Long distance situation Leo man/Libra woman

Hey beautiful ppl! Just here to vent. Your advice and opinions are welcome.

32 Libra woman in a long distance situation with a Leo man over five years. We just can't seem to let go! We had a couple blow outs but we come right back to each other. The connections becomes even deeper. He's 34 hard working and going to school. He's my high school crush. Never in a million years I would have thought he would be in my life. We been together a hand full of times. Each time he takes me to a new level. He's very gentle but dominating. Total gentleman. Hot, deep, and slow. After ending a long term relationship with an aqua, my Leo is the second man in my life. He has a knack with understanding my moods. He's ready to do anything I suggest. We inspire each other alot. We are very playful with each other.

Now here the twist he's casually dating other women. He claims it's not that serious and I have his heart. We talk about everything under the sun include these hook ups in which it frustrates me to the point I go into a shell. It kills me that it's not me. I go into a silence because I can't express how it hurts. I respect him for telling me. But my walls go up he doesn't let up! He's very manly so he doesn't express his emotions unless we go unbalanced. He says I have his heart. To look at the facts that he's still here for me. He's giving me access to him no matter what time of the day.

I guess have a few doubts as to why he puts up with the situation. Why hasn't he disappeared on me? On just call it quits. I'm just overwhelmed after hanging up from a 3 hour conversation full of laughter. I'm hungry for him. My aches grow deeper by the days.

There's context missing here. Why are you in a long distance relationship for 5 years? Is it an open relationship? Sounds like it since he's dating other women. If he's willing to do anything you ask, why haven't asked for exclusivity?

Sounds like he has an open relationship with you so he can do whatever he wants, so there's no reason for him to disappear. What consequences are there really? It's possible he also cares about you too since he's so easy to reach. The real question is what do you want?

Posted by Unicornlibra
Hey beautiful ppl! Just here to vent. Your advice and opinions are welcome.

32 Libra woman in a long distance situation with a Leo man over five years. We just can't seem to let go! We had a couple blow outs but we come right back to each other. The connections becomes even deeper. He's 34 hard working and going to school. He's my high school crush. Never in a million years I would have thought he would be in my life. We been together a hand full of times. Each time he takes me to a new level. He's very gentle but dominating. Total gentleman. Hot, deep, and slow. After ending a long term relationship with an aqua, my Leo is the second man in my life. He has a knack with understanding my moods. He's ready to do anything I suggest. We inspire each other alot. We are very playful with each other.

Now here the twist he's casually dating other women. He claims it's not that serious and I have his heart. We talk about everything under the sun include these hook ups in which it frustrates me to the point I go into a shell. It kills me that it's not me. I go into a silence because I can't express how it hurts. I respect him for telling me. But my walls go up he doesn't let up! He's very manly so he doesn't express his emotions unless we go unbalanced. He says I have his heart. To look at the facts that he's still here for me. He's giving me access to him no matter what time of the day.

I guess have a few doubts as to why he puts up with the situation. Why hasn't he disappeared on me? On just call it quits. I'm just overwhelmed after hanging up from a 3 hour conversation full of laughter. I'm hungry for him. My aches grow deeper by the days.

Hey, I understand from your words how painful it should be!

Hugs, dear!

Well, I'm sorry to tell you this: Long distance relationships working out is really a miracle even if the love is genuine and true. It is really rare for a long distance relationship to last for a long time. People will start to miss their partners and may tend to go searching for that warmth from someone else in their locality, as they change and adapt according to the new setting or will look for a partner in their own, original setting which was and is still their location.

For now, you try chilling out with other guys and your friends, too. Let him know that you're seeing other guys the way he did to you. If he's Really serious, he'll come to you and commit. If not, which will most probably be the case (he may even try to turn the tables around and say he left only because you started seeing other guys, to overcome his guilt), just let go, dear. Long distance relationships are mostly pain.

If he's still giving you access, it's probably because he loves the attention that you're giving him. Maybe it boosts his ego.

Sorry if that hurt you; I only wanted to be honest because I can't bear seeing anyone suffer. Take care.