thelibran
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Your first paragraph is a self-projection and you come off as lacking reading comprehension abilities. None of your points touched on anything I said at all, so let's again bring you back to the basis of my argument. When I bring you back to the base of the argument, please try arguing the actual argument instead of relying on an ad-hominem fallacy or a straw man fallacy. These are the oldest tricks in debating, but I assure you that you are no match against my Libra moon conjunct Libra Pluto. So let's try this again.
An Aries mother will want their kids to be independent and will make you independent to follow your own dreams, goals, and ambitions. They push you out of the nest just like a mother bird pushes her baby birds out of the nest to fly on their own. This is one of the best things any parents can give a child.
@thelibran:
It seems apparent that you resent your mother and may perhaps blame your mother for a lot of the poor choices you made in life.
tats exactly where an aries fail to read the libras thoughts. now lemme break it down to simple words.
1. How sure can you be that I resent my mother? Esp when I said I did hated her till I learned about general Aries nature which explains her nature. So that could also mean that now I like her after knowing her the way she is. And yea I do like her now.
2. What makes you say Aries moms want their kids to be so and so? Do you have an Aries mom to backup your claim from experience? Even if you do, you are not a libra kid growing up under an Aries mom. Hence the dynamics are different. Do you realize that peoples nature are simple reactions ones brain produce to the nature of people around them??
Its a painful learning experience when polar opposites try to study each other. Every single value we consider 1 will have to be 0 and everything we consider 0 need to become 1 to learn the polar opposites.
****1. How sure can you be sure that I resent my mother?
Posted by amethyst2002Posted by woundedbird
my new year resolution is 2 not b around idiots. Not going 2 look at them . Not going 2 talk 2 them or listen 2 them. I am dropping out of the world.
Don't look in the mirror then. You'll fail daily.
@thelibran, Dude, she's all over the place because she's trying to win an argument/be right. My mom does the same shit all the time. After awhile, they stop making sense in their arguments. Either that, or they're SO set in their view that they'll say some ridiculous shit just to be right. Maybe she's depressed/sleep deprived and/or clearly has issues to work out. I see it all the time with the parental. Leaves my Sag brother and I wtf sometimes.click to expand
Yea I take back everything I posted first after i went to Aries board and saw what was going on. Initially I thought Spica was just pissed at other signs coming on to libra board and trying to chase them away; which used to be the normal before.
Posted by bluemoon2
1. How sure can you be that I resent my mother?
You said:
This is mostly my story on how i happened to marry an Aries girl from a deep rooted fear and hatred for Aries.
My mom is an Aries.click to expand
Now i have to start banging my head against a wall to get you to understand something simple.
Are you just plain ignorant of the fact that libra is emotionally detached?? Or are you totally new to dealing with libras?
You admit that you got a scorpio mom. ?? agree? hence u dont know how aries mom's behave. You cannot base your idea of an Aries mom on ur own ideals and even if you do, there is no guarantee that your kids will observe the same from you. They interpret it backwards based on their zodiac and how their dynamics play out with Aries females. Understood—
Suppose if you got a libra son, then when he grows up, you can ask him how he felt. Thats the only single way you could comprehend what I said. Any other way you go, you simply base your ideas on believes. Not facts.
Now I might be trying to polite and friendly with a particular zodiac people. But it is not necessary that those zodiac people will feel my behavior as friendly and polite. Thats how the dynamics btween 2 zodiac groups play out in nature.
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
oh look! thelibran a.k.a. the astro-nazi is back 😛 guess it took him years to come up with some fresh idea's to keep on feeding his famous "Aries suck and Libras rule" obsessive crusade. thelibran's world is simple, it consists of three dogma's; 1. There's only 12 kinds of people in this world and you can make totally accurate claims based on that sole "principle". 2. Never contradict a Libra because you'll never understand their way of thinking, since well..you're not a Libra yourself (like that kind of reasoning wouldnt apply when a Libra makes all kinds of claims on other signs as well *cough* *Aries* *cough*) 3. Aries will always be inferior to Libra.
There you have him in a nutshell, proceed! 😛
obviously u hvnt read anything i posted in the last 5 pages in this thread. once again buttin in with brainless accusations. had me laughing anyway.
I did comprehend everything you said. What makes you think I didn't?
None of what u say has anything to do with what i was trying to tell u. tats why.
Posted by amethyst2002Posted by thelibran
Yea I take back everything I posted first after i went to Aries board and saw what was going on. Initially I thought Spica was just pissed at other signs coming on to libra board and trying to chase them away; which used to be the normal before.
She was somewhat, "normal," about this time last year. Then, within a few, she flipped a bitch and went the other extreme. Lately, it's just been harassment of Aries generally. Poor thing.click to expand
I saw that. Arnd last Jan she posted that "dont chase a libra coz its a safe option" or something like that thread and haven't gotten over it. I really think she went thru some deep shit which is still keeping her unbalanced. I hope she sit back and look through it one day and come out smooth and nice.
Thing is that if a libra try to see Aries from libras own way of thinking, then Aries will sure come across as a major pain in the arse. Takes too much of work to learn ones opposite. She seems to be blocking all the possibilities and trying hard to convince herself that there could be no other ways than what she went through.
Posted by bluemoon2Posted by thelibranI did comprehend everything you said. What makes you think I didn't?
