Posted by SeaGoddessYou are right, but you know I already told him I am done but he stills keep calling/texting. I guess he really does think I would never leave. What should I do?
@sassygurl
Oooooh that would make me rage !
I'll read your other post too
But honestly. He's being full of shit. Sorry dear I hate to say it. Either walk away from me or stay in a non committed relationship with me . says it all and he knows you won't walk away that's why he throws these ultimatums out there. I say you pick up and show his ass . it's not that you dont have time hell you make time to see each other now so what's the difference you know what I mean ?? To me there isn't one.
Basically you gotta ask yourself if you really wanna be with this person. That's what I had to do
Posted by ChuckcemInteresting, thanks for your post. I have been working on myself too meanwhile. I definitely want him to miss me though. But youre right, I should focus more on my goals and what I want from this situation. How is it working out with your libra female? How long did you ignore her for?
Dealing with a Libra woman and here's what I've noticed (granted I don't know your particular situation). Space and time off can work wonders. Here's my advice though to be honest. If you're going to ignore a Libra, do it for your own good, not to get a reaction. We fire signs tend to be more action oriented, so taking time off feels odd when we know what we want. However use this time to really gauge if this person is truly worth your time. Ignoring them (unless they don't like you at all) will elicit a response, but you must know to what end. Does the person genuinely miss you? Are they just seeking attention from a reliable source? Are they going to be more responsive in the future?
Regardless of the sign, no one likes to lose. So just because he comes back, doesn't mean he's coming back around. Also it doesn't mean that you'll even want him back around.
Posted by Sassygurl
You know on second thought, I've noticed that everytime I have ignored his ass, moved on and deleted him from social media he is more willing to do anything I say then when I am giving him all the attention
Posted by ChuckcemWhats her moon sign?Posted by SassygurlNot long truthfully. We've never gone longer than 24 hours without some form of communication (call, text, FB message, or talking in person). It's also helps that she works for me, but even still our interactions have always been a bit more than amiable. Originally we were both hot and cold for months, then we started going on dates and talking practically everyday. Then she got nervous (which she told me the reason) and seemed to back off a little. Well as a Leo, backing off weirded me out, so I backed off too. I stopped initiating conversations. This caused her to start poking at me and initiating from her end. Then when I started moving forward she was agreeable. I'm not out of the woods yet as I am still gauging her consistency, but part of that is me also pushing things forward here and there so that we don't get caught in the limbo of her indecision.Posted by ChuckcemInteresting, thanks for your post. I have been working on myself too meanwhile. I definitely want him to miss me though. But youre right, I should focus more on my goals and what I want from this situation. How is it working out with your libra female? How long did you ignore her for?
Dealing with a Libra woman and here's what I've noticed (granted I don't know your particular situation). Space and time off can work wonders. Here's my advice though to be honest. If you're going to ignore a Libra, do it for your own good, not to get a reaction. We fire signs tend to be more action oriented, so taking time off feels odd when we know what we want. However use this time to really gauge if this person is truly worth your time. Ignoring them (unless they don't like you at all) will elicit a response, but you must know to what end. Does the person genuinely miss you? Are they just seeking attention from a reliable source? Are they going to be more responsive in the future?
Regardless of the sign, no one likes to lose. So just because he comes back, doesn't mean he's coming back around. Also it doesn't mean that you'll even want him back around.click to expand
Posted by Librawoman77Nothing lol, I just thought this time Libra and I were past all that.Posted by Sassygurl
You know on second thought, I've noticed that everytime I have ignored his ass, moved on and deleted him from social media he is more willing to do anything I say then when I am giving him all the attention
LOL what happened?click to expand
Posted by mindofalibraWhat decan libra are you@mindoflibra
I only contact first if I've done something wrong or know I've upset someone but as for someone just ignoring me from nowhere that's a done deal right there, I won't even bother. I don't play games nor do I like being tested
Posted by SassygurlWow I'm literally the same way lol. Is it messed up that I don't care? I mean they're the ones who are being childish. As far as libra, yeah I think it makes them chase harder because they have the need to make peace.
I know that everyone gets bothered by getting ignored, but does ignoring a libra make them chase you harder? Does it hurt them that youre ignoring them? I am an aries and if someone I care about ignores me then I would be hurt for a second but move on pretty quickly also and ignore the person back
Posted by LibraLovesHimpretty much this. it depends on who you are, what you mean to me and what happened to be ignored.
