Are Libra Men Vain?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Gemini25 on Thursday, August 29, 2019 and has 20 replies.

Do Libra Men Value Looks and Vanity

Libra men often appreciate beauty and charm, valuing harmony and aesthetics in relationships. They may comment on appearance but also seek balance and genuine connection. Their focus on beauty is part of their love for harmony, not vanity. Understanding their appreciation for aesthetics helps build better connections with them.

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@Gemini25
9 Years

Hey guys!

I never dated a Libra Man before and I am just getting to know one. Thing is he keeps on saying how beautiful and sexy my body is among other things. Do Libras really value how beautiful a woman is? Is that very important to them?

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@Gemini25
9 Years

Posted by thatlibralife

Posted by Gemini25

Hey guys!

I never dated a Libra Man before and I am just getting to know one. Thing is he keeps on saying how beautiful and sexy my body is among other things. Do Libras really value how beautiful a woman is? Is that very important to them?

He's complimenting you. How does that make him vain? Is he bragging on himself too?

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Sorry I didn't mean Vain in that sense. I meant does he only care about the body of a Woman? Nothing else?

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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

When dealing with libra men you are going to need google on hand to search for information they are debating is right when you know is wrong.

A google search is pretty much all it takes for them. If google says they are wrong, most will admit they are wrong and move on with life or to the next topic. Keep in mind of google says you are wrong, you should own up to it and let them feel like they thought you something.

Yes google is everything when dealing with Libra men. Most love to debate, and love to be right. But most can admit when they are wrong, which is something fire signs tend to lack. Personally I love libra, and my best friend is a libra male. They will definitely give you a good time, and somewhat make you smarter because they think they know everything, and will check you on the things you think you know.

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Libra isn’t necessarily into beauty but they are into all that glimmers. For example, if you have an unattractive woman wears tons of make up and jewellery and wear nice clothes, mani/pedi done and is just groomed overall, Libra will find them beautiful. Actually most will find them beautiful.

They aren’t exactly into simple women who are naturally beautiful. At the same time they also like smart women. If they have to pick, they’ll pick the beautiful girl with avg to no brains vs. a natural beauty with intelligence or even sensible. Observed this narrative plenty of times with them.

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@LibraSupreme
8 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by Gemini25

Posted by thatlibralife

Posted by Gemini25

Hey guys!

I never dated a Libra Man before and I am just getting to know one. Thing is he keeps on saying how beautiful and sexy my body is among other things. Do Libras really value how beautiful a woman is? Is that very important to them?

He's complimenting you. How does that make him vain? Is he bragging on himself too?

Sorry I didn't mean Vain in that sense. I meant does he only care about the body of a Woman? Nothing else?

Nothing turns a Libra on more than the density of her mind. A smoking hot figure certainly helps.

The answer is a flat 'no'.

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Very true.... people expect for me to have some of the most gorgeous women. But if they don't appeal to my sapiosexuality chances are slim they will not make it past a month once I find out.

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@WateryGem
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by emeraldgem

@DonnaLibra - "Yeah, Libra men are the only men that love a beautiful body on a woman."

Yeah - I'm thinking it's the OP that's vain.

I think all the compliments must have made her feel uncomfortable. I have had a man speak about my looks and body so much I felt he was only drawn to me for superficial reasons. That's what I feel she's asking.. maybe, I'm wrong, idk.

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@Gemini25
9 Years

Posted by WateryGem

Posted by emeraldgem

@DonnaLibra - "Yeah, Libra men are the only men that love a beautiful body on a woman."

Yeah - I'm thinking it's the OP that's vain.

I think all the compliments must have made her feel uncomfortable. I have had a man speak about my looks and body so much I felt he was only drawn to me for superficial reasons. That's what I feel she's asking.. maybe, I'm wrong, idk.

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Yes!! Thank you for getting me

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@Gemini25
9 Years

Posted by thatlibralife

Posted by Gemini25

Today he told me he loves my hands, he can find other things as well but really loves my hands.