None of what u say has anything to do with what i was trying to tell u. tats why.
Sure it does. It's just what you do not want to read or hear.
I would say that judging by this response and everything in this thread, I can safely bet the biggest mistake your mother ever did to cause any of your hostile/abusive behavior towards women, especially Aries women who you believe to be inferior. She enabled your behavior if and when she catered to any of your whims. Thus, you now believe that all Aries women should do the same thing.
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Are you just plain stupid or what?? I married an Aries babe. I got way tooo many Aries female friends. Dont you ever care to read whatever I typed in the last few pages?
Eh, the Libran, I just don't agree with your views.
Actually, I think you attracted your aries to work out the issues surrounding you and your mum. Can you safely say you love her? Else its still a marriage of convenience.
You are funny when you said Aries and Libra couldn't be friends at a young age. That is where I decided it was no longer logical talking to you.. Did you have Taurus friends growing up? I never did, so it probably is safe to say that taurus and libra aren't friends at a young age.. Couldn't add up.
You see, I'm not beating this horse anymore. My views still stand until I see something that may change it. Right as of now, the aries trespassing this board have only showed how combative they are. Esp that one at the top. If you can put up with that, then more power to you.
Personally, I wouldn't need that. It takes a very special type to libra to want to put up with aries for so long. I am learning what kind of libra that is through you. Anyway, I believe you have the ability to control her and ignore her shortcomings anyway, so that works for you.
Just to let you know, very lttle you said convinced me any regarding Aries-Libra relationships.
Have a good new year, and my original premise still stands, but you can be an exception, and anyone else who wants to be.
Actually, I think you attracted your aries to work out the issues surrounding you and your mum. Can you safely say you love her? Else its still a marriage of convenience.
You are funny when you said Aries and Libra couldn't be friends at a young age. That is where I decided it was no longer logical talking to you.. Did you have Taurus friends growing up? I never did, so it probably is safe to say that taurus and libra aren't friends at a young age.. Couldn't add up.
You see, I'm not beating this horse anymore. My views still stand until I see something that may change it. Right as of now, the aries trespassing this board have only showed how combative they are. Esp that one at the top. If you can put up with that, then more power to you.
Personally, I wouldn't need that. It takes a very special type to libra to want to put up with aries for so long. I am learning what kind of libra that is through you. Anyway, I believe you have the ability to control her and ignore her shortcomings anyway, so that works for you.
Just to let you know, very lttle you said convinced me any regarding Aries-Libra relationships.
Have a good new year, and my original premise still stands, but you can be an exception, and anyone else who wants to be.
"I really think she went thru some deep butter which is still keeping her unbalanced. I hope she sit back and look through it one day and come out smooth and nice. "
Hahahaha, you need to study the symbols of astrology deeper. The sign of the Ram unbalances. Whatever or however hard the scales try to balance, the ram always topples it for their own benefit.
Libra needs people who won't fight them and force them to do things certain ways just ecause they say so or else they'd be rammed more and more. As I said before, thelibran, whatever floats your boat. Aries doesn't and never will float my boat.
If I want exciting times as casual friends, I would get an Aries. In personal relationships, I would stay away. Perfectly logical to me.
Plus, to have an Aries in personal relationships, a Libra must first and foremost turn off his/her sensitivity. They must also be geared on for a large tolerance level. So, I suppose, you, my friend, have perfected that. Personally, I don't even need to. My partner is a Libra. I prefer lazy days home more than trudging through rough terrain and offending people all the time. So there 🙂
Hahahaha, you need to study the symbols of astrology deeper. The sign of the Ram unbalances. Whatever or however hard the scales try to balance, the ram always topples it for their own benefit.
Libra needs people who won't fight them and force them to do things certain ways just ecause they say so or else they'd be rammed more and more. As I said before, thelibran, whatever floats your boat. Aries doesn't and never will float my boat.
If I want exciting times as casual friends, I would get an Aries. In personal relationships, I would stay away. Perfectly logical to me.
Plus, to have an Aries in personal relationships, a Libra must first and foremost turn off his/her sensitivity. They must also be geared on for a large tolerance level. So, I suppose, you, my friend, have perfected that. Personally, I don't even need to. My partner is a Libra. I prefer lazy days home more than trudging through rough terrain and offending people all the time. So there 🙂
Posted by spica
Eh, the Libran, I just don't agree with your views.
Actually, I think you attracted your aries to work out the issues surrounding you and your mum. Can you safely say you love her? Else its still a marriage of convenience.
You are funny when you said Aries and Libra couldn't be friends at a young age. That is where I decided it was no longer logical talking to you.. Did you have Taurus friends growing up? I never did, so it probably is safe to say that taurus and libra aren't friends at a young age.. Couldn't add up.
You see, I'm not beating this horse anymore. My views still stand until I see something that may change it. Right as of now, the aries trespassing this board have only showed how combative they are. Esp that one at the top. If you can put up with that, then more power to you.
Personally, I wouldn't need that. It takes a very special type to libra to want to put up with aries for so long. I am learning what kind of libra that is through you. Anyway, I believe you have the ability to control her and ignore her shortcomings anyway, so that works for you.
Just to let you know, very lttle you said convinced me any regarding Aries-Libra relationships.
Have a good new year, and my original premise still stands, but you can be an exception, and anyone else who wants to be.
