Can't get over it :(

I pride myself on my ability to remain detached from my emotions in times of need..like when I need to leave a relationship. But this relationship with aries that ended has got me in a mess. I can't seem to get a grip of my emotions at all, and have lost my emotional and mental balance. What do other librans do? Suggestions about keeping busy/friends/self love won't help because I do these things already.

Only time helps. I think you have to meet someone else that you like more to be able to get over it.

I've been pining over an Aqua for practically a year and still can't get over it. I feel pathetic sometimes. I just know what I want and don't settle for less. I know that I want him.

I haven't met anyone else in my area that made me feel that way and that was so sweet and harsh like him. I love a great mixture of truth and sweetness. A person that doesn't hold back and says the sweet stuff on accident, without even realizing it.

I'm not a Libra, but was just trying to help 🙂

Yeah, I'm boring myself to death just replaying the situation over and over. I want him so bad but he let me go and I can't change his mind. I have a sag moon, I resonate more with that sometimes. Some days I feel like i'm done, the next I'm back to feeling so bad.

My friends are great and listen to me when I do feel the need to talk about it, but like I say..it's getting boring now. My feelings just don't seem to be fading at all, usually I can bounce back. Just proves it really was love on my part and my feelings were real.

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Yeah, I'm boring myself to death just replaying the situation over and over. I want him so bad but he let me go and I can't change his mind. I have a sag moon, I resonate more with that sometimes. Some days I feel like i'm done, the next I'm back to feeling so bad.

If that's not a Sag characteristic, I don't know what is! lol. Be thankful that you get some relief half the time lol

I can't! I initiated a couple of times but he was cold and didn't engage. That's all the sign a person needs to quit but my feelings continue. I couldn't put myself out there again, the rejection would kill me.

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Only time helps. I think you have to meet someone else that you like more to be able to get over it.

I've been pining over an Aqua for practically a year and still can't get over it. I feel pathetic sometimes. I just know what I want and don't settle for less. I know that I want him.

I haven't met anyone else in my area that made me feel that way and that was so sweet and harsh like him. I love a great mixture of truth and sweetness. A person that doesn't hold back and says the sweet stuff on accident, without even realizing it.

I'm not a Libra, but was just trying to help 🙂

Tell Aqua that girl. Verbatim.

He will accept in the spirit it’s given... you miss his friendship.

Everyone misses the friendship with Aqua.

Tell him. Don’t get emo but be self expressed and fearless we love that

By telling him you’ll release yourself from any perceived binds going on. You’ll literally potentiate in yourself ‘love’ which attracts love.

If it doesn’t work out you know that you’re free. You didn’t leave one stone unturned and you can be available to the bounty of blessings in store around you. 💌🙏🏽

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Girl my emotions come with the territory. I'm not shy and don't hold them back. I am extremely overwhelming and almost over do it when I telling someone I love something. I just go on and on. I hold nothing back. And I won't be free, I will just try again! I don't give in and wont give up until I have what I want, or unless he is harsh and flat out tells me that he doesn't like me at all. It's the only way I will give up.

I told him that I missed the friendship before, but my lack of constant communication ends up hurting our friendship. I just don't text or talk often and it's a real problem when I don't check in with him or let him know what I'm doing. It's like I'm in my own world not paying attention to something. Then when he gets upset and snaps at me, I take it personally and go hide out for a few weeks until the hurt is gone. I think he's just tired of my shit! I told him that I would never go anywhere, that I just needed time to get over the words he says that hurt me.

It's annoying how dumb little things end up hurting me when I care about someone. I can't help it. I was hurt by someone else this weekend, but have to just learn how to deal with it and move on from it. I can't force anyone to accept me. I can only love and take care of myself.

You have water in your chart and can connect on an emotional level better, he unfortunately has only one placement in water. He's mostly fire and air, and I'm a big ass puddle of water lol

I have no water in my chart, only libra, sag and virgo! I'm so bad at emotions, but he knew I loved him. I wish I could just ask to meet to talk, not to reconcile, but I just don't think it would go down well at all. So, im stuck in this damned self inflicted limbo.

Haha Tiz, I guess it's a lose/lose situation all round! I'm waiting for a miracle, that he'll reach out to me 🙂

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Only time helps. I think you have to meet someone else that you like more to be able to get over it.

