Do u and why do you weigh options alot when it comes to relationships how do people take you serious if it takes you a long time to decide if the relationship is for you to commit? What do u want in a partner. Do u act differently when in love
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Do u and why do you weigh options alot when it comes to relationships how do people take you serious if it takes you a long time to decide if the relationship is for you to commit? What do u want in a partner. Do u act differently when in love
@lovely77 I don't know if you only want Libra guys to reply, but I'll speak as a Libra woman.
1. Weigh Options - I absolutely do. It's sickening and I would give anything to make up my freaking mind sometimes. From everything to what I'm going to wear, what I'm going to eat or what man to choose. It's really hard on us actually. We don't enjoy it.
2. Taken seriosuly - Oh people don't take me seriously...I have friends that I've been loyal to for years get mad at me because they think I'm flaky. But that's a misconception, I'm not flaky, I just do WHAT I WANT TO DO. I like to think for myself and do things my way. I'm usually a go with the flow type of person, so when I go against the flow people can't handle it and think I'm not really involved with them. I hope this is making sense. I tell my friends all of the time, I am serious and I'm always gonna be your friend, but you can't control me, lol. That makes us look flaky to some people. But I never promise to do anything and then back out..that's flaky.
3. Committment - We will commit in time. We like to weigh options and this takes time. But if I'm talking to you daily and you're apart of my life, then you're the front-runner. I'm just not ready to completely give myself to you yet. Give this time, we will commit when we're ready...and then watch out...you better give us 100% , or else those old options start too look good again. Sad to say, but I'm telling you the raw truth.
4. Act differently in love - ABSOLUTELY. When I'm in love, you got me. I'm not going anywhere. Just treat me right, and you'll be the happiest person ever. I'm happy, optimistic, supportive and always there for you. I'll drop everything to rush to you if you need me. You're my top priority and you can feel that. Just don't drop the ball, if there's no reciprocation, then you have hell on your hands. I'll let you know how I feel, but if you don't do anything about it then, good luck keeping me, lol.
1. Weigh Options - I absolutely do. It's sickening and I would give anything to make up my freaking mind sometimes. From everything to what I'm going to wear, what I'm going to eat or what man to choose. It's really hard on us actually. We don't enjoy it.
2. Taken seriosuly - Oh people don't take me seriously...I have friends that I've been loyal to for years get mad at me because they think I'm flaky. But that's a misconception, I'm not flaky, I just do WHAT I WANT TO DO. I like to think for myself and do things my way. I'm usually a go with the flow type of person, so when I go against the flow people can't handle it and think I'm not really involved with them. I hope this is making sense. I tell my friends all of the time, I am serious and I'm always gonna be your friend, but you can't control me, lol. That makes us look flaky to some people. But I never promise to do anything and then back out..that's flaky.
3. Committment - We will commit in time. We like to weigh options and this takes time. But if I'm talking to you daily and you're apart of my life, then you're the front-runner. I'm just not ready to completely give myself to you yet. Give this time, we will commit when we're ready...and then watch out...you better give us 100% , or else those old options start too look good again. Sad to say, but I'm telling you the raw truth.
4. Act differently in love - ABSOLUTELY. When I'm in love, you got me. I'm not going anywhere. Just treat me right, and you'll be the happiest person ever. I'm happy, optimistic, supportive and always there for you. I'll drop everything to rush to you if you need me. You're my top priority and you can feel that. Just don't drop the ball, if there's no reciprocation, then you have hell on your hands. I'll let you know how I feel, but if you don't do anything about it then, good luck keeping me, lol.
Posted by Sugarfootoh my god sugarcoat, stop reading my mind!!!! 😄
I weigh options because I don't want to make a huge mistake that not only involves my emotions but someone else's too.
Posted by SugarfootcapPosted by jeaneSowwy LOL. I have the same thoughts when I read your posts. What's ur asc?Posted by Sugarfootoh my god sugarcoat, stop reading my mind!!!! 😄
I weigh options because I don't want to make a huge mistake that not only involves my emotions but someone else's too.click to expand
4. Act differently in love - ABSOLUTELY. When I'm in love, you got me. I'm not going anywhere. Just treat me right, and you'll be the happiest person ever. I'm happy, optimistic, supportive and always there for you. I'll drop everything to rush to you if you need me. You're my top priority and you can feel that. Just don't drop the ball, if there's no reciprocation, then you have hell on your hands. I'll let you know how I feel, but if you don't do anything about it then, good luck keeping me, lol.
