BTW sorry about all the typos.
Are Libras really that rude or misunderstood
"My friend" = you by chance?
Don't bother with the dude. He's an immature asshat. Guys who talk to the girl they're with while with other girls aren't that into them. If a guy is into a chick, he's not talking about any other women or saying such stupid, immature shit to get a reaction.
She/you just need to move on. This isn't a Libra thing, it's an immature asshat thing.
Don't bother with the dude. He's an immature asshat. Guys who talk to the girl they're with while with other girls aren't that into them. If a guy is into a chick, he's not talking about any other women or saying such stupid, immature shit to get a reaction.
She/you just need to move on. This isn't a Libra thing, it's an immature asshat thing.
Thanks for the response. That makes sense. But no not me. I'm stuck on an Aries. You know much about them? Lol.
Posted by Leobaby89I am one, so maybe.
Thanks for the response. That makes sense. But no not me. I'm stuck on an Aries. You know much about them? Lol.
What I want to know is why you posted this again when you already made a post??
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libra-men-or-those-who-understand-them--9172984/
I thought the story sounded familiar.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libra-men-or-those-who-understand-them--9172984/
I thought the story sounded familiar.
@rockyroadicecream I thought I made that clear in the first sentence that there was a previous post made. I'm still learning how to use this dxpnet and couldn't locate my post. Couldn't remember what section I put it in. Is there a way to find all the post you've previously posted?
Posted by Leobaby89You did make that "clear" except your story was practically copy and pasted.
@rockyroadicecream I thought I made that clear in the first sentence that there was a previous post made. I'm still learning how to use this dxpnet and couldn't locate my post. Couldn't remember what section I put it in. Is there a way to find all the post you've previously posted?
And no, there isn't.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamMy story is from memory of course it's going to be exactly the same (in your words copy and paste) and okay cool. Thanks.Posted by Leobaby89You did make that "clear" except your story was practically copy and pasted.
@rockyroadicecream I thought I made that clear in the first sentence that there was a previous post made. I'm still learning how to use this dxpnet and couldn't locate my post. Couldn't remember what section I put it in. Is there a way to find all the post you've previously posted?
And no, there isn't.
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Extremely misunderstood. I am outspoken, and often say what I see. Alot of statements I make come from a reality point of view also, most folk don't communicate like this I don't think...oftentimes it can be taken totally the wrong way. I've been described as being "blunt"
He's just trying to make her jealous to see what she does. It's an old trick libra uses. Both of my libra exs did that to me. And when I moved on I got a phone call from the new gf, she thought I had gone to their new apartment and had sex with my ex so she called to "confront" me. Turns out my ex made it seem like that happened which it didn't but I knew what he was doing to her. Lol now I laugh at their attempts.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamLolPosted by Leobaby89I am one, so maybe.
Thanks for the response. That makes sense. But no not me. I'm stuck on an Aries. You know much about them? Lol.click to expand
@OP,
What I'm about to say has nothing to do with Libras in general but has everything to do with being a player. Going with your story, by him saying those things to your friend and showing her pics of other women, he has now flipped the script and shown who he truly is. She made him chase her for all those years and his ego couldn't take that, but he also senses hear weakness, her insecurity. Now that he has gotten the prize, he pulls at her self worth by pitting her against other women and making himself the prize by saying he's a womanizer knowing she will try to "fix" him. By doing those things, he's alleviated himself of any responsibility for the pain she'll experience because she validates him doing it because a person with common sense would drop him like a bad habit if they were told that. Technically he's right because he's going to be who he is but she'll try to change him. As I said earlier...validation. Truthfully, she should've asked those questions before she slept with him but she probably didn't in order not to "scare him off." Let this be a warning to her. She needs to remove him completely from her life.
What I'm about to say has nothing to do with Libras in general but has everything to do with being a player. Going with your story, by him saying those things to your friend and showing her pics of other women, he has now flipped the script and shown who he truly is. She made him chase her for all those years and his ego couldn't take that, but he also senses hear weakness, her insecurity. Now that he has gotten the prize, he pulls at her self worth by pitting her against other women and making himself the prize by saying he's a womanizer knowing she will try to "fix" him. By doing those things, he's alleviated himself of any responsibility for the pain she'll experience because she validates him doing it because a person with common sense would drop him like a bad habit if they were told that. Technically he's right because he's going to be who he is but she'll try to change him. As I said earlier...validation. Truthfully, she should've asked those questions before she slept with him but she probably didn't in order not to "scare him off." Let this be a warning to her. She needs to remove him completely from her life.
Posted by blvckphase??
A Libra male being a giant headache.. What a shocking surprise!
