Aries & Libra in detail... (Page 3)

OP, your refusal to believe that Spica could have a childhood Aries friend is annoying and irrational.

"..Aries mothers are controlling without logic. Purely instinctive. Now you cannot know it unless you had an Aries mother."
-This I can agree with to a degree. My mother has logic, it is simply often not thought through as thoroughly as I would prefer.

Agreed Aries are very selfish and have trouble seeing others points of view, but it is not impossible to get them to if they respect you. Example, my mother has very high respect for me. I can't explain why exactly except that my chart is actually more Cardinal than hers and her opinion is that I am very intelligent, fair, strong, and brave. So while it can be Exhausting to show her differing points of view, I have learned to grasp her attention (very challenging, must be tough and strong) and then walk her through it in a way that she has experienced or could imagine herself experiencing. If she has zero ties to a particular situation she simply cannot understand it.

Other side of the selfish spectrum, my Aries mother can be exceptionally giving, caring, & generous. It's a surprising balance that I still do not fully understand.

Posted by spica


I guess when people are around Aries too often, they get immune to their vulgar ways, abuse and obnoxious behavior.. I guess you're one of those who have been immune because they see it so often they think it's normal human behavior.

I have never grown accustomed to obnoxious behavior, it is infuriating and normal or not, unacceptable.

And it is entirely probable to be friends with anyone especially for a Libra with high tolerance. I actually have this trait where I tend to dislike majority of people very much when I first meet them.. but if I spend enough time with them, have enough interaction I nearly ALWAYS grow to appreciate them for their positive attributes. It doesn't erase their negative ones, I simply have a very balanced view of life and the whole "rainclouds silver lining" thing. Even people I dislike I acknowledge nice things about them.

You do realize how old this thread is, right?

Lol! I do now! MoonBlue dug it up. hmm..

Haha, just wondering. Sometimes they randomly pop up and you have no idea until you've responded and then check the dates and are like "wtf is this doing here??" :/

LOL rockyroad I feel as if I walked into a wax museum without realizing it, starting interacting with the figures and while anticipating a response you tapped me on the shoulder like, "Uhhhm.. You realize they will never respond right?" _??

Posted by Curiousram

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Haha, just wondering. Sometimes they randomly pop up and you have no idea until you've responded and then check the dates and are like "wtf is this doing here??" :/

Smh i didnt look...

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We're all getting punked.

Posted by thelibran
The good ones are rare to find I agree. Took me years to spot one. Before I met her, I met so many Aries girls. Most of them already spoiled. Crazy, stubborn, annoying, foolish.. u name it. But there was always a friendly part in them which was nice to spot and be friendly with. Even though i never agreed to what or how they lead their lives. Many of them regretted badly but they dont let themselves change easily due to this goldfish memory issues I suppose. Most arguments or suggestions would always end with "I dont care. fck u". Knew one who was seeing a married man, ended up getting slapped nd humiliated in public by his wife when she found out and later she tried to commit suicide and still lives a delusional life. Sweet nice girl, but stupid beyond libras capabilities of comprehension.

I would blame it on their non-thinking way of life without considering the consequences. Most of what we are now in this time period is because of the stupid notions of the current society and the way it grooms us all to face life. Too many choices. Clueless about life and know a lot abt insignificant subject. Olden days they never stood a chance. Always got married off at an early age and that was it. Now things are different.

True . the good one are really hard to find.They think their logic are the best one and act like they are the smartest but they really are not , they are so impulsif that they do stupid stuff they shouldn't do .If they can be fun it's for a while because their dramaqueen temper isn't show off yet .The positive aspects : they are honest just like me,are energetic, when they do something bad they can admit that they did wrong, are crazy in good/bad ways. In long term i do not think libran & aries can work , only for a short time..