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Posted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibra
From his response to you, he's not interested. You can come out and tell him what you want and expect but more than likely at this point he will lie to keep from arguing; but will be even more turned off and won't want to be bothered.
He told me he met someone and was going to message me. Lol. I told him that's BS and he didnt have the balls to tell me he was never going to come and see me. Then he went on and on justifying himself. What an assclick to expand
Okay I'll tell you the truth since I'm a Libra too. He thought you were cute but on second look something about you turned him off (probably your attitude) and you didn't appear as cute as before. So he decided the other girl he was talking to while he was chatting you was better looking and nicer than you but he didn't want to tell you this because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. After you got shit faced hurt over a guy you've only known what? one month? He is so glad he made the decision to block you and not follow you on Instagram. It's over, get over it and move on. You say other guys want you but the way you're acting it's as if this guy was your only option.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibra
From his response to you, he's not interested. You can come out and tell him what you want and expect but more than likely at this point he will lie to keep from arguing; but will be even more turned off and won't want to be bothered.
He told me he met someone and was going to message me. Lol. I told him that's BS and he didnt have the balls to tell me he was never going to come and see me. Then he went on and on justifying himself. What an ass
Okay I'll tell you the truth since I'm a Libra too. He thought you were cute but on second look something about you turned him off (probably your attitude) and you didn't appear as cute as before. So he decided the other girl he was talking to while he was chatting you was better looking and nicer than you but he didn't want to tell you this because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. After you got shit faced hurt over a guy you've only known what? one month? He is so glad he made the decision to block you and not follow you on Instagram. It's over, get over it and move on. You say other guys want you but the way you're acting it's as if this guy was your only option.click to expand
Hmmmmmm no. You think you know everything but you dont. He didnt meet anyone. This wasnt a dating site. The guy was 39 and I'm 25. He bailed because he didnt want to make the cross country flight. You dont even know my personality to make these stupid assumptions from me period.
Posted by blvckphvsePosted by Gemini25Posted by blvckphvse
But really, go with your gut. You could be blunt with him and he could tell you the flattery things you want to hear, but it could all be bs. He could easily lie and tell you what you wanna hear to keep you on the hook, so if you have a bad feeling about it, just drop it.
Update..he told me he met someone and was going to message me about it. Lmao I told him that's BS you just didnt have the balls to tell me you're not coming. He kept going on and on justifying himself. I told him to stop, and that he should be saying to someone miss you just casually. Hes like I wish you the best blah blah..I deleted him but he is still following me. What an asshole
What a piece of trash. Consider yourself lucky that he came forward and didn't drag shit out with you and allow you to develop feelings. I was briefly with another Libra before the one I was in a relationship with, he got back with his ex after meeting me, didn't tell me and strung us both on for months. Lame fkn bunch!click to expand
Thank you! First time I was dealing with a Libra Man like this. He was sending a lot of photos of his God daughter which he loves. Gave me a house tour. Like wtf? I feel like maybe he didnt have the budget to fly over and thought it's not worth it, but he could of been honest and I would understand not this lame excuse I suddenly met someone. Huh?! Yea ok
Posted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibra
From his response to you, he's not interested. You can come out and tell him what you want and expect but more than likely at this point he will lie to keep from arguing; but will be even more turned off and won't want to be bothered.
He told me he met someone and was going to message me. Lol. I told him that's BS and he didnt have the balls to tell me he was never going to come and see me. Then he went on and on justifying himself. What an ass
Okay I'll tell you the truth since I'm a Libra too. He thought you were cute but on second look something about you turned him off (probably your attitude) and you didn't appear as cute as before. So he decided the other girl he was talking to while he was chatting you was better looking and nicer than you but he didn't want to tell you this because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. After you got shit faced hurt over a guy you've only known what? one month? He is so glad he made the decision to block you and not follow you on Instagram. It's over, get over it and move on. You say other guys want you but the way you're acting it's as if this guy was your only option.
