Do Libra men like hoes or not—

I was thinking whether was it okay to post something like that or not, but I have this question so whoever is ready to answer please feel free.
I saw something on social media, I felt very uncomfortable with and made me curious.

Hahahaha

I know 2 libra guy's and they both like hoes, both of them friends, they are treetrunking weird and uncombtable tho, they show me videos of them treetrunking a girl while one treetrunks other films and they switch, crazy butter lol. But i'm sure not all of them do, it's only 2 of them i know and there's like half a billion or more libra's in the world or somth like that 😄

Posted by pisceanloves
I saw something on social media, I felt very uncomfortable with and made me curious.

What did you see, and what was the source?

Im Not A Man But, I'm a Libra female into females. I've dated a prostitute beFore. Many years ago. Mistake. But it happened. It was more like let me try to save her type deal. The sayin yu Can't turn a hoe into a house wife, TRUUUE! I respect a woman's hustle, by any means. I can say now that I have matured sluts thots hoes they are all a big turn off. Thots we pop bottles go clubin but a woman I respect they know my best friends my sibblings and if they haven't met my mama she's heard about them. Hoes have there place but it's never close to the heart.

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I saw something on social media, I felt very uncomfortable with and made me curious.

What did you see, and what was the source?

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Fb. He friended some slut with porn videos on her timeline

Who doesn't?

Well I'm about to think that "Libra=perfectionist" is just a myth huh 😄

I guess it's time for me to go get some ice cream and try to calm down lol

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
If you looked up Captain Save-a-hoe, you'd see a Libra man right next to it.


Seriously, every Libra dude I've known is so desperate for love/affection that he'll wife anybody. Doesn't matter if her vagina has been around the block and back, doesn't matter if she screwed his friends, they will wife the girl.


Of course I know this doesn't apply to every Libra guy. This is just what I've noticed in my life. Libra guys will date pretty much any girl.

lolz

Same here. It's not every single Libra guy I know, but it's happened enough to notice a trend amongst quite a few. They are the epitome of Captain Save a Ho for sure.

I found out after the fact that was a part of the reason why my ex split up. He realized I didn't need "saving" and started to flit away because his fantasy bubble had been burst. When we'd met, I was going through some bs with a guy (wasn't serious) and we'd end up talking about it. I think he thought he was "saving" me or some shit, but once we settled into our relationship, that issue was obviously no longer there and he didn't feel like I "needed" him anymore.

Since our relationship, he's had a few others where he was pairing off with some crazy bitch that nobody liked or wanted around, but because she had issues, he felt he had to "wife" her up. They were short lived relationships, needless to say. He got burned in a few.

...cue the whining and victimizing due to poor life choices in women...

Which is another thing I find funny with guys overall. They chase after women for either really stupid reasons or vapid reasons. She's purdy but not dateable, but they date her anyway because omgherd hot chick! Or she's a fucking mess and he gets off on "saving" her. In the long run he gets burned and here comes the whining. People make mistakes and are supposed to learn from those mistakes, sure, but this group (also happens with women) it's just like... holy shit shut the fuck up. Maybe if you were smarter in your choices in women and not fixated on terrible reasoning as to why you're with her, you'd have fewer problems.

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I saw something on social media, I felt very uncomfortable with and made me curious.

What did you see, and what was the source?

Fb. He friended some slut with porn videos on her timeline

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Oh honey, this is a guy thing. So many of my male friends had at least one account like this, tbh. You gotta stop substituting the male mind for a female one. It doesn't work that way.

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Fuck, ya'll are bringing me down here 😢

I don't understand. Are you looking for your man to be sexually attracted to you or do you want him to fantasise about you being a nun and insist you throw some house curtains on yourself everytime you leave the house?

Every man is attracted to the whore side in a woman, surely.

Huh? That's not what I meant. I'm Scorp ruled, I'm as dirty as they come, and open to pretty much anything. Ya'll were just making it sound like Libras are attracted to hoes and whores (the type that sleep with everything with a dick), which I am not.