This is one thing i still cant get. How on earth anyone on this board came to the conclusion that i found an aries partner to balance off the troubles I had with my aries mom— tats just plain ridiculous. I did mentioned that i spend years learning about aries and came to a point where i was actually impressed with the fact that its the only other zodiac that can be as good as a libra. Sure their methods sucks big time and it does keep creating waves around libra. But thats mostly between same sex polar opposite zodiacs as observed by so many people. Means me being a libra male, cannot stand an aries male which is TRUE 101% . thats the full scale opposition. Same in ur case - Libra girl having trouble with Aries women. Its only natural. But polar opposite, opposite sexes in fact compliment each other. One got what the other partner lacks. thats what makes it much more beautiful and rock solid when compared to gemini or aqua partner.
Still it is mentioned very clearly by many astrologers that same zodiac and polar opposites - libra-libra or libra-aries is either 1
I blame that on ignorance and immaturity, really. I've only seen shit like that in reeeally immature Libras. I can think of a few that I worked with that behaved like this also. Lived in their own little world, and refused to face the reality of a situation or only wanted to see it their way because THAT'S HOW IT IS.
Its true that we live in our own world. Hence it is highly possible that outsiders can no way imagine what we are all about. You cant claim to know something which you are totally unaware off. Agree? Reality in our eyes is far different from the reality in the eyes of Aries. For Aries its simple - just black and white. For a libra its way too complex to even explain it to ourselves.
I know how much effort I have to take to explain certain decisions and acts of mine to my wife and to my other Aries friends. They simply cant understand. Now when i tell the same to my gemini or aqua friends, they understand when I am halfway. So its not about what we say. Its about how capable an Aries brain is in decoding libras way of talking. Due to the polarity, Aries cannot understand a Libra and Libra cannot understand an Aries. FULLSTOP. I know.. I know we both are speaking english. But when a libra types something, it has way tooo many underlying meanings and questions and explanations which can only be decoded by other air signs. No others can get it completely. Its that simple.
Thing is, I used to like Aries women until I found out something crucial about them.
Aquagirl24 nailed it for me. Now I think I understand. Aries have no respect for anyone.. You see I posted to ask Aries to keep off the Libra boards.. what did they do? They came "MOAR" and more in throngs, insulting left ad right.
That is the biggest factor for me. Aries have no respect for Libra's boundaries.. feelings, words. Nothing. They go by flattery.
And thelibran, you left home without experiencing your mother. Note that I lived with my father for the mst part of my life. My Aunt also is Aries and she loves to drive my life.
I can tell her.. don't come today.. and she is right by my door an hour later. There's one reason why I dislike them greatly. They have no respect for Libras. I don't want someone like that around me.
Okay? Majority of the aries friends I used to have never had any respect for anyone. They only rammed their way through using people for their own benefit.
Thelibran, I am NOT interested to discuss this with you anymore. You can think I am unbalanced all you like; I know that the more Aries I keep out of my life, the more balance I can regain.
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Aquagirl24 nailed it for me. Now I think I understand. Aries have no respect for anyone.. You see I posted to ask Aries to keep off the Libra boards.. what did they do? They came "MOAR" and more in throngs, insulting left ad right.
That is the biggest factor for me. Aries have no respect for Libra's boundaries.. feelings, words. Nothing. They go by flattery.
And thelibran, you left home without experiencing your mother. Note that I lived with my father for the mst part of my life. My Aunt also is Aries and she loves to drive my life.
I can tell her.. don't come today.. and she is right by my door an hour later. There's one reason why I dislike them greatly. They have no respect for Libras. I don't want someone like that around me.
Okay? Majority of the aries friends I used to have never had any respect for anyone. They only rammed their way through using people for their own benefit.
Thelibran, I am NOT interested to discuss this with you anymore. You can think I am unbalanced all you like; I know that the more Aries I keep out of my life, the more balance I can regain.
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Aries is at the bottom of my list (AFTER OPHIUCHUS) on signs libra should marry.
"It's the blatant disregard for one's personal boundaries, followed by the audacity of attempting to dicate another person's feelings/thoughts, and finally the seemingly obliviousness of it all, makes me just want to bash them over the head with a shovel. I would not imagine how any libra woman would be attracted to an aries male, unless maybe he had his fire toned down. ( I have one Aries male friend, who I'm sure has a lot of water in his chart and we're cool..until he thought I liked him and then I had tl leave him alone for a good while)"
Exactly. But I noticed this waaaaaaaaaaay more in Aries females than males. You just look at the boards here right now. Aries conquer Libra territory and tell them what to do.. insult, scold, use filthy words.. Try to eliminate the "enemy".
Aries females don't understand that they cannot ram their way through life, insuting, forcing people to like or even love them. It's plain wrong.
And they usually lose at the love game because they usually fight to "win" someone, when love is not based on that philosophy.
Exactly. But I noticed this waaaaaaaaaaay more in Aries females than males. You just look at the boards here right now. Aries conquer Libra territory and tell them what to do.. insult, scold, use filthy words.. Try to eliminate the "enemy".
Aries females don't understand that they cannot ram their way through life, insuting, forcing people to like or even love them. It's plain wrong.
And they usually lose at the love game because they usually fight to "win" someone, when love is not based on that philosophy.
