Do Libras seek for a faithful or open minded partner?

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angie2080
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So I have an issue with my Libra man. We have our ups and downs in our relationship. Sometimes we don't agree on some things but my Libra guy seems attracted to open minded girls who cheat. He tells me he wants me to flirt with guys and talk to them more.

He says he likes that for some reason but I'm not the type to be unfaithful. I'm very loyal when I'm with someone.

Other times he changes his mind and tells me he would die if another man even touches me. He confuses me and I don't understand what he's looking for. As a Libra, do you expect your partner to be faithful or Liberal and open minded?
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angie2080
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To answer the question: Yes, he has told me his sexual fantasy is for me to sleep with another man. He says it turns him on to see me talking and flirting with guys, which I never do.

The weird thing about this is that he later on repents and says he feels bad for telling me those things.

I don't understand his mindset because he acts jealous yet he tells me he wants to see me with another man.

Sometimes it also seems like he's testing me because one time he begged me to say hello to some guy. I was stupid and pleased him since he was begging me and he got mad for that. He started saying that if my love for him was strong I wouldn't not done that. I'm a faithful girl but can't figure out what goes through his head.
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Posted by angie2080

To answer the question: Yes, he has told me his sexual fantasy is for me to sleep with another man. He says it turns him on to see me talking and flirting with guys, which I never do.

The weird thing about this is that he later on repents and says he feels bad for telling me those things.

I don't understand his mindset because he acts jealous yet he tells me he wants to see me with another man.

Sometimes it also seems like he's testing me because one time he begged me to say hello to some guy. I was stupid and pleased him since he was begging me and he got mad for that. He started saying that if my love for him was strong I wouldn't not done that. I'm a faithful girl but can't figure out what goes through his head.


Oh wow. A lot to unpack here.

Check his web history. Maybe watching too many cuckold pornos.

His idea of love is weird af. He begs and pleads with you to do something that will 'make him happy' then cry's 'you don't love me' when you do?

Your not the only one who can't figure out whats goin on in his head. He doesn't know either.
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Posted by angie2080

To answer the question: Yes, he has told me his sexual fantasy is for me to sleep with another man. He says it turns him on to see me talking and flirting with guys, which I never do.

The weird thing about this is that he later on repents and says he feels bad for telling me those things.

I don't understand his mindset because he acts jealous yet he tells me he wants to see me with another man.

Sometimes it also seems like he's testing me because one time he begged me to say hello to some guy. I was stupid and pleased him since he was begging me and he got mad for that. He started saying that if my love for him was strong I wouldn't not done that. I'm a faithful girl but can't figure out what goes through his head.


How about just to save yourself from this psycho and tell him to fuck himself? ๐ŸงŸโ€โ™€๏ธ
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Posted by angie2080

To answer the question: Yes, he has told me his sexual fantasy is for me to sleep with another man. He says it turns him on to see me talking and flirting with guys, which I never do.

The weird thing about this is that he later on repents and says he feels bad for telling me those things.

I don't understand his mindset because he acts jealous yet he tells me he wants to see me with another man.

Sometimes it also seems like he's testing me because one time he begged me to say hello to some guy. I was stupid and pleased him since he was begging me and he got mad for that. He started saying that if my love for him was strong I wouldn't not done that. I'm a faithful girl but can't figure out what goes through his head.


im going to change my mind on this one. i think he probably is a cuck. a confused one. i would talk to him about it. i don't think this is a libra thing but likely just a guy trying to work out his sexuality and what does it for him.
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Nah... although I hate to say this about my own sign, the shadow side can cheat like a MF'r.... but never saw one that handles that happening to themselves well.

Cuckholding is a popular fetish... I know a Cancer and Sag man that are into this. Doesn't mean they cheat...it's a form of erotic masochism. Are you into this? He might just feel comfortable enough with you to express it, but hasnt really accepted in himself that its okay to have those desires, and now is projecting his own insecurities about it on you.

I would simply state "The issue here isnt with me. Once you figure out what your desires really are, im open to discussing it further. Until then I'm not going to allow you to have me questioning myself due to your inconsistency." Stand in YOUR power, with any man no matter the sign.
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Posted by angie2080

So I have an issue with my Libra man. We have our ups and downs in our relationship. Sometimes we don't agree on some things but my Libra guy seems attracted to open minded girls who cheat. He tells me he wants me to flirt with guys and talk to them more.

He says he likes that for some reason but I'm not the type to be unfaithful. I'm very loyal when I'm with someone.

Other times he changes his mind and tells me he would die if another man even touches me. He confuses me and I don't understand what he's looking for. As a Libra, do you expect your partner to be faithful or Liberal and open minded?


He sounds like he is commitment phobic. He craves commitment yet he is afraid of expecting it nor experiencing it because maybe he was burnt in the past.