Hello, I'm in need of some adivce! I've run into a Leo at about three parties. We always talked and flirted. He'd give me his hat and tell me how sexy I am in it. However, if another male spoke to me, he'd vanish (and take his hat..) until I was free again. I understood not liking competition and didn't bother him much. At each party I was pretty busy myself so we'd only chat sometimes. But when we did, there was chemistry. & I always called him out if he used cheap lines, which I think he enjoyed. I heard from a friend that he had said he found me ridiculously attractive. At the third party I finally decided to ask him if he wanted my number. I was sick of running into him and him not asking (though he was obviously wanting to) because other guys were talking to me. He practically jumped at the offer and agreed. Before I left home, he spent about an hour trying to get me alone and pursuing me. The next morning he texted me, to my surprise. (I thought he was too drunk to remember.) We spent the whole day flirting and just talking through texts. Kept asking when he'd see me again. If I didn't reply, he'd text me again. He told me bluntly that he was interested in me. Asked me if I was good enough for him (which was cute) and tried to get to know a lot about me. Well... The other night he stopped replying. (but he posted on facebook that night.) I didn't text him again. I didn't want to seem pushy or clingy. So a day passed and we didn't talk, and I finally decided I'd text him. He replied, and we went back to texting like before. He continued replying, had a LOT to say. He'd always send me paragraphs - and keep the conversation going. Appeared interested and happy to hear from me. Admitted he had stalked my Facebook pictures. (lol.) Today I asked if he wanted to hang out, and he impatiently asked to see me today. But I said I was busy, and to wait until the weekend. He offered to take me to the movies and made plans. Said he'd have an entire day just for us. Then once again, he stopped replying. It's been about seven hours and no contact. I'm not mad or hurt, I'm just confused. If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't reply or make plans with me - right? So.... What's going on. Should I wait patiently and not contact him until this weekend (unless he texts me first.) - or move on?
i've been through this scenario numerous times with a certain knobhead. enthusiastically making arrangements down to the nth degree...time, date, what we're doing...him not me, lol...only to drift off before the date of the 'arrangement'. i told him not to bother asking me anywhere until he was sitting in his car and on his way and then he could take his chances on if i'm free or not. it's ridiculous!!!!!
so yeah....either way, let him do the running around. leos are really bad for doing this.
so you met a guy a few times and instead of waiting for him to ask for your number you offered it to him, then you spend days on end texting backwards and forwards with him like you have no life, and now you're hyperventilating because he hasn't replied in 7 hours, are you sitting on your couch with nothing else to do with yourself? Turn a Leo man off 101. This is what I would be thinking if I was a man, and it seems to me this is what you are showing him. Don't spend this amount of time texting with a guy that you barely know, hell don't do it even if your in a LTR with one, if you want to get to know him, STOP TEXTING, wait for HIM to ask YOU out and save the getting to know you's for face to face communication. If he tries to instigate long conversations over text (talk about lazy courting!) then cut them short and go do something else - that will soon show him that you are not a person who can be strung along via text or sitting pretty on the couch waiting for him to decide to text you, geez he doesn't even seem to think its worth a phone call - he'll want a strong woman who can be his queen and you can only show him that you one by acting like one.
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I've run into a Leo at about three parties. We always talked and flirted. He'd give me his hat and tell me how sexy I am in it. However, if another male spoke to me, he'd vanish (and take his hat..) until I was free again. I understood not liking competition and didn't bother him much. At each party I was pretty busy myself so we'd only chat sometimes. But when we did, there was chemistry. & I always called him out if he used cheap lines, which I think he enjoyed. I heard from a friend that he had said he found me ridiculously attractive.
At the third party I finally decided to ask him if he wanted my number. I was sick of running into him and him not asking (though he was obviously wanting to) because other guys were talking to me. He practically jumped at the offer and agreed. Before I left home, he spent about an hour trying to get me alone and pursuing me. The next morning he texted me, to my surprise. (I thought he was too drunk to remember.) We spent the whole day flirting and just talking through texts. Kept asking when he'd see me again. If I didn't reply, he'd text me again. He told me bluntly that he was interested in me. Asked me if I was good enough for him (which was cute) and tried to get to know a lot about me.
Well... The other night he stopped replying. (but he posted on facebook that night.) I didn't text him again. I didn't want to seem pushy or clingy. So a day passed and we didn't talk, and I finally decided I'd text him. He replied, and we went back to texting like before. He continued replying, had a LOT to say. He'd always send me paragraphs - and keep the conversation going. Appeared interested and happy to hear from me. Admitted he had stalked my Facebook pictures. (lol.) Today I asked if he wanted to hang out, and he impatiently asked to see me today. But I said I was busy, and to wait until the weekend. He offered to take me to the movies and made plans. Said he'd have an entire day just for us. Then once again, he stopped replying. It's been about seven hours and no contact. I'm not mad or hurt, I'm just confused. If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't reply or make plans with me - right?
So.... What's going on. Should I wait patiently and not contact him until this weekend (unless he texts me first.) - or move on?