Equality or Respected

A question I was never sure about. Libra men seem to be very fair in most issues. In a relationship do they perfer that they and thier partners are equal on all levels, or do they feel at some point as the man they should get the ultimate respect?

I can recall my ex being mostly easy going, however, maybe because of my strong spirit, he would try and pull that "I am the man of the house" attitude. Knowing how to stroke his ego and I have learned this from older women.. I resply, "yes you are baby" whatever you'd like, then I would say, but if we did it this way........ 🙂 Never fails, I always got my way. I think it is just the presentation. Although sometimes, I would get tired of the compromising game and say, "Look, this is what I think and this is what I am doing you either with me or not." Most times he would have an attitude but go along, but sometimes he wouldn't. I did find it easier to go the smoother route. Sometimes tip toeing around youg guys suck though...

Oh, letting them think they got their way, however we wind up doing it my way almost all the time.

******** In a relationship do they perfer that they and thier partners are equal on all levels

YES. and we tend to take an effort to push the women to reach our speed of thinking.

On the whole I want an equal. In some regards I want to be looked up too or adored for my strengths, and in turn I will do the same for the other person. Yeah, a female scorps nature will make us be a little more stubborn than otherwise at times, but we tend to desire equality. I see the duality in everything, I want my partner to complete the circle that I can't fill on my own and vice versa.

That and through some recent conversation I have realized that I would really like/need a muse 😉

Well Nic when are you coming to Chicago— my situation is moving really slow.

browneyedgirl,

Of course you make yourself complete, rather than depend on another. I guess I didn't explain it quite right. No matter how complete you are, you aren't in the big picture. See what I am saying? Someone who compliments your personhood.

yes, nico, i see what you mean when you put it like that...being a compliment to one another is always good. 🙂

"yes, nico, i see what you mean when you put it like that...being a compliment to one another is always good."

Totally. I will always inspire to improve myself but I do realize that no one will ever be perfect. when it comes to relationships I have a real "seperate we are strong, together we are invincible" idealistic outlook on love.

'nic, I adore you. You know that, don't you—

Thanks, I say why not be idealistic, who is going to stop you?

Im sure our Nico has many admirers!!! 😛

I second that, Chatz.

LOL Yes!

Sweet a new one 😉