chick that he met, after he proposed to you....

There are a lot of women clearly exasperated at leos - me being one of them lol

And WHY is it that every frigging time we ask advice about leos, the leos say its not about them its about you my dear. Never admit to it being their fault like you say gggemini!

JMO

If a Leo admits fault out loud, he admits defeat, which can make the Leo seem weak in their eyes

Which makes the Leo seem incapable of leading, to make mistakes is not an option, even if they do make a mistake, to have their partner put it in their face is a form of disrespect, like why do you have to rub it in, like they know at that point they made a mistake, and they don't need you to add to another one

I think to a Leo they will correct that fault if given time, and if your not about giving the time or be a support system, then your adding to the stress of the mistake, which could lead to disappearing

I hate to say it, JMO, it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

At least that's what I get from my Leo friend, but trust has to be established, if you can get the Leo to put aside his ego and pride for at least 10 minutes and I mean at least 10, you have a shot

Posted by TaurusNikki
JMO

If a Leo admits fault out loud, he admits defeat, which can make the Leo seem weak in their eyes

Which makes the Leo seem incapable of leading, to make mistakes is not an option, even if they do make a mistake, to have their partner put it in their face is a form of disrespect, like why do you have to rub it in, like they know at that point they made a mistake, and they don't need you to add to another one

I think to a Leo they will correct that fault if given time, and if your not about giving the time or be a support system, then your adding to the stress of the mistake, which could lead to disappearing

I hate to say it, JMO, it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

At least that's what I get from my Leo friend, but trust has to be established, if you can get the Leo to put aside his ego and pride for at least 10 minutes and I mean at least 10, you have a shot

nuff said..... TaurusNikki.. you are pretty much the only female in here to solve us lol.... hats off to ya

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Posted by TaurusNikki
JMO

If a Leo admits fault out loud, he admits defeat, which can make the Leo seem weak in their eyes

Which makes the Leo seem incapable of leading, to make mistakes is not an option, even if they do make a mistake, to have their partner put it in their face is a form of disrespect, like why do you have to rub it in, like they know at that point they made a mistake, and they don't need you to add to another one

I think to a Leo they will correct that fault if given time, and if your not about giving the time or be a support system, then your adding to the stress of the mistake, which could lead to disappearing

I hate to say it, JMO, it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

At least that's what I get from my Leo friend, but trust has to be established, if you can get the Leo to put aside his ego and pride for at least 10 minutes and I mean at least 10, you have a shot

nuff said..... TaurusNikki.. you are pretty much the only female in here to solve us lol.... hats off to ya

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I'll drink to that, lol

Posted by TaurusNikki
... it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

Exactly.

It's all in the delivery, beh-beh 😄

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by TaurusNikki
... it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

Exactly.

It's all in the delivery, beh-beh 😄

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Sooo...you have to start with "Your highness the Leo may I be so bold to ask you How r u today?"

When a Leo texts you with something sexual in nature & I respond back with response I know he'll like...& then he disappeared again....How's it my fault?
When he needed my support he was in touch with me all the time...Then his disappearing act started...How's it my fault?

Posted by ariesgirl402
When a Leo texts you with something sexual in nature & I respond back with response I know he'll like...& then he disappeared again....How's it my fault?
When he needed my support he was in touch with me all the time...Then his disappearing act started...How's it my fault?

Hey Ariesgirl

Can I ask you what happen with you and your Leo

What's the nature of your relationship, I might have an answer to what happen, I just need to know the back story

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Posted by ariesgirl402
When a Leo texts you with something sexual in nature & I respond back with response I know he'll like...& then he disappeared again....How's it my fault?
When he needed my support he was in touch with me all the time...Then his disappearing act started...How's it my fault?

Hey Ariesgirl

Can I ask you what happen with you and your Leo

What's the nature of your relationship, I might have an answer to what happen, I just need to know the back story

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Thank you TaurusNikki🙂
To make a long story short: we met, we clicked, we made out, no sex, he had to leave because of death in the family, I let it go, he was in constant contact to have my emotional support + sex stuff, again nothing to explicit, then "i like you" & stuff, when I responded in like he started disappearing. He was chasing after me when I wasn't taking it seriously but then i gave in. Then he said that why I don't connect for days. When I reach out then he doesn't respond. I always respond because don't like head games & silly push/pull. Last communication from him: sexy remark & business question & responded to both in a positive manner. That's the very condensed version.
Please shine a light on how I can be blamed here🙂

@ Ariesgirl


Were you two in a serious relationship or was this just getting to know you phase?

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@ Ariesgirl


Were you two in a serious relationship or was this just getting to know you phase?

