LEO's normally play a dissapearing act?

I know this seems to happens with Virgo men (both me and few friends experienced this one while dating Virgos)...but is it typical for a Leo to do the same? And why?

No...I don't think so. To be honest with you, your Leo guy doesn't sound like a typical Leo.

I have, but then again I have virgo rising. (joke at a bad time I know)

Seriously though. I did, but it was with good reason. It may not have anything to do with him being a leo but plain WEAK period. I hope things get better for you Sophie.

answer: yes
i am leo and i disappear off these boards
currently disappeared from my circle of friends in england
i think its an ego thing i am a typical leo
but i think leos have gone through a dramtic change recently
he will be back just like i will be with my friends (i think)
and another thing when my friends use to be around my house i would do a diseappering act and that was ages ago
and it was my scorpio friend that actually used to call it a disappearing act

Leowith...I agree

Hi Purr...yes i think he fk'd up and he knows it now is a coward. Probabaly didn't realize it was Memorial day weekend , made other plans but forgot out date and now feels the best way to deal is to not deal with it.

DY...yes, much better than Virgi- idiot. But he is not all that small down yonfer, just not what I am used to (Virg and ex-husband)...but thats not a big deal to me.
How do I train this one when I havn't even heard a word from him since he called to make plans a week ago today? No text,no nothing....just poof...
PS...so happy for you and Deb...hope things are well.

Spary...interesting. And the Ego of a Leo would make them blow someone off or not comfront the blow off?

"Spary...interesting. And the Ego of a Leo would make them blow someone off or not comfront the blow off?"

i dont think its a blow off but maybe he needs to get himself sorted out before he "comes back" kind of going through the same thing atm with my friends although quite alright with me new gf, but it was the day before i met her that i said something stupid to my friends then didnt bother going back to sort it out, i'm just waiting for time to eclapse to see what happens i dont want my ego to be the denominator, maybe hes doing this with you he doesnt want to force anything with his ego because he wants it to be real, maybe. but remember he could just be waiting

Hi Spary,
Why wouldn't you try and fic it with your friends before its too late? For me, I know if I mess up I would want to recitfy it quick because as time goes on, people can get more mad about the situation. When time elapses, people/friends may think you don't care. What is there to sort out?

As far as me...he has nothing to sort out as far as me and him...simple...he made a date with me and just disappeared. What is he waiting for? To see if I foget ir ever happened?

Don't wait too long Spary...you could lose some dear friends that way...I really appreciate your feedback :-)

well i dont think i said anything too bad which will right off my friendship (although i may of tried too) with anyone i think if i leave it long enough they will forget about everything, think i'm just a bit stupid sometimes with the things i say and they know me well enough to know i dont mean it (i think) although i think i have just caused myself a bit of heart ack in the longrun, thanks for listening

Virgos only act that way when they aren't interested in you. If they want you, they make it clear and book the next date by the end of the first date. Having spent 8 yrs in relationships with two virgos back to back, I never had one disappear while we were dating.

Hmmm...then I wish mine was a Virgo! Unfortunately...its a Leo I'm dealing with...hehehehe

Cap Girl...
Very good points you made.
And I could see it could have one of the many scenarios you posted....better offer, found a girlfriend, or ex came for the weekend. But if he had no interest...why the hell call me and make sure he planned a date for the weekend w/ me.

Maybe its my Scorpio pride, but I really cannot call him...even to put closure.

I guess I will have to let it simmer....I don't have time or energ for this BS.

If I called...what the heck would I say?

Ha!
Capgirl....i hear you on that one... one thing I did was never call him and let him chase me....I did not make it easy as I am very busy with my life. Thats why I am surprised with this because I was not always available. Even calling ahead to plan the date because he knows I am "very busy and need 3 days advance notice"

I am going to let him wonder...and let him go.

His ego will make him call me at some point...but who knows when. I'll deal with it when the time comes.

LOL Chocolate!
XOXOXOXO

.....believe me he will call you again....

They always call back.

And he will only do it again. That is of course if there was no real reason, like an illness. I would do what you have the urge to do now sophie. If he calls don't answer. Let your answering machine pick up and see what he says. No illness? Then don't ever answer for him again. Have caller id?

