@SagChick411
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Is it a Sag thing...
Are Sagittarians Known for Obsessive Behavior and Boredom
Sagittarius individuals are often curious and enthusiastic but may lose interest quickly once novelty fades. This can lead to intense initial passions followed by abrupt dismissals, reflecting a desire for variety and new experiences rather than deep attachment.
Hmmmmmm.....
I once saw this guy perform as a warm act at a Concert a few months back, he's called Tyler Daley, he's on my profile. Well anyway, I was so fascinated by his voice that I literally knew his whole life the next day and became boarderline obsessed with him-HA! I even started dreaming of him cause I was constantly thinking about how good he looked when I saw him perform-lol!
I am over him now though although he still has a good voice and I do still think he's hot.
I dunno, I think I'm a bit weird-lol!
My cousin is also a Sag and I asked her if she experiences similar things like obsessing and she said it's a Sag thing. You love something one minute and the next you couldn't care less for it. So anytime I tell her that I'm really into something or someone she's always like 'Are you sure you're not just having one of them Sagi moments?', then I have to really question my like and dislikes, LOL!
Posted by LivelyHallow1983
damn!!!!!!!! i m married to a sag girl...lol
Don't worry I think you're safe 😄 You're married after all. Lucky you, married to a Sagi!
What's your sign?
Posted by LivelyHallow1983
i am capricorn 🙂
Ah I like Caps, my older bro is a Cap and he's the best!
Posted by LivelyHallow1983
ohh thanks sagchick. i love her because i like her positive attitude and love for life. and she says that i am heartless :/
what the ages of you guys? does she have a venus in cap?
Posted by MzSagittarius
Hahahaha! You're soooo right!I do that a lot with guys. I'll have a MEGA crush on them for like a week. For that week I'm totally into them... and then BAM! They'll do something to turn me off and I'll never look back.
I've realized that I often confuse enigmas with crushes. When someone is mysterious and hidden, it makes me want to pursue them and uncover those deep dark secrets. As I watch them, I point out the tiniest little things that I don't like and suddenly my crush is COMPLETELY gone.
That actually happened with me a few days ago with a Taurus guy. He seemed so fascinating and mysterious. Once I watched his actions and listened to him speak, I was SO turned off.
word up. once the mystery is solved, ive lost interest. or if my mars in virgo masters it, ive lost interest.
Posted by Sutekh
you mars virgos are picky as hell and love a basket case.
lol
My cousin is also a Sag and I asked her if she experiences similar things like obsessing and she said it's a Sag thing. You love something one minute and the next you couldn't care less for it. So anytime I tell her that I'm really into something or someone she's always like 'Are you sure you're not just having one of them Sagi moments?', then I have to really question my like and dislikes, LOL!
SO TRUE...its a SAG thing/SAGI moments..lol..this is so me especially when i was in my teenage years and 20s...but i also have a cousin that i calls and tells everything to.. now she's a CAP...the funny thing is.. it can be weeks since we last talked and the conversation mostly be about my new boy toy...lol..so weeks done past we finally talks the first thing she asked me is how is things going with your new boy toy..lol..my response...GIRL PLEASE i been dropped him but GIRL let me tell you about my new friend...she falls out laughing she say what happen...i say girl when we went out to dinner the other day i noticed he had a cock eye..lol..but yes its a SAG thing cause i can be into you one min and all of sudden you can just completely turn me off..with the smallest things and believe me i notice everything...my thing is once i get you i dont want you no more its not challenging no more its BORING now...So now its on to the next challenge...Me i like to target quiet and so call want to be hard to get guys....ME SO LOVE A CHALLENGE IT KEEPS THINGS INTERESTING
Posted by Sutekh
you mars virgos are picky as hell and love a basket case.
lol. that is like 60 percent true. i am picky, i like thugs with 401Ks (they exist, i know it!) i dk about that basketcase stuff. my track record does show unstable men with issues.
i also have uranus in the 5th, i like oddballs. mmmm a corporate thug whose an oddball...yes yes yes
Posted by Tacky_Tshirt
I tend to fall in and out of love/like (whatever you call it) pretty quickly.Especially if my crush comes across as aggressive, violent, mean-spirited or cray-cray.
