Gemini25
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Confused by Libra
Posted by thatlibralife
Also when he doesn't text you then you text him. I'm sure he would appreciate the reciprocal attention...
So I should text him good night?
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralife
Also when he doesn't text you then you text him. I'm sure he would appreciate the reciprocal attention...
So I should text him good night?
Yes! He probably is wondering why you don't initiate the texts as much as he does. Might be worried you don't like him as much. If you reach out more I think he would like it. I told my boyfriend in the beginning that I wanted to talk to him everyday or I would wonder who else has his attention. We talk everyday even when we see each other in person and I loooovvvve it...🙂click to expand
Ok I sent him a text but again this is so weird for me as I dont usually initiate at the beginning, but whatever I guess once in a while I can send him one too
Posted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralife
Also when he doesn't text you then you text him. I'm sure he would appreciate the reciprocal attention...
So I should text him good night?click to expand
If you want to be closer to the Libs your going to have to put in alot more effort. Just because he wish you good morning don't believe your the only girl receiving those messages.
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralife
Also when he doesn't text you then you text him. I'm sure he would appreciate the reciprocal attention...
So I should text him good night?
If you want to be closer to the Libs your going to have to put in alot more effort. Just because he wish you good morning don't believe your the only girl receiving those messages.click to expand
Again my point is not how many women he has because he is single we are not committed to each other. I have others too but I like talking with him so I dont get your answer
Posted by blvckphvse
You're not just being paranoid.. And that's all I'm going to say because I don't want to compare them all to my own experiences. But the immature / unevolved / lacking self awareness variety of these males are gonna waste your time sis. No fibs
Yes but we haven't met yet...are you saying I shouldn't bother?
Posted by HeartofIce
Are you expecting him to initiate every conversation with you every day?
Hmm at the beginning yes I do expect the Man to initiate...once we are actually dating I can put more effort in. Am I wrong to think like this?
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralife
Also when he doesn't text you then you text him. I'm sure he would appreciate the reciprocal attention...
So I should text him good night?
Yes! He probably is wondering why you don't initiate the texts as much as he does. Might be worried you don't like him as much. If you reach out more I think he would like it. I told my boyfriend in the beginning that I wanted to talk to him everyday or I would wonder who else has his attention. We talk everyday even when we see each other in person and I loooovvvve it...🙂
Ok I sent him a text but again this is so weird for me as I dont usually initiate at the beginning, but whatever I guess once in a while I can send him one too
You initiating texts will let him know you are just as interested as he is. Its a good move IMO....click to expand
Wow that worked! I followed your advice and 5 minutes later he texted me back. Maybe he was waiting for me?
Posted by thatlibralife
...and yes I think he was.....
I just texted him that I sent him a big kiss and he texted thanks babe sending you a tender kiss back but that's it.....I dont know I feel like hes not chatty anymore. I think I'm getting paranoid AF too
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralife
...and yes I think he was.....
I just texted him that I sent him a big kiss and he texted thanks babe sending you a tender kiss back but that's it.....I dont know I feel like hes not chatty anymore. I think I'm getting paranoid AF too
Do you guys live near each other? I would ask about a meet up soon to hang out.. for now just chat him up about how his day went today and anything interesting that happened with you. His quick response seems like he was waiting to hear from you. Try not to think the worst...you seem to be in good shape here...click to expand
No I don't live near him. He lives in another state and is supposed to come and see me in a few weeks
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralife
...and yes I think he was.....
I just texted him that I sent him a big kiss and he texted thanks babe sending you a tender kiss back but that's it.....I dont know I feel like hes not chatty anymore. I think I'm getting paranoid AF too
Do you guys live near each other? I would ask about a meet up soon to hang out.. for now just chat him up about how his day went today and anything interesting that happened with you. His quick response seems like he was waiting to hear from you. Try not to think the worst...you seem to be in good shape here...
No I don't live near him. He lives in another state and is supposed to come and see me in a few weeks
OK well he's making plans to come see you even better...click to expand
So but is this normal for the way hes acting? I was caught off guard because I got used to the constant texting from him and suddenly crickets.