Purrfect~

Yup...caller ID. I would be curious what his excuse will be....whatever it is...won't be a good one I'll tell ya.

And no, he will not have the opportunity to do this to me again.

I think its tough working form my house and having more time to dwell on things....i kind of wish I was back in an office/social environment. Geesh....what was I thinking taking this job—

For now you have the message boards : )


Or, go out with some girlfriends and do girl things for awhile. Nails? Hair? Shop— I always feel better after some me time. replace him with new clothes sophie lol. You two didn't date very long, this might help 🙂

Hi chocolate,

Things are good. And yourself? Any responses to your text msgs lately? 😉



...i want to get more involved in astrology...

it's addicting chocolate lol

Thanks y'all...

This astrology is fun but doesn't match up with everyone I know...
I think its still the differecnes in the sexes with a few details of everyones signs.
It can become addictive thought!

I wouldn't bother Sophie.

He knows how to contact you.

My little Leo comes running back everytime I throw my hands up and mentally move on. He is a possessive little bugger too. I noticed he has started calling me right around 10:00 to 10:30 pm just to make sure I am home alone. He also now wants to know where I go when I go out, which I refuse to answer. He now is insisting on taking me out for dinner this weekend. We. Shall. See. I rather not waste my time with a time waster so I am completely indifferent to the offer.

I think it helps that he saw me the other night with a bunch of friends. One of them an acquaintance I have just met who happens to be the most beautiful man I have ever seen. When Leo walked in, beautiful man was flirting madly with me.

Thats whats so funny little sparrow and Caps!

My God...Leo was also very jealous every time I went out and called me at 11:00 at night to see "what I did and where I was, where did I go..."....geesh...for 2 dates he got very posssesive that first week. Even drilled me last Wednesday what I have been doing, etc!

Funny how theres like a lightswitch that seems to turn off in their head.

Your playing it right, little, keep it going...sad how we have to keep our wall up...

Oh I am not playing Sophie. I am REALLY annoyed with all the wobbling about. I just caught on about the times he is calling.

There are way too many men in this world that are willing to give me what I want and deserve. I refuse to settle for less.

If this is his audition, he is never going to get the part.

lol chocolate

Jeez, he just left?? Well good for you for not chasing him either! Haha! omg that was funny. This sounds interesting. You have to keep me posted.

Good idea to be suspicious. I would be too. How did she react. Did you watch her too?

And yes i did watch the vibe betweeen them she touched his arm slightly like you know..then she looked him up& down...like she was remembering something, but i played it cool because i'm very observate of people...


I was thinking that's why he left too but I didn't want to say anything and get you all paranoid, lol


Talk to her more often chocolate. If she made things that obvious, maybe she will spill.

Chocalte...
Please...do change the subject! I'm getting over the Leo anyways.
I agree with purrrfect on this one...
Keep your friend close and your enemies closer....

....I think that i have claws and a stinger (leo/scorp combo)i know i have scorp somewhere in my charts......

It sounds like you do chocolate. I predicted that, remember? 🙂




Keep your friend close and your enemies closer....

exactly.

Hey Cholocate!
NO WORD From freakin Houdini...betchya another chick came into the picture. When he gets bored w/ that one he'll be back like nothing happened...but I have no interest.

OK...now whats going on with your guy Chocolate? Think you'll see him this weekend?
What are u goign to do/say?

I'll be seeing my ex-Virgo tonight (he's working)...I'm almost tempted to grab him for a little rendevous...hehehe..wow...I'm so horny! Its been months! God help me!

Hello my friends!

OK...funny night last night.

Ran into ex-Virgo...chatted a little with him...he was giving me ABSOLUTELY NO EYE contact while he was speaking with me. I blurted out (after a few martinis) that I had a dream about him the other night....ugh...(didn't say if it was good or bad~~but it WAS a sex dream...didn't tell him that). Responded "Oh really?" Geesh...what was I thinking, especially since I have to see this guy everytime I am at the bar. Smack me please!

...rejection at its finest.

Makes me wonder since Leo and Ex-Virgo have a mutual friend (Virgos friend is the one who set me up with Leo)if Virgo opened his big mouth about the fact we dated for a bit.

