How do you get a Lib/Sco to make a move? (Page 2)

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Posted by spica

Posted by oldskoolflavor
see..
that 3rd decan libra lied about seeing someone..
I was effing pissed, didn't get much sleep that night,
had decided to go cold on her..

(till I found out it was a lie 😄)

Duude, that is a Lib/Sco tactic, see I can't pull it off. He did, though.. my usual self let go.. and, HE was pissed 🙂
He did presume I was seeing someone else though.. his presumption, and there's no backing nor facts in it.

And no, not moving to GF status.. just speaking directly to me instead of going through 3rd parties and public announcements 😄

not necessarily..
as far as I'm concerned, I don't lie about seeing people..

😉

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my lib had 5 personal planets in the 8th.. he had many things to hide; to resolve.. .. back then.

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Posted by spica

Posted by oldskoolflavor
(still can't believe she got me pissed.. must be that venus in scorpio)

Why u suddenly datin' a 3rd declan? 😉 where's her venus?

It is Ze decan (?)

not dating her yet,
and I gotta watch out for her aries moon

she has venus and mercury in scorpio

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Yeah it's decan, just putting an l there for fun.
Woop.. de woop.. but it matches with your venus in scorpio
and the aries moon with your sag asc?

Posted by oldskoolflavor
she'll rule me with no mercy 😭

I'm a Ven. in Libra. My Lib is also Ven. in Libra, but his in Scorpio house. So HE's the one more manipulative and control freakish than I am. But I am immune to manipulation, or sometimes I like them 🙂, cos his Sag parts give me freedom.

"not dating her yet, "

And yeah.. give it time🙂.

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Posted by spica

Posted by oldskoolflavor
she'll rule me with no mercy 😭

I'm a Ven. in Libra. My Lib is also Ven. in Libra, but his in Scorpio house. So HE's the one more manipulative and control freakish than I am. But I am immune to manipulation, or sometimes I like them 🙂, cos his Sag parts give me freedom.

as you have noticed,
the control freak isn't the one in charge..

you just let them think they are
😉

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Depends on who's smarter 🙂.
(with good intentions ceteris paribus)

"oh lib/scorp, i wish you were easier to read. you're so inscrutable, a veritable enigma. i can never tell what you're intentions are."

if there's anything that makes a lib/scorp happy, it's hearing this. tell him how vague his writings are, how he uses so many double entendres that it can be hard to figure out just what he's talking about.

see, we always worry that we're too obvious. no matter how terribly confusing we may actually be to other people. we're always paranoid that you can see just how we feel, and you're playing a game with us, that we're going to wind up the butt of some horrible joke, and everyone will see how vulnerable and sensitive we are to being hurt. so telling us that we are confusing will make us feel safe, and make us more willing to act a bit more blunt.

"oh lion, you're such a scary lion. your teeth are so large and sharp. and your muscles are so big and strong. you run so fast. you have such good eyesight. i just know you'd tear me apart in a second."

you can interpret that one for yourself. lol.

normal flatter doesn't work well on us. it makes us feel nervous. acting confused and afraid makes us far more likely to make a move. confused, to clarify our intent. afraid, to get us to show our sweet side.