Will he come back

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Loblacklover97
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7 Years

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Hi I'm a taurus. Been dating a Leo for a year now. He often ask me wther if I'm loving him. If I say yes then he go na be like no I can't take of anyone n bla bla. If I say no he will be like oh so I should be with someone who loves me.. We had argument few days ago then he stopped talking to me, been days asking him to forgive me and finally he forgives me and started to say that my gf is around' which is lie' so I just hang up n text him just be happy with your gf. So he asked why care about me so much n I said because you're my friend.. Final text was from me to him. Miss you. Because I really missed him so much. He blocked me. He doesn't have a gf n I'm being his friend I didn't know why he blocked. What should I do
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Well this all sounds toxic at best. The problem is neither one of you know how to be consistently honest with the other. Saying that you like him and then that you don't like him would be confusing to anyone. It also sounds like he's emotionally guarded. Regardless there's no point in pursuing someone who says that they can't be with anyone. If anything it sounds like he's either stringing you along or is too emotionally confused/immature to start anything with you.

He also got offended when you said that you two were "friends". If he was interested in you romantically, that probably felt like a rejection to him. Even still, it's not as if he was being very clear with you about his intentions either. I think that he liked your attention, but wasn't interested in you enough to get anything off of the ground. If he has blocked you, that means it's done. Time to move forward and find someone else who'll appreciate you. If he unblocks you and tries talking to you again, then you'll know something's off with him.

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Ilovemyaqua
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Hi I'm a taurus. Been dating a Leo for a year now. He often ask me wther if I'm loving him. If I say yes then he go na be like no I can't take of anyone n bla bla. If I say no he will be like oh so I should be with someone who loves me.. We had argument few days ago then he stopped talking to me, been days asking him to forgive me and finally he forgives me and started to say that my gf is around' which is lie' so I just hang up n text him just be happy with your gf. So he asked why care about me so much n I said because you're my friend.. Final text was from me to him. Miss you. Because I really missed him so much. He blocked me. He doesn't have a gf n I'm being his friend I didn't know why he blocked. What should I do
Oh I've been here. He wants to hear you like him as a romantic interest. He's probably guarded about his feelings. What you could've done is be honest with how you felt and dropped it at that, continued acting chill around him and if he ever asked again, to just have confessed your actual thoughts. I know this flakiness of there's make you feel scared in telling the truth but being honest and confident about how you feel is how you deal with a doubting Leo, one of you has to be sure right?

Also however if all his hot cold and beating around the bush is too much for you, drop him and move on. If however you really want him, try reaching out to him and ask what went wrong, why did he block you. He didn't block you for any concrete reason right? Just his thought monsters. If he doesn't respond well, drop it. You did your job by asking what's wrong because he matters to you, rest is his choice, he knows it too.

The thing with Leos who're unsure of what you feel about them is that they need you to be sure about your feelings and tell them honestly. However, don't let your feelings make you go week. Be confident and chill about it,and that's that.