Leo man Aries woman sex and interaction...Advice?

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Hi,
I'm an Aries woman and met a Leo man who's his mid 30's in a professional environment about 2 months ago. We hit it off as friends and had many laughs together. He tells me that no one makes him laugh the way i do. He was all over me and we made out, got to the 2nd base. He's the one who made all the moves and chased after me. Once we made out hot and heavy but he didn't want to go any further. I made it clear that i'm interested in him to go all the way on numerous occasions. But he always makes excuse not to go all the way. He gives me compliments and sexting me in a nice and fun way??_never too raunchy or dirty or uncomfortable??_always in an fun and nice way. He talks about us having sex and just things in general like we've already had it and know each other well. He had to go away for work for a while and he was in touch on daily basis except in the past week??_.I reached out couple of times and he gets back right away texting about his day and all??_but never asks about me.

My question is - is it a normal Leo behavior? Is all communication only about them? Do they inquire about their woman? What kind of woman do they like?

I've been burn before, as i'm sure many other ppl. Don't want to be suspicious, jaded or paranoid??_but also don't want to be a fool and be screwed over again.

Advise??_opinion..experiences??_share!🙂

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Posted by ariesgirl402

I reached out couple of times and he gets back right away texting about his day and all??_but never asks about me.
My question is - is it a normal Leo behavior? Is all communication only about them?



lmfao! Jeez, at least I pretend to give a fuck even when I don't... out of general courtesy! Flipping through the Leo boards and the problems the women have with us, it strikes me I must really be a rare bird for a lion!

Oh wait, did I just make this about ME ?!! :0
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Posted by ariesgirl402

I reached out couple of times and he gets back right away texting about his day and all??_but never asks about me.
My question is - is it a normal Leo behavior? Is all communication only about them?



lmfao! Jeez, at least I pretend to give a fuck even when I don't... out of general courtesy! Flipping through the Leo boards and the problems the women have with us, it strikes me I must really be a rare bird for a lion!

Oh wait, did I just make this about ME ?!! :0
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Your response is neither helpful or funny. In your mind you're probably come off as a really smart but in reality is un-necessary condescending and just childish. If you don't have anything constructive to say feel free not to respond back.
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Hey ariesgirl402; I am in the same situation with a Leo man. Like yours my man was very forthright, contacting me first etc and making all the moves and when we met he would always go on about him and rarely asked about me, but then I didnt mind that; it is a physical relationship so I wasnt expecting him to be gushing/loving about me or my family or whatever. A lot of the threads seem to point to the fact that Leo's need their space and you need to learn patience with them; a very difficult thing for an Aries! My leo does like to hear from me though so every few days I send him a good morning or whatever, so he knows I am there for him.

My best advice would be to stay positive and try to just go with the flow with him. Its hard though as aries like to be in some control of where things are going. However all loes dont have the same triats, its about personality as well and you just have to try and base it on your gut feelings. I was in a situation where something went wrong and I thought it was my doing but Ive had to learn to calm the f*** down and not get so paranoid!! At the end of the day I want my leo man - so I am having to make some changes.

If you stick with him and it works out, then hugs to you girl; I had never been with a leo man before my one either and I can tell you that I would do anything for him now as I have learnt to trust him (a big thing for me) and I would have in no way extended that to any other sign before. They can make you feel and do things no other sign can 😉

Take what you need to from these threads; some people on here are very sweet and really helpful and above all constructive, just ignore the ones from leos that make out there must be something wrong with YOU! Aries are a great match for leos!!!

Keep us posted as to how you get on :-)
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AriesGirl74 - Thank you so much for a constructive advice and sharing your experience and situation.