Getting to know which he initiated & prolonged

Posted by ariesgirl402

Posted by TaurusNikki
@ Ariesgirl


Were you two in a serious relationship or was this just getting to know you phase?

Getting to know which he initiated & prolonged

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O, ok, it wasn't your fault, the Leo isn't ready

He just wants to feel wanted and praised, don't cater to the Leo, make him prove to you that he wants to know you even more

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@ Ariesgirl


Were you two in a serious relationship or was this just getting to know you phase?

Getting to know which he initiated & prolonged

O, ok, it wasn't your fault, the Leo isn't ready

He just wants to feel wanted and praised, don't cater to the Leo, make him prove to you that he wants to know you even more

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Thank you for the advice!🙂 guess u should follow it. Shame that it can't be easier

No problem

It's only because it's fresh and I'm hoping you didn't give up the cookie

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by TaurusNikki
... it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

Exactly.

It's all in the delivery, beh-beh 😄

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Lol +129485858

I tell ppl this all the time. Delivery, don't lie, or be flaky. Once we lose respect or love it's pretty much a wrap. Agreed we need space. I get the "you are ignoring me" often. I don't mean to at all. I call it as me recharging myself. Believe it or not we are very sensitive and when I'm going through a lot I can only keep my brave face on but so long and need a day or so to cut myself off from the world and recharge. If we come back don't take it personal.

Posted by TaurusNikki
No problem

It's only because it's fresh and I'm hoping you didn't give up the cookie

No cookie was crumbled. I offered the cookie & he nibbled like crazy & didn't want to take it.

Posted by MIZUNDERSTOOD

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by TaurusNikki
... it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

Exactly.

It's all in the delivery, beh-beh 😄

Lol +129485858

I tell ppl this all the time. Delivery, don't lie, or be flaky. Once we lose respect or love it's pretty much a wrap. Agreed we need space. I get the "you are ignoring me" often. I don't mean to at all. I call it as me recharging myself. Believe it or not we are very sensitive and when I'm going through a lot I can only keep my brave face on but so long and need a day or so to cut myself off from the world and recharge. If we come back don't take it personal.

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+1 I totally agree, Leo's are easy to understand, at least to me they are 😉

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by TaurusNikki
... it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

Exactly.

It's all in the delivery, beh-beh 😄

Lol +129485858

I tell ppl this all the time. Delivery, don't lie, or be flaky. Once we lose respect or love it's pretty much a wrap. Agreed we need space. I get the "you are ignoring me" often. I don't mean to at all. I call it as me recharging myself. Believe it or not we are very sensitive and when I'm going through a lot I can only keep my brave face on but so long and need a day or so to cut myself off from the world and recharge. If we come back don't take it personal.

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Yes, on the respect/love-- what's done cannot be undone.

Forgive? Sure, if you're sorry-- but it isn't likely I'll ever be able to look at you the same.


What's your moon sign, MizU?

Apparently JYNJA, You do not know all Leo men....Of course you do not...My dad is a Leo and guess what?He proposed to my mother, and had side chicks....So what the heck does that make your statement about Leo men? FALSE!!!! Anyhoo, carry on about your useless knowledge;0

** I have to amend that last statement for my Gemini friend.

For some reason, she 'gets' my jealousy (I cant help it... riding to a party w. someone else "because they asked first"-- wtf air signs?), apologizes on the rare occasion she riles it, and I adore her for that.

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Posted by ariesgirl402
Sooo...you have to start with "Your highness the Leo may I be so bold to ask you How r u today?"

How did you get that, from this:

Posted by TaurusNikki
I think to a Leo they will correct that fault if given time, and if your not about giving the time or be a support system, then your adding to the stress of the mistake, which could lead to disappearing

I hate to say it, JMO, it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

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It's base on the situation

Each sign needs to be respected

But people must see the warning signs for what they are, not for what they could be

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by ariesgirl402
Sooo...you have to start with "Your highness the Leo may I be so bold to ask you How r u today?"

How did you get that, from this:

Posted by TaurusNikki
I think to a Leo they will correct that fault if given time, and if your not about giving the time or be a support system, then your adding to the stress of the mistake, which could lead to disappearing

I hate to say it, JMO, it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

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Lmao, good point

Posted by TaurusNikki

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by ariesgirl402
Sooo...you have to start with "Your highness the Leo may I be so bold to ask you How r u today?"

