boxcarmirnta
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Leebs, love you but this is what I've come to realize..
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
Real and intense huh? This may apply to the nature of woman more than man as is, not just Libra man thing. Can you define exactly what it is thats missing? I'd suggest pissing Libra off if you want to see intense... lol!
Posted by tizianiI guess next level means real, solid, meaningful something that can be depended on. True you should make your feelings known if someone if laying too much on you.
I don't pursue, but I think it's true I talk much less after time has passed. Whereas I used to make the mistake of talking a lot and often, at the beginning and it gives off the wrong message as things get more settled.
Not sure what you mean by "the next level".
I've turned abusive when I overlooked making sure there's a healthy line in terms of when/where we can share what's going on between us. Too many times my partners felt it was ok to emotionally unload at whatever time of the day, no matter what is going on in my life and that's of my own doing. They don't realise how much it affects me, nor should they. That part was always up to me to make it clear.
Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.click to expand
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimYea anger seems to be the one real heartfelt emotion. Just deep and real scrap intense i don't want a soap opera.. Whats missing is consistency and talking about real, meaningful stuff on a regular basis. We did for awhile then it disappeared. When i connect with someone like that.. I expect it to continue cuz i value it. Doesn't seem as important to the leeb.
Real and intense huh? This may apply to the nature of woman more than man as is, not just Libra man thing. Can you define exactly what it is thats missing? I'd suggest pissing Libra off if you want to see intense... lol!
Posted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.click to expand
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.click to expand
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and are very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....click to expand
Have you asked them? Maybe it does mean something but your expecting it to be expressed in a certain way, while they are expressing it in another.
More often than not, communication is going to be the solution.
Some Libras are always on the verge of looking for the next best thing. They're obsessed with being in relationships and will get into one even if they're lukewarm about the person. The ones that you experienced likely had one foot in and one foot out, hence no real deep thing beyond the surface charm. They're of the immature variety that have yet to grow up and be an adult.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamThat sounds about right. But then i thought they were perpetually looking for the one.. Never satisfied... Blagh...
Some Libras are always on the verge of looking for the next best thing. They're obsessed with being in relationships and will get into one even if they're lukewarm about the person. The ones that you experienced likely had one foot in and one foot out, hence no real deep thing beyond the surface charm. They're of the immature variety that have yet to grow up and be an adult.
Posted by jeaneAgreed. I just feel stupid like 'hey!! Do you like me more than others—?! ' derrrr rrrrrrrpPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and are very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....
Have you asked them? Maybe it does mean something but your expecting it to be expressed in a certain way, while they are expressing it in another.
More often than not, communication is going to be the solution.
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Posted by boxcarmirntaBasically. A friend of mine is currently doing this. So deathly afraid of singledom that she's with a "he'll do" guy at the moment.Posted by rockyroadicecreamThat sounds about right. But then i thought they were perpetually looking for the one.. Never satisfied... Blagh...
Some Libras are always on the verge of looking for the next best thing. They're obsessed with being in relationships and will get into one even if they're lukewarm about the person. The ones that you experienced likely had one foot in and one foot out, hence no real deep thing beyond the surface charm. They're of the immature variety that have yet to grow up and be an adult.click to expand
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeaneAgreed. I just feel stupid like 'hey!! Do you like me more than others—?! ' derrrr rrrrrrrpPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and are very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....
Have you asked them? Maybe it does mean something but your expecting it to be expressed in a certain way, while they are expressing it in another.
More often than not, communication is going to be the solution.
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haha, maybe not a direct question then. Start testing the waters by hinting at how you are feeling. Then take the decision if its safe to proceed or if you need to do a quick retreat.
Unless you're in a relationship, deep and intense conversations can be just a way to pass the time.
I'm getting confused, are you talking about your partner or a guy you are crushing on?