Ya see the way my dumb ass mind works.. I read that and took as Libras being to attracted to these type of women outside of the relationship. Boo, my overactive mind!

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even if it were true, what are you going to do? become a ho to impress a guy? just be yourself. if the majority of guys don't like it, who cares? don't allow your emotions be ruled by the preferences of others.

My childhood friend likes hoes too. I remember that day she brought some chick over my house with piercings eww but the girl was nice.

Posted by blackphase
it was mostly just a bummer to hear all the Libra guys here being all " Yeah, I love me a good hoe" Lol 😛

i know what you are saying in this and the previous message but my point is your emotions, life decisions, way of viewing the world is affected by your feelings of inadequacy.

i wrote a long post in response but deleted it. i wanted to tell you that you are good enough and i wish you could actually believe it and live it.

if all the libras guys in the world loved hoes who cares? are you looking to date them? your reaction implies that you need a group of men in theory to be attracted to you to make you feel feel good and when they are not attracted to your type, then you feel bummed. that's what is was picking up on.

the only person you should be looking to impress is you. once you can do that, you won't take shit from anyone. if someone doesn't like it, it doesn't really matter.

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I guess it's time for me to go get some ice cream and try to calm down lol

Durtyyy durty mind, oops! 😄

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LOL 😄

Posted by tiziani
Frankly jeane just nailed a big reason why a woman being a whore is attractive

" don't allow your emotions be ruled by the preferences of others."

It's just one reason and it doesn't always need to be as dramatic as sex with a bunch of guys, but it is attractive to be able to see a woman who can show that quality to herself where she just doesn't give a damn what people think, and she knows what she wants. And when she wants you, that's hot.

Ninon de l'Enclos was an expert on using this dynamic with men. Her story is goddamn interesting.

wait...did you just call me a whore— 😆

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Posted by rakac
I know 2 libra guy's and they both like hoes, both of them friends, they are treetrunking weird and uncombtable tho, they show me videos of them treetrunking a girl while one treetrunks other films and they switch, crazy butter lol. But i'm sure not all of them do, it's only 2 of them i know and there's like half a billion or more libra's in the world or somth like that 😄

I often wanted a friend I could trust like that. Closest I ever got was my Pisces best friend but he got the raw end of the deal because he was into casual sex and would Skype me about his escapades whereas I had nothing to say in return because I'd always end up in a relationship.

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I value your opinions for some reason, what do you think do I have a chance with him.
Would you ever throw away a great girl with full package of goodies for someone who's been fucked by everyone around?? Do you like to have something very dirty
and "expired" ?? Do Libras really have such a low standards ??
well based on a theory that Libras almost always come back I hope that's just another fun for him, plus he has told me he's not very attracted to sluts

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Posted by blackphase
Fuck, ya'll are bringing me down here 😢

I don't understand. Are you looking for your man to be sexually attracted to you or do you want him to fantasise about you being a nun and insist you throw some house curtains on yourself everytime you leave the house?

Every man is attracted to the whore side in a woman, surely.

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that's right and I'm a Taurus but my Venus is in Aries so I can and do turn up the heat - he calls me a Gladiator and well - it fits- he might bring home the bacon and I might fry it up in the pan but I will be his hoe in the bedroom or anywhere else in the house or outside ...

lol - and he loves the way I dress - borders on all sides - conservative but a little trampy / sexy yet sporty - I'm always ready to roll ... a big turn on for both of us is when we go out - me dressing in a way that gets attention but I only pay attention to him of course - makes him feel proud he says ...

Is this for real ?
In highschool I dated a guy and we've talked on and off and screwed on and off since I was 17 everything was good but then he thought I was talking to other guys and just cut me off said I was making bad life choices by drinking and then he started dating some nasty piece of trash but for some reason I was too slutty for him even though I was very loyal


Other lib that I worked with was in loveeeee with me he was like my best friend but once I told him I was seeing 2 guys he stopped talking to me and even tried to get me fired !