Then I'm out. 🙂
And I never look back.
Venus Sag.
how about playful?
Posted by Tacky_Tshirt
I tend to fall in and out of love/like (whatever you call it) pretty quickly.Especially if my crush comes across as aggressive, violent, mean-spirited or cray-cray.
Then I'm out. 🙂
And I never look back.
Venus Sag.
how does one turn on a venus in sag?
Posted by Sutekh
you mars virgos are picky as hell and love a basket case.lol. that is like 60 percent true. i am picky, i like thugs with 401Ks (they exist, i know it!) i dk about that basketcase stuff. my track record does show unstable men with issues.
i also have uranus in the 5th, i like oddballs. mmmm a corporate thug whose an oddball...yes yes yes
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LMFAO!!!!!!!!!
Posted by Sutekh
everyone here probably as venus scorpio
actually my venus is in capricorn and my mars is in SAG
Yea in the moment I always feel different
Posted by Sutekh
everyone here probably as venus scorpio
Sometimes I feel as though my Venus should be in Scorp cause of the crazy ways I act. Actually on second thoughts, my little sis is a Sag and has her Venus in Scorp and she is like a stalker, HA! She controls her boyfriends every movement without him even knowing it. LOL! It's actually funny to watch, but boy I wouldn't like to be on the receiving end of her wrath! He don't even break wind without her OK'ing it first, LMAO!
She hacks into his FB on a regular basis and knows his every move before he even thinks it, LOL!
OK now thinking about it, I don't think I behave like a Venus in Scorp! lol
OK so I don't know how to 'quote' posts from different threads, I'm gonna copy and paste my post from 'Shit Sags Say'
Maaahhhhhaaaaaaaaaaha I went a house party last night and ended up spending the evening with this 'crazy' fun Taurus and his friend (The first ever Pisces male I've met) I was telling them comical stories along with some hilarious jokes, along with debating about various topics like animals etc literally all night long till 6 this morning. The Taurus kept trying to butt in so I'm like 'Errm helllllloooo, can I finish my story first' but still continued to speak 'at' them not giving him a chance to say anything cause I had so many more stories to tell . We were both trying to fit our 2 cents worth in any which way. HA! He was absolutely hilarious and appreciated my wit. All the while the Pisces watched in total silence like it was some kind of double act. HA
The Pisces was in awe and kept telling me that he's NEVER met a girl like me (awwwww) He was mesmerized by the animated way I speak. Everything is so theatrical when I talk and I use loads of idioms. The Pisces dude was hanging off my every last word gazing into my eyes. I pretended I didn't notice but secretly reveled in it. MUAHAHAHAHA!
ANYWAY I cannot stop thinking about the Pisces, I fee like I'm obsessing over him a little bit, LOL! I didn't even really fancy him when I met him last week but now thinking back he was so cute and quiet! Ughhh I hate obsessing over people! KILL ME NOW!
HAHHAHAHAHA! Down to a teeee!!!!!! lol!!
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
....And ney say virgos have issues LMAO
Virgos also have issues 😄
Lol
I think we do this cause we're over-enthusiastic
ALSO, while we're "obsessing" as you say, we're ignoring all the negative traits of whatever it is we're obsessing over...once we allow ourselves to see it for what it really is....we're like EW. GET AWAY
exactly.
lol
yeah I see her point.
We're concentrating really hard to see if we like something....then we decide.......nope.
speaking of.....is that a watermelon helmet?!
Posted by brianafay
I think we do this cause we're over-enthusiasticALSO, while we're "obsessing" as you say, we're ignoring all the negative traits of whatever it is we're obsessing over...once we allow ourselves to see it for what it really is....we're like EW. GET AWAY
OMG you are so right! I've never thought about it in the way that we are ignoring the negative traits! This is EXACTLY what I done with my Scorp, the less obsessive I got over him, the negative traits just came out more, which started to make me cringe-HA!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Obsession is just like really really concentrating.
YES, this is it!! I never thought of it as concentrating really hard on something. I do love obsessing over things, I secretly enjoy it 😛 I love to just zone out and think about the person I am obsessing over. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, lol!