Posted by LordComplexityPosted by boxcarmirnta
After dating and being in love with several of you.. And please tell me if im off base, I'm totally fine with that.. You guys are sweet and charming and can really do it up when it comes to pursuing someone. Pull out all the stops...
But ive only had one go beyond the surface niceness and lead to real love (even tho it turned our horrible cuz hes abusive )
I guess I'm wondering what takes it to the next level? When does it stop being surface charm and become deep and meaningful?? Id like a discussion plz.. Not trying to insult any of y'all cuz i do appreciate you. I just wanna understand more. I'm a pisces i like things to be real and intense.. Etc. Thanks dudes.
You need water placements. Period. Only Water and Fire deal with Intensity, and it is 2 different kinds of intensities.
I am a Libra Sun, Pisces Moon. I notice I go against the "Libran Grain" so to speak as I'm incredibly genuine, deep, and intense. Hell there are other factors as well. I do not have 12th house sun, so my ego/personality isn't surpressed. Yet Libra itself is in fact in the 12th. So my Libran traits are indeed suppressed compared to other Libra. I also have Scorp Mars. So I'm very passionate and deep(both physically and emotionally lol) when I fuck.
You want real and intense with a Libra. Date one like me.click to expand
Haha.. I don't believe ill ever date one quite like you.... But.. Yes.. His moon is Pisces and venus is scorpio.
Posted by GC01Once again.. Point missed entirely... Weve already had Many Intense moments.......... Its the gettin serious about someone part I'm curious about...
You need some serious and intense moment? Watch a life time movie.
Posted by jeaneYea some dude i was into.. But now just confused and more curious than anything.. Like a lesson for next time maybe...Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeaneAgreed. I just feel stupid like 'hey!! Do you like me more than others—?! ' derrrr rrrrrrrpPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and are very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....
Have you asked them? Maybe it does mean something but your expecting it to be expressed in a certain way, while they are expressing it in another.
More often than not, communication is going to be the solution.
haha, maybe not a direct question then. Start testing the waters by hinting at how you are feeling. Then take the decision if its safe to proceed or if you need to do a quick retreat.
Unless you're in a relationship, deep and intense conversations can be just a way to pass the time.
I'm getting confused, are you talking about your partner or a guy you are crushing on?
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Posted by Sagiluv27That is really sweet and wonderful. Thanks. He lives far away so.... Can't really win him over when we hang out.. Cuz we don't.. Sigh.. Oh well.. Ill be cyberfriend forever..
Time patience and being genuine loyal kind loving sweet and a good friend and lover. I was just myself all along, he fell in love with me. I didn't sit around and wait for him I continued to live my life and he saw how happy he was when he was with me, & he realized that when I was away he missed me because I was different than what he was used to. His family told him how amazing I am and he begun to see the real picture, he lost me a couple times along the way but managed to fight for me and our relationship in the end.
It takes time for them to realize that you are what they really need in their life.
Posted by GC01Posted by boxcarmirntaFellow water sign who dates Libras I'm only being silly with you and a pain in the ass, I mean no harm I promise.Posted by GC01Once again.. Point missed entirely... Weve already had Many Intense moments.......... Its the gettin serious about someone part I'm curious about...
You need some serious and intense moment? Watch a life time movie.
Just relax and go with the flow put no pressure on the relationship wth him....it's not the seriousness of the relationship or the level or the title it's about the connection.
I've been with my libra for years and we have a kid together and live together and he's even put a ring on it but I refuse to call him anything but my boyfriend lol and we don't even have an anniversary we kinda just let time pass and don't keep track of any of the other stuff. Ppl always ask why we're not married...I tell them because we don't want to be and because that's not going to make us stay together any longer or shorter.click to expand
Thanks that was really sweet! Whats your sign? We have a great connection i just wish it would lead to more.. I can handle just being friends though i guess..