---THIS IS MEEEEE!! @JustWantToBeLoved entire post got me in a nut shell. HAHA! I just did this, and boy was he pissed off. But i'm like um...dude. I've been telling you. We miss you yes, but enough is enough.
---THIS IS MEEEEE!! @JustWantToBeLoved entire post got me in a nut shell. HAHA! I just did this, and boy was he pissed off. But i'm like um...dude. I've been telling you. We miss you yes, but enough is enough.
Ahh, yes I do have trouble getting people to take me seriously at times, and unfortunately for them they often start to take me serious when it’s too late, and the ticker is..THEY LIKE TO BLAME ME!
LOL. Crazy right?
I give off warning, send smoke signals, talk in reasonable tones, I try to understand all issues and come up with every solution possible that works in both favors until I have no choice but to just throw up my hands.
In matters of friendships I just recently got called a fake friend, for not coming to my friends defense in a way SHE thought I should. Her and a guy I was dating got into a really heated argument over the STUPIDIST thing in the world, I admit the guy was wrong for flicking her upside the head with his finger, but he barely touched her because I was in the middle of them keeping them from killing one another. Anyway long story short, she got mad because I didn’t leave him at the bar in a city about a hour away from where we all lived, they both rode with me so I took him to a gas station and dropped him off as he requested, and then took her home I just wanted everyone to go home and sleep it off. She’s telling people I’m a fake friend and I let my guy hit her in the face. Not true. When I say he barely touched her I mean it, but I didn’t hesitate to let him know he was dead wrong and shouldn’t have touched her at all, he offered to take me out to dinner and apologize to my friend but I told him it was too late. She wrote me off as a friend, and said she no longer wants to be friends, she claims I chose him over her when I didn’t kick him out the car. I wish I would’ve gotten security a lot sooner, but it all happen so fast, and I seriously didn’t expect him to reach over my head and flick her. Smh.
Whats crazy is I wound up breaking things off with him two days later for other reasons. Crazy life of mines.
LOL. Crazy right?
I give off warning, send smoke signals, talk in reasonable tones, I try to understand all issues and come up with every solution possible that works in both favors until I have no choice but to just throw up my hands.
In matters of friendships I just recently got called a fake friend, for not coming to my friends defense in a way SHE thought I should. Her and a guy I was dating got into a really heated argument over the STUPIDIST thing in the world, I admit the guy was wrong for flicking her upside the head with his finger, but he barely touched her because I was in the middle of them keeping them from killing one another. Anyway long story short, she got mad because I didn’t leave him at the bar in a city about a hour away from where we all lived, they both rode with me so I took him to a gas station and dropped him off as he requested, and then took her home I just wanted everyone to go home and sleep it off. She’s telling people I’m a fake friend and I let my guy hit her in the face. Not true. When I say he barely touched her I mean it, but I didn’t hesitate to let him know he was dead wrong and shouldn’t have touched her at all, he offered to take me out to dinner and apologize to my friend but I told him it was too late. She wrote me off as a friend, and said she no longer wants to be friends, she claims I chose him over her when I didn’t kick him out the car. I wish I would’ve gotten security a lot sooner, but it all happen so fast, and I seriously didn’t expect him to reach over my head and flick her. Smh.
Whats crazy is I wound up breaking things off with him two days later for other reasons. Crazy life of mines.
Posted by lovely77Because they are the scale, constantly weighing options, up down up down, until everything is balanced, then they will commit. I'm sorry but the first question is silly. This is basic astrology, weighing options = scales = balance = libra's symbol..... this is obvious, don't think too hard
Do u and why do you weigh options alot when it comes to relationships how do people take you serious if it takes you a long time to decide if the relationship is for you to commit? What do u want in a partner. Do u act differently when in love
I like everyone responses i can dig it. I will give them time I really like them. @justwant2bloved great detail.
Posted by Sugarfootwe share the same moon too. honestly, i usually find if you've already contributed to a thread, i have nothing to add.Posted by jeaneLol we both have cold risings. Where is your venus and mars?Posted by SugarfootcapPosted by jeaneSowwy LOL. I have the same thoughts when I read your posts. What's ur asc?Posted by Sugarfootoh my god sugarcoat, stop reading my mind!!!! 😄
I weigh options because I don't want to make a huge mistake that not only involves my emotions but someone else's too.click to expand
i've got scorp and libra. what is yours?