Posted by SagChick411
OK so I don't know how to 'quote' posts from different threads, I'm gonna copy and paste my post from 'Shit Sags Say'Maaahhhhhaaaaaaaaaaha I went a house party last night and ended up spending the evening with this 'crazy' fun Taurus and his friend (The first ever Pisces male I've met) I was telling them comical stories along with some hilarious jokes, along with debating about various topics like animals etc literally all night long till 6 this morning. The Taurus kept trying to butt in so I'm like 'Errm helllllloooo, can I finish my story first' but still continued to speak 'at' them not giving him a chance to say anything cause I had so many more stories to tell . We were both trying to fit our 2 cents worth in any which way. HA! He was absolutely hilarious and appreciated my wit. All the while the Pisces watched in total silence like it was some kind of double act. HA
The Pisces was in awe and kept telling me that he's NEVER met a girl like me (awwwww) He was mesmerized by the animated way I speak. Everything is so theatrical when I talk and I use loads of idioms. The Pisces dude was hanging off my every last word gazing into my eyes. I pretended I didn't notice but secretly reveled in it. MUAHAHAHAHA!
ANYWAY I cannot stop thinking about the Pisces, I fee like I'm obsessing over him a little bit, LOL! I didn't even really fancy him when I met him last week but now thinking back he was so cute and quiet! Ughhh I hate obsessing over people! KILL ME NOW!
My obsession with the Pisces above is now officially over. That lasted long!! HA HA!
Posted by brianafay
speaking of.....is that a watermelon helmet?!Yes 😛 Melon head was my approach on that one. 🙂
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lol
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Obsession is just like really really concentrating.YES, this is it!! I never thought of it as concentrating really hard on something. I do love obsessing over things, I secretly enjoy it 😛 I love to just zone out and think about the person I am obsessing over. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, lol!
That's not a bad thing, it's when you're rifling through their bins you've got to worry a bit lol.
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Eerrrrrrrm..................................yah! LOL! That's something a Scorp would do! I would probably play Miss Marple if a boyfriend was fucking around and I needed to get to the bottom of some shit! I won't deny that, I've done similar things in the past. I am not beneath that kinda butter. MWAHAHAHAHHAHA 😄
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Didn't get that impression from your posts whatsoever.
What impression exactly? 🙂
Posted by everevolvingepithet
The ones you Muahaha'ed at. 🙂
Errrrrrrrrrm.................pardo? lol
lol!!!!!
^^^ lol
typical
Posted by brianafay
I think we do this cause we're over-enthusiasticALSO, while we're "obsessing" as you say, we're ignoring all the negative traits of whatever it is we're obsessing over...once we allow ourselves to see it for what it really is....we're like EW. GET AWAY
Awwww damn! I never thought about it but that is so true. I always feel bad and hang on. But I'm really not feeling it. It takes me a while to get to that point though...thanks to Venus in Cap maybe?
Venus in Cap *high five*
*channeling Elle*
🙂
Heyyyy guys, I have Venus in Cap too 😄
Im a venus in cap and I got obsessed with a cancer man leo in venus. 🙂 3months and not yet moved on. LOL Hard for me to close this venus cap side of myself when its left opened. 🙂
Posted by Empressian
Im a venus in cap and I got obsessed with a cancer man leo in venus. 🙂 3months and not yet moved on. LOL Hard for me to close this venus cap side of myself when its left opened. 🙂
So do you think the obsessive streak is due to the Sag sun or Venus in Cap cause I'm confused! I stay fixated on crushes for ages and still obsess about them when they're totally unaware I'm still at the side lines, HA!
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...to obsess over something or someone then decide 'Ahhh fuck that' and act like it was never an interest in the first place?
I find I do this with things I'm into and crushes. I think I want it and need it then it's over with quicker than it actually started and it leaves me thinking WTF do I actually want?
For example. I obsessed over my Scorp for ages, I actually believed I was in love with him, but now looking back I know it was lust. Just imagine If I really got myself involved with him and decided 'Fuck this'. Just thinking about it makes me laugh, partly cause I'm a nightmare and partly because I have to ask myself 'Why do I get bored so easily?'
*day dreams*
I'm sure we've had a similar thread, sorry if so!