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AQUARIUS GUY, LIBRA LADY, DIFFICULT LOVE SITUATION, NEED ADVICE, THANKS
“I met a libra girl on new years eve 2019 on private party of our mutual friend.”
Your first lie.
Your first lie.
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You two seem out of sync. Firsty, you don't have time, but she's all over you. Finally, you've got plenty of time, but she's not having any of it. It's like wanting something you can't have. This has little do with love, but ego.
Or perhaps she found someone with a more dating-friendly schedule? What does it mean "you're one of her top 3 persons"? The reserve of a rezerve? lol
You two seem out of sync. Firsty, you don't have time, but she's all over you. Finally, you've got plenty of time, but she's not having any of it. It's like wanting something you can't have. This has little do with love, but ego.
Or perhaps she found someone with a more dating-friendly schedule? What does it mean "you're one of her top 3 persons"? The reserve of a rezerve? lol
Posted by black773
“I met a libra girl on new years eve 2019 on private party of our mutual friend.”
Your first lie.What do you mean by that? new year 2019 i was in company of 6 people, 3 girls came in, one of them was her, what lie did you find there lol?
Posted by Undine
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You two seem out of sync. Firsty, you don't have time, but she's all over you. Finally, you've got plenty of time, but she's not having any of it. It's like wanting something you can't have. This has little do with love, but ego.
Or perhaps she found someone with a more dating-friendly schedule? What does it mean "you're one of her top 3 persons"? The reserve of a rezerve? lol
this is how it went, at beginings i told her, were not gonna meet often once a week i cant do more, my job is killing me physically. ater 2-3 months instead of our usual meetings where only us would met shed call me on her cousins birthday for example which i would refuse. and that happened more times, i wasnt ready to meet her friends family etc + i physically couldnt go and meet her like 3x a week and stay awake untill midnight than come back home, go to sleep and wake up at 6 am. so last month and a half of our "relationship" those kind of scenarios often happened and she figured it out as if i wanna meet her only when i want to have sex but it wasnt like that, i just wanted to keep it between us only until i had time to meet her 5x a week. wed have sex each time wed met, we used to go for a few drinks only but simply couldnt resist each other, starts by kisses and touch and next thing you know we are off somewhere and were having sex, cant explain you after couple of minutes alongside each other we coudlnt resist each other. went to a festival twice, decided like lets go party no sex tonight. than after and hour we say to the other members o our company were gonna wander around a little bit and in about 5 mins were somewhere nearby kissing each other as if were gonna eat each others face...
Posted by Timon
Hm some paragraphs would make it more easy to read. 😛
What is your and her moon sign?
shes libra with scorpio moon i think (21st october) and im aquarius with pisces moon sign
Basically she probably over analyzed the situation. You were all over her wanting to talk for hours and have sex and so on. Then you all have sex multiple times and you go cold because of work. You say you were upfront about all this but I feel like Aquarius are normally not that upfront when it comes to feelings.
She got into her head too much about this. She likes you though. Don’t disappear and just continue to be there for her. Show her you are a true friend/person in her life that isn’t going to just disappear. Be more open about your feelings and don’t lose your temper when she’s over analyzing. The more open you are, the more she will feel appreciated and like you are both on the same page.
She got into her head too much about this. She likes you though. Don’t disappear and just continue to be there for her. Show her you are a true friend/person in her life that isn’t going to just disappear. Be more open about your feelings and don’t lose your temper when she’s over analyzing. The more open you are, the more she will feel appreciated and like you are both on the same page.
adding paragraphs would increase your chance of getting a larger number of responses.
Posted by Emilia_Libra
Basically she probably over analyzed the situation. You were all over her wanting to talk for hours and have sex and so on. Then you all have sex multiple times and you go cold because of work. You say you were upfront about all this but I feel like Aquarius are normally not that upfront when it comes to feelings.
She got into her head too much about this. She likes you though. Don’t disappear and just continue to be there for her. Show her you are a true friend/person in her life that isn’t going to just disappear. Be more open about your feelings and don’t lose your temper when she’s over analyzing. The more open you are, the more she will feel appreciated and like you are both on the same page.
thank you Emilia.
look, as i said up until her i wasnt relationship type of guy, i had success with women only in terms of one night stands and something casual which doesnt last long.
i had few relationships when i was still kid like 15-18yo. but i never lied to women i always told them upfront what im up to, so i started same with this one, sex asap which is a bad start for something long term obviously.
i got cold towards her bcs i felt shes was going at pace too fast for me like all in, showed me all her emotions, it was bit overwhelming for me at that time,
even though i told her slowly until im completely free, as i stated above, not physically (job) not mentally ( i obviously need some time to completely open myself to someone and to show my true feelings, i wanna be friends first but not regular friends ofc...