Hmmmmmm no. You think you know everything but you dont. He didnt meet anyone. This wasnt a dating site. The guy was 39 and I'm 25. He bailed because he didnt want to make the cross country flight. You dont even know my personality to make these stupid assumptions from me period.click to expand
Stupid? What's stupid is you going on several sites posting this nothing story about a guy you've known a month who won't come see you. He met another girl and told you so. He is no longer following you on Instagram and has blocked your ass. He's 14 years older and still doesn't want you. Get over it already. Any other 25 year old would have put this behind them and moved on with their life but you keep holding on to this nothing encounter about a man you've never even met. As needy as you are I'm having a damn hard time believing you're even a Gemini. They aren't this stupid.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibra
From his response to you, he's not interested. You can come out and tell him what you want and expect but more than likely at this point he will lie to keep from arguing; but will be even more turned off and won't want to be bothered.
He told me he met someone and was going to message me. Lol. I told him that's BS and he didnt have the balls to tell me he was never going to come and see me. Then he went on and on justifying himself. What an ass
Okay I'll tell you the truth since I'm a Libra too. He thought you were cute but on second look something about you turned him off (probably your attitude) and you didn't appear as cute as before. So he decided the other girl he was talking to while he was chatting you was better looking and nicer than you but he didn't want to tell you this because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. After you got shit faced hurt over a guy you've only known what? one month? He is so glad he made the decision to block you and not follow you on Instagram. It's over, get over it and move on. You say other guys want you but the way you're acting it's as if this guy was your only option.
Hmmmmmm no. You think you know everything but you dont. He didnt meet anyone. This wasnt a dating site. The guy was 39 and I'm 25. He bailed because he didnt want to make the cross country flight. You dont even know my personality to make these stupid assumptions from me period.
Stupid? What's stupid is you going on several sites posting this nothing story about a guy you've known a month who won't come see you. He met another girl and told you so. He is no longer following you on Instagram and has blocked your ass. He's 14 years older and still doesn't want you. Get over it already. Any other 25 year old would have put this behind them and moved on with their life but you keep holding on to this nothing encounter about a man you've never even met. As needy as you are I'm having a damn hard time believing you're even a Gemini. They aren't this stupid.click to expand
Damn woman you need to get laid. First and foremost he didnt block me, second of all I only posted to this site, third of all how do you know he didnt want me? How about he didnt have the money to fly over maybe. Stop accusing and blaming me. He didnt find anyone that is BS and most on here agreed.
Posted by Gemini25
Damn woman you need to get laid. First and foremost he didnt block me, second of all I only posted to this site, third of all how do you know he didnt want me? How about he didnt have the money to fly over maybe. Stop accusing and blaming me. He didnt find anyone that is BS and most on here agreed.
This is a nonsensical statement that is illogical.
Making up a story about a fictitious girl he met, while simultaneously ghosting you for several days, and then removing you from all social media platforms all for the purposes of hiding he is broke, would mean he is extremely egocentric. Add that all he had to really do was ghost you completely and he wouldn't really need to explain anything, would be the easier route.
And it's equally easy to determine he didn't want you. Because if he actually did, and wanted to pursue you, why even make up an excuse of another girl? That is not something any man would logically do.
I like you, but I'm broke. So I'm going to tell you I met another girl and admit I play the field to insure you never talk to me again. Also, I'm going to remove you completely because I like you, but I am broke. But really I like you, and want you, though I don't want you to talk to me every again.
That makes no sense.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Gemini25
Damn woman you need to get laid. First and foremost he didnt block me, second of all I only posted to this site, third of all how do you know he didnt want me? How about he didnt have the money to fly over maybe. Stop accusing and blaming me. He didnt find anyone that is BS and most on here agreed.
This is a nonsensical statement that is illogical.
Making up a story about a fictitious girl he met, while simultaneously ghosting you for several days, and then removing you from all social media platforms all for the purposes of hiding he is broke, would mean he is extremely egocentric. Add that all he had to really do was ghost you completely and he wouldn't really need to explain anything, would be the easier route.