Libra I recently messed with is def a man whore I can't tell if he likes sluts or just Anyone and in constant need of companionship

Man just like me ? No man whore ahahaha

Posted by blackphase
No you are right. I do often feel inadequate, and sometimes there is not even a reason for it. And I definitely do not need a group of men to be attracted to me, just the one that I care for. I don't focus on others at all when in a relationship. But yes, it is important to me that I feel adequate and good enough for my partner when in a relationship and it can sometimes be difficult for me to accomplish that feeling.

I am the sort of person that does not budge or change for anyone. I am very stubborn and stick to my beliefs and to the person that I worked so hard to become. But I do like to be able to feel confident that I am able to keep my partners interest and attention, that's all. I do have a bit of an obscured view of myself, I realize that.. and I tend to place my own personal value on how much my partner values me.. I know that is wrong. I am the type of person that doesn't care what anyone thinks of me, I stick to my guns, but I place a lot of importance on how the one person that I have chosen to spend my life with views me.. It really seems to matter a lot. It doesn't mean that I will change who I am for them, it's just very important that they accept me, cause they are really the only one that I care accepts me at all. I hope that makes sense..

yes, it makes sense but i want you to look at the these two sentences i have highlighted.

"But yes, it is important to me that I feel adequate and good enough for my partner when in a relationship and it can sometimes be difficult for me to accomplish that feeling."

and

"But I do like to be able to feel confident that I am able to keep my partners interest and attention."

what do they both have in common? the word "feel".

maybe this is the libra in me trying to take emotion out of it but you can't concentrate on feeling confident you must be confident.

you should know that you can keep your partner's interest and attention. why? because you are you - a complex and fascinating person. you don't need to try to feel it, you are it and if he (or anyone else) can't see it, then he can fuck off and you'll find someone who can see it.

i took a long time to find my partner because i wanted someone to appreciate and value what i bring to the table. he does, many before him did not. they didn't last long.

'lady in the streets, whore in the sheets 😉

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I know 2 libra guy's and they both like hoes, both of them friends, they are treetrunking weird and uncombtable tho, they show me videos of them treetrunking a girl while one treetrunks other films and they switch, crazy butter lol. But i'm sure not all of them do, it's only 2 of them i know and there's like half a billion or more libra's in the world or somth like that 😄

I often wanted a friend I could trust like that. Closest I ever got was my Pisces best friend but he got the raw end of the deal because he was into casual sex and would Skype me about his escapades whereas I had nothing to say in return because I'd always end up in a relationship.

I value your opinions for some reason, what do you think do I have a chance with him.
Would you ever throw away a great girl with full package of goodies for someone who's been fucked by everyone around?? Do you like to have something very dirty
and "expired" ?? Do Libras really have such a low standards ??
well based on a theory that Libras almost always come back I hope that's just another fun for him, plus he has told me he's not very attracted to sluts

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Why do you want a hoe-loving Libra man?

*eta: Sorry, I know your post was directed to Tiziani, but I'm curious. Thanks.

@letterbox10 first time in my life I felt something I can't explain, I'm not attracted to everyone and I never date for fun, but I always get what I want and giving up isn't my style, I told him about that just 2 weeks ago ,he can fuck as many girls around as he wants, someday he will be on his knees and begging me to listen, who knows I might not be so loyal and forgiving, disrespectful people drives me nuts, he has to pay back for being unfair to me.

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Do you like to have something very dirty
and "expired" ?? Do Libras really have such a low standards ??

That's a disgusting way to speak about other people who enjoy sex and their sexuality. That kind of simpleton mentality doesn't work with air signs. Sorry to say, but your ignorant value system needs to get its validation elsewhere.

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Listen girl I'm not talking to you and I also know that being honest won't help your pride, but I say everything exactly the way it is, yup none likes truth haha, and I have every right to speak it out. If you don't like something just get out, unfollow post lol.

