Aries

I just checked out what our oh so famous astrologers say about Aries men.... Interesting...
The Aries male is ambitious, hardworking and successful. Perhaps this man's most irritating fault is contradiction. He possesses much knowledge and heaven help the individual who gets his or her facts wrong. The male ruled by Aries plans for the future with a view toward an exciting and progressive life. Although romantic at heart, there is sometimes no pleasing this man, but he is constant and true by nature. As a sweetheart, he will almost certainly want to be the center of his loved one's attention and probably take it for granted that he is. He adores fun and can be utterly charming. Flattery works well with this man because he can take a virtually infinite amount...provided he does not suspect it is a line. As a life partner, he is warm-hearted but somewhat bossy, and probably prefers a career in the armed forces or as a managing director. At home, the man governed by this Sign likes to be waited on hand-and-foot but in return, he is ready and willing to fight for the best for his loved ones.
A distinguished and desirable soul, the Aries male is somewhat fussy by nature and rather exacting in his dealings with others. His romantic mental picture often demands perfection. Conventional in thought, this man expects a high moral standard from loved ones, regardless of his own private irregularities, which may be manifested in the form of an isolated adventurous fling. Outspoken to a fault, the male governed by Aries refuses to hide anything he feels like doing. Somewhat physically demanding in arena of romance, he will look elsewhere if not gratified. Ardent, proud and brimming with personality, this male is likely to remain a romantic soul throughout his entire life. He does possesses a rather voracious appetite in that regard, which he refuses to sublimate. No substitution devotion will satisfy the Aries man, but a partner can gain his everlasting faithfulness if there is physical harmony.

Now here is what they say about us.

The Scorpio female is an independent soul. She possesses a forbidding, keep-your-distance manner that often hides a secretive and sensitive heart. This is a woman who will risk all for love and not count the cost, but can become bitterly disappointed if her judgment is proved wrong. Undeniably romantic by nature, she demands the near-impossible of those she loves. However, this female is quick to assess personalities and situations, able to put her finger on the crux of a question or circumstance immediately, seeing through all the dross, ignoring the veneer and getting to the truth. In addition, this woman is often at least a little psychic. She will make a number of good friends, usually keeping them all her life, and her sympathy and understanding are extended to all who come in contact with her. Still, the woman ruled by Scorpio does make for a formidable enemy. She rarely creates animosity willingly, but is sometimes driven into situations that make her the center of some manifestation of jealousy. The contradiction of the Scorpio female character is rather puzzling to some people and endlessly fascinating to others. Outwardly, this always seems to be a relatively selfish woman who gives the appearance of self-centeredness in her concentration on personal affairs and the affairs of loved ones. Still, she can be capable of incredible self-sacrifice. In essence, no two acquaintances will ever view this female in the same manner for she will present a different facet of her personality to each one. As a sweetheart, the Scorpio female is exciting. As a life partner, she is appealing in her determination to be the best possible companion. As a mother, she will be both understanding and disciplinary.
Basically an old-fashioned individual, the woman ruled by Scorpio is loyal and courageous. She enjoys responsibility and is very capable. With a great love of luxury, she possesses considerable taste in home furnishings and other aesthetics. The difference in the atmosphere will very much depend on this female's intensity of feelings. She is a blunt and fearless character, doing everything passionately from the depths of her heart. Her devotion to loved ones is whole-hearted and can almost verge upon idolization at times. Rarely shy by nature, the Scorpio woman has a very healthy appetite for the physical aspect of a romantic relationship

