Confused by Libra girl

Hey all, a Capricorn here in need for your help.

I’ve met this Libra girl (born in 14/10) few months ago at work, and man oh man she killed me with that charming stare and smile! we kept running into each other without talking for the next 6 weeks, we always said hi and that was it.

2 weeks ago she sent her friend to give me her number, I texted her and she was happy that I did, we started texting for around 10 hrs a day. Then she started showing up at my office and was joking with me in front of many of co-workers, that’s not a thing girls usually do in this country.

Next day I was late for work and she was there at my office waiting for me, she texted me asking why I was late, then she told me I better hurry up because she wanted to see me. In our culture girls don’t do that because they’ll labeled as hoes, but she didn’t give a single f*ck and I loved that about her.

Last Tuesday I received a small gift from a friend in the U.S. so I called her and gave her half of that gift. She was super happy but from that moment something has changed!

She was super busy the next day, then she went silent. I asked her if she was okay and no answer so I decided not to bother her and didn’t text since then.

We’ve never argued, we had deep discussions, we have a lot of similarities. Same taste in music and tv. She flirted with me. And I didn’t try to rush things, but I showed her I’m serious about her.

Nothing was wrong and it’s unclear to me if I pissed her off or she’s just going through something. Sorry for the long ass story, but what can you make out of that?

Thank you for your response.

I honestly can’t think of anything else, everything was fine and the gift giver is a guy, and it’s not really a gift. It’s just random small stuff from Target.

But let’s pretend there’s something I’ve said or done that made her cut communication, how to communicate back with her? Should I just call and generally apologize or wait for her to talk to me?

yes i also think something has been done or said that she is now contemplating and re-evaluating her next step.

how to start communication up again? hmm, that's a tough one. you could wait for her to go through her process and reach out to you or you can text a friendly text that you hope she is ok and tell her what has been happening with you. i wouldn't put any pressure on her or talk about her disappearing or your feelings or anything that will make her feel guilty. if she is teetering, anything like that is likely to be perceived as uncomfortable confrontation.

my best advice is to be patient and act normally.

She can be labeled a hoe in your country for communicating she wants to see you? Wow...

I texted her and she was happy that I did, we started texting for around 10 hrs a day.

I think the texting 10 hours a day may have something to do with this. I think with all due respect you were too available, accessible and easy. And now she has lost interest; there isn't anything else to explore to talk about or discover. Next time pace yourself a little better don't give a stranger 10 hours of your time in the beginning let her work for it. Yes men are natural hunters but women like to work a little for the connection too. Pull back and don't initiate contact, give it some space she will come back next time be a little harder to get.

10 hours a day? That would send me running for the hills. Back off some or she will for sure.