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@jeane - You are right. I focus on my feelings a lot and they often contradict many things about who I am and overcast the areas that I am confident in. There are many qualities that I really admire about myself and I tend to lose sight of those becasue I am such an insecure person. I have been since a teen and it only seems to have gotten worse. I think it's more of an issue for me now becasue my boyfriend is so damn good looking! But you are right and I know this.. If I tell myself and believe that I am good enough then that is the energy that I will project and that is what I will attract into my life.. I will be enough and I know it needs to start with feeling that about myself first. My doubts manifest and incorporate themselves into my life and I project them outward only more likely to make myself seem unworthy in the eyes of my partner. I do know this, I just feed myself too much negative talk and it is an area that I really need to focus on.

excellent. exactly.

only one small correction it's not "i will be enough" you already are. it's just that you are looking at yourself with sunglasses on. when you finally take them off, you'll see what all your friends and family see and have known for years. it's ok. you're 26 (or thereabouts), it often takes women to reach their 30's and 40's to get beyond it.

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@jeane - You are right. I focus on my feelings a lot and they often contradict many things about who I am and overcast the areas that I am confident in. There are many qualities that I really admire about myself and I tend to lose sight of those becasue I am such an insecure person. I have been since a teen and it only seems to have gotten worse. I think it's more of an issue for me now becasue my boyfriend is so damn good looking! But you are right and I know this.. If I tell myself and believe that I am good enough then that is the energy that I will project and that is what I will attract into my life.. I will be enough and I know it needs to start with feeling that about myself first. My doubts manifest and incorporate themselves into my life and I project them outward only more likely to make myself seem unworthy in the eyes of my partner. I do know this, I just feed myself too much negative talk and it is an area that I really need to focus on.

excellent. exactly.

only one small correction it's not "i will be enough" you already are. it's just that you are looking at yourself with sunglasses on. when you finally take them off, you'll see what all your friends and family see and have known for years. it's ok. you're 26 (or thereabouts), it often takes women to reach their 30's and 40's to get beyond it.

Well that gives me hope then. Thank you very much for all of that jeane! I need to tell myself this more often, I know.

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you're smart. there is not a doubt in my mind. you are going to be formidable.

Posted by blackphase
I wish I had the faith in myself that you had. Although there is much within myself that I can see where you get that from (the formidable part). I know myself very well, I just let my insecurities outshine everything else.

without wanting to be condescending, we outgrow it.

i'm not going to say i am perfect, i have insecurities too just not with my character or personhood (professionally is more my albatross). i can understand you wanting to please the person we are with. we all want to do that but yeah, i've witnessed it enough to know that when most women reach their 30' and 40's they hit their stride. they stop listening to other people, society, the doubts inside them and confidently put up two fingers to the world. if the only thing that is holding you back is your insecurities then when that fallss by the wayside, you're going to be amazing and shake your head at they way you were before. it's a process though. you can't rush it. everything that is happening today will make you the woman you'll be tomorrow.

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Do you like to have something very dirty
and "expired" ?? Do Libras really have such a low standards ??

That's a disgusting way to speak about other people who enjoy sex and their sexuality. That kind of simpleton mentality doesn't work with air signs. Sorry to say, but your ignorant value system needs to get its validation elsewhere.

Listen girl I'm not talking to you and I also know that being honest won't help your pride, but I say everything exactly the way it is, yup none likes truth haha, and I have every right to speak it out. If you don't like something just get out, unfollow post lol.

What truth? You don't seem to be bothered by others who have quoted you without you directing anything at them. You don't like my comment, because it doesn't suit your false sense of truth.

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no not really hun 🙂
please be smarter,
let me explain, when you have a clothes, wore a bit much and you decided to give it away, its called second hand right,
now imagine someone who has been used too many times, and tell me what is it called ? and do you prefer having brand new clothes or floor rags? 😉
don't get mad, everything has its name 😉

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Do you like to have something very dirty
and "expired" ?? Do Libras really have such a low standards ??

That's a disgusting way to speak about other people who enjoy sex and their sexuality. That kind of simpleton mentality doesn't work with air signs. Sorry to say, but your ignorant value system needs to get its validation elsewhere.

