So I’ve been dealing/dating Leo man off and on again. We rarely had disagreements or any big issues but when we started getting closer he runs but usually always comes back. However, this last time I was fed up with the back and forth and wanted more. We went out for dinner and I was the first to say I love you but I didn’t want to continue being hurt because he flees at commitment. Next day he text me asking if I was serious about never seeing him again and I told him yes because I’m tired of the back and forth with no end goal. He instantly calls me and tells me he loves me and he needs to see me. I hesitated to meet up but he’s never told me no when I wanted to see him so I went. We ended up having a magical night where he took me up the mountains to see the stars and talk. He ends the night asking to cuddle and buys me a piece of jewelry. Then as the night progresses he further tells me I will always have a place in his heart, he sees me as the mother of his kids and can see us living together. He tells me he loves me but can never be with me because his Nigerian family would never approve of me being a single or parent. At that moment my heart drops out of my chest. I was pissed because he could have just let me walk away when I was ready. Wtf was all the extra taking me out. Not knowing how he felt would have been preferred. Can someone tell me what the motive?? I don’t get why he couldn’t just let me walk away and preserve my heart? I already felt like I was losing my best friend, my life mate, and someone that understood me and then he pulls that bullshit. Are Leo’s big on picking family first?