This is quite likely the most difficult pairing of the Zodiac in terms of achieving harmony. The ability of Aries to give way to others will be severely put to the test by the inherent Scorpio trait to assume control of every situation. Here, it would not be unusual for the Aries partner to do the exact opposite of what Scorpio desires in an attempt to simply be contentious. One of the major problems will be the unreasonable jealousy of the Scorpio native, which is a deep-rooted part of the Scorpio nature and cannot be changed. Thus, Aries may soon become highly claustrophobic if he or she is forced to follow the Scorpio partner's idea of nesting. Scorpio is of the opinion that the domestic environment is the place to be completely relaxed and isolated from the rest of the world. However, Aries is more interested in being involved in that world to the fullest extent. Therefore, the Aries partner will want to hold parties and have friends dropping in and out most of the time. Consequently, the Scorpio native will be driven to distraction. Generally, those governed by Scorpio mate for life...but this combination could be the exception. Scorpio subjects have certain ideals which their partners are expected to live up to. Any failure on the part of the Aries native to meet these ideals will cause Scorpio to push him or her totally out of the mind and heart. In essence, Scorpio is jealous, overly-demanding and expects total possession. The dominate and dominating nature of Aries will never stand for being dominated. In short, this is not a promising union.

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While basking in the first bloom of this relationship, each partner will probably wonder how he or she ever managed apart from the other. These are two Signs who adore power and together, they can achieve almost anything, provided they learn how to share the spotlight. The Scorpio native is very focused by nature and once the sights have been set upon an Aries individual, that individual is most likely totally unable to offer any resistance. In addition, Scorpio will harbor a deeper and more complex devotion to the relationship than will the Aries native. This pair tends to engage in arguments that are both heavy and heated, their connection being highly passionate and often contentious because both have jealous tendencies. The Scorpio partner is liable to be more patient but is also more possessive and can lash out in a nasty fashion when his or her feelings get hurt. Still, despite the differences in e

DD, this is where I got this from...

http://www.novareinna.com/constellation/arieslovecomp.html

Okay this doesn't sound good. But I am not the normal scorp. Lot of Sag in my charts... We shall see.

The Aries just left a message asking me out Friday night. I told him that would probably be a great idea.

Mommy weekend. I will have to arrange for a sitter, which is normally not a problem for me.

Don't listen to what these astrologers say about Aries and Scorps being together. Just find out for you self whether staying with him will go well or not.

I went a huge party of a friend of mine, last night and the Aries met me there. After the club closed, we went to breakfast at 3am, then we talked and went to his place. AMAZING. He has a huge and very well decorated. He was a perfect gentleman. I slept in one of the guest rooms and I had a cough. He bought medicine to me and let me sleep until 11:30 am the next day. He is an excellent kisser!!!! Charming and sensual. It was very hard to behave. I teased a lot and then had to walk away before I reached the point of no return. When I got up and dressed we went to lunch and he bought me home. He asked me to call him when I got home. Sweet...🙂

He went shopping for a new mercedes....

Whatdoyaknow! An Aries, huh? Ha! (Happy for you, QS!)

Every Scorp women I know was once dumped by Aries. And most of them havent yet recovered from that. Any more cases??

Never tried an Aries. Figure I'll give Libra a whirl first...

I have noticed a trend with Aries guys who have crossed my life QS. They seem to only want the girl that doesn't want them. The girl who wears her heart on her sleeve gets tossed aside for the girl who doesn't give a rat's ass. Just keep that in mind QS.

thelibran - I have never dated an Aries and so far, this one, is persuing pretty hard. He also isn't the only one I am going on dates with just the most consistant. I really don't see myself falling hard for anyone at this point, just seeing what's out there and if something really sparks, then hey we will see.

LS - I am not doing a lot of persuing with this guy, just seeing what happens, he doesn't have my heart, just a little of my interest, so I am not the one with the feelings on the sleeve per se. Thanks for that though. I have picked up a little cockiness, or maybe extreme confidence from him, which is something I admire, rather than run from, cause everyone knows no one is as confident as the scorp woman, so he has met his match on that note...

Don't see any serious relationships at this moment, just checking out prospects. Having fun doing so, so far, I have been out with the Taurus, Aries and oh, a Capi?? Never been out with a Capi before... Just checking out the fishies in the sea... Don't know which one I will actually catch yet 🙂

chickeness?? - I typed c-o-c-k-i-ness.

I like cockiness in a man. I find it sexy. Of course, I am pretty cocky myself so it is a fun way to flirt.

