I have a hot Leo male roommate, comes off as shy. He told mutual friends when we met he had a "crush" on me. We started hanging out on weekends with friends and he would focus on me, opening doors, buying my favorite things, gazing in my direction alot etc..... So, I think he's pretty obviously interested. Then one night we get physical, just heavy kissing and we passed out in same bed. The next morning, he's distant. We eventually talk and he said he wasn't ready for a relationship and he just moved too fast. So I said, okay, let's be friends. Well , he continues to get jealous if other guys talk to me, flirts with me on occasion but also ignores me and goes out of his way I feel like to leave the apartment when I'm there, like to look busy. I've been for the most part moving on, ignoring him too, doing my own thing unless we all hang out as friends, I'm nice but not flirtatious. I guess I still feel like he's trying to play games and get my attention a little and I don't understand why? Like how so moody and stand offish one sec then flirty and jealous another?
Leo mixed signals?

Just give him constant attention. Do you NOT see the sun that is shining brightly out of his ASS! The nerve of you not frolicking and being playful with the lion. Flirt back but don't take it anywhere. They are territorial though, I think it's cute.


Mixed signals only if you hurt their pride.
If they want you for real, youll KNOW! Otherwise, itll be a short-lived yet super polite situation.
If they want you for real, youll KNOW! Otherwise, itll be a short-lived yet super polite situation.

Nah he likes you lol he won't admit it at all lol. Trust me I'm the same way I'm not going admit anything, my pride and dignity over everything. If he kissed you and is looking you way constantly? Bruh he still feels you. He probably one of those Leo's who will let their anger, attraction ferment over time. He just might burst tbh and make a move on you again. But I know for a fact it sounds like getting cold feet for a relationship - but all I know he does like you for sure.

Sounds like he's emotionally immature and hasn't figured out how to voice himself yet. Stating that he doesn't want a relationship after kissing means that he is jumping to conclusions about the two of you before anything has really happened. This is probably to protect himself since hooking up with a roommate can lead to a whole host of problems if things go wrong. The main issue is, as @Ocelot009 stated, he's too proud to confront this. He's trying to be "above it all" when he really does have feelings, hence why he's acting distant. I also agree that he'll probably hold this in until he explodes. The best thing to do is to talk to him about it.
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