And it's equally easy to determine he didn't want you. Because if he actually did, and wanted to pursue you, why even make up an excuse of another girl? That is not something any man would logically do.
I like you, but I'm broke. So I'm going to tell you I met another girl and admit I play the field to insure you never talk to me again. Also, I'm going to remove you completely because I like you, but I am broke. But really I like you, and want you, though I don't want you to talk to me every again.
That makes no sense.click to expand
So it makes sense to text and call me everyday twice a day while planning the trip, give me a date and never ever showing me the air ticket? Yesss that makes sense. All of a sudden I met someone. Why he didnt say anything until i texted him? He was following me and lurking on my stories for 4 days straight until i actually asked him hey you've been mia how are you? Are you ok? Yess completely makes sense.
I understand rejection, I understand changing your mind, I understand we weren't dating but God damn have some balls to tell me listen I've changed my mind, I would of respected him more if he actually said that himself first instead of building up this emotional BS with me. I'm over him yes because again maybe in person there would be no chemistry anyway? But what I dont understand is how can he do that for a month and a half and then when the date to fly he suddenly met someone?? I smell BS and anyone would too! Period. Finished. I even told him that's BS excuse and you just couldn't tell me you changed your mind about flying to me and he kept on justifying himself until I just didnt read his last message because its dumb. I wished him well and told him he is basically a jackass
Posted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibra
From his response to you, he's not interested. You can come out and tell him what you want and expect but more than likely at this point he will lie to keep from arguing; but will be even more turned off and won't want to be bothered.
He told me he met someone and was going to message me. Lol. I told him that's BS and he didnt have the balls to tell me he was never going to come and see me. Then he went on and on justifying himself. What an ass
Okay I'll tell you the truth since I'm a Libra too. He thought you were cute but on second look something about you turned him off (probably your attitude) and you didn't appear as cute as before. So he decided the other girl he was talking to while he was chatting you was better looking and nicer than you but he didn't want to tell you this because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. After you got shit faced hurt over a guy you've only known what? one month? He is so glad he made the decision to block you and not follow you on Instagram. It's over, get over it and move on. You say other guys want you but the way you're acting it's as if this guy was your only option.
Hmmmmmm no. You think you know everything but you dont. He didnt meet anyone. This wasnt a dating site. The guy was 39 and I'm 25. He bailed because he didnt want to make the cross country flight. You dont even know my personality to make these stupid assumptions from me period.
Stupid? What's stupid is you going on several sites posting this nothing story about a guy you've known a month who won't come see you. He met another girl and told you so. He is no longer following you on Instagram and has blocked your ass. He's 14 years older and still doesn't want you. Get over it already. Any other 25 year old would have put this behind them and moved on with their life but you keep holding on to this nothing encounter about a man you've never even met. As needy as you are I'm having a damn hard time believing you're even a Gemini. They aren't this stupid.
Damn woman you need to get laid. First and foremost he didnt block me, second of all I only posted to this site, third of all how do you know he didnt want me? How about he didnt have the money to fly over maybe. Stop accusing and blaming me. He didnt find anyone that is BS and most on here agreed.click to expand
Look Gemini25 or should I call you Brittany25? This story is on another site I just read this morning. The point is if you think this guy doesn't have the balls to do whatever as it pertains to you then forget it and move on. This guy damn sure knew what he was doing because he certainly dodged a bullet. You're 25, go out and find another guy and live your life. He doesn't care! Thanks for worrying about my sex life but my husband takes care of me well. However, you definitely need some DICK, pronto!
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibra
From his response to you, he's not interested. You can come out and tell him what you want and expect but more than likely at this point he will lie to keep from arguing; but will be even more turned off and won't want to be bothered.
He told me he met someone and was going to message me. Lol. I told him that's BS and he didnt have the balls to tell me he was never going to come and see me. Then he went on and on justifying himself. What an ass
Okay I'll tell you the truth since I'm a Libra too. He thought you were cute but on second look something about you turned him off (probably your attitude) and you didn't appear as cute as before. So he decided the other girl he was talking to while he was chatting you was better looking and nicer than you but he didn't want to tell you this because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. After you got shit faced hurt over a guy you've only known what? one month? He is so glad he made the decision to block you and not follow you on Instagram. It's over, get over it and move on. You say other guys want you but the way you're acting it's as if this guy was your only option.
