Cancer001
@Miami959
10 Years
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Help with my Libra guy!!
Yeah, it sucks and it also sucks when you start to catch feelings. I know I shouldn't contact him and I'm gonna try my hardest to stay occupied. Thanks for answering my message.
How Exactly did u phrase the question?
To which he responded you mean more to me...
To which he responded you mean more to me...
I asked him if I was his girlfriend and he said do we need labels then I replied so we're friends with benifits and he said no you mean more to me than that.
Posted by Miami959Ah okay. so hes taking time.
I asked him if I was his girlfriend and he said do we need labels then I replied so we're friends with benifits and he said no you mean more to me than that.
Still deciding things
I don't understand the whole rules to the game thing. Why can't we just be adults and say what you mean and mean what you say.
Posted by Miami959Wow! I wish you knew his moon or venus. He sounds like an Aries to me. They usually like the chase, so you asking what type of relationship do you have and him answering with "should allow the relationship to progress" is exactly what I would expect from a ram. I'm a Libra and what I know about us is that we do not like to be rushed, we do not like ultimatums that make us feel like we're on edge. That's when we start riding the fence because we're indecisive. He's definitely wondering how he should respond or if he should let you cool down because he probably thinks you're upset. I say just give him some space (LOTS) and do your own thing. Once he pops back up, tell him that you would like to talk about the nature of your relationship. Be VERY thorough and say exactly what you need to hear from him. No beating around the bush. Venus ruled people move slow in the pursuit of love unless we have some fire in certain aspects of our chart. GOOD LUCK! 🙂
Hopefully you guys can help me out, I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now. We spend time together about once a week unless he's out of town on business. When we're together things are wonderful, we laugh, joke and have great chemistry.
My problem is I don't know the status of our relationship if we're friends with benifits or in a real relationship. I asked him about it and he said i mean more than that to him. But couldn't explain what that more was. He says he doesn't live in the future we should allow the relationship to progress on its own without forcing it.
The other problem that I have is our communication when we're not together. If I text or call him he always replies or answers but I'm usually the one that does the texting and calling. He says he's very busy and doesn't do it on purpose. He has his own company so I understand him being busy but I feel it only take a few min to send a text saying thinking about you or hope you're having a good day.
I recently sent him a long text expressing the way I felt i haven't heard from him since. Did me expressing my feelings run him away? Are we done or is he weighing his options?
OP, what's your sign?
The fact he's being so evasive is kind of concerning, tbh.
The fact he's being so evasive is kind of concerning, tbh.
I'm Cancer born July 22nd
Posted by SpaceCadetGirlSounds just like him, Everytime I get upset about something he waits a couple of days before he contacts me he never tackles it head on. That irks my nerves I'm not sure if that aggressive part to me comes from me being on the cusp of Cancer and Leo I believe if there's a problem lets deal with it.Posted by Miami959Wow! I wish you knew his moon or venus. He sounds like an Aries to me. They usually like the chase, so you asking what type of relationship do you have and him answering with "should allow the relationship to progress" is exactly what I would expect from a ram. I'm a Libra and what I know about us is that we do not like to be rushed, we do not like ultimatums that make us feel like we're on edge. That's when we start riding the fence because we're indecisive. He's definitely wondering how he should respond or if he should let you cool down because he probably thinks you're upset. I say just give him some space (LOTS) and do your own thing. Once he pops back up, tell him that you would like to talk about the nature of your relationship. Be VERY thorough and say exactly what you need to hear from him. No beating around the bush. Venus ruled people move slow in the pursuit of love unless we have some fire in certain aspects of our chart. GOOD LUCK! 🙂
Hopefully you guys can help me out, I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now. We spend time together about once a week unless he's out of town on business. When we're together things are wonderful, we laugh, joke and have great chemistry.
My problem is I don't know the status of our relationship if we're friends with benifits or in a real relationship. I asked him about it and he said i mean more than that to him. But couldn't explain what that more was. He says he doesn't live in the future we should allow the relationship to progress on its own without forcing it.
The other problem that I have is our communication when we're not together. If I text or call him he always replies or answers but I'm usually the one that does the texting and calling. He says he's very busy and doesn't do it on purpose. He has his own company so I understand him being busy but I feel it only take a few min to send a text saying thinking about you or hope you're having a good day.
I recently sent him a long text expressing the way I felt i haven't heard from him since. Did me expressing my feelings run him away? Are we done or is he weighing his options?click to expand
Posted by Miami959Well that 'splains a lot.
I'm Cancer born July 22nd
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I recently sent him a long text expressing the way I felt i haven't heard from him since. Did me expressing my feelings run him away? Are we done or is he weighing his options?