Posted by sozen
I think this gets to the crux of the issue between Aries and Libra . Its not Aries and Libra as much as it is Aries and Libra of the SAME sex.
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no, just no.
Kris, you don't understand libras as well as you'd think..
"For Aries its simple - just black and white."
Did thelibran say this?
Are you sure—
Damn I find it hilarious you see Aries as such Neanderthals.
It goes to show you know nothing about Aries women..
And that's why you married one. You think they're so simple..
..ad so easily controllable.
You're wrong, dude.
Aries are smarter than Libras in more ways than you think.
Did thelibran say this?
Are you sure—
Damn I find it hilarious you see Aries as such Neanderthals.
It goes to show you know nothing about Aries women..
And that's why you married one. You think they're so simple..
..ad so easily controllable.
You're wrong, dude.
Aries are smarter than Libras in more ways than you think.
Posted by BelovedAssataPosted by sozen
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Now I don't think Aries are stupid or malicious, I just think they are selfish at heart, which isn't a bad thing. It's just annoying when you're around them and have to live with them and have to choose whether you want to 'accomodate them' or not. Which is why I think they could be okay as friends, business partners, work associates, and no strings sex partners but only at arms distance, so if they decided to swing an ax at you, you have sufficient space to duck, dodge, etc.
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Yes. Yes, yes. If they swing something at you, and you're only a distant friend, you can duck.
"Spica, I'm thinking your problem isn't that you got burned by an aries, it's that you let an aries so close to you that you got burned...not wanting to blame the victim but knowing her nature, you should have known better."
I didn't take astrological signs so seriously that time. You know, 'for entertaiment purposes only'?
I experienced something she did (and is stll continuing it until the day she dies) and that is getting what she wants without caring for anything or anyone. Lying through her teeth because that's the only way she can get what she wants.
Aries females know that they are capable of this, that's why they get so angry and try to hide it.
She is doing it to everyone that is in her way, not only me. But I expected her to abide the code of friendship, but friendship doesnt mean anything than getting what they want.
As I already mentioned, I do have aries friends, still. But the good thing is, I never got to know them, that is why they are still my friends. I only see their shell.. and it looks nice.
I didn't take astrological signs so seriously that time. You know, 'for entertaiment purposes only'?
I experienced something she did (and is stll continuing it until the day she dies) and that is getting what she wants without caring for anything or anyone. Lying through her teeth because that's the only way she can get what she wants.
Aries females know that they are capable of this, that's why they get so angry and try to hide it.
She is doing it to everyone that is in her way, not only me. But I expected her to abide the code of friendship, but friendship doesnt mean anything than getting what they want.
As I already mentioned, I do have aries friends, still. But the good thing is, I never got to know them, that is why they are still my friends. I only see their shell.. and it looks nice.
...All the world's a stage...
this is a place for discussion. whether it mimics real life or not, is besides the question...
usually when we narrow down and focus on a topic, it looks more heated than if you diffuse it with loads more random quirps.
But these are my views and I have no reason to withhold anthing for PC reasons.
If I met an Aries down the street, I wouldnt be flaming them or anything.
See, Libras are less fortunate to have Aries as opposites; Aries having Libras as opposites (enemies) make Aries see them as easily conquerable. We stand for peace.. they, War.
I'm just saying Libras should stay away from Aries is all, if they want a peace of mind. So? whether it portends to real life can also depend on one's karma.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
let it go, cutie pie.
you're too sweet for them anyway.
=)
ok, board closed, but only if thelibran doesn't post anymore 😉
libras and their sugar charm..
Aries are selfish ass hell. Aries never really love you, they own you and through ownership they love you. Get it—
Posted by BelovedAssataPosted by sozen
Assanta we are trying to stick to a opposite sign theory here 😛
I know..but I just can't agree. I'm sorry. I can see opposite sign theory work in a business partnership, a work relationship, a 'tolerable' friendship or even a great "one-night-stand" sexual relationship, but not a love relationship, marriage. etc.
Of course other factors come into play but still...I see elements of what spica and thelibran say about aries as true..like..
I do think aries work on instinct and jump and don't think of planning, anything..but at the same time they are good at thinking on their feet...As a warrior, not having a good battle strategy doesn't mean you couldn't be a good swordsman. And the 'cloak n dagger' technique is still a 'warrior strategy'. Feel me?
So they could very well both be right.
Now I don't think Aries are stupid or malicious, I just think they are selfish at heart, which isn't a bad thing. It's just annoying when you're around them and have to live with them and have to choose whether you want to 'accomodate them' or not. Which is why I think they could be okay as friends, business partners, work associates, and no strings sex partners but only at arms distance, so if they decided to swing an ax at you, you have sufficient space to duck, dodge, etc.
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You got it quite close. However there are few slight misrepresentation.
Aries appear selfish. Not truly selfish. They decide whats best for you and they do it without consulting you. Consequences of their action can be not what they intended and puts you in trouble or makes you feel that they are selfish. They just want things to be dont their way. Like libra love to do things our way and dont like others pushing us. Eventhough Aries would find a leo or saggis logic each to understand and appreciate, they dont buy into it 100% bcoz of the variation in standards. Logic of non cardinal signs mostly fail to impress a cardinal sign by nature. Hence if there is a chance Aries is willing to change their plan, that would be because of another Aries or a Libra opp sex.
