Why is it—

That initially I meet Capricorn woman and we quickly become best friends but then after a few months/years frizzle out??
I can count three similar experiences in the last 10 years?K

We start off with a lot in common and make each other laugh easily. I love their sense of humour and they mine and we start off very supportive of one another in almost everything, but over time I find the Capricorn changes (she probably has her side of the story but I?_m only here to relate mine). Firstly I sense jealousy from her side?K.of the two closest Capricorns in my life at the moment, the one I sense is jealous of my relationship (she is single) and of my social skills (she is shy and battles in crowds) ?V thus she gets nasty and goes to all extremes to blurt out things I?_ve told her in confidence in front of others and publicly humiliate me ?V she literally knows no boundaries. The other one seems jealous of just about every relationship I have with other people ?V e.g. everyone I ever get close to (we work together) she?_ll promptly create a three-way friendship by including herself and then slowly work me out of the picture ?V man or woman it makes no difference and then she?_ll sneakily do things with them behind my back and tell me about it later as if it was no big deal?K.ah so and so and myself went for lunch yesterday?K.by the way kind of thing?Kand then she?_ll hoard these crowds of people around her (all my friends mostly) and get super sensitive when I now impose on them. Perfect example, she started at the company after me and by then I?_d created quite a good friendship with one of my male co-workers. Him and I rarely socialize anymore but she refers to him as her husband, her boyfriend (he actually already has one) her brother and when the three of us do go out and he tries to balance things by sitting in the middle of us, she?_ll say something along the lines of, ??hey why you sitting next to her I thought I was your girl??. Same thing with at least three other male co-workers and my very close female co-worker (somehow she still gravitates towards me though ? ).

Now I?_m expecting some come-backs along the lines of me seeing myself in that behaviour ?V I?_ve considered this but no it isn?_t. I am in no way jealous of either girl, they have nothing I desire I just like them because they?_re good fun and both have a great sense of humour. So why do I get this feeling most Capricorn woman I befriend eventually get jealous and vindictive

i dunno. i've only ever befriended 2 caps in my life: one female, the other male. i don't know what it is but both are prone to jealousy, that's for sure. the female and i were great as friends but there were a lot of feuds. she didn't like that i was better than her at some things. she also seemed to want to compete with me over male attention and i don't roll that way. i'm not a catty (ironic pun!) female at all and i refuse to be involved with that behavior.

the male cap story is different. he and i are intensely attracted to the other. unfortunately he's in a relationship with someone else so we don't go further with it. i can NOT ever bring male friends/acquaintances around that aren't obviously gay. i've tried to a couple of times and both times ended badly. he'll start accusing me of trying to "score" with them as if he had any rights to me or something (i'm cool with his relationship, why can't he be just as understanding with me?!). if we happen to be at a party together he will be very watchful of me when i am in the company of other men. sometimes it feels like a possessive thing but i think deep down it's another tale. i feel like he thinks he is protecting me from these other men. i think he thinks that most men out there aren't good enough for me.