Very important to initiate some with Libras.. they want to know you are interested too.
That has been my experience with all the Libras I’ve dated.
That has been my experience with all the Libras I’ve dated.
Posted by PuzzlePieces
Very important to initiate some with Libras.. they want to know you are interested too.
That has been my experience with all the Libras I’ve dated.
Ok thank you...I guess I'm stuck with the mentality of what if I look clingy, desperate, do I like him more than he me..all this negative bullshit in my head and sometimes I'm not sure if initiating at the start is ok. Ugh
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralife
...and yes I think he was.....
I just texted him that I sent him a big kiss and he texted thanks babe sending you a tender kiss back but that's it.....I dont know I feel like hes not chatty anymore. I think I'm getting paranoid AF too
Do you guys live near each other? I would ask about a meet up soon to hang out.. for now just chat him up about how his day went today and anything interesting that happened with you. His quick response seems like he was waiting to hear from you. Try not to think the worst...you seem to be in good shape here...
No I don't live near him. He lives in another state and is supposed to come and see me in a few weeks
OK well he's making plans to come see you even better...
So but is this normal for the way hes acting? I was caught off guard because I got used to the constant texting from him and suddenly crickets.
Well I get the feeling he was starting to feel the attraction was one sided since he didn't hear from you mostly unless he contacted you first. Just knowing myself if I'm doing all the work of contacting a love interest it will make me start to think just maybe that person doesn't like me as much as I like them. Then I will start to fall back. The fact that he responded so quickly tells me he was waiting to see if you showed more interest by contacting him more. I think you need to beef up on communication from your end. Men want to feel desired just as much as we do...click to expand
Ok thank you again for your great advice.
Posted by Gemini25Posted by PuzzlePieces
Very important to initiate some with Libras.. they want to know you are interested too.
That has been my experience with all the Libras I’ve dated.
Ok thank you...I guess I'm stuck with the mentality of what if I look clingy, desperate, do I like him more than he me..all this negative bullshit in my head and sometimes I'm not sure if initiating at the start is ok. Ughclick to expand
I’m not a big initiator. But I had a Libra last summer get really pissed at me for not initiating. Basically he made me do some of it 😂 but I did learn.
With the current Libra he initiated mostly, but I would do a little and see what the result was. Typically, they reward you with more attention, or forward progress. Just something I’ve noticed. Now I pretty much text if I feel like it, and he responds right away. But he still initiates quite a bit. I feel like they still like to lead being a cardinal sign. They just want to know you’re on the same page as they are.
Posted by Gemini25Posted by LibraSupremePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralife
Also when he doesn't text you then you text him. I'm sure he would appreciate the reciprocal attention...
So I should text him good night?
If you want to be closer to the Libs your going to have to put in alot more effort. Just because he wish you good morning don't believe your the only girl receiving those messages.
Again my point is not how many women he has because he is single we are not committed to each other. I have others too but I like talking with him so I dont get your answerclick to expand
If you like the Libra , you'll have to initiate more and be more aggressive to prove your worth in comparison is all I'm saying.
I'd be really careful of any advice which tells you that you're not trying hard enough. Truth is sometimes you need to know when to back away, you can't chase someone who's moving away. Maybe you should have done something in the past, but not now. You can't assume the reason he's quiet is something you've done. Don't go overboard and try too hard now (all I'm saying).
Sending him a message was the right thing to do. Saying good night is the wrong thing to do... what is he going to say back.. good night? .. not exactly a great conversation starter. Don't you say good night when you go to sleep? so why would he message someone back if they're asleep? He starter it though, and you just copied I guess. I'm thinking maybe he realised how silly messaging good night is, and he's stopped now.
Right now, give him time to message you, then if he doesn't say maybe something like "how's your day babe?" but make it sound like you, something short and nick name, could even be his name (I'm not American, so make it sound whatever you would say). (Also for clarification, I'm a guy so I would not use the word babe myself but women can).