Listen girl I'm not talking to you and I also know that being honest won't help your pride, but I say everything exactly the way it is, yup none likes truth haha, and I have every right to speak it out. If you don't like something just get out, unfollow post lol.

What truth? You don't seem to be bothered by others who have quoted you without you directing anything at them. You don't like my comment, because it doesn't suit your false sense of truth.

no not really hun 🙂
please be smarter,
let me explain, when you have a clothes, wore a bit much and you decided to give it away, its called second hand right,
now imagine someone who has been used too many times, and tell me what is it called ? and do you prefer having brand new clothes or floor rags? 😉
don't get mad, everything has its name 😉

Yeah.. That's a personal opinion for people.. Not the truth or a fact..
Some will choose new, some will choose rags. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

You You have no say in the matter and just becasue he is friends with one person who likes to post dirty shit, does not mean that's the type of gal he wants.. It's a Facebook friend..

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I actually agree with that

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@letterbox10 first time in my life I felt something I can't explain, I'm not attracted to everyone and I never date for fun, but I always get what I want and giving up isn't my style, I told him about that just 2 weeks ago ,he can fuck as many girls around as he wants, someday he will be on his knees and begging me to listen, who knows I might not be so loyal and forgiving, disrespectful people drives me nuts, he has to pay back for being unfair to me.

So this feeling that he's making you feel... is it something good or bad? From your posts you sound exasperated... If he's making you feel that way, why bother? I mean is he really worth it?

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Posted by blackphase
I wish I had the faith in myself that you had. Although there is much within myself that I can see where you get that from (the formidable part). I know myself very well, I just let my insecurities outshine everything else.

without wanting to be condescending, we outgrow it.

i'm not going to say i am perfect, i have insecurities too just not with my character or personhood (professionally is more my albatross). i can understand you wanting to please the person we are with. we all want to do that but yeah, i've witnessed it enough to know that when most women reach their 30' and 40's they hit their stride. they stop listening to other people, society, the doubts inside them and confidently put up two fingers to the world. if the only thing that is holding you back is your insecurities then when that falls by the wayside, you're going to be amazing and shake your head at they way you were before. it's a process though. you can't rush it. everything that is happening today will make you the woman you'll be tomorrow.

Funny thing is the women I've seen who reach this stage in their lives a lot quicker, by their late 20s or 30s, have been exposed to sex and sexuality constantly. Whether they be just ballet dancers or prostitutes or former sex workers.

I dunno what it is about that.

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hmm, there might be some truth to that...i've never put the two together but it correlates with my experience.

personally, I slept with a lot of men (of my choosing) when I was younger - before I met my son's father and I was faithful to him and I got pregnant but then we broke up and there I was ... still searching it seemed for something - not knowing what ... as I got older things changed dramatically as naturally I grew into myself and knowing myself now I look back and shake my head and shrug my shoulders - glad for the experience, not sure if that made me who I am because I've always taken care of myself and don't care what other people think because I know who I am and I'm good with that - not sure if the life experiences came first or the experience became the life first ... I think of my sister, an April Taurus, one year and 11 days apart - she is shy, sheltered, never got out much and I think had sex with 2 men in her life ... she's the same now at this age - unsure of herself, afraid of the wind ... and she tells me she doesn't understand me but wishes she was me because of my confidence in myself ...

nope, I am not saying that - I was responding to what was said earlier - recounting my own experience - I never thought of it that way - I thought I was always confident and not just about sex - but about taking care of myself ... but that is what seemed to be alluded to earlier in the thread unless I misread ...

I see that you are both saying the same thing ... :O

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I see that you are both saying the same thing ... :O

Dont believe them. Libra men make the perfect house husbands.

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ha SuperMercurial - my babe is a Libra - he is not a house husband ... wait - what is your definition of a house husband ? lol !

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@letterbox10 first time in my life I felt something I can't explain, I'm not attracted to everyone and I never date for fun, but I always get what I want and giving up isn't my style, I told him about that just 2 weeks ago ,he can fuck as many girls around as he wants, someday he will be on his knees and begging me to listen, who knows I might not be so loyal and forgiving, disrespectful people drives me nuts, he has to pay back for being unfair to me.

