Leo man and busy woman

Hi again Leos.

I have never thought that i'd get a long that good with leo men before. I like the lioness and have some lionesses friends.

But as time goes by, it seems like now i'm starting to give my attention to some leo men that came around.

Now i just met another leo man.

We have met few times in person.

And wow we get along well.

I can say that i like this gentleman.

It's like i could just checked my list of what qualities in a man that i'm looking for when i'm interacting with him.

So strong, well mannered, smart, masculine, driven, hard worker, classy, yet so affectionate and warm. And of course so sexy.

He's chasing me hard. He makes me feel like a woman.

Everything is going great so far.

Except for this thing that i often caught myself busy time to time with work and family and all.

That most of the time i couldn't meet him when he told me that he wants to see me and such.

The same thing with calls and texts. My busy schedule sometimes keep me away from my phone. Or i just often have people around me that when he wants to video call, i couldn't do it.

Well, he said that he understood and being cool with that situation. But i can sense that everytime i replied to his text more than 5 hours his text would be pretty cold.

Now my work is getting easier. And i'm not as busy as usual. But i need to stay in my parents to take care of them. When i said that i'd be here for two weeks he sounds like "What? Why?"

But then he understood and gave me some toughtful words on taking care of my parents.

But i feel like he's not as warm as he used to now. Though we're still communicate everyday.

Does he feel that i'm not giving him enough attention? Or?

He said that i work too much, and told me don't work too hard. Do you guys leo man bothered with busy and workaholic woman?

You'll need to be clear that you are slammed right now between work and family. Otherwise consistently receiving texts several hours later may seem like you aren't really that interested. Just let him know you are very VERY busy. That being said, it may help to send little texts saying, "Hey can't talk now, but just wanted to see how your day was" or something to that effect. That way it shows that you are indeed reciprocating interest.

The reason he's colder is because he's becoming guarded. We Leos are very cautious about who we open up to and we don't like looking foolish. Yes we can be risk takers, but we will be very protective of our hearts. Being an Aqua he's probably getting a more detached vibe from you, so he's probably mirroring that. Sounds like there isn't really a lot of spare time for you two to see each other, so he may not be sure how to approach you at this point.

Just remember that we Leos are very physical beings. We like to get to know our partners on a personal level. We prefer face-to-face interactions when it comes to romantic situations. It's good that you communicate everyday, but know that the Leo needs more face time if anything is going to truly grow between you romantically.

As far as what we like, we do like women with ambition. However if a woman is too busy to be with us, we will think, "Well what's the point?" We are very goal oriented after all. So if it looks like spending time with a person will be difficult, we may throw in the towel. It really depends on how much the Leo has invested at that point.

To be fair it sounds like you are too busy to date, but still want to communicate with this guy.

Hey Chuckcem,

Thank you for checking my post!

Ahh ok I see now, yes my work schedule is so hectic lately and even for the next three months.

I have told him about it, he's so understanding and told me that he'll just be more patient and wait to meet me 3 months later.

I really like this man! And no i don't want to let him feel like i'm not interested or even ignoring him and such, because i'm not.

I've been trying to communicate more with him and pick his call more as well.

Things are going really well now.

I miss him a lot and want to meet him again so bad, it's just my darn work and such.

Though i kinda feel pretty anxious sometimes if he would really still wait for me, despite of him still being so awesome, warm and affectionate.

Any more input/advices on how to keep him there till the day i meet him again would be so appreciated.

Anyway, thank you for being so helpful!

Well if he said he'll wait to meet you in 3 months, that's a good sign. Really as long as a Leo has something to look forward to, we can be VERY patient. Again Leos can respect an ambitious person, so being busy isn't necessarily a deal breaker (at least not in the beginning). If a Leo understands where you're coming from, it will make your interactions a lot easier.

All of that being said, if you want the Leo to warm up, he'll need to sense that you're pushing from your end as well. Remember that a lion won't chase prey that is too far in the distance. Lions go after prey that is closer and somewhat easier to catch (that's if the lionesses haven't done all of the work already).

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Well if he said he'll wait to meet you in 3 months, that's a good sign. Really as long as a Leo has something to look forward to, we can be VERY patient. Again Leos can respect an ambitious person, so being busy isn't necessarily a deal breaker (at least not in the beginning). If a Leo understands where you're coming from, it will make your interactions a lot easier.

All of that being said, if you want the Leo to warm up, he'll need to sense that you're pushing from your end as well. Remember that a lion won't chase prey that is too far in the distance. Lions go after prey that is closer and somewhat easier to catch (that's if the lionesses haven't done all of the work already).

Sorry for the slow reply.

Yes he is telling me that he's waiting and still waiting. There are times when he just told me to visit me in my town, and even come to my hometown as i've been here for a while now.

But somehow i couldn't meet him still.

We're not official yet though, but he's constantly calling me those term of endearment names. Which is sweet, and i'd just playfully reciprocate. Lately he's starting to say things like "you're my ...." Or "my sweet things of mine". Thats really warm, though i just a lil wondering why haha

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Posted by Chuckcem
Well if he said he'll wait to meet you in 3 months, that's a good sign. Really as long as a Leo has something to look forward to, we can be VERY patient. Again Leos can respect an ambitious person, so being busy isn't necessarily a deal breaker (at least not in the beginning). If a Leo understands where you're coming from, it will make your interactions a lot easier.

All of that being said, if you want the Leo to warm up, he'll need to sense that you're pushing from your end as well. Remember that a lion won't chase prey that is too far in the distance. Lions go after prey that is closer and somewhat easier to catch (that's if the lionesses haven't done all of the work already).

Sorry for the slow reply.

Yes he is telling me that he's waiting and still waiting. There are times when he just told me to visit me in my town, and even come to my hometown as i've been here for a while now.

But somehow i couldn't meet him still.

We're not official yet though, but he's constantly calling me those term of endearment names. Which is sweet, and i'd just playfully reciprocate. Lately he's starting to say things like "you're my ...." Or "my sweet things of mine". Thats really warm, though i just a lil wondering why haha

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Well it sounds like as long as he's willing to be patient and you're fine with making an effort to see him, it should be fine.

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Hey Chuckcem,

Thank you for checking my post!

Ahh ok I see now, yes my work schedule is so hectic lately and even for the next three months.

I have told him about it, he's so understanding and told me that he'll just be more patient and wait to meet me 3 months later.

I really like this man! And no i don't want to let him feel like i'm not interested or even ignoring him and such, because i'm not.

I've been trying to communicate more with him and pick his call more as well.

Things are going really well now.

I miss him a lot and want to meet him again so bad, it's just my darn work and such.

Though i kinda feel pretty anxious sometimes if he would really still wait for me, despite of him still being so awesome, warm and affectionate.

Any more input/advices on how to keep him there till the day i meet him again would be so appreciated.

Anyway, thank you for being so helpful!

LOL good luck with your leo man. Sounds like he really cares about you.

I enjoyed reading your post. Describes me to a T. I've been called workaholic many a times before. Work and family can literally rule my day in and out. I'm an aqua moon tho. Huh wonder if it's an aqua thing.

Good luck!

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Thank you!

Hehe yes, work and family most of the time.

Being workaholic is cool, means that we're productive most of the time. But also remember that our health is important too.

I hope you're not a nocturnal and working till dawn like me.

And we finally met in person again yesterday!

I'm so happy, and he said so does he. Everything is great so far and so hot.

Are you with a leo man too or?