Hmmmmmm no. You think you know everything but you dont. He didnt meet anyone. This wasnt a dating site. The guy was 39 and I'm 25. He bailed because he didnt want to make the cross country flight. You dont even know my personality to make these stupid assumptions from me period.
Stupid? What's stupid is you going on several sites posting this nothing story about a guy you've known a month who won't come see you. He met another girl and told you so. He is no longer following you on Instagram and has blocked your ass. He's 14 years older and still doesn't want you. Get over it already. Any other 25 year old would have put this behind them and moved on with their life but you keep holding on to this nothing encounter about a man you've never even met. As needy as you are I'm having a damn hard time believing you're even a Gemini. They aren't this stupid.
Damn woman you need to get laid. First and foremost he didnt block me, second of all I only posted to this site, third of all how do you know he didnt want me? How about he didnt have the money to fly over maybe. Stop accusing and blaming me. He didnt find anyone that is BS and most on here agreed.
Look Gemini25 or should I call you Brittany25? This story is on another site I just read this morning. The point is if you think this guy doesn't have the balls to do whatever as it pertains to you then forget it and move on. This guy damn sure knew what he was doing because he certainly dodged a bullet. You're 25, go out and find another guy and live your life. He doesn't care! Thanks for worrying about my sex life but my husband takes care of me well. However, you definitely need some DICK, pronto!click to expand
LMAOOOOO if you have a husband what the hell are you doing on dating forums and here? Go take care of him.
Posted by Gemini25Posted by nikkistarPosted by Gemini25
Damn woman you need to get laid. First and foremost he didnt block me, second of all I only posted to this site, third of all how do you know he didnt want me? How about he didnt have the money to fly over maybe. Stop accusing and blaming me. He didnt find anyone that is BS and most on here agreed.
This is a nonsensical statement that is illogical.
Making up a story about a fictitious girl he met, while simultaneously ghosting you for several days, and then removing you from all social media platforms all for the purposes of hiding he is broke, would mean he is extremely egocentric. Add that all he had to really do was ghost you completely and he wouldn't really need to explain anything, would be the easier route.
And it's equally easy to determine he didn't want you. Because if he actually did, and wanted to pursue you, why even make up an excuse of another girl? That is not something any man would logically do.
I like you, but I'm broke. So I'm going to tell you I met another girl and admit I play the field to insure you never talk to me again. Also, I'm going to remove you completely because I like you, but I am broke. But really I like you, and want you, though I don't want you to talk to me every again.
That makes no sense.
So it makes sense to text and call me everyday twice a day while planning the trip, give me a date and never ever showing me the air ticket? Yesss that makes sense. All of a sudden I met someone. Why he didnt say anything until i texted him? He was following me and lurking on my stories for 4 days straight until i actually asked him hey you've been mia how are you? Are you ok? Yess completely makes sense.click to expand
I am not saying his ghosting you was right, nor saying you did anything "wrong" to make him stop talking to you. Is it possible he is doing all of that because he is egocentric? Sure, there is always that possibility. But that is not the initial conclusion most people would think of, let alone in the top 3 reasons.
For all intents and purposes, you are basically a stranger that lives across the country. Regardless of you talking for a month, you have never met him. And 30 days is not a lot of time to even know anyone on any level. You probably have canned food that has been in your pantry longer than the amount of time you have communicated with him. For that very reason, he really has zero consequences whatsoever, if he just straight up ghosted you.
All he had to do was block you, remove you, and never have to talk to you a single day again. Without ever having to make up a bunch of lies to cover up a lie of not having money. Again, nonsensical, because human behavior usually goes for the easiest, shortest route possible, not the longest route.