Do men talk like us woman do about our "escapades?"

Get those Stilettos on hunny and work it girl!!!! Hope he does show up and your looking HOT of course!

OMG...my girlfriend called me and asked me about last night...I can't even remember! I had 3 apple martinis...ugh.

Cannot beleive I said that to ex-Virgo (about the dream) I'm such a bad drunk...

So much rejection lately Its almost funny....

::: *waits for chocolate to come back with her saturday night scorp gossip* ::::

aw, all watching and no ACTION. Sucks 😢

I am off to work. See you laters 🙂

*** Do men talk like us woman do about our "escapades?"

Yes. In detail you don't want to know about. (I've been the fly on the wall on Boy's Night Out, so no matter what men tell you .... they talk about it in explicit detail, even if it happened once 12 yrs ago.)

If this is what happened, Leo could have bolted. I have been told they don't like promiscuous women.

Glad you girls had a greta weekend...mine was uneventful. Chocolate...love the people watching!...I could do that all day!

Little Sparrow...I agree they do talk about their escapades but I think he just met someone else.

Leo and Ex-Virgo are not friends but have one mutual friend (the one who set LEO up with me)that ex-Virgo rarely talks to...and second, I dated Ex-Virgo for 3 months (was the only one I was dating) so it wasnt like I was promiscuous. Our dating stopped when I confronted him about sleeping w/ someone else and he did not tell me.

Leo is very quiet...even if they did see each other, he has nothing bad to say about me other than he dated me for a few months...no biggy. And I don;'t think I would be the topic of conversation the few times they may bump into one another.

I've got my gay best friend coming in from Miami on Thursday! Yeah! Fun fun fun!

the question is..if a leo decides to play a disappearing act..will the scorpio do the same and possibly try to ignore the leo to an even greater extent or will he come back running?

undergrad....There is a good possibility of that happening (ignoring you that is). Please, only disappear if you TRUELY are not coming back. Because eventually he will not take you seriously.

Hi undergrad...

At this point...Scorpio does not care and has no use use for a Leo or any other sign who plans a date by his request and then blows it off. Scorp has disappeared because she will not tolerate being treated that way.

And who cares if Leo does come running back..Scorps hold grudges...at least this one does...

Leo won't be back so I'm not worried.

I also see that his demeaner changed (phone calls/TM's dropped) after he came over my house...so let him be the insecure idiot he is...

..Scorps hold grudges...


I agree. It might be a good idea to remember this when you can't figure out why he is mad at you.

At least I know why you are mad at me DB 😛

Where the heck have you been?? I don't like not seeing you around.

How long is that list btw?? What number am I? You know, so I know when to disappear? lol

Thank you sb. I am still learning. I am sure there are a lot of aspects I missed. I saw the email and you're welcome. 🙂

How are you doing anyways?

...I think a 'car accident'...will look swell...

How did you know where I lived Mr. Scorpio?? Are you psychic?

203 hmm... so now I just need to determine how long it actually takes you to get even and if it is the same for everyone. lol Damn virgo placements obsessed with numbers.

sb,
I am a happy camper right now. house to myself. Everyone moved out the same day. I am free 🙂

Thanks for the warning.

sorry sb,

I had a full house. They are all on their own now. Now, I don't know what to do with myself. I have nobody to harrass lol

lol sb I couldn't. He's just a kid. I think I'll save it for the grown ups who should know better lol

good night DB.

sb, still here?

Ever think about learning more yourself? Astrology I mean.

...But some how I want to learn more about Astronomy and astrology how they are related....

Astronomy is the study of outer space. Astrology is quite different. I have an opinion about what makes astrology somewhat believable, if you are interested. How would you see them as related?

...There is someone on here that has almost the exact chart as me i.e. sun,moon,mars,venus.mercusry and rising are all in the same place....

Do you feel any similarities aside from the differences? I want to guess no because of your Aqua rising. Because Aqua doesn't like being compared to anyone.


...Would you say it depends upon the degrees?...

Yes! I would. Degrees can change everything. Houses even. By the minute.

Yes.

Goodnight sb