How to get a libra back

So me and this boy were seeing each other for a while but he lived 4 hours away so I told him we should just be friends as it wouldn't work.. He begged and begged and I kept telling him it wouldn't work. He has now moved back down to where I live and he's just started seeing someone.. I've made him aware that I want him back and he's kinda saying no, however I can tell he just wants me to grovel the way he did when it was the other way round... I don't wanna come across as desperate but I want him back.. Help—?

I'm an Aquarius and he's a libra if that helps

Also I sent him a long message explaining myself and saying that il wait to him to be ready to speak and he hasn't replied, I've waited about 6hours but I feel like I need to speak on the phone to explain myself properly should I call him orrrrr?

Are libras well known for ignoring people or will he eventually reply?

Aquarius here, well it sounds like he's trying to not quite obvious but subtly teach you a lesson but it seems as if the scales are balanced. He wanted you to try and possibly knew he'd try and put forth the effort to work it out (hence him moving back) but you didn't want to or it's perceived that way since you were so quick to give up the relationship. However now he has found someone else, I don't think it's too late to get him back but it's going to take a lot of kissing up to get back a guy YOU decided to cut loose.

Posted by Nessajosh
Also I sent him a long message explaining myself and saying that il wait to him to be ready to speak and he hasn't replied, I've waited about 6hours but I feel like I need to speak on the phone to explain myself properly should I call him orrrrr?

Are libras well known for ignoring people or will he eventually reply?

No, we don't usually ignore folks that we are fond of, BUT please please please do not try to contact him. If he's still interested, which I doubt, let him contact you. Once you told him that you were no longer interested in a relationship, that pretty much sealed your standing with him. If he's already found someone else to fancy his interest, then he's more than likely moved on. If he does contact you, he will probably put you in the friend zone. Now, I'm a Libra female, and Libra males may work a little different, but I wouldn't count on it. There are some Libra characteristics that are universal. I'm not sure if he wants to make you grovel. He's genuinely probably just moved on for now.

You told him to move on. He did. Assuming he's worth having... You need to respect his relationship. He is dating someone. maybe he still likes you or wishes things didn't go the way they did, but that was your call. Why should he drop the new girlfriend because you're ready now? If I'm dating someone and another woman doesn't respect that boundary she looses major ground/value in my mind.

Sure, telling him it was a situation thing and now that's changed and Yada Yada Yada was fine. He knows. Maybe if he was single he'd respond differently but he isn't.

You should remain single, as you are not relationship material with your line of thinking.

He's right in giving you the boot while he has something BETTER at the moment.

Deal with the consequences of YOUR actions because you're being incredibly self absorbed here.