I dont understand Libra men—?? Help me out!

So I met this libra man 2 weeks ago online and we met up. First night we got along really well and we had so much in common and really vibed well together. That was a Friday. We ended up sticking side by side and never left each other side until Monday morning. I really like him and enjoy his company and I believe he does too. I met his mom and we made plans for the long run. I knew we were going into it too fast, but I just went along and see how things went. During that week he would text me everyday and would say he miss me. And said he was so lucky to have met me. Every time we saw each other he would compliment me and I would do the same too. It was really nice and everything was going well. Then last week he suddenly didn't text me. I would text him asking how he is and he would say "hey beauty busy busy..." and things seemed okay. We didn't get into any argument or anything. Then I messaged him again if he's okay and expressing that I notice he's a bit distant and ask if everything is okay. He read the message but no reply. Did I do something wrong? What should I do? I really like him, but I'm so confused. Is there anything I can do to fix this?

Im a leo woman btw.

Posted by Kryssssy
So I met this libra man 2 weeks ago online

Enough said

Sounds like the last Libra I dated.

...he was juggling women like whoa.

You should know that his moving that fast is a red flag. You should probably stop fretting over it. It's just been TWO WEEKS. Dude isn't husband material, yo. Move along. He's not that into you.

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Posted by Librasetting
Sounds like he's seeing other people.

Yes could be this or could be that he is busy. Two weeks is a very short time though. Give him space but if he continues being distant he is probably not that interested.

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Wrong, sorry to say. Don't be enabling bs behavior and her sticking around. To do that much of a flip so suddenly is usually indicative of him either seeing someone else, or he's lost interest. The biggest factor is how immaturely fast he moved. Any guy who moves that fast is one to be wary of because they'll move on just as fast as they jumped in.

Posted by Kryssssy
So I met this libra man 2 weeks ago online and we met up. First night we got along really well and we had so much in common and really vibed well together. That was a Friday. We ended up sticking side by side and never left each other side until Monday morning. I really like him and enjoy his company and I believe he does too. I met his mom and we made plans for the long run. I knew we were going into it too fast, but I just went along and see how things went. During that week he would text me everyday and would say he miss me. And said he was so lucky to have met me. Every time we saw each other he would compliment me and I would do the same too. It was really nice and everything was going well. Then last week he suddenly didn't text me. I would text him asking how he is and he would say "hey beauty busy busy..." and things seemed okay. We didn't get into any argument or anything. Then I messaged him again if he's okay and expressing that I notice he's a bit distant and ask if everything is okay. He read the message but no reply. Did I do something wrong? What should I do? I really like him, but I'm so confused. Is there anything I can do to fix this?

Im a leo woman btw.

No. You just don't do that. You set yourself up for failure. If you have the sense of mind to know it is too fast, then dear God, you have no excuse when it inevitably ends up in the ditch.

Nothing to understand, doubt him until he proves himself otherwise with actions to match his words.

However Kryssssy, since it has only been a short period of time.

I would advice you to move on. Live your life, keep busy, do not let this man occupy so much of your headspace.

Libran men could be fickle that way, unless if you are truly the one they want.

They will come and go, leaving you on the back burner. Only to resurface, when they are lonely.

What is your age range?

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Posted by Kryssssy
So I met this libra man 2 weeks ago online and we met up. First night we got along really well and we had so much in common and really vibed well together. That was a Friday. We ended up sticking side by side and never left each other side until Monday morning. I really like him and enjoy his company and I believe he does too. I met his mom and we made plans for the long run. I knew we were going into it too fast, but I just went along and see how things went. During that week he would text me everyday and would say he miss me. And said he was so lucky to have met me. Every time we saw each other he would compliment me and I would do the same too. It was really nice and everything was going well. Then last week he suddenly didn't text me. I would text him asking how he is and he would say "hey beauty busy busy..." and things seemed okay. We didn't get into any argument or anything. Then I messaged him again if he's okay and expressing that I notice he's a bit distant and ask if everything is okay. He read the message but no reply. Did I do something wrong? What should I do? I really like him, but I'm so confused. Is there anything I can do to fix this?

Im a leo woman btw.

No. You just don't do that. You set yourself up for failure. If you have the sense of mind to know it is too fast, then dear God, you have no excuse when it inevitably ends up in the ditch.

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Nevermind she says she wanted to see how things went.

Well sweetie, this is how things went. Chalk it up to a learning experience and move on.

Libra men are whack

Posted by Timon

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Posted by Librasetting
Sounds like he's seeing other people.

Yes could be this or could be that he is busy. Two weeks is a very short time though. Give him space but if he continues being distant he is probably not that interested.

Wrong, sorry to say. Don't be enabling bs behavior and her sticking around. To do that much of a flip so suddenly is usually indicative of him either seeing someone else, or he's lost interest. The biggest factor is how immaturely fast he moved. Any guy who moves that fast is one to be wary of because they'll move on just as fast as they jumped in.

It's been two weeks lol. And how many times have they actually met? Once?

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You're right, sweetheart, it only has been two weeks. Why cling on to the dude as if he's the only man left on earth?

When any guy goes from OMG YOU ARE MY LIFE, to "lol been busy" is usually a huge indicator of what kind of person he really is.

"Busy" is guy code for "I'm too big of a pussy to basically say I'm over this and will just string you along until I really figure out what I want."

If this dude was truly into her as he was claiming from the get go, you wouldn't see a sudden drop.

The overall point is that the OP needs to calm the eff down about this guy. She stupidly allowed herself to get swept away in fantasy, something Leo women are notorious of doing, and now is hurt when reality slaps her in the face. Life isn't a romantic comedy or a cheesy romance novel.

She needs to step back on the emotional investment. Sure, there's a small chance he could truly be busy, but she shouldn't be investing so much emotion in something so freaking short.

So overall, the answer is back the fuck off, he doesn't seem as if he's THAT interested in her atm. She is not obligated to hang on because some dude showed some interest. There are other dudes out there. If he comes back around and legitimately tries again, then it's up to her if she wants to resume things with him.