Ummmmm it depends on the situation, if you are me somehow because u are mad at me or something and I can read the situation and know u wanna hear from me ill contact...if I do this once and get nothing in return ill not contact again, its basically now up to u-i done my part 🙂
Posted by Sassygurl2nd decan, i was born on the 7thPosted by mindofalibraWhat decan libra are you@mindoflibra
I only contact first if I've done something wrong or know I've upset someone but as for someone just ignoring me from nowhere that's a done deal right there, I won't even bother. I don't play games nor do I like being testedclick to expand
Posted by SassygurlPosted by Librawoman77Nothing lol, I just thought this time Libra and I were past all that.Posted by Sassygurl
You know on second thought, I've noticed that everytime I have ignored his ass, moved on and deleted him from social media he is more willing to do anything I say then when I am giving him all the attention
LOL what happened?click to expand
Posted by Librawoman77Yeah sorry lol. Girl I just thought libra and I were done playing games basically. I mean we are in our 20's now. Idk why he is so immaturePosted by SassygurlPosted by Librawoman77Nothing lol, I just thought this time Libra and I were past all that.Posted by Sassygurl
You know on second thought, I've noticed that everytime I have ignored his ass, moved on and deleted him from social media he is more willing to do anything I say then when I am giving him all the attention
LOL what happened?
?? Passed all what? You hid the message...click to expand
Posted by SassygurlId ask whats up? Things like this bug me till i find out whats going on lol
LibraLovesHim: like as in you never contact them again, until they contact you? What if there was no fight or anything yet the person you were with randomly stopped talking to you
Posted by luckiedollsmithlol this is so hypocritical
Ignoring a Libra can hurt their pride, happiness, etc. This will lead them to feeling unbalanced which is uncomfortable for all libras. They will retreat and stay to themselves for awhile just so they can put things into perspective, after this stage they will become very angry at you for ignoring them, and some libras will even be very passive aggressive & petty about it (Example: Ignore you but add you on Facebook and upload pictures of them having fun with the caption "Happy a lot of people are out of my life forever" just to show you they don't need you nor do they want you anymore)
Long story short ignoring a libra most likely cause the libra to have resentment towards you and probably never want to talk to you again, because in their head you are the biggest piece of crap to ever walk this earth.
Posted by TheLibraMudraFrom my experience I like libra women, most of them are my best friends. But libra men are ridiculous, maybe just the ones I had to deal with
Also... Libras are crazy
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Also... Libras are crazy
Posted by sagiluvPosted by luckiedollsmithLOL thanks for sharing this made me laugh!! I love your straight forwardness
Ignoring a Libra can hurt their pride, happiness, etc. This will lead them to feeling unbalanced which is uncomfortable for all libras. They will retreat and stay to themselves for awhile just so they can put things into perspective, after this stage they will become very angry at you for ignoring them, and some libras will even be very passive aggressive & petty about it (Example: Ignore you but add you on Facebook and upload pictures of them having fun with the caption "Happy a lot of people are out of my life forever" just to show you they don't need you nor do they want you anymore)
Long story short ignoring a libra most likely cause the libra to have resentment towards you and probably never want to talk to you again, because in their head you are the biggest piece of crap to ever walk this earth.click to expand
Posted by workingirlWhat would you do if someone was deliberately ignoring you?
If there is one word I hate it's 'ignore'. Show me a person who likes another person and will intentionally not give a damn about them, especially for an extended period of time. For any positive reason. Not being overly zealous or clingy, understanding that the other may have stuff going on, for a day, for more days, even more than that, is not the same as deliberately not getting in touch or worse, not responding to the other person.
Posted by Sassygurli think a few people have already answered; we would leave the person alone. if i was not interested there is nothing to move on from.
After ignoring the libra, what if the person told you they were " not interested" or " lost interest" Would you guys move on? Try to find out what went wrong? or just leave the person alone
Posted by SassygurlIf someone out of the blue did that without a reason I'd think that they have issues. If I cared about them, I'd try to find out what issues. And one more thing, from my recent experience. Sometimes it is really hard to find the words or opportunity to tell someone we like and spend time with that we do need a little time alone. I can totally see a situation where someone just freezes because of this. So if you like them, you wait I guess. : )Posted by workingirlWhat would you do if someone was deliberately ignoring you?
If there is one word I hate it's 'ignore'. Show me a person who likes another person and will intentionally not give a damn about them, especially for an extended period of time. For any positive reason. Not being overly zealous or clingy, understanding that the other may have stuff going on, for a day, for more days, even more than that, is not the same as deliberately not getting in touch or worse, not responding to the other person.click to expand
Posted by jeaneI love your profile pic by the wayPosted by Sassygurli think a few people have already answered; we would leave the person alone. if i was not interested there is nothing to move on from.