Posted by beautifulsoul74
@OP,
What I'm about to say has nothing to do with Libras in general but has everything to do with being a player. Going with your story, by him saying those things to your friend and showing her pics of other women, he has now flipped the script and shown who he truly is. She made him chase her for all those years and his ego couldn't take that, but he also senses hear weakness, her insecurity. Now that he has gotten the prize, he pulls at her self worth by pitting her against other women and making himself the prize by saying he's a womanizer knowing she will try to "fix" him. By doing those things, he's alleviated himself of any responsibility for the pain she'll experience because she validates him doing it because a person with common sense would drop him like a bad habit if they were told that. Technically he's right because he's going to be who he is but she'll try to change him. As I said earlier...validation. Truthfully, she should've asked those questions before she slept with him but she probably didn't in order not to "scare him off." Let this be a warning to her. She needs to remove him completely from her life.
Omg seriously!!! This is so spot on
He's probably not a player at all
He's actually very insecure and does/says these things in an effort to convince everyone else he's confident and desired.
By sleeping with him and playing into his game she is building his confidence to actually be the player he wishes he was in his mind
She is a Leo - she needs to listen to some Beyonce and tell him to bounce
I can have another you in a minute! Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute !!!!
Also wouldn't hurt to tell him his dick game is lame ??♀️
Posted by brianafayPosted by beautifulsoul74
@OP,
What I'm about to say has nothing to do with Libras in general but has everything to do with being a player. Going with your story, by him saying those things to your friend and showing her pics of other women, he has now flipped the script and shown who he truly is. She made him chase her for all those years and his ego couldn't take that, but he also senses hear weakness, her insecurity. Now that he has gotten the prize, he pulls at her self worth by pitting her against other women and making himself the prize by saying he's a womanizer knowing she will try to "fix" him. By doing those things, he's alleviated himself of any responsibility for the pain she'll experience because she validates him doing it because a person with common sense would drop him like a bad habit if they were told that. Technically he's right because he's going to be who he is but she'll try to change him. As I said earlier...validation. Truthfully, she should've asked those questions before she slept with him but she probably didn't in order not to "scare him off." Let this be a warning to her. She needs to remove him completely from her life.
Omg seriously!!! This is so spot on
He's probably not a player at all
He's actually very insecure and does/says these things in an effort to convince everyone else he's confident and desired.
By sleeping with him and playing into his game she is building his confidence to actually be the player he wishes he was in his mind
She is a Leo - she needs to listen to some Beyonce and tell him to bounce
I can have another you in a minute! Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute !!!!
Also wouldn't hurt to tell him his dick game is lame ??♀️
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Lol, listen to some Beyonce at bounce. Love it!
Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by blvckphaseLOL
A Libra male being a giant headache.. What a shocking surprise!
I was waiting for you to say something.
Dang! 😄click to expand
Lol. Apparently Libra men are different from the women is what I'm seeing. My closest friend is a Libra and acts nothing like this.
Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Leobaby89Libra men : Total Nut Case. 😆Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by blvckphaseLOL
A Libra male being a giant headache.. What a shocking surprise!
I was waiting for you to say something.
Dang! 😄
Lol. Apparently Libra men are different from the women is what I'm seeing. My closest friend is a Libra and acts nothing like this.
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Posted by beautifulsoul74It's also a tactic "PUAs" use to take jabs at her self esteem and make him seem more desirable. It's basically psychological manipulation to get her to lust after him and make her feel like shit in the process.
@OP,
What I'm about to say has nothing to do with Libras in general but has everything to do with being a player. Going with your story, by him saying those things to your friend and showing her pics of other women, he has now flipped the script and shown who he truly is. She made him chase her for all those years and his ego couldn't take that, but he also senses hear weakness, her insecurity. Now that he has gotten the prize, he pulls at her self worth by pitting her against other women and making himself the prize by saying he's a womanizer knowing she will try to "fix" him. By doing those things, he's alleviated himself of any responsibility for the pain she'll experience because she validates him doing it because a person with common sense would drop him like a bad habit if they were told that. Technically he's right because he's going to be who he is but she'll try to change him. As I said earlier...validation. Truthfully, she should've asked those questions before she slept with him but she probably didn't in order not to "scare him off." Let this be a warning to her. She needs to remove him completely from her life.
And, I've noticed, most PUA type dudes are ones who usually missed out on the girl of their dreams or have had bad luck with women due to their social retardation. Some just end up manipulating and using women later in life to get back at them/make up for lost time.
Posted by blvckphaseI get a lot of shit about saying the same thing as per advice, but IT'S BECAUSE ALL THESE EFFING STORIES ARE THE SAME.Posted by Leobaby89I've always found the same thing. And we continue to hear the same story over and over about the males.Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by blvckphaseLOL
A Libra male being a giant headache.. What a shocking surprise!