Posted by Undine
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Or perhaps she found someone with a more dating-friendly schedule? What does it mean "you're one of her top 3 persons"? The reserve of a rezerve? lol
well that means im someone important in her life,
naah, trust me she didnt find anyone, she could i dont doubt it but before me she didnt have anyone in last 2.5 years, she refused like 5-6 guys in that span. + i told her, if its over bcs you found someone new ill back up, i quit easy on girls, trust me but this one is special
Posted by TimonPosted by edwardteachPosted by Timon
Hm some paragraphs would make it more easy to read. 😛
What is your and her moon sign?
shes libra with scorpio moon i think (21st october) and im aquarius with pisces moon sign
Ah nice. That's a good combo. Maybe @bumboklatt can help. He is aqua sun with scorpio moon and his gf is libra with pisces moon I believe. 🙂
Your sun and moon are in the same element so it's not strange that you feel a connection and that you understand each other. Scorpio moons remember past hurts like it was today. So maybe because you hurt her she's not ready to let you back in.click to expand
oh i definitely hurt her, hope this stuff happening now is a payback, few days after she went cold on me we met and she wasnt into a kissing, she smiled and joked about how shes gonna bully me a little bit for a change. even though i never felt like bullying her, at that time i didnt need alot so when she overwhelmed me with her actions and emotions i didnt do same, unfortunately
thanks Timon 🙂
thanks for the paragraphs.
i agree with emilia. you have a history of one night stands and she has a history of ghosting. with a scorpio moon she is going to be suspicious and rely on the way she has always dealt with things when she is feeling unsure.
be friends, go at her pace and show yourself to be someone who is there for her. also stop being so guarded. she told you she loves you and you went cold? that's a tough thing to deal with so she is going to mirror you and be guarded as well.
have you met her friends and family yet?
i agree with emilia. you have a history of one night stands and she has a history of ghosting. with a scorpio moon she is going to be suspicious and rely on the way she has always dealt with things when she is feeling unsure.
be friends, go at her pace and show yourself to be someone who is there for her. also stop being so guarded. she told you she loves you and you went cold? that's a tough thing to deal with so she is going to mirror you and be guarded as well.
have you met her friends and family yet?
Posted by jeane
thanks for the paragraphs.
i agree with emilia. you have a history of one night stands and she has a history of ghosting. with a scorpio moon she is going to be suspicious and rely on the way she has always dealt with things when she is feeling unsure.
be friends, go at her pace and show yourself to be someone who is there for her. also stop being so guarded. she told you she loves you and you went cold? that's a tough thing to deal with so she is going to mirror you and be guarded as well.
have you met her friends and family yet?
nah, she never told she loves me straight up but her compliments and her affection towards me showed that believe me. i went cold bcs at that time it was overwhelming for me + job took alot of physical and mental energy from me so i wanted to postpone that, trust me if my season finished 1 month earlier everything would be fine which is also not good bcs obviuosly we werent at same page at some time which i dont approve. well i met her best friend and it didnt end up well at first, she wanted to hook me up with some crazy ex colleague of her in front of my libra, it was a joke and i didnt figure it out so i started to provoke her afterwards, i was a first person to piss that girl off, her friend is such a cool lady, alcohol didnt help either. but few days after i saw her at sore whee she works i apologized, she accepted it with a smile, even trolled me a little bit, i bought her ferrero rocher, she told it to my libra, this one was proud of me. now her best friend considers me as super person and roots strongly for us. i met lot others too, especially last few weeks and they all like me and i like them too. i met half of them so far, about the family, only sister but once and accidentaly
Posted by edwardteachPosted by black773
“I met a libra girl on new years eve 2019 on private party of our mutual friend.”
Your first lie.What do you mean by that? new year 2019 i was in company of 6 people, 3 girls came in, one of them was her, what lie did you find there lol?click to expand
Sorry to be somewhat of a party pooper here. But what he was trying to tell you is that new years eve 2019 hasn't got here yet. That was the very first thing that came to my attention.
I take it you new here. If you are, welcome aboard.
ah yeah, btw, we are both game of thrones fans, anyway, she bought me a got shirt for a christmas presents,stamp of iron throne on front part,with phrase below it "all men must die", 🙂
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by edwardteachPosted by black773
“I met a libra girl on new years eve 2019 on private party of our mutual friend.”
Your first lie.What do you mean by that? new year 2019 i was in company of 6 people, 3 girls came in, one of them was her, what lie did you find there lol?
