Mars in Leo

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1. You REALLY know when a MiL is interested, if you give us a green light.

2. Depends on the perceived chemistry. We usually know what we want if we see value in something/someone.


So if the chemistry is amazing would you immediately try to rush into a relationship?What would cause you to distance yourself from someone after chasing really hard?
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1. You REALLY know when a MiL is interested, if you give us a green light.

2. Depends on the perceived chemistry. We usually know what we want if we see value in something/someone.

So if the chemistry is amazing would you immediately try to rush into a relationship?What would cause you to distance yourself from someone after chasing really hard?

Remember, chemistry does not equal compatibility. It's possible that you could have the hots for someone and want to rush in impulsively.

What would cause a man like me to retreat is the realization that I'm not compatible or mixed signals from the woman I've already made up my mind about.

It's an extremely prideful Mars position and I don't usually put myself in a losing situation. I do plenty of homework oh, but that could be my sun sign talking.
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Interesting. So I’m assuming you wouldn’t even really pursue if you knew it wouldn’t turn out how you want? What’s your sin sign?

Mixed signals lol makes sense. This guy is getting distant, but I think it’s because I keep telling him to hold off on being in a relationship with me. He was trying literally as soon as we met. I show him I’m interested though. But if someone gets distant, I mirror them.
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1. You REALLY know when a MiL is interested, if you give us a green light.

2. Depends on the perceived chemistry. We usually know what we want if we see value in something/someone.

So if the chemistry is amazing would you immediately try to rush into a relationship?What would cause you to distance yourself from someone after chasing really hard?

Remember, chemistry does not equal compatibility. It's possible that you could have the hots for someone and want to rush in impulsively.

What would cause a man like me to retreat is the realization that I'm not compatible or mixed signals from the woman I've already made up my mind about.

It's an extremely prideful Mars position and I don't usually put myself in a losing situation. I do plenty of homework oh, but that could be my sun sign talking.

Interesting. So I’m assuming you wouldn’t even really pursue if you knew it wouldn’t turn out how you want? What’s your sin sign?

Mixed signals lol makes sense. This guy is getting distant, but I think it’s because I keep telling him to hold off on being in a relationship with me. He was trying literally as soon as we met. I show him I’m interested though. But if someone gets distant, I mirror them.

I don't usually put myself in a losing position. My sun sign is Scorpio.

I've learned that dating is nothing more than a numbers game initially, if it doesn't work out with one woman - there's about four more behind her.

If it helps any, my Venus is in Sagittarius. But that Venus does not influence how I chase, it only influences what happens after I've caught you.
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Lol I had a feeling you’d say Scorpio

Yeah that’s very true. He claims im the only girl he’s talking to, but I don’t believe that lol. Well you both have the same elements in the same positions. Water sun, fire mars and venus so I’ll take your word for it. What do you think I should do? I don’t want him to lose interest, but I also don’t wanna come off as desperate
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1. You REALLY know when a MiL is interested, if you give us a green light.

2. Depends on the perceived chemistry. We usually know what we want if we see value in something/someone.

So if the chemistry is amazing would you immediately try to rush into a relationship?What would cause you to distance yourself from someone after chasing really hard?

Remember, chemistry does not equal compatibility. It's possible that you could have the hots for someone and want to rush in impulsively.

What would cause a man like me to retreat is the realization that I'm not compatible or mixed signals from the woman I've already made up my mind about.

It's an extremely prideful Mars position and I don't usually put myself in a losing situation. I do plenty of homework oh, but that could be my sun sign talking.

Interesting. So I’m assuming you wouldn’t even really pursue if you knew it wouldn’t turn out how you want? What’s your sin sign?

Mixed signals lol makes sense. This guy is getting distant, but I think it’s because I keep telling him to hold off on being in a relationship with me. He was trying literally as soon as we met. I show him I’m interested though. But if someone gets distant, I mirror them.

I don't usually put myself in a losing position. My sun sign is Scorpio.

I've learned that dating is nothing more than a numbers game initially, if it doesn't work out with one woman - there's about four more behind her.

If it helps any, my Venus is in Sagittarius. But that Venus does not influence how I chase, it only influences what happens after I've caught you.

Lol I had a feeling you’d say Scorpio

Yeah that’s very true. He claims im the only girl he’s talking to, but I don’t believe that lol. Well you both have the same elements in the same positions. Water sun, fire mars and venus so I’ll take your word for it. What do you think I should do? I don’t want him to lose interest, but I also don’t wanna come off as desperate

Haha, I'm that transparent aren't I? 🤭

No, Mars in Leo people are usually in high demand.

If you are interested in pursuing this person, one of you has to take the first step and not shy away from each other. There needs to be a little give on your part so you might want to invite him for a meet-up of some sort. At that point, it's up to him to handle the rest if he wants to.

I think if you dangle some bait, expect a shark to bite so don't be surprised he does everything he can to impress you.
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Haha nah I just know a Scorpio when I talk to one 😅 I’m a Scorpio dominant. the key word that gave it away was “research” lol

He’s definitely in high demand. I can tell 🙄 idk why he denies it lol

Got it. He took the steps but I kinda just shut him down, but still act interested. So I’m not surprised he’s becoming distant. Especially because he’s a Cancer, and being a Cancer moon I do the same. I’ll reach out to him and see what he says.
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I have Mars and Venus in Leo. I go mostly by instinct, like the Lion, it knows when to pounce and when to just chill. I isolate my prey (take out any opponents lol) and go straight for Gold.


This guy has the same placements lol. Do you fall for someone really quickly? I’m just trying to figure out if this guy is full of shit or not lol
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I have Mars and Venus in Leo. I go mostly by instinct, like the Lion, it knows when to pounce and when to just chill. I isolate my prey (take out any opponents lol) and go straight for Gold.