What is more plausible, is that he was talking to another woman (or more) while talking to you as well, and one was probably closer to his location, more than likely, in the same city as him. And because of that, out of sheer convenience, it would be easier just for him to go with her. In essence, he can be lazier and still get the same outcome, with less time and money spent. Additionally, it is more plausible that he did like you, which is why he didn't remove you from the start. Hoping that if he just stopped talking, and you never reached out, he would have an avenue to reach out to you again if it didn't work out with this other girl. Essentially, leaving you on reserve because he prioritizes his own comfort and laziness over actually doing anything that is harder than the easiest thing to do.
And if you are wondering why he would respond to you, and later remove you. Simple, either your response to him telling you he met someone else put him off. Or the girl was there, and he needed to save face with her, because he was probably talking to like 4 girls, and they argued about it. Both are equal possibilities, especially given how you seem to be prone to impulsive angry outbursts. You can even see that in your posts here. Again though, him doing all of that in front of another girl during an argument, is JUST as likely.
I've seen it in action, first hand. I am fully aware of what is more plausible or not. So no, your conclusion is not the first logical conclusion anyone would come up with.
i don't understand why his met someone else theory is assumed to be bs.
if he is trawling instagram to start a conversation with one woman, why is it so unreasonable that he is starting multiple conversations with a number of women.
he's a 39 year old man picking up to 25 year old kids on insta.
if he is trawling instagram to start a conversation with one woman, why is it so unreasonable that he is starting multiple conversations with a number of women.
he's a 39 year old man picking up to 25 year old kids on insta.
Posted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Gemini25Posted by DonnaLibra
From his response to you, he's not interested. You can come out and tell him what you want and expect but more than likely at this point he will lie to keep from arguing; but will be even more turned off and won't want to be bothered.
He told me he met someone and was going to message me. Lol. I told him that's BS and he didnt have the balls to tell me he was never going to come and see me. Then he went on and on justifying himself. What an ass
Okay I'll tell you the truth since I'm a Libra too. He thought you were cute but on second look something about you turned him off (probably your attitude) and you didn't appear as cute as before. So he decided the other girl he was talking to while he was chatting you was better looking and nicer than you but he didn't want to tell you this because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. After you got shit faced hurt over a guy you've only known what? one month? He is so glad he made the decision to block you and not follow you on Instagram. It's over, get over it and move on. You say other guys want you but the way you're acting it's as if this guy was your only option.
Hmmmmmm no. You think you know everything but you dont. He didnt meet anyone. This wasnt a dating site. The guy was 39 and I'm 25. He bailed because he didnt want to make the cross country flight. You dont even know my personality to make these stupid assumptions from me period.
Stupid? What's stupid is you going on several sites posting this nothing story about a guy you've known a month who won't come see you. He met another girl and told you so. He is no longer following you on Instagram and has blocked your ass. He's 14 years older and still doesn't want you. Get over it already. Any other 25 year old would have put this behind them and moved on with their life but you keep holding on to this nothing encounter about a man you've never even met. As needy as you are I'm having a damn hard time believing you're even a Gemini. They aren't this stupid.
Damn woman you need to get laid. First and foremost he didnt block me, second of all I only posted to this site, third of all how do you know he didnt want me? How about he didnt have the money to fly over maybe. Stop accusing and blaming me. He didnt find anyone that is BS and most on here agreed.
Look Gemini25 or should I call you Brittany25? This story is on another site I just read this morning. The point is if you think this guy doesn't have the balls to do whatever as it pertains to you then forget it and move on. This guy damn sure knew what he was doing because he certainly dodged a bullet. You're 25, go out and find another guy and live your life. He doesn't care! Thanks for worrying about my sex life but my husband takes care of me well. However, you definitely need some DICK, pronto!
LMAOOOOO if you have a husband what the hell are you doing on dating forums and here? Go take care of him.click to expand
He takes care of me, thank you very much. I'm on this forum because of astrology and the other forum I saw your thread on was a relationship forum, never a dating forum. So that means you've also posted this crap on a dating forum. Girl you're damn desperate for a man you never met and only talked to for a month. How many other places did you post this complaint? The people here are telling you the same things that were said over there and just like over there you will not accept what is blatantly obvious! It's Friday, go out tonight with friends and meet a man!