So this feeling that he's making you feel... is it something good or bad? From your posts you sound exasperated... If he's making you feel that way, why bother? I mean is he really worth it?

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No I guess I'm just mad. I love him, just waiting my time to come

lol - after all this, she won't want to even speak to another Libra lol

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@letterbox10 first time in my life I felt something I can't explain, I'm not attracted to everyone and I never date for fun, but I always get what I want and giving up isn't my style, I told him about that just 2 weeks ago ,he can fuck as many girls around as he wants, someday he will be on his knees and begging me to listen, who knows I might not be so loyal and forgiving, disrespectful people drives me nuts, he has to pay back for being unfair to me.

So this feeling that he's making you feel... is it something good or bad? From your posts you sound exasperated... If he's making you feel that way, why bother? I mean is he really worth it?

No I guess I'm just mad. I love him, just waiting my time to come

Are you even dating this fellow?

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If you mean If I slept with him then no

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I see that you are both saying the same thing ... :O

Dont believe them. Libra men make the perfect house husbands.

ha SuperMercurial - my babe is a Libra - he is not a house husband ... wait - what is your definition of a house husband ? lol !

lol I was only saying that because the libra I dated was nothing like the libras on here, but he had a lot of scorpio. He was probably closest to DuchesseLibro. When the truth is that Libra men donate sperm more than any other sign. #astrostats

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lol too funny - my Libra has Scorpio Rising so that must be a different influence for sure -

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@letterbox10 first time in my life I felt something I can't explain, I'm not attracted to everyone and I never date for fun, but I always get what I want and giving up isn't my style, I told him about that just 2 weeks ago ,he can fuck as many girls around as he wants, someday he will be on his knees and begging me to listen, who knows I might not be so loyal and forgiving, disrespectful people drives me nuts, he has to pay back for being unfair to me.

So this feeling that he's making you feel... is it something good or bad? From your posts you sound exasperated... If he's making you feel that way, why bother? I mean is he really worth it?

No I guess I'm just mad. I love him, just waiting my time to come

Are you even dating this fellow?

If you mean If I slept with him then no

No.. I mean dating, seeing, in a relationship. Why do you automatically assume sex?

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Sadly no we aren't in a relationship 😢
yeah he has every right to fuck everyone around.
but he made it like we were, and when I tell him if he doesn't want me I'm not gonna stay around he keeps being quiet and posts pictures that he cares too much, what the hell should I think?

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personally, I slept with a lot of men (of my choosing) when I was younger - before I met my son's father and I was faithful to him and I got pregnant but then we broke up and there I was ... still searching it seemed for something - not knowing what ... as I got older things changed dramatically as naturally I grew into myself and knowing myself now I look back and shake my head and shrug my shoulders - glad for the experience, not sure if that made me who I am because I've always taken care of myself and don't care what other people think because I know who I am and I'm good with that - not sure if the life experiences came first or the experience became the life first ... I think of my sister, an April Taurus, one year and 11 days apart - she is shy, sheltered, never got out much and I think had sex with 2 men in her life ... she's the same now at this age - unsure of herself, afraid of the wind ... and she tells me she doesn't understand me but wishes she was me because of my confidence in myself ...

Are you saying having lots of sex with many partners equals having more self confidence?

not automatically, but its a possibility..

im not going to get into the details
but to make it simple, this is how I see it:

many partners = more experiences = more self confidence...

that's logic! lol

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but we are not talking about just sexual confidence here or are we lol - I got lost along the way ... I had confidence very early on in life ... the experiences came from just being out there is society and not being a house mouse - I wanted to see the world, live the life, experience it all ... hey it was the 60s man ... sex drugs and rock and roll ...

@blackphase maybe you are right. But it's not easy for me to find a partner I truly like, I don't know it's just too hard

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@blackphase maybe you are right. But it's not easy for me to find a partner I truly like, I don't know it's just too hard

that doesn't mean you take the first guy who still has his own teeth! it jut means you keep looking and if you don't find him, that is ok too. you're enough without someone else to prop you up.