I was waiting for you to say something.
Dang! 😄
Lol. Apparently Libra men are different from the women is what I'm seeing. My closest friend is a Libra and acts nothing like this.
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It's kind of sad, tbh. One, that it seems to be so frequent and common, and two, women keep falling for that bullshit.
Posted by blvckphase"CONFOOOOOOSED!!!"Posted by rockyroadicecreamI know eh.. Just take a scroll through the Libra board.. same thing over and over.Posted by blvckphaseI get a lot of shit about saying the same thing as per advice, but IT'S BECAUSE ALL THESE EFFING STORIES ARE THE SAME.Posted by Leobaby89I've always found the same thing. And we continue to hear the same story over and over about the males.Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by blvckphaseLOL
A Libra male being a giant headache.. What a shocking surprise!
I was waiting for you to say something.
Dang! 😄
Lol. Apparently Libra men are different from the women is what I'm seeing. My closest friend is a Libra and acts nothing like this.
It's kind of sad, tbh. One, that it seems to be so frequent and common, and two, women keep falling for that bullshit.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamWhat you mean? You just go to your posts and find one! Your anger eats your brain cells!Posted by Leobaby89You did make that "clear" except your story was practically copy and pasted.
@rockyroadicecream I thought I made that clear in the first sentence that there was a previous post made. I'm still learning how to use this dxpnet and couldn't locate my post. Couldn't remember what section I put it in. Is there a way to find all the post you've previously posted?
And no, there isn't.
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamExactly. I don't know what the hell is going on, but this is the 50leventh time in the past couple of weeks I've heard of some dude flashing a pic of another chic to someone he's sleeping with...and she still talks to him. I'm like wth!! I'm not an old man, but I remember a time when that got a dude's ass whipped or a drink thrown in his face in the least bit and there was no coming back from that. Now guys have lost so much respect for themselves and women that they'll pull that as a "joke." Ain't nothing funny about that at all and this guy was serious. He intentionally did it. And her reaction is to mope?? Sad.Posted by beautifulsoul74It's also a tactic "PUAs" use to take jabs at her self esteem and make him seem more desirable. It's basically psychological manipulation to get her to lust after him and make her feel like shit in the process.
@OP,
What I'm about to say has nothing to do with Libras in general but has everything to do with being a player. Going with your story, by him saying those things to your friend and showing her pics of other women, he has now flipped the script and shown who he truly is. She made him chase her for all those years and his ego couldn't take that, but he also senses hear weakness, her insecurity. Now that he has gotten the prize, he pulls at her self worth by pitting her against other women and making himself the prize by saying he's a womanizer knowing she will try to "fix" him. By doing those things, he's alleviated himself of any responsibility for the pain she'll experience because she validates him doing it because a person with common sense would drop him like a bad habit if they were told that. Technically he's right because he's going to be who he is but she'll try to change him. As I said earlier...validation. Truthfully, she should've asked those questions before she slept with him but she probably didn't in order not to "scare him off." Let this be a warning to her. She needs to remove him completely from her life.
And, I've noticed, most PUA type dudes are ones who usually missed out on the girl of their dreams or have had bad luck with women due to their social retardation. Some just end up manipulating and using women later in life to get back at them/make up for lost time.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiYour sluttery has eaten all yours, that much is apparent since you communicate like a senile senior citizen.Posted by rockyroadicecreamWhat you mean? You just go to your posts and find one! Your anger eats your brain cells!Posted by Leobaby89You did make that "clear" except your story was practically copy and pasted.
@rockyroadicecream I thought I made that clear in the first sentence that there was a previous post made. I'm still learning how to use this dxpnet and couldn't locate my post. Couldn't remember what section I put it in. Is there a way to find all the post you've previously posted?
And no, there isn't.
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Posted by beautifulsoul74Omg haha that reminds me! When I saw my ex for the first time after a few years, he did the same shit when we (our friends) were all hanging out around the kitchen table. Would not stop talking about this chick he banged on his first trip to Vegas and kept making sure I heard and tried to show me pics of her. I'm like ...wtf are you doing? Why do you think I give a rat's ass emo freak? It's definitely weird and a tad confusing, but anyone who does bs like that is clearly trying to get a reaction and it's immature as shit.Posted by rockyroadicecreamExactly. I don't know what the hell is going on, but this is the 50leventh time in the past couple of weeks I've heard of some dude flashing a pic of another chic to someone he's sleeping with...and she still talks to him. I'm like wth!! I'm not an old man, but I remember a time when that got a dude's ass whipped or a drink thrown in his face in the least bit and there was no coming back from that. Now guys have lost so much respect for themselves and women that they'll pull that as a "joke." Ain't nothing funny about that at all and this guy was serious. He intentionally did it. And her reaction is to mope?? Sad.Posted by beautifulsoul74It's also a tactic "PUAs" use to take jabs at her self esteem and make him seem more desirable. It's basically psychological manipulation to get her to lust after him and make her feel like shit in the process.