Posted by jeane
i don't understand why his met someone else theory is assumed to be bs.
if he is trawling instagram to start a conversation with one woman, why is it so unreasonable that he is starting multiple conversations with a number of women.
he's a 39 year old man picking up to 25 year old kids on insta.
This is where I think the OP is hyper flawed in her thought processing. I think it goes against her sensibilities and ego, to rationalize that he would talk to other women outside of only her. I think she processes it in a fashion that if he chose another girl over her, that would mean she was somehow "less than", and not the first choice. I don't think her ego could take that as a possibility at all. Most of that behavior stems from insecurity. Given her age on top of that of 25, you can pretty much assume she probably still has maturity to go through to get past what causes the insecurity.
But really, it isn't because she is "less than" the other woman in anyway. He is more than likely, just thinking about his own comfort. And looking at what option requires the bare minimum of effort from him for him to get what he wants. lol
Simply put, dude is lazy, and doesn't want to have to do more, if he can. lol
Posted by HeartofIce
Why is this thread still alive?
OP started arguing lol. You know how we like the drama on here.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by jeane
i don't understand why his met someone else theory is assumed to be bs.
if he is trawling instagram to start a conversation with one woman, why is it so unreasonable that he is starting multiple conversations with a number of women.
he's a 39 year old man picking up to 25 year old kids on insta.
This is where I think the OP is hyper flawed in her thought processing. I think it goes against her sensibilities and ego, to rationalize that he would talk to other women outside of it. I think she processes it in a fashion that if he chose another girl over her, that would mean she was somehow "less than", and not the first choice. I don't think her ego could take that as a possibility at all. Most of that behavior stems from insecurity. Given her age on top of that of 25, you can pretty much assume she probably still has maturity to go through to get past what causes the insecurity.
But really, it isn't because she is "less than" the other woman in anyway. He is more than likely, just thinking about his own comfort. And looking at what option requires the bare minimum of effort from him for him to get what he wants. lol
Simply put, dude is lazy, and doesn't want to have to do more, if he can. lolclick to expand
agreed.
not to mention, it's very likely to be a numbers game. the more lines you have out there, the more chance of reeling one in not to mention it's no great loss when you need to cut one loose.
Posted by jeanePosted by nikkistarPosted by jeane
i don't understand why his met someone else theory is assumed to be bs.
if he is trawling instagram to start a conversation with one woman, why is it so unreasonable that he is starting multiple conversations with a number of women.
he's a 39 year old man picking up to 25 year old kids on insta.
This is where I think the OP is hyper flawed in her thought processing. I think it goes against her sensibilities and ego, to rationalize that he would talk to other women outside of it. I think she processes it in a fashion that if he chose another girl over her, that would mean she was somehow "less than", and not the first choice. I don't think her ego could take that as a possibility at all. Most of that behavior stems from insecurity. Given her age on top of that of 25, you can pretty much assume she probably still has maturity to go through to get past what causes the insecurity.
But really, it isn't because she is "less than" the other woman in anyway. He is more than likely, just thinking about his own comfort. And looking at what option requires the bare minimum of effort from him for him to get what he wants. lol
Simply put, dude is lazy, and doesn't want to have to do more, if he can. lol
agreed.
not to mention, it's very likely to be a numbers game. the more lines you have out there, the more chance of reeling one in not to mention it's no great loss when you need to cut one loose.click to expand
Yup. lol
The funniest part is, is that the two older Libra men I know (45 and 40) both troll social media platforms and sites and message a ton of women. Talk to like 3+ women at the same time. Often they will even add another women, as one falls off and gets bored with them. It's like they 1) NEED to be talking to someone 24/7 because quiet makes them uncomfortable, 2) are bored and filling in time, or 3) like the ego boost of being able to brag about talking to x many women. lol
Posted by HeartofIcePosted by nikkistarPosted by HeartofIce
Why is this thread still alive?
OP started arguing lol. You know how we like the drama on here.