Posted by JustWant2bLovedI love this. ðŸ‘ðŸ‘
@lovely77 I don't know if you only want Libra guys to reply, but I'll speak as a Libra woman.
1. Weigh Options - I absolutely do. It's sickening and I would give anything to make up my freaking mind sometimes. From everything to what I'm going to wear, what I'm going to eat or what man to choose. It's really hard on us actually. We don't enjoy it.
2. Taken seriosuly - Oh people don't take me seriously...I have friends that I've been loyal to for years get mad at me because they think I'm flaky. But that's a misconception, I'm not flaky, I just do WHAT I WANT TO DO. I like to think for myself and do things my way. I'm usually a go with the flow type of person, so when I go against the flow people can't handle it and think I'm not really involved with them. I hope this is making sense. I tell my friends all of the time, I am serious and I'm always gonna be your friend, but you can't control me, lol. That makes us look flaky to some people. But I never promise to do anything and then back out..that's flaky.
3. Committment - We will commit in time. We like to weigh options and this takes time. But if I'm talking to you daily and you're apart of my life, then you're the front-runner. I'm just not ready to completely give myself to you yet. Give this time, we will commit when we're ready...and then watch out...you better give us 100% , or else those old options start too look good again. Sad to say, but I'm telling you the raw truth.
4. Act differently in love - ABSOLUTELY. When I'm in love, you got me. I'm not going anywhere. Just treat me right, and you'll be the happiest person ever. I'm happy, optimistic, supportive and always there for you. I'll drop everything to rush to you if you need me. You're my top priority and you can feel that. Just don't drop the ball, if there's no reciprocation, then you have hell on your hands. I'll let you know how I feel, but if you don't do anything about it then, good luck keeping me, lol.
Posted by SugarfootPosted by jeaneSame. We have such similar thought processes, I was wondering what could account for some of the differences. I don't even acknowledge many of the times you've said exactly what was on my mind. Happens too much lol!Posted by Sugarfootwe share the same moon too. honestly, i usually find if you've already contributed to a thread, i have nothing to add.Posted by jeaneLol we both have cold risings. Where is your venus and mars?Posted by SugarfootcapPosted by jeaneSowwy LOL. I have the same thoughts when I read your posts. What's ur asc?Posted by Sugarfootoh my god sugarcoat, stop reading my mind!!!! 😄
I weigh options because I don't want to make a huge mistake that not only involves my emotions but someone else's too.
i've got scorp and libra. what is yours?
Libra Venus
Leo Mars
click to expand
Why don't you two private message each other? I thought Libras were considerate.
So can someone tell me why libras may not be satisfied what do u want. My libra is being complex thought i gave them everything
Yes they just say they will know when find it then i daid well im not good enough then they say i never said i wasnt good enough like wtf. I give them everything i feel im being the best me i can be now after almost 10 months its making me feel like thry dont care im being taking advantage then when i said that to them they got extremely upset. ....hey actions...if u act like u dont care dont get mad when i say u dont. I feel like cutting them off when reach year mark. I believe in fairness but in life its about appreciation and the little things...im just sad right now
A libra will never come right out and say "sorry, your just not good enough"
lol. Thats just mean, and goes against everything we stand for.
You sort of have to get use to reading between the lines sometimes with a Libra. If they have to say something mean if they care they will always try to butter it up to soften the blow. Get used to it. If you want them to be bluntly honest, piss them off.LOL. That should do the trick, because at that point they will no longer care about hurting your feelings...sorry to say but even then they may just give you an evil deadly stare, and disappear out of your life good.
lol. Thats just mean, and goes against everything we stand for.
You sort of have to get use to reading between the lines sometimes with a Libra. If they have to say something mean if they care they will always try to butter it up to soften the blow. Get used to it. If you want them to be bluntly honest, piss them off.LOL. That should do the trick, because at that point they will no longer care about hurting your feelings...sorry to say but even then they may just give you an evil deadly stare, and disappear out of your life good.
They do it because everyone they date is a potential wife to them haha.