Sorry to be somewhat of a party pooper here. But what he was trying to tell you is that new years eve 2019 hasn't got here yet. That was the very first thing that came to my attention.
yeah i had it figured out eventualy, my bad, english is not my mother language 🙂
I take it you new here. If you are, welcome aboard.click to expand
Posted by thatlibralife
You blew it with the pulling away and not meeting up when she asked all those many times. Even though your reason was legitimate you Probaly weren't very clear about it. Libras need consistent FaceTime, phone time, something. You go missing we think the worst. You are getting paid back although she obviously still likes you as she hasn't completely disappeared. I would advise keep contact consistent and hang out when she's willing. I think you still have a chance.
thank you darlin, ill keep fighting and waiting for her as long as it takes, shes worth of it, brgds
Forget her now. Once she starts cussing at you I can't see it getting back to how it used to be. The magic is gone and you should go too.
Black Sails fan?
Seriously underrated series.
Seriously underrated series.
Well thanks for all new comments, optimistic and pessimitic ones, situation is bad but as i said before, im gonna keep fighting. No, i push more rn but im being careful to not come off as needy, whats to say, keep fingers crossed for me and her, brgds and happy new year for everyone
Hmmm...with a moon in Scorpio, she feels a tad bit deeper than you, but with a Sun in Libra, she's probably moving on. Sounds like you were saying one thing, and doing/acting another. At the tender young age of 20, I'm sure it got a little more personal to her, so trust me...she's already moved on emotionally, but she will probably always keep you as a friend because of the emotional connection.
Hello people, more than a month since we had a conversation on this topic. Well, me and my libra are back together again, no sex, just kisses for now but im totally fine with that, we ll take it slow this time if neccesary, no problem for me.
I felt like shes really over me for a week between christmas and new year, managed to fight my emotions towards her and cool of alot.
I guess she felt i might give up maybe so she went warmer towards me in only few days.
Anyways we had few fights where i explained her some things about my actions towards her, told her i feel like sissy to hunt and be needy towards any girl, that i think that would never happen to me but that i think shes worth of it and if she feels im too needy and pushy that she can block me and cut me off from her life anytime she wants, that i cooled of alot with my emotions but that ill still fight for her and win her back even if it takes alot of time, the ball is in her hands.
We had one more fight where she showed up her insecurities which i laughed off and told her shes very wrong and if thats the problem ill win her back 100% . Told her i feel like shes my best friend and symphaty together and thats the reason i seem aloof, light hearted and bit cold but actually im totaly comfortable with her and i think we are soulmates.
I really think that, its not just a words, i never had a boring date with her even though some may have actually been boring, lol. She feels same, otherwise, i think shed be gone long ago.
Anyway, the night i said that, she opened about her feelings, said all stated above, i said mine, started laughing to her but in a nice way, gave her a strong hug, said “no worry im not gonna try to kiss you in a mouth, didnt tried it, but kissed her all other parts of her head, said we are soulmates darling, im gonna win you back and when i do it im gonna make it much harder for you to go cold on me again with warm laugh.
It worked, she figured out i mean business, opened her up much more over next 2-3 dates and now were good again, i see it in her eyes. I opened up alot too, even though i can do it even better but well leave that for near future, hehe.
Anyway, she started to see some things from other side, i opened up alot, were back together, this time were gonna rock 🙂
Thanks for all comments, good ones and bad ones too, they did gove me some insight into my situations, wont ask you for crossed finger bcs im sure this time im gonna hook her up for long and very possibly for good.
Brgds everyone,
Dumb Aquarius, hahaha 🙂
I felt like shes really over me for a week between christmas and new year, managed to fight my emotions towards her and cool of alot.
I guess she felt i might give up maybe so she went warmer towards me in only few days.
Anyways we had few fights where i explained her some things about my actions towards her, told her i feel like sissy to hunt and be needy towards any girl, that i think that would never happen to me but that i think shes worth of it and if she feels im too needy and pushy that she can block me and cut me off from her life anytime she wants, that i cooled of alot with my emotions but that ill still fight for her and win her back even if it takes alot of time, the ball is in her hands.
We had one more fight where she showed up her insecurities which i laughed off and told her shes very wrong and if thats the problem ill win her back 100% . Told her i feel like shes my best friend and symphaty together and thats the reason i seem aloof, light hearted and bit cold but actually im totaly comfortable with her and i think we are soulmates.
I really think that, its not just a words, i never had a boring date with her even though some may have actually been boring, lol. She feels same, otherwise, i think shed be gone long ago.
