Leo/Virgo/Gemini and sex

Hi everyone 🙂

I have a question about a guy I just started talking to online, first off here's our astrology info:

Him Me
Sun Leo Aries
Moon — Capricorn
Mercury Virgo Aries
Venus Virgo Pisces
Mars Gemini Libra

We've really hit it off so far(as much as you can online lol). We have lot's in common, really like each other, but he seems like a very sexual person and likes to talk about it more than I do. I'd rather just wait til we meet, but he says I just turn him on so much he can't help it. During the day we talk about general stuff, but when he gets into bed at night, he wants to talk about sex and that's it. Sometimes he's like that during the day too. He says he's attracted to me because of more than looks, that it's also my personality, but I'm having a hard time figuring out if this is the truth. He tells me what he's doing during the day, can easily list the personality traits he likes about me, says he thinks about me all the time, and wants to talk when he's free. I can tell he wants a relationship that's more than sex, but what I'm wondering is how can I tell if he wants to have sex or make love? Difference to me being sex is more like porn and making love is feeling emotion for the at person and wanting to be close to them. I have read that Mars in Gemini are sexual people and like cyber/txt/phone sex etc, so maybe that plays a part. He's also said it's been a while...

He also seems like he goes back and forth between being really disciplined to giving into his emotions and passions. Could that be the mixture of Leo and Virgo in his chart?

hell yeah mars in gemini ppl are sexual! my taurus man has his mars in gemini and he and i used to "sext" each other constantly! actually, i'm the one who turned him on to it in the 1st place (i'm a leo btw). i asked him what he likes in the bedroom sense and he was reluctant at first, saying it was kinda weird. he got into it quickly and we continued to sext each other for the first couple of months straight! we don't really do it anymore though. i think it was an exciting thing to do because the relationship was so new. now when we text it is to purely communicate with each other or make plans. it was also a purely sexual relationship in the beginning.

yeah, this man could be straight up looking for a piece. he even said that it's been a while. that doesn't mean it couldn't turn into something later. it really depends on the individual. i don't know how u can expect to "make love" at this point. u haven't really made a statement about it but from what i gather u guys haven't even met yet. how long have u guys been communicating? it will probably be sex at first and then making love later.

remember, with leos, our hearts are ruled with the head. so while we are passionate, loving, and warm, we are also rational and logical.

question: how is it that u know the rest of his chart and not his moon?

Thanks for the replies 🙂

Jason: I can tell he wants more because of the way he acts. If he only wanted sex, I don't think he'd be bothering even talking to me because I live somewhat far away. He told me it was more than that and told me he likes me because I seem laidback, caring, fun, and honest. He also tells me what he's doing throughout the day and does just talk to me about everyday stuff most of the time. Main thing is the distance and him still being interested. I'm sure if he wanted he could go out and have sex with someone in his own town. But those are the main reaosns I can think of off the top of my head.

Ninjamu: Yeah idk how anyone expects to be able to "make love" right away either and thats why I've hardly thought of sex with him. We've only been talking long distance and only for a couple weeks now. I know the rest of his chart, because I know his birthdate, but not the time of his birth 🙂 So idk his moon or ascendent.

I'm also wondering how he'll be with Venus in Virgo, I know Virgos can be picky and critical. He seems really organized and tidy, probably the Virgo again, especially in Mercury.

*barf* Aries men *barf* Aries men are a waste of time for leo women. They spend the whole time trying to woo you to get into your pants and the ONLY reason they do this is because they are hella aggressive and leo is probably one of the most difficult "sluts" of the zodiac to bag. Difficult meaning its very unlikely aka slim chances that a lioness will sleep with you the first time they meet you unles they are drugged. Look at the HIGH @ $ $ divorce statistics online between Aries men and Leo females. Leos cant friggin stand them. Both are too aggressive, independent, MANLY. Leos are "hot" because they are masculine with fem appearance. Go for a sweeter sign like Virgo, Pisces, or Cancer and please don't look beyond that. :p

I think if you even take a step back from signs, and just sexual compatibility doesn't seem to be there. i have found that sex isn't the most important part of a relationship, but it is very important. If it's not in line in some way, someone is going to get hurt. It's inevitable. One isn't getting it enough so they start to feel neglected, or that you don't want them blah blah blah and vice versa.

I would discuss with him, what his sex drive is like and dive deeper if you can get it out of him. do that at night in bed, so you can see if you are compatible sexually. you can't tell it all in a conversation, but you can get a clue.

i say this because of your comment: "but what I'm wondering is how can I tell if he wants to have sex or make love? Difference to me being sex is more like porn and making love is feeling emotion for the at person and wanting to be close to them."

women and men typically view sex differently, so you need clarity on what his interpretation is.

I have always had a hard time finding sexual compatiability because i have an INSANE drive. I'm gemini, very very gemini. I don't associate sex with love. sex is feel good. but at the same time, i use sex as a means of showing affection. it is different and not all men get that. i rarely want to do the standard "make love" session. way too, i don't know. and i love my man with every ounce of who i am. I'm thankful that he is as much of a freak as i am and all we do is experiment and play almost worship each other and focus on pleasing one another so each of us walks away COMPLETELY satisfied. hell we call our love making "play time". lol it's crazy but, in all out reality we are always making love because we love each other that much. so porn type sex doesn't mean love isn't there. in a relationship, it's just the means to the end.. more playful and not so serious. there's a time and place for serious and it's different for all people.