Posted by Dyxpnetuser424Posted by SugarfootPosted by jeaneSame. We have such similar thought processes, I was wondering what could account for some of the differences. I don't even acknowledge many of the times you've said exactly what was on my mind. Happens too much lol!Posted by Sugarfootwe share the same moon too. honestly, i usually find if you've already contributed to a thread, i have nothing to add.Posted by jeaneLol we both have cold risings. Where is your venus and mars?Posted by SugarfootcapPosted by jeaneSowwy LOL. I have the same thoughts when I read your posts. What's ur asc?Posted by Sugarfootoh my god sugarcoat, stop reading my mind!!!! 😄
I weigh options because I don't want to make a huge mistake that not only involves my emotions but someone else's too.
i've got scorp and libra. what is yours?
Libra Venus
Leo Mars
Why don't you two private message each other? I thought Libras were considerate.click to expand
I hear everyone. Well i felt like they were taking advantage and not appreciating me because i give them everything they want and when i say no they get upset. For example few weeks ago they asked for money i said no they said fine ill go get it from my ex. I got into with them like hey i know we just dating but do u see all stuff i do for u then i throw your ex in my face. Then its been 9 months why are we still dating why not take it to next level i mean hell im already do gf things. So i feel they dont care. When i said this it really upset them....but hey as i said their actions made me feel they didnt care. Then when im being a queen toward u u tell me its not good enough. I know libras want the best but this indecisive stuff is really blowing me. Its like u dont realize what u have till its gone. But also at same time we r just dating so i let them slide try understand their side too
Someone mentioned on here bow attract libra....thry had money pic i so feel like some libras only care about u taking care of their needs at times. Then when i say no they become a brat. I want us to be together we beem dating for 9 months where is this going........they still thinking lol
@lovely77 I agree with @sugarfoot this is not a Libra issue that's just user/jerk issue. Please do not judge all Libra behind this clown. I know it's hard, but you need to move on. Cry for a few days, sulk, listen to sad music and IGNORE HIM. The sooner you get him out of your system, the sooner you'll be in a better place.
Thanks @LibWman and @Lyse I'm loving this board. I love being able to explain myself this way. Most people just DO NOT understand me at all...oh the get the person I show them (we Libras can be really surface with people for a long time), but we have depth that most people don't see...so they call us flaky *sigh*.
@Lyse Regarding what happened with 'that girl' that was supposed to be your friend. I've been in situations similar to yours. And the bottom line is we choose our battles. We don't like that kind of drama so blowing that flick-her-in-the-head out of proportion is not something we'll do. More than likely, he was just playing and didn't mean any harm. I think this is where our weighing the scales come into play. He probably just took it to far and needed to be checked, but not treated like a crazy abuser. Geez...was she a water sign? The most drama-filled people! We are peaceful people, and in that instance I bet you wanted her to just calm down, him apologize and everybody just move on...totally Libra thinking, lol.
Thanks @LibWman and @Lyse I'm loving this board. I love being able to explain myself this way. Most people just DO NOT understand me at all...oh the get the person I show them (we Libras can be really surface with people for a long time), but we have depth that most people don't see...so they call us flaky *sigh*.
@Lyse Regarding what happened with 'that girl' that was supposed to be your friend. I've been in situations similar to yours. And the bottom line is we choose our battles. We don't like that kind of drama so blowing that flick-her-in-the-head out of proportion is not something we'll do. More than likely, he was just playing and didn't mean any harm. I think this is where our weighing the scales come into play. He probably just took it to far and needed to be checked, but not treated like a crazy abuser. Geez...was she a water sign? The most drama-filled people! We are peaceful people, and in that instance I bet you wanted her to just calm down, him apologize and everybody just move on...totally Libra thinking, lol.
@justwant2bloved i love libras my ex was actually a libra my longest rel unfortunately i was in an abusive rel. My current libra seems more laid back more my speed so far etc despite our dating me wanting to take to next level but them not being ready. Im a water sign and im far from emotional or drama filled of anything im too laid back for some ppl but as mentioned not all signs are alike. Im just trying to figure mt libra out I really love care for them im just trying to understand thete wants needs when i feel like i give them everything and mind u we jusy datinggggggg going on 10 months im giving a dead line then moving on. 😢 in meantime ill court them b there do whatever i can. If they miss out then hey moving on
I loved your example by the way also my libra has moon cancer venus scorpio
I loved your example by the way also my libra has moon cancer venus scorpio
True @sugarfoot
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