How did you get that, from this:

Posted by TaurusNikki
I think to a Leo they will correct that fault if given time, and if your not about giving the time or be a support system, then your adding to the stress of the mistake, which could lead to disappearing

I hate to say it, JMO, it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

Lmao, good point

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Hmmm...not sure where u got this from. My response was to a different post that's quoted here🙂

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Posted by MIZUNDERSTOOD

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by TaurusNikki
... it's the way you talk to a Leo and how you form the nature of the problem

Exactly.

It's all in the delivery, beh-beh 😄

Lol +129485858

I tell ppl this all the time. Delivery, don't lie, or be flaky. Once we lose respect or love it's pretty much a wrap. Agreed we need space. I get the "you are ignoring me" often. I don't mean to at all. I call it as me recharging myself. Believe it or not we are very sensitive and when I'm going through a lot I can
only keep my brave face on but so long and need a day or so to cut myself off from the world and recharge. If we come back don't take it personal.

Yes, on the respect/love-- what's done cannot be undone.

Forgive? Sure, if you're sorry-- but it isn't likely I'll ever be able to look at you the same.



What's your moon sign, MizU?

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Moon taurus rising aqua.

Agreed always can forgive or realize it never was in the first place(lol) is that a bad thing? in retrospect never had a ex i still hold a torch for once I'm over them. i somewhat feel bad about how i can detach but going through the break up its terrible. i can move on quickly once i find someone

respect/love....hmmm gotta agree with you on that one too lol

Ok, so let me get this straight. It's all about how you talk to a Leo huh? So why is it that they feel like they can come at people and talk to people any kind of way but we're supposed to talk to them respectfully and with extra care just so we won't hurt his precious little pride? Wtf?! HELL NAW! That's not happening. I'll give him what he gives me. Really don't give a damn if he gets upset either. Leo men are drama kings with a capital D (Although they never see it that way) and in order to keep him around, you have to be just as strong and vocal as him. He needs to knows that you're not gonna take his shit. Once he knows that he can't play you, HE WON'T! But he will definitely try. I think they secretly like drama and they like it when a woman stands up to them. But if he doesn't, that's just too damn bad. I have a awesome Leo friend. Although we disagree and argue like crazy, and we don't speak, we always come right back to each other. I really think it's because he likes my strong personality. I'm not weak and he knows it so that makes me more interesting. We have each others backs. 🙂

Posted by missnia08
Ok, so let me get this straight. It's all about how you talk to a Leo huh? So why is it that they feel like they can come at people and talk to people any kind of way but we're supposed to talk to them respectfully and with extra care just so we won't hurt his precious little pride? Wtf?! HELL NAW! That's not happening. I'll give him what he gives me. Really don't give a damn if he gets upset either. Leo men are drama kings with a capital D (Although they never see it that way) and in order to keep him around, you have to be just as strong and vocal as him. He needs to knows that you're not gonna take his shit. Once he knows that he can't play you, HE WON'T! But he will definitely try. I think they secretly like drama and they like it when a woman stands up to them. But if he doesn't, that's just too damn bad. I have a awesome Leo friend. Although we disagree and argue like crazy, and we don't speak, we always come right back to each other. I really think it's because he likes my strong personality. I'm not weak and he knows it so that makes me more interesting. We have each others backs. 🙂

you are missing the point, this is if you want a leo around 🙂

Posted by ariesgirl402
Hmmm...not sure where u got this from. My response was to a different post that's quoted here🙂

I got it from your response to me on p. 1:

LOL I love my sign and I rep it 100% but I wouldnt date my sign. All signs CHEAT that's a fact, but leo's like attention from the person their with. That's my issue finding the happy balance of not getting someone too clingy but not detached. We want to be happy like everyone else and many things are done as a defense mechanism really, just to get a reaction, however we do have a temper when upset. I dont like foolishness bullshit so i will spazz, but once you let me get it out and understand this is my venting i go from lion to kitty kat lol. but would i date a leo personally HELL NO We too bossy. cant be bossy to a bossy person lol. but sex is great tho LMAO!

Just remember
1.we love to flirt ( THATS IT NOTHING MORE) a lil jealousy is ok we thrive off attention and affection FROM OUR PARTNER. PERIOD!
2.we are faithful ppl once we care( keyword CARE) until then roll dice
3.we will give you everything we have( BUT DONT USE US) big NO NO we will hate you for it
4.we get mad/temper. We're not like libras who run from confrontation. not gonna happen. most wont look for it but we will entertain it.
5.we try to be fair (thus the drama rap) not drama we are being honest
6. we are sensitive despite the roar.(we dont like getting our ego/feeling hurt)
7.we will test you ( for loyalty and weakness) we dont respect weakness
8.most can be loners. Yeah we get along with ppl but when WE want to. dont force. Its like a house cat. they will come to you when they want love but perfectly great alone too. just know we love you.
9.watch your mouth! We have smart ass mouths NOT saying we dont deserve it back but choose your battles
10.we forgive, we dont hold grudges, but we will NEVER forget how you did us wrong!

