are/were you guys in love with every girlfriend you have/had in your whole life?

because you jump from one relationship to another? Personally, I think that men fall in love 1-2 times in their life, libras are more like women in this-so emotional...or they just can't stand loneliness....what's your view?
because you jump from one relationship to another?





Personally, I think that men fall in love 1-2 times in their life, libras are more like women in this-so emotional...or they just can't stand loneliness....what's your view?
3 times for me. The third time was with the first so maybe it's just 2 times. Plenty of sizzle and fade infatuations. I can't stand loneliness, but a romantic relationship isn't the only way to combat loneliness. Quality good times with close friends in family is great.
Posted by Librah
3 times for me. The third time was with the first so maybe it's just 2 times. Plenty of sizzle and fade infatuations. I can't stand loneliness, but a romantic relationship isn't the only way to combat loneliness. Quality good times with close friends in family is great.



those were your only relationships??

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what made you fall in love??
Those were the only relationships where I can honestly say that I was in love with the person.

As to what made me fall in love? I wish I had an honest concrete answer. In both cases there was an equal attraction physically and intellectually. All of my other relationships had lacked in one or the other. I'm back with the first girl I fell in love with and it feels just as intense as it did 18 years ago.

I sort of agree with you though that libra guys can be more emotional about stuff. At least I know I am. For example when the relationship with the first girl I loved ended I was so emotionally devastated at the time that it wasn't until my mid twenties when I felt I could have any emotional involvement in a relationship. So a bunch of infatuations and fwb situations. I finally fall in love again which results in a butterty 7 year marriage, get a divorce (in progress), and full circle reconnect with my first love.

Kind of a mess. Not sure I'm a great example of all libras. I have libra stellium in the 4th house though so maybe I am dxpnet is right about us lol.
Look up the Libra arch type.

Balance,Harmony, and codependency lol.

Honestly it depends on the placement. For sun mentality happy when your in a partnership. God friendships in personal and professional life works just as good.

Librah:
I can't stand loneliness, but a romantic relationship isn't the only way to combat loneliness. Quality good times with close friends in family is great.

Honestly think it is just healthy relationships in general too. Beyond that find yourself a good booty call when you get hungry and you will be cool. The codependency is a real problem for Libra. I see a lot settle and stay way to long in a bad relationship from fear of loneliness. Tend to sacrifice way too much then get angry when the favor isn't returned.

Hypocrisy and hypocrites big turn off most most correct?
Posted by greylatern
Look up the Libra arch type.

Balance,Harmony, and codependency lol.

Honestly it depends on the placement. For sun mentality happy when your in a partnership. God friendships in personal and professional life works just as good.

Librah:
I can't stand loneliness, but a romantic relationship isn't the only way to combat loneliness. Quality good times with close friends in family is great.

Honestly think it is just healthy relationships in general too. Beyond that find yourself a good booty call when you get hungry and you will be cool. The codependency is a real problem for Libra. I see a lot settle and stay way to long in a bad relationship from fear of loneliness. Tend to sacrifice way too much then get angry when the favor isn't returned.

Hypocrisy and hypocrites big turn off most most correct?


Codependency is a HUGE problem. My 7 year marriage probably should have ended at 4 or 5 years. As far as hypocrisy goes everyone is made a hypocrite eventually. It's when you can't face your own short comings as human being and admit to your own hypocrisy that it is problematic. All things I'm trying to be mindful of in my current relationship.

Tbh I never fell in love with any of them. Except maybe for the drama cusp.

Other than that I only saw the other partners as a convenience and to educate myself.

I've been on my own for a year now and am enjoying life more than I ever have.

Hopefully one day. But not before I get my projects done first.
OCJack
24 years old male from The Void, Damned To, Hell
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People really need to stop associating Fakeness with any given sign. Every sign has their examples where people express the qualities in an illusory/fake manner. Because the vast majority of people in general, are fake. They don't have the balls it takes to be /real/. In fact, how often do you think a person realizes they are being a fake ass cookiemonster? Literally never. Libra is just admittedly, one of the weaker signs. Air is the weakest element. So of course they tend to fall on the cowardly and pathetic end of the spectrum.

The whole point to the fakely expressed qualities, is that those are the qualities of that sign regardless of whether they are fake or real. Just like Leo Suns are often full of a bunch of bullbutter, and are really nobody losers despite acting like they are the kings of the world. However, that's because the Leo sign really does entail those qualities. Whether expressed fakely or genuinely.

Personally, I'm 90% real. So to answer your question OP: Yes. I have loved everyone I got involved with romantically. I do not hop from person to person, and I'm not desperate like people wanna act like ALL Libras are. The only reason I'm not with them now, is because /they/ didn't love me or /they/ hurt and betrayed me. The only exception is 1 person who things were just all around toxic on both ends, and we obviously just weren't supposed to be together.
tiziani
We #DXPIL Responsibly
I was in love "at the time" sure.
tiziani
We #DXPIL Responsibly
quote unquote
Posted by greylatern
Look up the Libra arch type.

Balance,Harmony, and codependency lol.

Honestly it depends on the placement. For sun mentality happy when your in a partnership. God friendships in personal and professional life works just as good.

Librah:
I can't stand loneliness, but a romantic relationship isn't the only way to combat loneliness. Quality good times with close friends in family is great.

Honestly think it is just healthy relationships in general too. Beyond that find yourself a good booty call when you get hungry and you will be cool. The codependency is a real problem for Libra. I see a lot settle and stay way to long in a bad relationship from fear of loneliness. Tend to sacrifice way too much then get angry when the favor isn't returned.

Hypocrisy and hypocrites big turn off most most correct?



but do they realize they are in a relationship because of codepedency and fear or they think that they are in love?...I'm asking this because they always act lovey dovey with all their gf?

tiziani
We #DXPIL Responsibly
I can see the codependency which can be good, not always bad. Sometimes it can get insidious.

Even now I have gone to a place of desperation with the Taurus. I beg for silence and then other times beg for company to be able to relax. That is stretching the limits of depending on someone.

I don't buy or at least I can't relate to the fear of being alone driving people to be in relationships because that can look really ugly, i can't imagine it'd be easy for anyone to hide that by just acting lovey dover - it's going to come out the wash eventually.

As long as you can trust yourself and trust what you would do if left alone, then that's the line.

I've met people who can't trust themselves around anyone and so they take out their worst fears on their partner assuming everyone is as fearful as them.
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I bonded closer to my friendships then my relationships. I have only loved three men in my life and those relationships were spread across 20 years. Men tend to say they love me....But I can say my best friend who is a woman is the person I love most of all. 20 + years of friendship makes us super close.

Am I codependent? I’m more independent and unattached...
heliumfiasco
32 years old female
Sun Libra 12th. Moon Gemini 8th. Mercury Libra 12th. Venus/Mars Virgo 11th.
I'm a woman. But no.
Posted by JadeAlexander
I bonded closer to my friendships then my relationships. I have only loved three men in my life and those relationships were spread across 20 years. Men tend to say they love me....But I can say my best friend who is a woman is the person I love most of all. 20 + years of friendship makes us super close.

Am I codependent? I’m more independent and unattached...


and why you aren't with your best friend who you love most of all?
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