If he is an arrogant know-it-all, turn off.

Quite the net you have cast there missy queen! lol! a little bit of everything. I know my Scorp best friend really likes Cappi men. I have never dated one and don't know very many.

LS LOL!!! The bigger the net the more fish you can catch... First time dating a Capi myself. Just got a text from him, that he really enjoyed our date and would like to hang out again sometime soon.. I replied. "Likewise, and that would be great..."

Cockiness, definitely sexy!!! Scares some woman, intrigues me.

Sounds like you're having fun, QS!

It scares some women? Really?

I need a guy who can hold his own.

"a Capi?? Never been out with a Capi before"

Red Alert! Red Alert! Red Alert!

No! No! No! No! No! NOOOOOOOOOOOO! RUN LIKE HELL!!!!! Save yourself!!!

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Danger! Danger! Danger!

I have heard and experienced nothing but bad things with Scorp women and Cap men. Friend, okay. More than friend, NO!

Unless, you really like being the trophy girl in emotionally, passionately, intellectually, and romantically superficial relationships with jealous, possessive, controlling, insecure (both relationship and self), self-absorbed, self-centered, selfish, pretentious, superficial men... 🙂

The cap men I know of, do not believe in all or nothing. They believe in just enough to make it look that way...

DISCLAIMER: This in no way applies to all Cap men, JUST THE VAST MAJORITY OF THEM! I am sure that, if you are a Cap male reading this message, you are no doubt one of the exceptions... 😉

"Cockiness, definitely sexy!!! Scares some woman, intrigues me."

YUMMY! I like cockiness... As, long as it is substantiated. Otherwise, I find it extremely annoying.

* I am sure that, if you are a Cap male reading this message, you are no doubt one of the exceptions..

hee! hee!

You have been hanging out on the libra board far tooo long. Very diplomatic!

My Scorpie best friend hasn't had that problem. She also really likes Cancer men. (shrugs) I haven't dated either.

Of course, she married a really great Leo who is wonderful to her NOW. When they were dating ... let's just say she can sympathise with my Leo dilemna.

* As, long as it is substantiated. Otherwise, I find it extremely annoying.

That is the difference between arrogance and cockiness I think. Cockiness usually has something to back it up. I also tend to think cockiness as more playful and flirty.

Or I could be nuts.

lol!

"You have been hanging out on the libra board far tooo long. Very diplomatic!"

Thanks! Do I get a decoder ring, now? 🙂

"My Scorpie best friend hasn't had that problem. She also really likes Cancer men. (shrugs) I haven't dated either."

Ahhhhhhhhhh! No!!!! Nightmares!!! Save me... 😉

Maybe that would explain a lot, though... Caps and Cancers are bad for me. Cancer I would gauge far worse than a Cap, personally. But, that is purely based on very bad personal experiences with Cancers (father, ex-husband).

"That is the difference between arrogance and cockiness I think. Cockiness usually has something to back it up. I also tend to think cockiness as more playful and flirty."

Actually, I think I tend to agree with you. That is a very good definition. And cockiness is very sexy (and fun)!!

Also, she has noticed that every man who she has really loved has had Mars in Cancer. Oddly, she really gets along with Air and Fire signs, but she is close to the cusp of Sag.

Where are the other placements in your chart Alcheme? If you don't mind my asking?

she also has a leo moon and a libra rising.

🙂

she rocks!

Alcheme - LOL!!! Thanks for the heads up. The capi seems nice, but nope didn't feel a bit of a spark... Just thought he was nice. Talks a lot too. Gaawwwwdddd...

LS - Yeah your scoprie friend is a little different then maybe, because CANCER MEN...NO, NO, NO, NO, NO can't do it, cannot do it!!!!

Yes my dear Atom, I am swimming in a sea of fish and still find the Ram more interesting...

Oh, I left one thing out this Libra has been hinting around a date here and there. What do you think I said?

Hell no!!! Just kidding, thought he might only be good for shagging, but decided nothing else would come of it, so why bother. Need to really break that Libra/Scorp cycle for awhile and try to play with the other boys... Heehee.