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@blackphase maybe you are right. But it's not easy for me to find a partner I truly like, I don't know it's just too hard

It all comes down to how well you know yourself. You are not even with this fella yet and you are already seeing things come up that make you uncomfortable.. Why pursue?
Find someone who correlates more with the inner you and reflects what you want in a partner. Once you have a better understanding of yourself and what you want / need from a relationship, then it will be easier for you to not get caught with a bunch of feelings for someone that likely isn't even a good match for you.

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I know what I want and what I'm looking for, he has everything, that's why I'm stuck. Don't get me wrong I'm crazy as hell in the bedroom just don't fucking with everyone who comes around, so I thought we were good match. Well he's free now, I don't bother him, don't call or text. We'll see, but either way he doesn't know me good 🙂 and has no idea what can I do 😄

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Posted by pisceanloves
@blackphase maybe you are right. But it's not easy for me to find a partner I truly like, I don't know it's just too hard

that doesn't mean you take the first guy who still has his own teeth! it jut means you keep looking and if you don't find him, that is ok too. you're enough without someone else to prop you up.

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Truth, you killing my heart but can't disagree.

s[hoes]

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Posted by blackphase
I wish I had the faith in myself that you had. Although there is much within myself that I can see where you get that from (the formidable part). I know myself very well, I just let my insecurities outshine everything else.

without wanting to be condescending, we outgrow it.

i'm not going to say i am perfect, i have insecurities too just not with my character or personhood (professionally is more my albatross). i can understand you wanting to please the person we are with. we all want to do that but yeah, i've witnessed it enough to know that when most women reach their 30' and 40's they hit their stride. they stop listening to other people, society, the doubts inside them and confidently put up two fingers to the world. if the only thing that is holding you back is your insecurities then when that fallss by the wayside, you're going to be amazing and shake your head at they way you were before. it's a process though. you can't rush it. everything that is happening today will make you the woman you'll be tomorrow.

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yes. to all Jeane has said.

🤗 it WILL and does get better @blackphase.

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I wish I had the faith in myself that you had. Although there is much within myself that I can see where you get that from (the formidable part). I know myself very well, I just let my insecurities outshine everything else.

without wanting to be condescending, we outgrow it.

i'm not going to say i am perfect, i have insecurities too just not with my character or personhood (professionally is more my albatross). i can understand you wanting to please the person we are with. we all want to do that but yeah, i've witnessed it enough to know that when most women reach their 30' and 40's they hit their stride. they stop listening to other people, society, the doubts inside them and confidently put up two fingers to the world. if the only thing that is holding you back is your insecurities then when that fallss by the wayside, you're going to be amazing and shake your head at they way you were before. it's a process though. you can't rush it. everything that is happening today will make you the woman you'll be tomorrow.

Funny thing is the women I've seen who reach this stage in their lives a lot quicker, by their late 20s or 30s, have been exposed to sex and sexuality constantly. Whether they be just ballet dancers or prostitutes or former sex workers.

I dunno what it is about that.

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Life forces them to grow up.. sometimes without even realizing it. Or if trauma, robbing them of a childhood type stuffl, IF it's dealt with. The ugly truth is brought to light much sooner.

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If you looked up Captain Save-a-hoe, you'd see a Libra man right next to it.


Seriously, every Libra dude I've known is so desperate for love/affection that he'll wife anybody. Doesn't matter if her vagina has been around the block and back, doesn't matter if she screwed his friends, they will wife the girl.


Of course I know this doesn't apply to every Libra guy. This is just what I've noticed in my life. Libra guys will date pretty much any girl.

I have to ask: what's wrong with hoes ? Jesus himself married a hoe (if I'm not mistaken). Maybe those Libras were walking in his footsteps. What would the homie think of people looking down on / dissing hoes when he (the Son of God) wifed up a prostitute ?? Hopefully none of you (that talked smack) is a Christian.