We bicker often because she's been very moody recently - has been going through some problems but I have been there for her, to listen, give advice, just generally being on her side and understanding. She isn't always the same with me - if I have problems she listens to a certain extent then her attitude is move on, get over it, I don't want to hear about it. Recently we argued big time over a man (what else?) he is her cousin and we started seeing each other. If I was out with her, he would call either me or her and join us. She never said this was a problem, in fact often she'd invite him herself and we'd always have a good time, she never gave me any clue that she felt excluded or left out in any way. That's why it came as a shock when she turned round and basically said I was a butter friend because I'd abandoned her for him. We had a huge fight where I asked was she JEALOUS of him? And she said no... In fact, she doesn't see any blame in him even though he initiated everything. Of course, it's all MY FAULT. Anyway, we kind of made up, we're talking but now things aren't the same, and I don't know how to win her back. I miss her a lot, we were a great team, did everything together.
