Posted by tiziani
I think it's fairly common yes. Although I don't know about the clinging part. I enjoy people's company. I don't need to talk to them once we know each other relatively. If they want to go or be somewhere else, that's understandable. No problem. You should just do your own thing. Libras respect independence.
Posted by notyourtype
Aries are generally much more extroverted and quick tempered than Libras, which I think lends to a lot of the frustration and miscommunication in this dynamic. We have very different style s of expression, so it's so easy for misunderstandings to occur.
Speaking for myself, I can be alone in a room with someone I like, where each of us are doing separate things and I'd be completely fine with that. Obviously, some interaction can/will take place, but there wouldn't be a constant pressure. I think it feels nice just being in their presence, but this can be misinterpreted as a sign of detachment or disinterest if you don't understand us. It can also be a sign of incompatibility. I know my Aries best friend needs constant interaction or she'll start feeling bored, impatient or neglected.
Another thing to consider is that air signs are usually not the best at handling emotions. So instead of confronting our feelings heads on, we'll instead choose to take it out in personal or romantic time by inflicting withdrawals. We like to go off into our own heads to re-balance ourselves.
So if the concept of "active togetherness" is important to you, and you want to be with a guy who is constantly out on the scene or always ready to talk and share, you might be setting yourself up for unrealistic expectations and disappointment.
Posted by tiziani
Plus I get very uneasy around people who feel the need to talk all the time. I get the impression I am making them uncomfortable or restless.