What he means

Previously I posted a topic saying I got rejected by a Leo man.

So few days after that he went to Bangkok for golf camp and we didn't contact for a week. I just do my own stuff, focus on my workout, golf etc. When he is back, he asked me for golf and told me he had food poisoning few days back. We arrange a day for golfing and lunch together. It was great and he keep giving me compliment that day. He even send me text asking me whether I am home or not, telling me what he is doing. So we continue chit chat till he says night and I didn't read his whatsapp ( as I need to wake up early the next morning for my flight ) then he double text me. He also ask for a drinks when am back in town. I realise recently he been double text me If I ignore his text. The other day, I ignore his text again and the next morning he told me he had dizzy last night and went to doctor.

My thought is I already told ya my feelings about you and you're not distancing yourself. Am a little bit confused. What does he means by doing all these ? Just to catch my attention ? Or it is just the way he treat friend, like really being friendly ? What can I do ? Any Leo man out there give me some advices please. He is 28yo btw and am 23 Virgo. Thanks in advance 🙂

Interesting, usually it's the Virgo who throws out the "friend" card first, not the Leo.

In this case, just ask him what he actually wants. Leos respond best to direct behavior. Playing guessing games with this guy will only confuse you more. For whatever reason this Leo may find it safer to pursue you as a friend first (not something I personally recommend, but some guys take this approach). In this way he avoids "getting hurt".

It's also possible he's playing mind games with you. He may have said that he wasn't interested in you so that you'd want him more. People want what they can't have. So some guys will "friendzone" a woman first, just to make themselves appear more valuable. In which case, he's using a tactic to manipulate you into liking him

So your best option is to ask him again if he is interested. Let him know that his actions suggests that he is. Also tell him that you'd happily go out with him in that case. Otherwise let him know that you want to keep your options open for a man who is honestly interested in you. That will clarify things fairly quickly.

If a guy can't be direct with you, he's not worth your time.

Posted by Chuckcem
Interesting, usually it's the Virgo who throws out the "friend" card first, not the Leo.

In this case, just ask him what he actually wants. Leos respond best to direct behavior. Playing guessing games with this guy will only confuse you more. For whatever reason this Leo may find it safer to pursue you as a friend first (not something I personally recommend, but some guys take this approach). In this way he avoids "getting hurt".

It's also possible he's playing mind games with you. He may have said that he wasn't interested in you so that you'd want him more. People want what they can't have. So some guys will "friendzone" a woman first, just to make themselves appear more valuable. In which case, he's using a tactic to manipulate you into liking him

So your best option is to ask him again if he is interested. Let him know that his actions suggests that he is. Also tell him that you'd happily go out with him in that case. Otherwise let him know that you want to keep your options open for a man who is honestly interested in you. That will clarify things fairly quickly.

If a guy can't be direct with you, he's not worth your time.

Hmm he did told me before that all his friends are asking whether am I his gf cause the way we act are close. Then I stupidly replied him says " haha is it ? Sorry " cause I thought he was saying I'm too close to him and annoy him ? ( before I confessed to him )

Maybe just wait for awhile and see what his reaction. Somehow Im more comfortable with this situation, do my own stuff but still keep contact.

Thanks 🙂