I've been pining over an Aqua for practically a year and still can't get over it. I feel pathetic sometimes. I just know what I want and don't settle for less. I know that I want him.

I haven't met anyone else in my area that made me feel that way and that was so sweet and harsh like him. I love a great mixture of truth and sweetness. A person that doesn't hold back and says the sweet stuff on accident, without even realizing it.

I'm not a Libra, but was just trying to help 🙂

Tell Aqua that girl. Verbatim.

He will accept in the spirit it’s given... you miss his friendship.

Everyone misses the friendship with Aqua.

Tell him. Don’t get emo but be self expressed and fearless we love that

By telling him you’ll release yourself from any perceived binds going on. You’ll literally potentiate in yourself ‘love’ which attracts love.

If it doesn’t work out you know that you’re free. You didn’t leave one stone unturned and you can be available to the bounty of blessings in store around you. 💌🙏🏽

Girl my emotions come with the territory. I'm not shy and don't hold them back. I am extremely overwhelming and almost over do it when I telling someone I love something. I just go on and on. I hold nothing back. And I won't be free, I will just try again! I don't give in and wont give up until I have what I want, or unless he is harsh and flat out tells me that he doesn't like me at all. It's the only way I will give up.

I told him that I missed the friendship before, but my lack of constant communication ends up hurting our friendship. I just don't text or talk often and it's a real problem when I don't check in with him or let him know what I'm doing. It's like I'm in my own world not paying attention to something. Then when he gets upset and snaps at me, I take it personally and go hide out for a few weeks until the hurt is gone. I think he's just tired of my shit! I told him that I would never go anywhere, that I just needed time to get over the words he says that hurt me.

It's annoying how dumb little things end up hurting me when I care about someone. I can't help it. I was hurt by someone else this weekend, but have to just learn how to deal with it and move on from it. I can't force anyone to accept me. I can only love and take care of myself.

You have water in your chart and can connect on an emotional level better, he unfortunately has only one placement in water. He's mostly fire and air, and I'm a big ass puddle of water lol

Girl I’m 45 percent air... I get his posit though. My sag friends do that little contact thing but I’ve learnt to just pull them into line with truth

Ie I need a check in too. Asssss hollllle

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I think that persistence is nice. We do like it but make certain you’re not sitting in a pool of your own sweat and blood with it. Aqua prefer to keep things dignified.

We can get postal from time to time though



My neighbors call me the wild card 🤣🤣🤣🤣

So nice but savage

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That's actually what I love about Aquas, It doesn't bother me one bit.

He makes no demands of me, but we both seem to walk on eggshells around each other. It's so weird, I can't explain it. I just get super awkward in front of him and he does the same. It's not good for communicating lol

I think this time I will just promise him not to disappear on him if I'm upset. I didn't realize that someone can just talk to you the next day after they get on your nerves lol I found that out here, by how you all communicate with each other lol

I was giving him enough space for the both of us! 😛

I ordered some communication crystals to help me get some courage and find the words needed to talk with him. I'm annoying myself with all the holding back I'm doing. It's just so stressful for me, even though I know what he wants. I just don't want to give in to it. 😢

I'm an asshole for no reason but I still want him to be there when I want to come back. I don't know why I do this 😢 I do the push/pull thing

Should I text the Aries? Now that mercury has gone direct!

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Only time helps. I think you have to meet someone else that you like more to be able to get over it.

I've been pining over an Aqua for practically a year and still can't get over it. I feel pathetic sometimes. I just know what I want and don't settle for less. I know that I want him.

I haven't met anyone else in my area that made me feel that way and that was so sweet and harsh like him. I love a great mixture of truth and sweetness. A person that doesn't hold back and says the sweet stuff on accident, without even realizing it.

I'm not a Libra, but was just trying to help 🙂

Tell Aqua that girl. Verbatim.

He will accept in the spirit it’s given... you miss his friendship.

Everyone misses the friendship with Aqua.

Tell him. Don’t get emo but be self expressed and fearless we love that

By telling him you’ll release yourself from any perceived binds going on. You’ll literally potentiate in yourself ‘love’ which attracts love.