After ignoring the libra, what if the person told you they were " not interested" or " lost interest" Would you guys move on? Try to find out what went wrong? or just leave the person aloneclick to expand
Posted by workingirlInteresting. Thank you for your post. Do you mean just wait till the libra is ready to contact again?Posted by SassygurlIf someone out of the blue did that without a reason I'd think that they have issues. If I cared about them, I'd try to find out what issues. And one more thing, from my recent experience. Sometimes it is really hard to find the words or opportunity to tell someone we like and spend time with that we do need a little time alone. I can totally see a situation where someone just freezes because of this. So if you like them, you wait I guess. : )Posted by workingirlWhat would you do if someone was deliberately ignoring you?
If there is one word I hate it's 'ignore'. Show me a person who likes another person and will intentionally not give a damn about them, especially for an extended period of time. For any positive reason. Not being overly zealous or clingy, understanding that the other may have stuff going on, for a day, for more days, even more than that, is not the same as deliberately not getting in touch or worse, not responding to the other person.click to expand
Posted by Sassygurlthank you. it was taken last week. 😉Posted by jeaneI love your profile pic by the wayPosted by Sassygurli think a few people have already answered; we would leave the person alone. if i was not interested there is nothing to move on from.
After ignoring the libra, what if the person told you they were " not interested" or " lost interest" Would you guys move on? Try to find out what went wrong? or just leave the person aloneclick to expand
Posted by TheLibraMudraI don't trust Libran smiles .. you (people pleasing) backstabbers go out of your way to charm peoplePosted by Kemetisinme🙂
I know I'm not crazy .. you people pleasing lunatics should speak for yourselvesclick to expand
Posted by TheLibraMudraso what was the purpose behind that smile ?Posted by KemetisinmeI wouldn't trust it either.Posted by TheLibraMudraI don't trust Libran smiles .. you (people pleasing) backstabbers go out of your way to charm peoplePosted by Kemetisinme🙂
I know I'm not crazy .. you people pleasing lunatics should speak for yourselvesclick to expand
Posted by TheLibraMudraI knew it .. thank you for your honestyPosted by KemetisinmeI was thinking about back stabbing you and sucking your soul out, FiestyPosted by TheLibraMudraso what was the purpose behind that smile ?Posted by KemetisinmeI wouldn't trust it either.Posted by TheLibraMudraI don't trust Libran smiles .. you (people pleasing) backstabbers go out of your way to charm peoplePosted by Kemetisinme🙂
I know I'm not crazy .. you people pleasing lunatics should speak for yourselves
spit it out .. I need to know what your agenda is
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Posted by SassygurlIt's hard to say anything without knowing anything about what's going on with you guys.. Is it like early stages of dating or something else? It's not even clear who ignored who first lol : ) At least to me.Posted by workingirlInteresting. Thank you for your post. Do you mean just wait till the libra is ready to contact again?Posted by SassygurlIf someone out of the blue did that without a reason I'd think that they have issues. If I cared about them, I'd try to find out what issues. And one more thing, from my recent experience. Sometimes it is really hard to find the words or opportunity to tell someone we like and spend time with that we do need a little time alone. I can totally see a situation where someone just freezes because of this. So if you like them, you wait I guess. : )Posted by workingirlWhat would you do if someone was deliberately ignoring you?
If there is one word I hate it's 'ignore'. Show me a person who likes another person and will intentionally not give a damn about them, especially for an extended period of time. For any positive reason. Not being overly zealous or clingy, understanding that the other may have stuff going on, for a day, for more days, even more than that, is not the same as deliberately not getting in touch or worse, not responding to the other person.click to expand
Posted by IllaLupusyou know i don't think we are all that different. actually i am surprised in this thread how much alike we are. many of us have said the same thing.
I don't care if someone ignores me, because I tend to do my own thing anyway. Cool you wanna play the ignore game? See ya! It depends on the Libra on whether or not they care. I like people who communicate not lock themselves in closests for no apparent reason, and If the cause is apparent still if you want to hide under a rock and not allow resolution that's on you. I won't wait around for your ass my fault or yours.
For the most part everyone thinks they know a Libra based off some experiences, we are all truly different. Some get bruised egos/and or hearts and some of us don't have the time of day for pitty party silence. I've never once ran to someone to get their attention again. Walk out the door probably won't open again.
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