Need advice about Gemini Friend

So. I have this Gemini, male, gay friend who is 25 years old. I am Leo, straight, 26 year old female. We've been friends for over a year. But this past summer we got into a huge argument.

My friend came to visit me in the summer and conveyed some pretty depressing news about herself which needed to remain a secret. I was totally bummed and told the Gemini. When I introduced them two he starts with bringing the subject matter up in an indirect manner but very obvious that I had told him. It was fault for telling him. I realize that. I stopped talking to him for about two months. During those two months I got the usual texts calling me names and him playing the victim card and all this other nonsense.

Last month, I decided to hear him out in person after getting a genuine apologetic voicemail. I decided to hang with him again but started to kind of feel that he was being a total phony and remembering what he did. So I distanced myself from him.

This past weekend I was out of town and so was my roommate. Which he was made aware of. He came to my apartment (he has a copy of my keys) to make a phone call behind my back. I called him to get out of my apartment while I am not there. He writes these irrational defensive texts and tells me im crazy for not trusting him and all this other crap about how absurd of me to hang up the phone.

I dont know what to do. Do I just get rid of this fellow? He is making me look like a damn fool. I reaallllllly miss him. I feel so lonely but he is being such a jackass and a jerk to me. Help I need some advice.

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Change the locks.

He's obviously not trustworthy... and don't tell him

(or anyone else for that matter) secrets that have

been entrusted to you.


You don't need us to tell you this stuff.