Lol I gave up on that ever since she started attacking people for disagreeing with her.click to expand
lol yea, she didn't do herself any favors with some of her comments.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by jeanePosted by nikkistarPosted by jeane
i don't understand why his met someone else theory is assumed to be bs.
if he is trawling instagram to start a conversation with one woman, why is it so unreasonable that he is starting multiple conversations with a number of women.
he's a 39 year old man picking up to 25 year old kids on insta.
This is where I think the OP is hyper flawed in her thought processing. I think it goes against her sensibilities and ego, to rationalize that he would talk to other women outside of it. I think she processes it in a fashion that if he chose another girl over her, that would mean she was somehow "less than", and not the first choice. I don't think her ego could take that as a possibility at all. Most of that behavior stems from insecurity. Given her age on top of that of 25, you can pretty much assume she probably still has maturity to go through to get past what causes the insecurity.
But really, it isn't because she is "less than" the other woman in anyway. He is more than likely, just thinking about his own comfort. And looking at what option requires the bare minimum of effort from him for him to get what he wants. lol
Simply put, dude is lazy, and doesn't want to have to do more, if he can. lol
agreed.
not to mention, it's very likely to be a numbers game. the more lines you have out there, the more chance of reeling one in not to mention it's no great loss when you need to cut one loose.
Yup. lol
The funniest part is, is that the two older Libra men I know (45 and 40) both troll social media platforms and sites and message a ton of women. Talk to like 3+ women at the same time. Often they will even add another women, as one falls off and gets bored with them. It's like they 1) NEED to be talking to someone 24/7 because quiet makes them uncomfortable, 2) are bored and filling in time, or 3) like the ego boost of being able to brag about talking to x many women. lolclick to expand
i don't find this hard to believe in the slightest
Posted by jeanePosted by nikkistarPosted by jeanePosted by nikkistarPosted by jeane
i don't understand why his met someone else theory is assumed to be bs.
if he is trawling instagram to start a conversation with one woman, why is it so unreasonable that he is starting multiple conversations with a number of women.
he's a 39 year old man picking up to 25 year old kids on insta.
This is where I think the OP is hyper flawed in her thought processing. I think it goes against her sensibilities and ego, to rationalize that he would talk to other women outside of it. I think she processes it in a fashion that if he chose another girl over her, that would mean she was somehow "less than", and not the first choice. I don't think her ego could take that as a possibility at all. Most of that behavior stems from insecurity. Given her age on top of that of 25, you can pretty much assume she probably still has maturity to go through to get past what causes the insecurity.
But really, it isn't because she is "less than" the other woman in anyway. He is more than likely, just thinking about his own comfort. And looking at what option requires the bare minimum of effort from him for him to get what he wants. lol
Simply put, dude is lazy, and doesn't want to have to do more, if he can. lol
agreed.
not to mention, it's very likely to be a numbers game. the more lines you have out there, the more chance of reeling one in not to mention it's no great loss when you need to cut one loose.
Yup. lol
The funniest part is, is that the two older Libra men I know (45 and 40) both troll social media platforms and sites and message a ton of women. Talk to like 3+ women at the same time. Often they will even add another women, as one falls off and gets bored with them. It's like they 1) NEED to be talking to someone 24/7 because quiet makes them uncomfortable, 2) are bored and filling in time, or 3) like the ego boost of being able to brag about talking to x many women. lol
i don't find this hard to believe in the slightestclick to expand
They have a "main chick" too, that is usually the one they are arguing with that cause them to block the chicks they troll too. LOL
Posted by TimonPosted by jeane
i don't understand why his met someone else theory is assumed to be bs.
if he is trawling instagram to start a conversation with one woman, why is it so unreasonable that he is starting multiple conversations with a number of women.
he's a 39 year old man picking up to 25 year old kids on insta.
I'm starting to think she's just trolling. Two years ago she was 32 and now she is 25? What sorcery is this? 😂click to expand
I'm going to start saying I am 25 now. Fuck it. lol
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nay matter, on to the next one eh?