In one of the older posts, Nick or someone else pointed out the diff between a fighter and a war general. Fighter fights for himself/herself where as war general fights for everyone else. The former one don
Posted by spica
"For Aries its simple - just black and white."
Did thelibran say this?
Are you sure—
Damn I find it hilarious you see Aries as such Neanderthals.
It goes to show you know nothing about Aries women..
And that's why you married one. You think they're so simple..
..ad so easily controllable.
You're wrong, dude.
Aries are smarter than Libras in more ways than you think.
Spica, i already mentioned in my earlier post that its only natural for you to hate an aries women. and you still dont buy that. You can ask a scorpio female how much they hate a taurus women or a saggi on how hard it is for them to stand a gemini. its just the way nature has built around us. Nothing to do with Aries nor libra but the connection and the dynamics within the connection.
Aries dont have the patience to think beyond black and white. Their brain cannot process cluttered information. They cannot read between the lines. Have you ever tried to tease an aries in the standard ways of libra?? They cant get it unless u care to slow down and explain it one by one. However, they would laugh if there are other people around and they understood it and are laughing.
I can feel that you are somehow subscribed to the idea that all people think the same and hence must act the same. Being civilized has nothing to do with Aries nature. They are civilized. Its just their brain is still in baby stage. Cant process things in any other fashion.
Posted by spicaPosted by sozen
I think this gets to the crux of the issue between Aries and Libra . Its not Aries and Libra as much as it is Aries and Libra of the SAME sex.
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no, just no.
Kris, you don't understand libras as well as you'd think..click to expand
He never claimed that he knew libra. He said abt his own experience on opposite zodiac same sex vs opp zodiac opp sex.
few many typos. sorry abt that. typed soon after i woke up. 😄
JOJOJOJOJ, am not sure if u were a guy or a gal. presuming you are a guy, how many aries women you know who are selfish??
Posted by JOJOJO
Aries are selfish ass hell. Aries never really love you, they own you and through ownership they love you. Get it—
JOJOJOJOJ, am not sure if u were a guy or a gal. presuming you are a guy, how many aries women you know who are selfish??
It has nothing to do with having small intelligence or an un-evolved brain, what the fuck is that about? Spica doesn't like aries, but at least she doesn't think they have god damn pea brains, where the hell are you making the implication that one sign is less intelligent than the other...that is ridiculous. God, does your wife know about this 'revelation' you seem to have. Because if I ever caught that shit coming out of my husband's mouth we'd have an altercation that he wouldn't believe, sensitive ego be damned!!!
You failed to read the part where i mentioned that Aries is the only other Zodiac which can truly Challenge a Libra in every way. They are as smart as a libra once u look past their arrogance(usually to hide their fears).
Posted by bluemoon2Posted by thelibranPosted by bluemoon2Posted by thelibranI did comprehend everything you said. What makes you think I didn't?
None of what u say has anything to do with what i was trying to tell u. tats why.
Sure it does. It's just what you do not want to read or hear.
I would say that judging by this response and everything in this thread, I can safely bet the biggest mistake your mother ever did to cause any of your hostile/abusive behavior towards women, especially Aries women who you believe to be inferior. She enabled your behavior if and when she catered to any of your whims. Thus, you now believe that all Aries women should do the same thing.
lol
Are you just plain stupid or what?? I married an Aries babe. I got way tooo many Aries female friends. Dont you ever care to read whatever I typed in the last few pages?
Your spelling is atrocious and you are a "victim" who compares himself to Ghandi. LMFAO! And I am to take you seriously? You're hostile, abusive, and mean... your Aries woman checked out of the relationship already and is taking you on a road to perdition. Look that up while you are at it and profess to know everything about Aries woman. Simply look up "Aries woman road to perdition". You're on it. LMFAO.click to expand
Yea my spelling sucks. I hardly care abt spelling or grammar since its not an exam. Did i compared myself to gandhi?? Where? I do respect him but i dont agree with all of his ideologies.
what annoys me is that you dont read what i type and keep coming back with accusations based on all those wrong ideas you gathered. I really suspect that you only see a few words and build your own idea of what I am typing rather than reading everything and spending a while thinking if you got it right or was I talking about something else. You have been displaying the goldfish memory all along. Its quite evident from every single reply in this thread. So possibilities: either you are on drugs or you are just plain stupid and what spica think about Aries women is quite true in your case. Just in your case. Otherwise, we would have had many more Aries gals replying to
Posted by amethyst2002Posted by thelibran
Yea my spelling sucks. I hardly care abt spelling or grammar since its not an exam.
Please don't use the, "it's not school/a spelling bee/an exam!!!" argument on poor grammar/spelling. It really reflects badly on you and makes you appear ignorant as fuck. Just say you don't care. :p I'm a total grammar nazi and I'll admit I don't give a damn when I chat if I capitalize or use apostrophes.click to expand
I do care when I am writing my book or preparing a project report. Thats when i care i read it a few times and pick on every thing i got wrong. On a forum or while posting on facebook, i cant afford to spend that extra bit of time on cross checking spelling nd grammar.
Posted by BelovedAssataPosted by thelibran
You failed to read the part where i mentioned that Aries is the only other Zodiac which can truly Challenge a Libra in every way. They are as smart as a libra once u look past their arrogance(usually to hide their fears).