Sending him a message was the right thing to do. Saying good night is the wrong thing to do... what is he going to say back.. good night? .. not exactly a great conversation starter. Don't you say good night when you go to sleep? so why would he message someone back if they're asleep? He starter it though, and you just copied I guess. I'm thinking maybe he realised how silly messaging good night is, and he's stopped now.
Right now, give him time to message you, then if he doesn't say maybe something like "how's your day babe?" but make it sound like you, something short and nick name, could even be his name (I'm not American, so make it sound whatever you would say). (Also for clarification, I'm a guy so I would not use the word babe myself but women can).
Posted by blvckphvsePosted by LibraSupremePosted by Gemini25Posted by LibraSupremePosted by Gemini25Posted by thatlibralife
Also when he doesn't text you then you text him. I'm sure he would appreciate the reciprocal attention...
So I should text him good night?
If you want to be closer to the Libs your going to have to put in alot more effort. Just because he wish you good morning don't believe your the only girl receiving those messages.
Again my point is not how many women he has because he is single we are not committed to each other. I have others too but I like talking with him so I dont get your answer
If you like the Libra , you'll have to initiate more and be more aggressive to prove your worth in comparison is all I'm saying.
That's bs.. Two Libras I barely had to lift a finger for. They are all over you in the beginning if they are legit into you.click to expand
That goes for any ship where the two are into each other. No doubt the libra will charm you in the beginning but believe me, as soon as the new stop sparkling our charm will go elsewhere more than most.
Posted by AriesJo
I'd be really careful of any advice which tells you that you're not trying hard enough. Truth is sometimes you need to know when to back away, you can't chase someone who's moving away. Maybe you should have done something in the past, but not now. You can't assume the reason he's quiet is something you've done. Don't go overboard and try too hard now (all I'm saying).
Sending him a message was the right thing to do. Saying good night is the wrong thing to do... what is he going to say back.. good night? .. not exactly a great conversation starter. Don't you say good night when you go to sleep? so why would he message someone back if they're asleep? He starter it though, and you just copied I guess. I'm thinking maybe he realised how silly messaging good night is, and he's stopped now.
Right now, give him time to message you, then if he doesn't say maybe something like "how's your day babe?" but make it sound like you, something short and nick name, could even be his name (I'm not American, so make it sound whatever you would say). (Also for clarification, I'm a guy so I would not use the word babe myself but women can).
He always calls me babe or my baby even. Yeah I did send him a video and the convo started. I'm going to see what happens now in the terms of communication. I know that I'm not messaging him again first right now. Maybe he just ran out of things to talk about since we haven't met yet. All we did is phone calls and video chat.
Posted by blvckphvsePosted by Gemini25Posted by blvckphvse
You're not just being paranoid.. And that's all I'm going to say because I don't want to compare them all to my own experiences. But the immature / unevolved / lacking self awareness variety of these males are gonna waste your time sis. No fibs
Yes but we haven't met yet...are you saying I shouldn't bother?
I can't say for sure, everyone is different. If communication is just slowing down a bit, I wouldn't worry too much. BUT, If there have been any back and forth games or any hint of immaturity on his end, don't waste your time.click to expand
No immaturity yet. He just compliments me a lot and made a nickname for me. Just surprised that the good morning have a great day at work texts stopped Recently. I dont think I did something because when the conversation starts it flows nicely.
He texted me today ! I don't have him figured out lol
Texting every morning/night like clockwork isn't sustainable past high school. You haven't even met him yet and you're freaking out. Go on another date to take the edge off.
This is hella boring.
Good morning and Good night texts.
Why not message something with some MEAT to it?
Something you can banter back n forth
Good morning and Good night texts.
Why not message something with some MEAT to it?
Something you can banter back n forth
Posted by DMV
This is hella boring.
Good morning and Good night texts.
Why not message something with some MEAT to it?
Something you can banter back n forth
Again in addition to the good morning, good night texts we do exchange other messages. He is very romantic and cute.
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