@ Jynja,Please do not go there about my mother....Because I sure as heck hope that is not you in that avatar of yours, because if so,you look like someone could stick your face in dough, to make gorilla cookies...Ugly chick inside and out....Now what's that about being desperate? I come on here to get advice from strangers, so that I would not be judged, and you are calling my attempts to get past my hurt desperate? I may appear desperate to you and many others on here, but guess what? I won't let Mr.Leo see me sweat ever again. Sure, I come on here to vent, and I may even annoy some of you with my questions, but it is all a way for me to get past what Iam going through, and I really do not expect a self centered donkey such as yourself to understand that....

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Posted by missnia08
Ok, so let me get this straight. It's all about how you talk to a Leo huh? So why is it that they feel like they can come at people and talk to people any kind of way but we're supposed to talk to them respectfully and with extra care just so we won't hurt his precious little pride? Wtf?! HELL NAW! That's not happening. I'll give him what he gives me. Really don't give a damn if he gets upset either. Leo men are drama kings with a capital D (Although they never see it that way) and in order to keep him around, you have to be just as strong and vocal as him. He needs to knows that you're not gonna take his shit. Once he knows that he can't play you, HE WON'T! But he will definitely try. I think they secretly like drama and they like it when a woman stands up to them. But if he doesn't, that's just too damn bad. I have a awesome Leo friend. Although we disagree and argue like crazy, and we don't speak, we always come right back to each other. I really think it's because he likes my strong personality. I'm not weak and he knows it so that makes me more interesting. We have each others backs. 🙂

you are missing the point, this is if you want a leo around 🙂

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No I'm not missing the point. I understood completely. That is exactly what you have to do if you want a Leo around. But if he chooses to run, then so be it. He may be an immature Leo.

Posted by AneemA
My leo is now disappearing.. :/ not sure what to say to him if he gets back...

Something along the line of 'I can't believe you made me

worry about you like that... I thought you were DEAD.'

Guilt. 😄


Then shut down all communication for like... 4 days, after

which you can revisit the topic.


Leaving without word and making someone worry (I'm assuming

that is the case here) is just cold.

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Posted by AneemA
My leo is now disappearing.. :/ not sure what to say to him if he gets back...

Something along the line of 'I can't believe you made me

worry about you like that... I thought you were DEAD.'

Guilt. 😄


Then shut down all communication for like... 4 days, after

which you can revisit the topic.


Leaving without word and making someone worry (I'm assuming

that is the case here) is just cold.

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This made me laugh... Guilt can work. After every disappearing act My leo contacts me and his first comment is apologising for not writing... And then tries for a booty call the next day looooool. This last disappearing act was 2.5 months!!!! Before I would be reaching out to him making sure he was ok, but I'm wise to it now and never worry about him disappearing coz I KNOW he's fine 😄

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Posted by AneemA
My leo is now disappearing.. :/ not sure what to say to him if he gets back...

Something along the line of 'I can't believe you made me

worry about you like that... I thought you were DEAD.'

Guilt. 😄


Then shut down all communication for like... 4 days, after

which you can revisit the topic.


Leaving without word and making someone worry (I'm assuming

that is the case here) is just cold.

This made me laugh... Guilt can work. After every disappearing act My leo contacts me and his first comment is apologising for not writing... And then tries for a booty call the next day looooool. This last disappearing act was 2.5 months!!!! Before I would be reaching out to him making sure he was ok, but I'm wise to it now and never worry about him disappearing coz I KNOW he's fine 😄

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Wow that's an awful long time to be waiting... I would have moved on by then... It's been 2 days since mine left, 1 day since he read my messages and hasn't responded and ignored my video chat (we are long distance) . But was in full force for a whole month wanting me to give in and now I have and told him once I give in men dissapear he said he wouldn't and then boom... He acting distant. I'm just gonna do me and not focus on him cause I told him this was a no no. I'm just tired of dealing with men.

Man, I love leos. They are funny, cute, fun to be around, smart but damn can they be so immature and egotistical. If a man, Leo or no Leo, disappears on me. I will ice him out & disappear as well. This isn't high school and nobody is a mind reader. If you need some time away, say it before you disappear so I'm not out here looking stupid. Messing up my own psyche worrying about your stupid a $ $ .
Well I guess that's why I and my Leo didn't work out. Games and all this push/pull sh $ t are so immature. I believe in saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Like a wise woman said, "Ain't nobody got time for this."