He seems to be simply trying to convey one aspect of his attraction to you. I can't see that as a negative. Trust me date someone who acts like they could care less and you'll be wishing for this....it seems sweet to me but hey call me crazy...

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:-)

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@TurnedOn
7 Years

Posted by Gemini25

Hey guys!

I never dated a Libra Man before and I am just getting to know one. Thing is he keeps on saying how beautiful and sexy my body is among other things. Do Libras really value how beautiful a woman is? Is that very important to them?

Beauty is everything.

But then we are good liars too.

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@stillstillwater
9 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by stope

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by thatlibralife

Posted by Gemini25

Hey guys!

I never dated a Libra Man before and I am just getting to know one. Thing is he keeps on saying how beautiful and sexy my body is among other things. Do Libras really value how beautiful a woman is? Is that very important to them?

He's complimenting you. How does that make him vain? Is he bragging on himself too?

Sorry I didn't mean Vain in that sense. I meant does he only care about the body of a Woman? Nothing else?

Nothing turns a Libra on more than the density of her mind. A smoking hot figure certainly helps.

The answer is a flat 'no'.

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Incorrect.

Two scenarios:

1) 10/10 looks but 7/10 brain

2) 7/10 looks but 10/10 brain

The Libra will go for #1... 99.999% of the time.

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@Crazycatlady
6 Years

Libras is one of the signs under Venus, the goddess of beauty. So beauty in all its forms, especially the human body, is extremely important to them.

I would take it for what it is. A wonderful compliment enticing you to give into his charms and sleep with him lol.

And that’s ok. You have every right to be worshipped like the goddess you are. But also keep in mind that if you’re just getting to know a libra guy, they’re going to hit you with the physical first because that’s how they, and most men are programmed. Then the more personal compliments (intelligence, kindness etc) come later as the relationship progresses.

So I personally don’t look at it as vanity. As Libras value beauty you can look at it as an extra compliment.

Good luck OP! 🤗

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@TurnedOn
7 Years

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by TurnedOn

Posted by Gemini25

Hey guys!

I never dated a Libra Man before and I am just getting to know one. Thing is he keeps on saying how beautiful and sexy my body is among other things. Do Libras really value how beautiful a woman is? Is that very important to them?

Beauty is everything.

But then we are good liars too.

You're fucking awful liars. They're even the worst at lying out of the air signs. Here's a tip if you are going to lie don't fucking laugh and hold eye contact.

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That is because we aint no liars.

People just think we are too good to be true and mess it all up. I feel sorry for them.

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@TurnedOn
7 Years

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by TurnedOn

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by TurnedOn

Posted by Gemini25

Hey guys!

I never dated a Libra Man before and I am just getting to know one. Thing is he keeps on saying how beautiful and sexy my body is among other things. Do Libras really value how beautiful a woman is? Is that very important to them?

Beauty is everything.

But then we are good liars too.

You're fucking awful liars. They're even the worst at lying out of the air signs. Here's a tip if you are going to lie don't fucking laugh and hold eye contact.

That is because we aint no liars.

People just think we are too good to be true and mess it all up. I feel sorry for them.

Nah. Libra is better suited to a woman. Libra men like Cancer men have a tug of war to prove their masculinity.

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Ok.

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@stillstillwater
9 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by stope

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by thatlibralife

Posted by Gemini25

Hey guys!

I never dated a Libra Man before and I am just getting to know one. Thing is he keeps on saying how beautiful and sexy my body is among other things. Do Libras really value how beautiful a woman is? Is that very important to them?

He's complimenting you. How does that make him vain? Is he bragging on himself too?

Sorry I didn't mean Vain in that sense. I meant does he only care about the body of a Woman? Nothing else?

Nothing turns a Libra on more than the density of her mind. A smoking hot figure certainly helps.

The answer is a flat 'no'.

Incorrect.

Two scenarios:

1) 10/10 looks but 7/10 brain

2) 7/10 looks but 10/10 brain

The Libra will go for #1... 99.999% of the time.

I think Libras are into the chummy type relationships, almost friends first, but eye candy or at least someone made-up\ dressed well.

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Nice assessment... i agree.