I am seeing a leo w/ and aqua moon. he is so different from anyone i have ever met before. I am a cancer with a scorpio moon. He and i enjoy our time together and he tends to lead the relationship, which is naturally something he would do. He loves me or so he says, and his actions usually say he does. But he doesn't want to be physically close to me very often. And I don't mean sexually, i am more talking about intimacy. hand holding, cuddling. stuff like that. He doesn't enjoy any of it. He does it every once in a while, but only for a minute or two. So my question is, what gives? where does this come from? i have read about leos and i have read about how devoted they are and how they supposedly like to flaunt their relationships, pda, and all that stuff but that isn't the case with him. Is this a warning sign? or could it just be a quirk? HAS ANYONE RUN INTO THIS BEFORE? Can someone explain this. I just dont get it.
leo w/ and aqua moon, I know all too well about this sign...good luck with that one, he is going to give you a run for sure...you may find him giving you excessive compliments, telling you how grand and great you are in the beginning and then poof your left wondering what happened to all that grandeur and adoration...this sign isn't the most affectionate in the intimate kind of way *he will sex you up* but the cuddling and all the cute things that make couples stronger and closer may not happen, you will be stuck in the she's a friend category even when you know for sure your his girlfriend or are you really his girlfriend? or are you only his girlfriend when it benefits him? LOL!! (sorry for laughing but I have seen it all with this sign) many female admirers and he will keep in touch with exes no matter how futile and volatile the relationship was (gluton for punishment I guess) When affection is wanted he will come to you but easily push you away when he's had enough and will constantly seek out ego strokes from any and every body, complaining, whiney, i'm a victim attitude *yeah don't fall for that one*not the most honest but very loyal and will stick with you if you show the capacity and interest to deal with his quirks, his push and pull egocentric fueled growly, grouchy, depressed loner persona you will fair well, they can be very lazy lovers, will allow you to lead him up until he gets tired of being led, you will probably find yourself doing a lot more than he is.
Very artistic, very personable, love to be the center of attention, great energy when not being difficult, love to be catered to, will go along with any crazy ideas you have as long as its fun, anything mentally stimulating will keep him around, love love love mental stimulation and this is why he may not be so physical because its the thought of love and sex that really turns the sign on, the physical is also appreciated but mental stimulation is a must.
Don't make him the center of your universe, have a full life, don't obsess about him or his behavior, don't take everything too seriously and if you aren't dating other men, you may want to do so until he can tell you he wants a commitment because he will keep his options open even when he's professing his love for you.
Not saying that description I gave is your leo, I described a few things I have encountered while dealing with my leo for 2 years now who is a Leo with Aqua moon. He's not going to be your typical leo, I'm assuming things are quite new with you 2 but pay attention to everything, doesn't mean nag about it but everything means something with this sign. If you look for something you will find it and he won't go out of his way to hide it so you want have to look to deep for any sort of shenanigans. Pay attention and if you really want a juicy piece of advice, WAIT TO GIVE HIM YOUR HEART, make him work for it, then you won't have to go through all the bullshit I went through with my leo.
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