Need help with a Leo Man! Should I chase..??

Ok so been talking to this guy I met online, (we're both Leos) definitely a kind of old fashioned/traditional guy as far as relationship male/female roles. And dominant and manly but knows how to be a gentleman. We have a TON in common, our bdays even 2 days apart. He's asked me 1st if I was interested in marriage, talked about kids, about what we want out of a relationship, n he's very communicative. We've texted pretty much everyday since about 7/20. We finally met (he lives in SD) so we met halfway in San Clemente. n he's already asked me if things got exclusive what are odds of me moving to SD. He's divorced, has two kids so moving isn't really an option for him. So far he said it was his only big concern as we seem to want the same thing across the board sexually to communication, etc. so we meet thurs...we both knew that we have a STRONG attraction to each other...never had first date sex n contemplated it but didn't go all the way. I have him a oral lol. So my question is, this guy has expressed a pretty deep like of me, even said he can see us being what we each need for a lifetime. He's been very consistent. Until this past weekend but chalked it up to him having his kids. Expected to at least hear from him today as per usual w/him but nothing ? Now worried that he views me differently because I did that? How harsh are dudes when it comes to that?

this guy has been very open...we have similar family backgrounds which is nice. And said before we even met that he was getting some pretty serious feelings and he's surprised, that I'm pretty much everything he's always wanted/dreamed of. He doesn't seem like he's bs'ing at all n even in person very genuine n we had a good time talking and laughing.

Just wanna be sure that a guy wouldn't be turned off (to a relationship) by that happening on the first date. I did call him out (playfully) when he avoided when I asked him the first time about meeting up. He said he got busy at work n that he was also really nervous because he's never had this much chemistry and in common with someone before. Even night before he said that he really hopes I like HIM in person. I would think a man wouldn't put that much effort in if he didn't really feel the potential which he's also said n why he wanted to know how I felt about moving to SD. Ugh fuck this is why dating can be so annoying lol!

He knows prior to that is never done anything like that on a first date. Sorry so long, figured best to give a backstory.

Any help?? Lol hopefully this will bump my message up

Bahahaha no didn't go just to give head, actually had no intention of that and quite honestly the first time I've done something like that which is why I kinda freaked out. And he knew this prior to us meeting coming from conversations we've had. Him and I have both voiced a strong connection and feeling me forming the last almost 3 weeks of constant communication. But I digress. I'm a Leo so I know it's fun to be chased a little/wanted...so with him being s Leo I'm willing to be playful as such. But I will let him chase, he considers himself a dominant man so I will let him be.

Thanks Leowww - yeah I realize he may judge a bit but we've been very open about what each of us wants from a relationship and other than this lag in communication he's been very consistent otherwise. I figure being in our mid 30's this guy and I have had our fair share of relationships and that we could maybe be beyond judging. I did hear from him tho at 1030, he said he had his kids all day and he's taking them to school/daycare tomorrow so can't really needle him on it I feel since it concerns his children. But im gonna let him sweat and text back in the morning. I'm not trying to jump when he snaps.