No one likes the cancer boys huh?

I never run across them.

It is weird. I only run across certain men. I don't meet pisces, cancers, geminis, capis, taurus .... I am sure there are others. As of a few weeks ago, I never dated a Sag either. Weird how it goes in cycles.

I don't meet very many aqua boys or libra boys either. I have never dated a libra.

***It is weird. I only run across certain men. I don't meet pisces, cancers, geminis, capis, taurus .... I am sure there are others. As of a few weeks ago, I never dated a Sag either. Weird how it goes in cycles.***

Yes, LS, my continuous cycle have been Libra boys, Libra boys, Libra boys... I am starting to wonder if there is a sign on my forehead that says "Libras this way - please play games and torture me" LOL!!!

This is a cycle I am definitely trying to break.

Others signs would be, Taurus - consistantly that is, no other signs consistantly. Weird.

For years, it was Virgos and Scorps. Although I never really dated a Scorp. They just like to dangle around in the background. I have come to the conclusion that they aren't really interested in me, they are interested in my interest. They want to possess me but they don't want me.

The odd Aries would drift through but not much else. Taurus guys would get stalkerish on me. But that was about it.

Now I have branched out. lol!

I have to say Leo guys are my favorite at the moment. I am hoping the Sag turns into something. If not, oh well.

I still like the Aqua guy too. I don't think he was for me and he seemed a bit "confused" about what he wanted, but I really could have liked him had he let me.

Yeah, LS, I know, who knows what the final verdict will be with these men (of all signs) I find that I am very careful about letting my feelings get involved. Especially since I did for the first time in 2 years with my libra friend, even when I knew he wasn't ready, couldn't help it at the time. Funny, those emotions have recently subsided even before our talk.

Okay, Libras seem to be the ones who pulls the emotions out of me quickly because they are the most challenging for me to figure out I guess. If a guy is too easy going withou challenges, I lose interest quickly - something I am starting to figure out about myself. Scorps love challenges.

"Where are the other placements in your chart Alcheme? If you don't mind my asking?"

Sun ... Scorpio
Moon ... Gemini
Mercury ... Sagittarius
Venus ... Scorpio
Mars ... Sagittarius
Jupiter ... Leo
Saturn ... Virgo
Uranus ... Scorpio
Neptune ... Sagittarius
Pluto ... Libra
Rising ... Capricorn

^^^ - Recipe for a complete, but oh so adorable, nut... 🙂

Interesting.

In theory you would be attracted to Fire and Air men .... based on your Mars and Moon. At least, I think that is how it works.

I am very interested in Fire and Air men myself. My moon is Leo and my Mars is Libra.

🙂

I have found men that have a lot of air or fire in their chart (Sag or Leo not Aries) VERY attractive.

It is interesting how it works out huh?

Yeah, mine seems to be Air and earth signs.

"In theory you would be attracted to Fire and Air men .... based on your Mars and Moon. At least, I think that is how it works."

Fire? Hrmm... Theoretically, I suppose, but never dated one, that I know of...

Air? Yummy... Well, Libras. Gems and Aquas, not so much.

Hmmm, just had a long wonderful and humorous conversation with the Aries. Liking him. He called twice today... 🙂 Possible date Sat. He has to go out of town for a Kappa convention an will return Sat. evening. Hope things go as planned. I actually look forward to seeing him again. He is very, very nice...

YAY!

🙂

LS, I guess you were right about me being attracted to Fire and Air signs, totally. Water - naw... Earth- some, maybe only Taurus.

How 'conventional' are Scorpio women? Conventional like Capricorn?

That would be a good topic for the Scorpio board.

See? Told you so!

Never doubt me again! lol!

totally kidding by that. 😉

FD, you are absolutely correct if you mean, confident, intelligent, straight forward and no-nonsence, and no tolerance for bull-shit and pettiness. Yup, I would say very conventional in that way!

Oh FD and don't forget "Sexy as Hell"