This particular situation is different and new for me to figure out what's going on there exactly. And as he's the 1st Leo i can relate too and actually like. I always found them too much of attention whores and overbearing. As i'm sure you can relate - physical part is easy. If we were physical right away and all of this was going on then i wouldn't even think about it. Sometimes people have sex and that's all there is to that. But for a man to turn down sex while seemed to be very interested in it - is new for me. So, either he's taking it slow because he wants to get to know me, or he's a control freak, or he's a psychopath. When i told him that i feel rejected, his response was "you're definitely not rejected." Guess, time will show if it's all about physical or emotional and romantic will come into place. I just know myself and if he'll wait too long or starts playing relationship control games i'll walk away.
It's just this hot/cold and push/pull that bothers me. I was with a Scorpio before and that was his way of emotional manipulation along with selfishness. I don't want to go throughout that again. I like to have my personal space too from time to time and can't be in a clingy relationship.

I guess i'll follow your advice and go with the flow and see what develops.
Thank you again!!🙂
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Posted by ariesgirl402
So, either he's taking it slow because he wants to get to know me, or he's a control freak, or he's a psychopath. When i told him that i feel rejected, his response was "you're definitely not rejected."




Based on this:

Posted by ariesgirl402
I made it clear that i'm interested in him to go all the way on numerous occasions.
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Control would be my guess.

This isn't meant to be a judgmental statement, but stop doing that.




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Posted by Montgomery
Posted by ariesgirl402
So, either he's taking it slow because he wants to get to know me, or he's a control freak, or he's a psychopath. When i told him that i feel rejected, his response was "you're definitely not rejected."




Based on this:

Posted by ariesgirl402
I made it clear that i'm interested in him to go all the way on numerous occasions.




Control would be my guess.

This isn't meant to be a judgmental statement, but stop doing that.


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Thank you for advice. I've stopped actually. Now proverbial balls are in his court.
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Posted by ariesgirl402
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by ariesgirl402
So, either he's taking it slow because he wants to get to know me, or he's a control freak, or he's a psychopath. When i told him that i feel rejected, his response was "you're definitely not rejected."




Based on this:

Posted by ariesgirl402
I made it clear that i'm interested in him to go all the way on numerous occasions.




Control would be my guess.

This isn't meant to be a judgmental statement, but stop doing that.




Thank you for advice. I've stopped actually. Now proverbial balls are in his court.
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Ha! Good. 😉
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Never mind. It says you're a newbie. So, where in my response to Enfant did I call YOU forgettable? Who are you again? Or are you just so desperate for any response that you don't see that my thoughts were directly addressing Enfant's musings.

Is English your first language? Do you understand "IF"?

Please don't put words in my mouth.



Girls, why do we have to argue when we could remove our clothes instead?
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Posted by Jynja
Never mind. It says you're a newbie. So, where in my response to Enfant did I call YOU forgettable? Who are you again? Or are you just so desperate for any response that you don't see that my thoughts were directly addressing Enfant's musings.

Is English your first language? Do you understand "IF"?

Please don't put words in my mouth.



Girls, why do we have to argue when we could remove our clothes instead?
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😛

On another note-- I don't think you've checked in, yet.

Right here.
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Posted by Jynja
Never mind. It says you're a newbie. So, where in my response to Enfant did I call YOU forgettable? Who are you again? Or are you just so desperate for any response that you don't see that my thoughts were directly addressing Enfant's musings.

Is English your first language? Do you understand "IF"?

Please don't put words in my mouth.



Girls, why do we have to argue when we could remove our clothes instead?
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As you all notice i didn't respond back to that person. Not going to bother with someone who's flipping out on me and being insulting. WTF? I had a misunderstanding with your response and we worked it out. Now we're cool and civil.🙂
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Posted by ariesgirl402
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by ariesgirl402
So, either he's taking it slow because he wants to get to know me, or he's a control freak, or he's a psychopath. When i told him that i feel rejected, his response was "you're definitely not rejected."



Based on this:
Posted by ariesgirl402
I made it clear that i'm interested in him to go all the way on numerous occasions.




Control would be my guess.
This isn't meant to be a judgmental statement, but stop doing that.


Thank you for advice. I've stopped actually. Now proverbial balls are in his court.



Ha! Good. 😉
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Trying!🙂 Thanks!🙂