Anyway, the night i said that, she opened about her feelings, said all stated above, i said mine, started laughing to her but in a nice way, gave her a strong hug, said “no worry im not gonna try to kiss you in a mouth, didnt tried it, but kissed her all other parts of her head, said we are soulmates darling, im gonna win you back and when i do it im gonna make it much harder for you to go cold on me again with warm laugh.
It worked, she figured out i mean business, opened her up much more over next 2-3 dates and now were good again, i see it in her eyes. I opened up alot too, even though i can do it even better but well leave that for near future, hehe.
Anyway, she started to see some things from other side, i opened up alot, were back together, this time were gonna rock 🙂
Thanks for all comments, good ones and bad ones too, they did gove me some insight into my situations, wont ask you for crossed finger bcs im sure this time im gonna hook her up for long and very possibly for good.
Brgds everyone,
Dumb Aquarius, hahaha 🙂
Posted by 7thHouse
Whatever fight you both get into, I hope you both won't say words you will regret. Calling names like "bastard" and such never solve any issues. There still has to be some level of respect in every argument. Especially as a couple. Good luck!
Maybe i said it wrong it wasnt a real fight with bas words snd stuff like that more like an arguements where we discussed about the problems that separated us with her stating the issues that made her go cold and with me goving my perspective about what made me act like that. We never had a serious fight, she did call me bad names few times in thoose times we kinda separated but i figured out she says thoose things bcs shes hurt so i wouldnt respond usually. So i never held grudges about that. From my side i never said bad things to her, never had a reason to do it since it was my behaviour that schrewed things up
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by edwardteach
Hello people, more than a month since we had a conversation on this topic. Well, me and my libra are back together again, no sex, just kisses for now but im totally fine with that, we ll take it slow this time if neccesary, no problem for me.
I felt like shes really over me for a week between christmas and new year, managed to fight my emotions towards her and cool of alot.
I guess she felt i might give up maybe so she went warmer towards me in only few days.
Anyways we had few fights where i explained her some things about my actions towards her, told her i feel like sissy to hunt and be needy towards any girl, that i think that would never happen to me but that i think shes worth of it and if she feels im too needy and pushy that she can block me and cut me off from her life anytime she wants, that i cooled of alot with my emotions but that ill still fight for her and win her back even if it takes alot of time, the ball is in her hands.
We had one more fight where she showed up her insecurities which i laughed off and told her shes very wrong and if thats the problem ill win her back 100% . Told her i feel like shes my best friend and symphaty together and thats the reason i seem aloof, light hearted and bit cold but actually im totaly comfortable with her and i think we are soulmates.
I really think that, its not just a words, i never had a boring date with her even though some may have actually been boring, lol. She feels same, otherwise, i think shed be gone long ago.
Anyway, the night i said that, she opened about her feelings, said all stated above, i said mine, started laughing to her but in a nice way, gave her a strong hug, said “no worry im not gonna try to kiss you in a mouth, didnt tried it, but kissed her all other parts of her head, said we are soulmates darling, im gonna win you back and when i do it im gonna make it much harder for you to go cold on me again with warm laugh.
It worked, she figured out i mean business, opened her up much more over next 2-3 dates and now were good again, i see it in her eyes. I opened up alot too, even though i can do it even better but well leave that for near future, hehe.
Anyway, she started to see some things from other side, i opened up alot, were back together, this time were gonna rock 🙂
Thanks for all comments, good ones and bad ones too, they did gove me some insight into my situations, wont ask you for crossed finger bcs im sure this time im gonna hook her up for long and very possibly for good.
Brgds everyone,
Dumb Aquarius, hahaha 🙂
I hope your persistence pays off. Kudos to you...click to expand
It did paid off already, were back together but in more serious way especially from my side, i opened up alot. And we really have good time whenever we are togethet whether if its only a coffee or some daily trip + theres so many more things to do. Im sure well do much better this time 100% , magic is back hehe
Posted by 7thHousePosted by edwardteachPosted by 7thHouse
Whatever fight you both get into, I hope you both won't say words you will regret. Calling names like "bastard" and such never solve any issues. There still has to be some level of respect in every argument. Especially as a couple. Good luck!
