Been reading a lot of similar stories! I've got a hole in my heart because my libra man ran away TOTALLY UNEXPECTEDLY. I'm going to try and make this long story short... we started out as friends, talking, getting a long great, we connected and became slowly but surely unseparable.. we both had so many things in common and loved spending time together. He wasn't very good for me though, I was super independednt and strong but after he left I realized that I was completely different. Very insecure and anxious. He drinks all the time, almost every day or smokes weed. He also is jobless and lives at home so I spent a lot of money funding all the good times we had. I felt used after all was said and done, but I can't belive all the intimate and beautiful moments we shared could just go unforgotten? Or were they meaningless to him? Anyway, we moved very quickly and got together after about a month. We stayed together happily for about 3 weeks and then out of nowhere he decided to ignore me ALL DAY. I went completely insane, had some mimosas and lost my shit. I ended up going all the way to his house to talk to him in person but of course he wasnt there so I got all my stuff and left. After a million missed calls and psycho texts he decided to FINALLY respond to me and tell me that we moved too fast and that he doesn't feel like it was real. He didnt want to be tied dowm, and 'doesnt do girlfriends'. I was his first real relationship if you can call it that? Other girls have never met his mother or eaten at his dinner table or got so close with him. I dont understand still to this day what happened to make him change his mind because everything was going so well.. I tried to talk to him afterward and try to figure out what the hell happened and he was so cold to me I couldnt believe it? In my eyes I dont see how he could treat me like his queen one day and then his enemy the next.. Makes no sesne. I'm doing fine alone now but I still cant deny the fact that I wou;d love to have stayed with him and probably would be dumb enough to give him another chance if he came back and apologized. The last thing I told him was that hes a child and he needs to find himself.. I haven't spoken to him sense. 3 weeks after this(recently) his friend posted a photo of him online burning my stuff in a fire! I was appalled! Why would he feel the need to set MY SHIT aflame? I did nothing to him but waste time and money and get hurt and broken. I'm severely confused and feeling that no