No, I read it, but I'm not convinced that you still don't share that view..but no matter, do you.click to expand
Ofcourse I do. Otherwise i wouldn't hv spend a few years trying to find an aries for a partner. I can repeat it one more time if you want - An Aries female can be as good as a Libra male and often compliment them in a relationship and An aries male can be as good as a libra female and compliment them in relationship. If I say equal, u might expect that 1=1 idea but it is not calculated that way. Ones weakness is the strength of the other partner making it almost a perfect combo.
Posted by thelibranPosted by BelovedAssataPosted by thelibran
No, I read it, but I'm not convinced that you still don't share that view..but no matter, do you.
Ofcourse I do. Otherwise i wouldn't hv spend a few years trying to find an aries for a partner.
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Whoa.. you spend a few years trying to find an aries as a partner. Sounds like you arranged your own marriage..
I can bet that your aries pretends to be dumb so she can have the upperhand on you. Plus, if you like aries wome, you must really enjoy being scolded and cursed. Also, she'll flatter and stroke your ego and you'll never notice when she's done bad things..
Just saying 🙂
thelibran, I still think you see Aries in a way to simple fashion. I know an Aries girl who has manipulated a Libra guy this way.. he could never see it because she's strokin' his ego all the time. I guess this combi works because Libra can never see that bit of evil in the aries.. the controlling, jealous part that should never be allowed to see the sun.
I guess when people are around Aries too often, they get immune to their vulgar ways, abuse and obnoxious behavior.. I guess you're one of those who have been immune because they see it so often they think it's normal human behavior.
I guess when people are around Aries too often, they get immune to their vulgar ways, abuse and obnoxious behavior.. I guess you're one of those who have been immune because they see it so often they think it's normal human behavior.
I just stumbled across this forum, so hello to all. I'm a Libra female and for what it's worth, my best friend of many years is an Aries female. I work with quite a few and they can be very hardfaced and aggressive, but there are exceptions.
^Uh oh..
good luck!
good luck!
Posted by BelovedAssata
Feeling like they know what's best for you without any forethought and not caring about the thoughts/feelings/goals of the person they are supposed to care about isn't thst altruistic, that's pretty controlling behavior. I don't care how much 'good' intentions Aries have. It's not altruistic, it's totalitarian, and that's still overall selfish.
Virgo's are controlling but they will not try to 'live your life for you." they'll make suggestions, and they'll criticize but they won't direct, unless the person asks them to. And it'll be small tasks that are relative to the goal, not the goal itself.
Capricorns are controlling and selfish at that they will attend to their own needs first and they'll feel that they know what's best for you and may criticize, but they'll let you make your own mistakes, let you struggle, they won't take the struggle from you.
Libra's can be controlling(manipulative) but we don't want to take away another person's freedom.We'll try to steer them into seeing that we're right or we'll just let them go on their way.
Aries (from just my small experience with men) are the only ones I've seen that will dictate, a conversation, a relationship(feelings/emotions and all, for BOTH parties and not think there's anything wrong with that. I can somewhat see how some people may like it that way, but not me.
It has nothing to do with having small intelligence or an un-evolved brain, what the fuck is that about? Spica doesn't like aries, but at least she doesn't think they have god damn pea brains, where the hell are you making the implication that one sign is less intelligent than the other...that is ridiculous. God, does your wife know about this 'revelation' you seem to have. Because if I ever caught that shit coming out of my husband's mouth we'd have an altercation that he wouldn't believe, sensitive ego be damned!!!
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I just wanted to say thumbs up to this post. I'm surprised no one did yet. The accuracy imo is up there, in almost everything.
"Spica, i already mentioned in my earlier post that its only natural for you to hate an aries women. and you still dont buy that. "
I already told you my closest friends since 11 and 14 were Aries and you didn't buy that. My tolerance for them was very high. I ignored their bad traits of always putting others down to seem superior. I don't hate them BECAUSE they are Aries, but I hated them AFTER their bad traits came to light and I found out they were Aries.
And your theory of opposites attract in this case is flawed. I don't think I will ever find matrimonial bliss with an Aries man; and did you read Assata's post? She concurs.
Although I do have a liking to and can gel well with Aries men (case in point, my father), I know that we dont do well in personal relationships, at least after the intial flame/ act has died down.
I already told you my closest friends since 11 and 14 were Aries and you didn't buy that. My tolerance for them was very high. I ignored their bad traits of always putting others down to seem superior. I don't hate them BECAUSE they are Aries, but I hated them AFTER their bad traits came to light and I found out they were Aries.
And your theory of opposites attract in this case is flawed. I don't think I will ever find matrimonial bliss with an Aries man; and did you read Assata's post? She concurs.
Although I do have a liking to and can gel well with Aries men (case in point, my father), I know that we dont do well in personal relationships, at least after the intial flame/ act has died down.
Maybe, thelibran, being with an Aries for so long has dulled you sensitivity to such a point you can't read messages Libra- style . I find myself needing to repeat again and again the same few points. But then you did as well. In this case, we can just agree to disagree. No harm done.
But also note that I explained to you at least in symbols and astrological language; you explained your points to me in a way that seems like it fits an opinion of yours. Maybe if you can explain to me why you think that ONLY females of the opposite sign or ONLY males of the opposite sign "hate" each other in astrological jargon, then maybe it can be worth more of a discussion.