This guy has the same placements lol. Do you fall for someone really quickly? I’m just trying to figure out if this guy is full of shit or not lol
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Venus and Mars in Leo usually don't waste time in people we don't see any romantic potential to explore or where our heart (Leo rules the heart) is, so if he's giving you more than friendly attention, you can be damn sure he wants you, and bad. We don't do half-assed.
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I have Mars and Venus in Leo. I go mostly by instinct, like the Lion, it knows when to pounce and when to just chill. I isolate my prey (take out any opponents lol) and go straight for Gold.

This guy has the same placements lol. Do you fall for someone really quickly? I’m just trying to figure out if this guy is full of shit or not lol

Venus and Mars in Leo usually don't waste time in people we don't see any romantic potential to explore or where our heart (Leo rules the heart) is, so if he's giving you more than friendly attention, you can be damn sure he wants you, and bad. We don't do half-assed.
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Ok that’s good to know! I just have trust issues so that’s why I wasn’t really sure. He’s just really good looking and has a lot of girls on his ass, so it makes me skeptical. He says he’s not the type of guy to cheat or talk to multiple women.

What would make you start to go distant?
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I definitely convey interest but I leave it a bit ambiguous as I hate feeling any sort of rejection....I think that's mainly due to having tremendous pride as was mentioned....I can be much more direct depending on my level of comfort with the person though, and the nature of attraction....ironically, the stronger the physical chemistry is, the more indirect I probably am bc it can feel overwhelming....the smoother the communication/mental aspect is, the more comfortable I feel, and the more I can read their attraction, the more forward I am....If I find a person extremely attractive, but they are like I am - very proud, guarded, subtle or ambiguous with their own signals - it probably ends in a stalemate, which is ok....we call it a draw and both parties can go home with their pride intact...also - just being honest, there's a bit of arrogance/entitlement in there - like part of me feels like "if they really are feeling it, they'll put in the effort and come my way..."
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I have Mars and Venus in Leo. I go mostly by instinct, like the Lion, it knows when to pounce and when to just chill. I isolate my prey (take out any opponents lol) and go straight for Gold.

This guy has the same placements lol. Do you fall for someone really quickly? I’m just trying to figure out if this guy is full of shit or not lol

Venus and Mars in Leo usually don't waste time in people we don't see any romantic potential to explore or where our heart (Leo rules the heart) is, so if he's giving you more than friendly attention, you can be damn sure he wants you, and bad. We don't do half-assed.

Ok that’s good to know! I just have trust issues so that’s why I wasn’t really sure. He’s just really good looking and has a lot of girls on his ass, so it makes me skeptical. He says he’s not the type of guy to cheat or talk to multiple women.

What would make you start to go distant?
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Rejection, hurt feelings, not acting like you’re interested, etc. ahhh Leo Mars are adorable lol and you will know it when interested. It doesn’t take much to get their attention again, just show your interest ( if they are interested) and they’ll pounce again.
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I definitely convey interest but I leave it a bit ambiguous as I hate feeling any sort of rejection....I think that's mainly due to having tremendous pride as was mentioned....I can be much more direct depending on my level of comfort with the person though, and the nature of attraction....ironically, the stronger the physical chemistry is, the more indirect I probably am bc it can feel overwhelming....the smoother the communication/mental aspect is, the more comfortable I feel, and the more I can read their attraction, the more forward I am....If I find a person extremely attractive, but they are like I am - very proud, guarded, subtle or ambiguous with their own signals - it probably ends in a stalemate, which is ok....we call it a draw and both parties can go home with their pride intact...also - just being honest, there's a bit of arrogance/entitlement in there - like part of me feels like "if they really are feeling it, they'll put in the effort and come my way..."


💯 this!!
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1. You REALLY know when a MiL is interested, if you give us a green light.

2. Depends on the perceived chemistry. We usually know what we want if we see value in something/someone.

So if the chemistry is amazing would you immediately try to rush into a relationship?What would cause you to distance yourself from someone after chasing really hard?

Remember, chemistry does not equal compatibility. It's possible that you could have the hots for someone and want to rush in impulsively.

What would cause a man like me to retreat is the realization that I'm not compatible or mixed signals from the woman I've already made up my mind about.

It's an extremely prideful Mars position and I don't usually put myself in a losing situation. I do plenty of homework oh, but that could be my sun sign talking.

Interesting. So I’m assuming you wouldn’t even really pursue if you knew it wouldn’t turn out how you want? What’s your sin sign?

Mixed signals lol makes sense. This guy is getting distant, but I think it’s because I keep telling him to hold off on being in a relationship with me. He was trying literally as soon as we met. I show him I’m interested though. But if someone gets distant, I mirror them.

I don't usually put myself in a losing position. My sun sign is Scorpio.

I've learned that dating is nothing more than a numbers game initially, if it doesn't work out with one woman - there's about four more behind her.

If it helps any, my Venus is in Sagittarius. But that Venus does not influence how I chase, it only influences what happens after I've caught you.

Damn, I wish I could think like that. To me there's one person and ONE PERSON only. I couldn't think thers are 4 others elsewhere.

Having an abundance mindset eventually brings you abundance. 😊

It sound just like an excuse for attention, to me.

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It does conflict with my sun sign but I've accepted the outcome. It's better than without, I will say.

That's your Sagittarius venus. 🤣

I've only ever had the balls to say the words: I love you - four times.

If I've uttered those words in your ear - you bet your cute ass I will give you the world or destroy it if you ask me to. THAT'S Mars in Leo for you! 🔥
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" I will give you the world or destroy it if you ask me to."

I have only felt that strongly for someone once in my life. It scares the shit out of me because I knew I meant it. Yet you say it so casually. How do you keep yourself in check, when it's that strong?