If it doesn’t work out you know that you’re free. You didn’t leave one stone unturned and you can be available to the bounty of blessings in store around you. 💌🙏🏽

Girl my emotions come with the territory. I'm not shy and don't hold them back. I am extremely overwhelming and almost over do it when I telling someone I love something. I just go on and on. I hold nothing back. And I won't be free, I will just try again! I don't give in and wont give up until I have what I want, or unless he is harsh and flat out tells me that he doesn't like me at all. It's the only way I will give up.

I told him that I missed the friendship before, but my lack of constant communication ends up hurting our friendship. I just don't text or talk often and it's a real problem when I don't check in with him or let him know what I'm doing. It's like I'm in my own world not paying attention to something. Then when he gets upset and snaps at me, I take it personally and go hide out for a few weeks until the hurt is gone. I think he's just tired of my shit! I told him that I would never go anywhere, that I just needed time to get over the words he says that hurt me.

It's annoying how dumb little things end up hurting me when I care about someone. I can't help it. I was hurt by someone else this weekend, but have to just learn how to deal with it and move on from it. I can't force anyone to accept me. I can only love and take care of myself.

You have water in your chart and can connect on an emotional level better, he unfortunately has only one placement in water. He's mostly fire and air, and I'm a big ass puddle of water lol

Girl I’m 45 percent air... I get his posit though. My sag friends do that little contact thing but I’ve learnt to just pull them into line with truth

Ie I need a check in too. Asssss hollllle

They laugh



I think that persistence is nice. We do like it but make certain you’re not sitting in a pool of your own sweat and blood with it. Aqua prefer to keep things dignified.

We can get postal from time to time though



My neighbors call me the wild card 🤣🤣🤣🤣

So nice but savage

That's actually what I love about Aquas, It doesn't bother me one bit.

He makes no demands of me, but we both seem to walk on eggshells around each other. It's so weird, I can't explain it. I just get super awkward in front of him and he does the same. It's not good for communicating lol

I think this time I will just promise him not to disappear on him if I'm upset. I didn't realize that someone can just talk to you the next day after they get on your nerves lol I found that out here, by how you all communicate with each other lol

I was giving him enough space for the both of us! 😛

I ordered some communication crystals to help me get some courage and find the words needed to talk with him. I'm annoying myself with all the holding back I'm doing. It's just so stressful for me, even though I know what he wants. I just don't want to give in to it. 😢

I'm an asshole for no reason but I still want him to be there when I want to come back. I don't know why I do this 😢 I do the push/pull thing

Sag are the most cyclic and it’s not always a bad thing.

Perserverence is commendable when funneled into worthwhile projects.

Sag have core trauma wounds like none other. Maybe Taurus match them then close third is Scorp.

The ego is so wild in a Sag tho Idk what to say about that but that energy is bridged once you address those deeper wounds. Detaching isn’t dealing though. Aqua detach but they process internally with that fixed air.Their minds run deep and it’s all driven inwards. Sag is outwards.

Rarely works only cos we process trauma oppositely. In essence though we are so suited cos we love to live.

Similar aesthetics humour and energy.

Progressive.

Figure out your emotional drivers and control them with logic not emotion.

Emotion driving emotion is the wagon before the horse. I think he will be open to you.

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I work with emotions first. With a big FU when I am upset at you. 😂😂😂

I think him and I are very similar. I just need to work on my communication and be more consistent. I will keep trying if he is will to keep accepting me back.

I’m gonna probably reach out tomorrow. There’s been enough time in between me throwing a fit 🤣😝

I don’t show him everything. In fact I say the word but don’t show anything when I’m in front of him. I hide my emotions really well. He probably just thinks I’m a lunatic. Lol.

I don’t really have core trauma. I just want what I want and get upset when there are obstacles in the way. I'm impatient . So I will let you go and then come back and try again when I’ve gotten over being upset.

It just happens to take me months at a time to get over certain things.

I go through a process of saying FU- to trying to teach you a lesson- to missing you until I can’t hold out anymore. 😂🤣

He’s never told me to leave him alone or stop contacting him. I end up doing it on my own. This is the reason I will always keep trying with him. Until he actually tells me he doesn’t want to talk to me. I need clear words like that in order to give it all up. I’m a little hard headed lol

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Only time helps. I think you have to meet someone else that you like more to be able to get over it.

