Would you really like to handle it all on your own?

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wagtail
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You sound adorbs, I wouldn't cut back on the treats while he's feeling down. Even if it's not a solution, it's a sign you care and that probably works for neow.

I can't speak for tha boysh on here, but I think he will let you in eventually...

What's the rush - you're taking it slow either way, and good things take time 😏

As an aside, I keep all my issues close to my chest, I think I appreciate when my friends or significant others motivate meh from a distance. Unless the house is burning down, at that point calling the fire brigade is not an issue 😆
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Posted by wagtail
You sound adorbs, I wouldn't cut back on the treats while he's feeling down. Even if it's not a solution, it's a sign you care and that probably works for neow.

I can't speak for tha boysh on here, but I think he will let you in eventually...

What's the rush - you're taking it slow either way, and good things take time 😏

As an aside, I keep all my issues close to my chest, I think I appreciate when my friends or significant others motivate meh from a distance. Unless the house is burning down, at that point calling the fire brigade is not an issue 😆
THIS.

Also, men tend to "go it alone" more naturally. Just keep being there for him and baking him goodies, and it will surely pay off. You know what they say... "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach" 😉
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Posted by wagtail
You sound adorbs, I wouldn't cut back on the treats while he's feeling down. Even if it's not a solution, it's a sign you care and that probably works for neow.

I can't speak for tha boysh on here, but I think he will let you in eventually...

What's the rush - you're taking it slow either way, and good things take time 😏

As an aside, I keep all my issues close to my chest, I think I appreciate when my friends or significant others motivate meh from a distance. Unless the house is burning down, at that point calling the fire brigade is not an issue 😆
Aw thank you! That actually makes a lot of sense. Like I think he appreciates the effort but would much rather handle it on his on own until maybe he knows his secrets are safe with me. That's the vibe I got but I wanted to have a little more certainty. In any case, you're right no rush 🙂

And the treats will definitely keep coming. I hadn't known anyone to like chocolate as much as me until now 😆