Maybe i said it wrong it wasnt a real fight with bas words snd stuff like that more like an arguements where we discussed about the problems that separated us with her stating the issues that made her go cold and with me goving my perspective about what made me act like that. We never had a serious fight, she did call me bad names few times in thoose times we kinda separated but i figured out she says thoose things bcs shes hurt so i wouldnt respond usually. So i never held grudges about that. From my side i never said bad things to her, never had a reason to do it since it was my behaviour that schrewed things up
It's good that you didn't say bad words to her. But also, express to her that you'd rather have calm arguments than name calling, explosive ones. I dunno, but I've had relationships where it happened and it wasn't the ones that lasted. The one I have now with my husband, we do argue as its inevitable in any relationship, but we maintain a certain level of respect that we don't call each other names. It just makes patching up a lot easier 🙂click to expand
Well her name calling never happened through arguements, it would came through texts and out of nowhere. Tbg it was one of a reasons i kept pushing bcs it gaveme strong feeling she does it bcs shes hurt and now its payback time. But at same time shed suggest meetings as much as i do, shed show up everytime, wed have fun together but as a friends only . Only thing where i was insecure was whether if she really wants me just as a friend after stuff we had before. Well now i guess she maybe did but now its late for her again lol, my pushing + give and take+ arguements and small fights about the issues got the job done, she figurd out i just need to take things slower than her nit that i tried tu just use her all time. Now she has different perspective towards some stuff in our relationship which will definitely give her a lot more security + i made some positive adjustments regarding my behaviour. No worries, we respect each other alot
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she tried so many things with me that she never did before, shes less experienced in regards of sex than i but she was up for everything new, i tried some stuff with her first time too. i cannot explain you that passion that drive between us every time we would met. but problems started, she started inviting me into her friends group and i refused maybe 10 times, i felt i dissapointed her but i simply wasnt able to meet so often physically more than mentally. i told her at august that i withold my feelings towards her, that we should wait my season finish and im gonna be there more often and well see how things turn on. my season was supposed to finish mid october...
during september those invitations started to happen more often, i was refusing them and it hurt her. mid october she started to be aggresive throught texts, day before her birthday 20th we had first argument where i engaged unfortunately, i was feeling like she does not want to understand me. few more times she became aggresive but i calmed things down, i never wanted to argue her tbh. well, last time we had sex was 15th october, she wanted me to stay at her home next day to cook something and hang out and i had to go bcs i couldnt get free day + her granny lives in net house and i still wasnt ready to meet her family relatives so at that time i thought it was good idea. boy i we been wrong. anyway, 1st of november, 15 days later my season ended, from then on we meet more often, i show more initiative now, she shows less but shes gone cold on me.
through text she used to call me bastard few times, a piece of shit, out of nowhere, i would respond in playful way bcs i know shes right and i treated her bad. only once she went for a kiss in last 2 months, other times i went for, few times she refused. on 11th december when i went for kiss she refused, said "no, dont, right now i feel good with myself, lets just be friends". i replied 'ok, i apologise, i still have feelings for you i thought we will be able to work it out, i want real relationship with you, if its over than ok i wont push this way anymore". she said its not over, maybe there will be something again but now i want to focus on my self only, i dont need relationship now.
few times before that i admitted my wrongdoings and said im honestly sad about it that i needed a time to fully open myself and that my job has drained me too much which is both true. 10 days ago we had a coffee and i explained her all my moves, my intentions and that i did much of it wrong and that my only goal was to not go too deep before my season is finished and before im able to give her my maximum. i know she still has those feelings for me, every bit of it knows that, her eyes, her body language, fact that she still initiates hangouts with me even though often she does not respond to my messages for hours. goes mad if i want to pay bill for drinks or dinner, she must participate too and i often let her bcs if i do it she always used to get mad at it, shes very independent.
had some stupid bet couple days ago where i said i get kiss if i win, it was a joke but she lost, initiated and gave me more than one kiss like 4x more times than neccesary ( even though if she said no id say its ok i was joking). i bought her nice christmas gift, she was mix of happy, worry, surprised when she unpacked it. i spoke with her best friend few days ago, she told me "you're one of her top 3 persons on her life, believe me", said we make awesome couple and that shes rooting for us. 2 times with her in last 2 weeks i got into bad mood, i shut my self off a little bit bcs i miss her so much, she felt it too, usually i keep cool and make jokes but i couldnt completely withstand my emotions on those occations, my bad. so now we are at the stage where we text each other daily, even though with less intensity, her replies are shorter and with less feelings put into them, we both initiate spending time together and we do meet, her body language still leans towards me always. i dunno, i told her i wont be pushy with physical touches anymore but that i wont give up on her either bcs i know shes worth of fighting for.
sorry for a long post, there is probably more stuff to add here but this is much itself, lol. could any libra lady give me advice where am i with my lady currently and some tips to try to win her back, even though i have idea how to try to do it but i dont know when to, im afraid if i let go too much shell simply forget about feelings she had for me. im aquarius guy, never in my life i chased after being dumped but its worthy for this one, we both had connection with each other like no before, she loved me soo much, theres so many things i want to do with her that we both like, we are 90% similar in everything we like we believe, a soulmates... sorry again for such a long post, all comments are appreciated even the bad ones 🙂