I've been pining over an Aqua for practically a year and still can't get over it. I feel pathetic sometimes. I just know what I want and don't settle for less. I know that I want him.

I haven't met anyone else in my area that made me feel that way and that was so sweet and harsh like him. I love a great mixture of truth and sweetness. A person that doesn't hold back and says the sweet stuff on accident, without even realizing it.

I'm not a Libra, but was just trying to help 🙂

Tell Aqua that girl. Verbatim.

He will accept in the spirit it’s given... you miss his friendship.

Everyone misses the friendship with Aqua.

Tell him. Don’t get emo but be self expressed and fearless we love that

By telling him you’ll release yourself from any perceived binds going on. You’ll literally potentiate in yourself ‘love’ which attracts love.

If it doesn’t work out you know that you’re free. You didn’t leave one stone unturned and you can be available to the bounty of blessings in store around you. 💌🙏🏽

Girl my emotions come with the territory. I'm not shy and don't hold them back. I am extremely overwhelming and almost over do it when I telling someone I love something. I just go on and on. I hold nothing back. And I won't be free, I will just try again! I don't give in and wont give up until I have what I want, or unless he is harsh and flat out tells me that he doesn't like me at all. It's the only way I will give up.

I told him that I missed the friendship before, but my lack of constant communication ends up hurting our friendship. I just don't text or talk often and it's a real problem when I don't check in with him or let him know what I'm doing. It's like I'm in my own world not paying attention to something. Then when he gets upset and snaps at me, I take it personally and go hide out for a few weeks until the hurt is gone. I think he's just tired of my shit! I told him that I would never go anywhere, that I just needed time to get over the words he says that hurt me.

It's annoying how dumb little things end up hurting me when I care about someone. I can't help it. I was hurt by someone else this weekend, but have to just learn how to deal with it and move on from it. I can't force anyone to accept me. I can only love and take care of myself.

You have water in your chart and can connect on an emotional level better, he unfortunately has only one placement in water. He's mostly fire and air, and I'm a big ass puddle of water lol

Girl I’m 45 percent air... I get his posit though. My sag friends do that little contact thing but I’ve learnt to just pull them into line with truth

Ie I need a check in too. Asssss hollllle

They laugh



I think that persistence is nice. We do like it but make certain you’re not sitting in a pool of your own sweat and blood with it. Aqua prefer to keep things dignified.

We can get postal from time to time though



My neighbors call me the wild card 🤣🤣🤣🤣

So nice but savage

That's actually what I love about Aquas, It doesn't bother me one bit.

He makes no demands of me, but we both seem to walk on eggshells around each other. It's so weird, I can't explain it. I just get super awkward in front of him and he does the same. It's not good for communicating lol

I think this time I will just promise him not to disappear on him if I'm upset. I didn't realize that someone can just talk to you the next day after they get on your nerves lol I found that out here, by how you all communicate with each other lol

I was giving him enough space for the both of us! 😛

I ordered some communication crystals to help me get some courage and find the words needed to talk with him. I'm annoying myself with all the holding back I'm doing. It's just so stressful for me, even though I know what he wants. I just don't want to give in to it. 😢

I'm an asshole for no reason but I still want him to be there when I want to come back. I don't know why I do this 😢 I do the push/pull thing

Sag are the most cyclic and it’s not always a bad thing.

Perserverence is commendable when funneled into worthwhile projects.

Sag have core trauma wounds like none other. Maybe Taurus match them then close third is Scorp.

The ego is so wild in a Sag tho Idk what to say about that but that energy is bridged once you address those deeper wounds. Detaching isn’t dealing though. Aqua detach but they process internally with that fixed air.Their minds run deep and it’s all driven inwards. Sag is outwards.

Rarely works only cos we process trauma oppositely. In essence though we are so suited cos we love to live.

Similar aesthetics humour and energy.

Progressive.

Figure out your emotional drivers and control them with logic not emotion.

Emotion driving emotion is the wagon before the horse. I think he will be open to you.