Because if you read Goodman, or other astrologers, they say Libra-Aries is a SHORT TERM attraction, hardly durable for anything such as marriage. UNLESS the tolerance level of both parties is unusually high. So?
But also note that I explained to you at least in symbols and astrological language; you explained your points to me in a way that seems like it fits an opinion of yours. Maybe if you can explain to me why you think that ONLY females of the opposite sign or ONLY males of the opposite sign "hate" each other in astrological jargon, then maybe it can be worth more of a discussion.
Because if you read Goodman, or other astrologers, they say Libra-Aries is a SHORT TERM attraction, hardly durable for anything such as marriage. UNLESS the tolerance level of both parties is unusually high. So?
"Because if you read Goodman, or other astrologers, they say Libra-Aries is a SHORT TERM attraction, hardly durable for anything such as marriage. UNLESS the tolerance level of both parties is unusually high"
Yes, many internet astrology sites claim this, some also claim that Aries/Libra will either repel or attract, depending on other placements in their charts.
Yes, many internet astrology sites claim this, some also claim that Aries/Libra will either repel or attract, depending on other placements in their charts.
"But any as far as compliments I take a fiery taurus and a leo over an aries any day."
You see I agree with you, but let not anyone misconstrue we are a team.. I don't even need a fiery Taurus. I'd take a Taurus with plenty Libra, and a nice Leo. But just sayin'.
You see I agree with you, but let not anyone misconstrue we are a team.. I don't even need a fiery Taurus. I'd take a Taurus with plenty Libra, and a nice Leo. But just sayin'.
I just want to drop off the face of DXP land, but I'm too sentimental about my posts.
What I don't mind, is that the Rams think they have "won".. or thelibra thinks he's right.
I mean, RARRRRR this butter sucks anyway.
It's just a vortex of FLOW.
of focused thoughts. Nothing more.
Carry on
😄
What I don't mind, is that the Rams think they have "won".. or thelibra thinks he's right.
I mean, RARRRRR this butter sucks anyway.
It's just a vortex of FLOW.
of focused thoughts. Nothing more.
Carry on
😄
Posted by aquagirl24
hey this is degenerating what does it mean, uve spent years findin an aries as a partner lol, thats a lil bit crazy isnt it— maybe we are speaking about obsessive-compulsive disorder now, lol, account surely to be deleted, i like to know what my partners sign is, but i wudnt choose a person for its sign, this is a little stupid lol. as i said this is no longer place for me lolol. its interesting to know how ur birth chart influences your personality and how astrology affects everyday life, but i wudnt put my life in the hands of stars lol. i have my life in my own hands. what i do on monday, its moon-day so i do this? no i programme my life due to what i need in that moment, not due to the stars lol.
Lemme ask you this, why does people spend years going to college to study a subject they are passionate about?? Can that be considered as obsessive compelsive disorder as well? Why is that people prefer to jump in for whatever they can get in life without being critical about your life partner when they are willing to spend years studying about a subject in a college?
Posted by spica
"Spica, i already mentioned in my earlier post that its only natural for you to hate an aries women. and you still dont buy that. "
I already told you my closest friends since 11 and 14 were Aries and you didn't buy that. My tolerance for them was very high. I ignored their bad traits of always putting others down to seem superior. I don't hate them BECAUSE they are Aries, but I hated them AFTER their bad traits came to light and I found out they were Aries.
And your theory of opposites attract in this case is flawed. I don't think I will ever find matrimonial bliss with an Aries man; and did you read Assata's post? She concurs.
Although I do have a liking to and can gel well with Aries men (case in point, my father), I know that we dont do well in personal relationships, at least after the intial flame/ act has died down.
You cant bring your father in as an exception. You are with a libra now, So stay there. I am not encouraging you to jump. I am telling you that you are being overly critical about Aries without really knowing them and the only way you can know them is by knowing an Aries man. Having aries female friends at 11 and 14 doesn't count. Thats where Libra faces everything from Aries which you have been going on over and over again for past one year(like their attitude and aggression and lies and so on). If you bring your experience with Aries men except your dad, then its valid as an experience of a polar opposite of opp sexes theory. Till then you are arguing with yourself. ASsate is stuck with a Taurus. Sad but tats next bad thing to being with a Capricorn.
Nothing you have speculated comes close to my Aries wife or any of my Aries friends. Not in the eyes of a libra Man. In the eyes of a libra women, yes it is 100% true.
Posted by BelovedAssata
No I understand and have no problem with your overall theory, looking for one's compliment is fine. Not going to engage in a pseudo-psychological fruedian analysis with you, trying to keep on topic. I just refuse to entertain the notion that one sign is of less intelligence than the other and that one sign is incapable of "going against the grain" of they're 'original programming'.
Its one thing to talk about perceived flaws that one sign has vs. another..that's all well in good. It's another thing to say that this sign can't get over their flaws because their brains are not evolved enough to allow them to. THAT I take offense to.
When i made the jest that I consider all Aries men to be like Johnny Bravo, I was in no way trying to say that I thought they were stupid. I thought they were oblivious. Maybe oblivious can be interpreted as stupidity to some people at first glance but I just think that it's just (again) stemming from their overall selfish nature(and frankly every sign is a bit self serving so this point is prolly just moot anyway.) They act that way, not because they can't..it's cuz they don't know or sometimes(prolly most of the time) don't care.