@OP,
What I'm about to say has nothing to do with Libras in general but has everything to do with being a player. Going with your story, by him saying those things to your friend and showing her pics of other women, he has now flipped the script and shown who he truly is. She made him chase her for all those years and his ego couldn't take that, but he also senses hear weakness, her insecurity. Now that he has gotten the prize, he pulls at her self worth by pitting her against other women and making himself the prize by saying he's a womanizer knowing she will try to "fix" him. By doing those things, he's alleviated himself of any responsibility for the pain she'll experience because she validates him doing it because a person with common sense would drop him like a bad habit if they were told that. Technically he's right because he's going to be who he is but she'll try to change him. As I said earlier...validation. Truthfully, she should've asked those questions before she slept with him but she probably didn't in order not to "scare him off." Let this be a warning to her. She needs to remove him completely from her life.
And, I've noticed, most PUA type dudes are ones who usually missed out on the girl of their dreams or have had bad luck with women due to their social retardation. Some just end up manipulating and using women later in life to get back at them/make up for lost time.
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I can't fault anyone for being wtf about the behavior because it is so stupid, but it should be a turn off, not "let me stick around and see if it'll change."
Some women are so desperate that when they find a dude, they cling on because they act as if it's the last person they'll ever pair off with, and THAT is sad in itself since we see it so often anymore. People have been dumbed down so much emotionally that they just settle for whatever.
Libran folk are the cardinal air signs which means they are the catalysts of the zodiac this is their quality which means they can't help but say or do things that spark a reaction to get the ball moving.....they also instinctively know how to find the chink in your armour to piss you off......I find librans very difficult to read and my moons in Scorpio, their motivation is relationships but they're always thinking about their ideal relationship so you never know where you're at with them.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamAnd you? Communicating like what?Posted by GemitatiYour sluttery has eaten all yours, that much is apparent since you communicate like a senile senior citizen.Posted by rockyroadicecreamWhat you mean? You just go to your posts and find one! Your anger eats your brain cells!Posted by Leobaby89You did make that "clear" except your story was practically copy and pasted.
@rockyroadicecream I thought I made that clear in the first sentence that there was a previous post made. I'm still learning how to use this dxpnet and couldn't locate my post. Couldn't remember what section I put it in. Is there a way to find all the post you've previously posted?
And no, there isn't.
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A woman who hates her own guts and as a result everyone else's?
You are a doll! Aren't you? Pfffff
Posted by tizianiDon't think so. He has plenty of attention but seems like he needs more.
Just sounds like an attention-seeker.
Like...where do you pack all this attention?
My mom said he is mental case. But he hiding it well...behind 'talking'.
?
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In a previous post I spoke about my friend being involved with a Libra guy who was trying to pursue her since high school. She finally has given him a chance but it's been a headache since they've been speaking. They recently had sex and after being intimate one day she was asking him questions about past relationships (she said getting him to open up was like pulling teeth) and he told her that he felt like he would be single forever. He also showed her a girl on his phone and said why can't he find someone like her. She played it cool and acted as if it didn't bother her. He said he was just joking. She changed the subject and started talking about her friend. She mentioned that he was a womanizer and he replied "so am I". When she told me this I was shocked. My friend is the typical dramatic Leo and can make things seem worse than what it is but I don't think that's the case this time. He asked her what was wrong because of the shift in her attitude. She said she did not want to speak about it and ended up shutting down. He texted her after he left asking what he did wrong. She told him she did noy appreciate his jokes and feels like he was being serious. She told him that maybe she did not put enough thought into them and it bothered her how much she cared. Now he is ignoring her. Was he really just joking and she could have possibly oberreacted or is this his way of pushing her away? I'm just as confused as she is and I'm on the outside looking in, lol.
Revenge... plain and simple... long chases make people angry, resentful... (I know).
From "Weeds" after decades of chasing Nancy
Posted by rockyroadicecreamDo you have life? You trace posts and compare them and come up with a 'verdict' that it's almost copy/paste...Posted by Leobaby89You did make that "clear" except your story was practically copy and pasted.
@rockyroadicecream I thought I made that clear in the first sentence that there was a previous post made. I'm still learning how to use this dxpnet and couldn't locate my post. Couldn't remember what section I put it in. Is there a way to find all the post you've previously posted?
And no, there isn't.
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Maybe you need a second job or any dick so it'll take your anger away? How really ugly are you? Seriously?
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