I work with emotions first. With a big FU when I am upset at you. 😂😂😂

I think him and I are very similar. I just need to work on my communication and be more consistent. I will keep trying if he is will to keep accepting me back.

I’m gonna probably reach out tomorrow. There’s been enough time in between me throwing a fit 🤣😝

I don’t show him everything. In fact I say the word but don’t show anything when I’m in front of him. I hide my emotions really well. He probably just thinks I’m a lunatic. Lol.

I don’t really have core trauma. I just want what I want and get upset when there are obstacles in the way. I'm impatient . So I will let you go and then come back and try again when I’ve gotten over being upset.

It just happens to take me months at a time to get over certain things.

I go through a process of saying FU- to trying to teach you a lesson- to missing you until I can’t hold out anymore. 😂🤣

He’s never told me to leave him alone or stop contacting him. I end up doing it on my own. This is the reason I will always keep trying with him. Until he actually tells me he doesn’t want to talk to me. I need clear words like that in order to give it all up. I’m a little hard headed lol

Girl figure out what drives that desire to control.

Bridge that first so you don’t get caught up in blowing up and missing him cycles

Panic and pursue cycles is not fun for Aqua and we rarely tell people to leave us alone.

I think you’re ready for more growth with your Aqua maybe ask if he’s ready to take on the challege with you

Together



Let me know how you go. You feisty little Shittt 😜😜🤪🤪🤪🤩🤩🤩

Lots of 🙌🏾💪🏽🌱

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🤣😝😝😝🤣🤣🤣❤️

I will keep trying as long as he let’s me. 😄❤️❤️

Sometimes there’s no easy fix and you have to just suck it up and feel the feels.

I know the feeling...and it definitely sucks balls 😢

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I can't! I initiated a couple of times but he was cold and didn't engage. That's all the sign a person needs to quit but my feelings continue. I couldn't put myself out there again, the rejection would kill me.

You need to disclose what causes breakup. It’ll give people more to work with.

And I know exactly what you talking about. And I can’t be sorry. You had experiences love. Not everyone even know what that is...

We didn't have an actual breakup in person. He got distant, and told me that his feelings had changed, he wanted to be alone and that I deserved somebody better who wouldn't drag me down. He said I was the nicest person he ever knew. He said he didn't think he could ever be happy after his previous experiences and that he was sorry if he hurt me. And that was it done.

Yeah, I blocked him from all sources and there's no contact. I know, but the pain is making me weak and exhausted, I even bought some rose quartz to help me out.

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Should I text the Aries? Now that mercury has gone direct!

No. I was hung up, like you with an Aries sun, aries moon guy and I thought I would never get over him and I'm still not sure that I am. They do not like to be chased and if they want you they will make it known. If he isn't contacting you it's over so mend your bleeding heart and move on. I tell Libra women to stay far away from Aries men because no other zodiac sign can destroy us the way they can. Run! It's just not worth it. They don't see who we really are.

DonnaLibra...stop it! You're breaking my heart even more 😢 Aries guy is soooooo over me, in the depths of my heart I know it. My feelings are purely ego because I didn't get a chance to release...it was forced on me. I'm feeling ok right now, looking for new love 🙂

So this seems to be a common theme with Aries... I am not alone!

You're a Sag. Look behind you as there is sure to be some Aries guy chasing you. They love you guys!

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So this seems to be a common theme with Aries... I am not alone!

I have promised myself to stay away from Aries going forward. LOL

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So this seems to be a common theme with Aries... I am not alone!

I have promised myself to stay away from Aries going forward. LOL

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Interesting. I thought cardinal signs would get eachother. I can only slightly understand caps.

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So this seems to be a common theme with Aries... I am not alone!

I have promised myself to stay away from Aries going forward. LOL

Interesting. I thought cardinal signs would get eachother. I can only slightly understand caps.

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My worst heartaches and breakups have been with Aries. I just dont want to go through any of that again.

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So this seems to be a common theme with Aries... I am not alone!

I have promised myself to stay away from Aries going forward. LOL

Interesting. I thought cardinal signs would get eachother. I can only slightly understand caps.

My worst heartaches and breakups have been with Aries. I just dont want to go through any of that again.

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They hare kind of harsh people I'm learning. I don't blame you.