I never said one sign is superior than another and one is less intelligent. What i said that Aries brain functions in a totally opposite way to Libras at its core. Hence its a painful experience for both to understand each other as what they are and both wont like each other when it comes to same sex. When I say they are simple minded, I dont intend it as anything negative. If I say their brain works like a childs, I dont mean any insult. I do have more respect for kids(not confused teenagers) than adults.
Before we dig in, you need to know that each zodiac has its own pros and cons. If an individual try to find out his own negative side and find ways to bypass them, then he/she becomes much better than any other group of people. Honestly, 99.999% of human beings have not much of clue about themselves. They only notice when an observer makes a specific critical observation. Till then, they remain clueless about themselves. Society has manipulated our social understanding to a point where we expect people to behave in a certain manner than what they originally are. Which I am totally against. Thats one reason we get to see so many phony people around.
So in the eyes of a libra fe
So in the eyes of a libra female, aries female will always come across as a big pain in the butt. Its purely NATURE. thats all I was saying. And if any libra girl get close to Aries men, then they would know how different Aries can be. Libra girls can only understand Aries women in an objective fashion by learning and Aries man.
something not so right with dxp today. its the 3rd time i had to post and something missin
Posted by thelibran
So in the eyes of a libra female, aries female will always come across as a big pain in the butt. Its purely NATURE. thats all I was saying. And if any libra girl get close to Aries men, then they would know how different Aries can be. Libra girls can only understand Aries women in an objective fashion by learning and Aries man.
something not so right with dxp today. its the 3rd time i had to post and something missin
DXP cuts you off when your word limit reaches its maximum for a post.
I think this discussion should end here. It's getting nowhere.
AND.
AND.
Just note that everyone's original stance still stands.
And that's INCLUDING yours, thelibran.
On a side note,
Have a happy marriage..
don't think so much. Just do it.
Posted by spicaPosted by thelibran
So in the eyes of a libra female, aries female will always come across as a big pain in the butt. Its purely NATURE. thats all I was saying. And if any libra girl get close to Aries men, then they would know how different Aries can be. Libra girls can only understand Aries women in an objective fashion by learning and Aries man.
something not so right with dxp today. its the 3rd time i had to post and something missin
DXP cuts you off when your word limit reaches its maximum for a post.
I think this discussion should end here. It's getting nowhere.
AND.
AND.
Just note that everyone's original stance still stands.
And that's INCLUDING yours, thelibran.
On a side note,
Have a happy marriage..
don't think so much. Just do it.click to expand
usually it says that i exceed word limit. this time it didnt.
your last line sounds like its coming from an Aries. 😛
"your last line sounds like its coming from an Aries."
It was intentionally crafted Aries style .
It was intentionally crafted Aries style .
I appreciate this thread. Have only read the first page so far and I do not agree with every detail but I can relate to both loving and despising an Aries. My mother, who I love very much but often do not particularly like is an Aries Sun + Venus and my Sun, Asc, & Mercury are all 3 Libra. The struggle is real! It's insanely challenging, frustrating, and even depressing to grow up playing the more emotionally mature and intellectual role in a parent/child relationship. I however happen to love my parents despite often not liking them. (Father is a Cancer Sun, it was a mess..)
There are some very specific "Libra"/"Aries" does this that I wish were more open ended. In astrology and especially with Sun signs the energies that are present and available do not always manifest. I like to refer to things each sign might do more as a tendency. Every trait depends on the rest of the chart. For example, I am not particularly optimistic and I am rarely na??ve, except occasionally during early stages of falling in love. (I have posted on another thread that I am slightly more optimistic than my Virgo husband.. but he can be quite the worrier so that is purely relative. I am almost never nearly as positive as for example a Sag.) Also I don't have dimples! Wtf? Envious. I've always fallen for guys with them though. Husband is Lib Asc and has them so I get my fix. 🙂
I also disagree with OP that Aries always matures with age.. Again the synergy of the entire chart is so important. My mother for example is perpetually mentally young (..dare I say immature?) We're talking Leo Moon, Aries Venus, Gemini Mars, and get this.. Taurus Mercury.. so especially w that Gem Mars everything going on in her mind gets bulldozed onto everyone around her. YIKES.
I look forward to reading more of the thread.
There are some very specific "Libra"/"Aries" does this that I wish were more open ended. In astrology and especially with Sun signs the energies that are present and available do not always manifest. I like to refer to things each sign might do more as a tendency. Every trait depends on the rest of the chart. For example, I am not particularly optimistic and I am rarely na??ve, except occasionally during early stages of falling in love. (I have posted on another thread that I am slightly more optimistic than my Virgo husband.. but he can be quite the worrier so that is purely relative. I am almost never nearly as positive as for example a Sag.) Also I don't have dimples! Wtf? Envious. I've always fallen for guys with them though. Husband is Lib Asc and has them so I get my fix. 🙂
I also disagree with OP that Aries always matures with age.. Again the synergy of the entire chart is so important. My mother for example is perpetually mentally young (..dare I say immature?) We're talking Leo Moon, Aries Venus, Gemini Mars, and get this.. Taurus Mercury.. so especially w that Gem Mars everything going on in her mind gets bulldozed onto everyone around her. YIKES.
I look forward to reading more of the thread.
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