Posted by boxcarmirntaIf you are quite a distance away, I wouldn't invest a lot of emotion. You say you have a connection, the sad truth we connect to a lot of people. We chat, it's deep and then it passes. You become an acquaintance. If you need my help, I will do what I can and if I need something, I might reach out to you. It's how we attain our networks.Posted by jeaneYea some dude i was into.. But now just confused and more curious than anything.. Like a lesson for next time maybe...Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeaneAgreed. I just feel stupid like 'hey!! Do you like me more than others—?! ' derrrr rrrrrrrpPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and are very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....
Have you asked them? Maybe it does mean something but your expecting it to be expressed in a certain way, while they are expressing it in another.
More often than not, communication is going to be the solution.
haha, maybe not a direct question then. Start testing the waters by hinting at how you are feeling. Then take the decision if its safe to proceed or if you need to do a quick retreat.
Unless you're in a relationship, deep and intense conversations can be just a way to pass the time.
I'm getting confused, are you talking about your partner or a guy you are crushing on?
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Unless he is really showing signs of this being something more, it's probably not.
We commit slowly and intensely. Water signs move on fast-forward compared to us. When my ex Cancer guy asked me to marry him after only 8 months of relationship, I knew instantly he would dump me in the following year, because he didn't know me at all and yet he wanted to jump into such a serious commitment. And it happened exactly as I assumed, even though he had me completely, not only romantically, but my full support (including financial stability). So, definitely I prefer a fellow Air sign for the rest of my life. Lesson learned.
Posted by TheLibraMudraThat's adorable.. And heartwarming. Gives me a tiny bit of hope.. 🙂
I love with everything i've got. Passion, intensity, encouragement, support... My actions toward expressing my love leaves no doubts. Ever.
But fook me, I guess you're right because in the beginning, I am hard to read and terrified of having my heart on my sleeve. Shy. In fact, I tried pushing my hub away when he was my bf. Not because I had an issue with him. It was that I know I will give a relationship every last bit I've got. After being hurt in previous relationships... It was hard to become vulnerable taking a chance on love.
Now that shit is over. I've never loved anyone this way before. Truly, madly, deeply. The love I recieve in return from.him amplifies the whole situation. Just electrifying. Corntown.
Posted by jeaneYea.. Sounds about right... He was but he backed off...Posted by boxcarmirntaIf you are quite a distance away, I wouldn't invest a lot of emotion. You say you have a connection, the sad truth we connect to a lot of people. We chat, it's deep and then it passes. You become an acquaintance. If you need my help, I will do what I can and if I need something, I might reach out to you. It's how we attain our networks.Posted by jeaneYea some dude i was into.. But now just confused and more curious than anything.. Like a lesson for next time maybe...Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeaneAgreed. I just feel stupid like 'hey!! Do you like me more than others—?! ' derrrr rrrrrrrpPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and are very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....
Have you asked them? Maybe it does mean something but your expecting it to be expressed in a certain way, while they are expressing it in another.
More often than not, communication is going to be the solution.
haha, maybe not a direct question then. Start testing the waters by hinting at how you are feeling. Then take the decision if its safe to proceed or if you need to do a quick retreat.
Unless you're in a relationship, deep and intense conversations can be just a way to pass the time.
I'm getting confused, are you talking about your partner or a guy you are crushing on?
Unless he is really showing signs of this being something more, it's probably not.click to expand
Posted by GC01Aww! 🙂Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by GC01Posted by boxcarmirntaFellow water sign who dates Libras I'm only being silly with you and a pain in the ass, I mean no harm I promise.Posted by GC01Once again.. Point missed entirely... Weve already had Many Intense moments.......... Its the gettin serious about someone part I'm curious about...
You need some serious and intense moment? Watch a life time movie.
Just relax and go with the flow put no pressure on the relationship wth him....it's not the seriousness of the relationship or the level or the title it's about the connection.
I've been with my libra for years and we have a kid together and live together and he's even put a ring on it but I refuse to call him anything but my boyfriend lol and we don't even have an anniversary we kinda just let time pass and don't keep track of any of the other stuff. Ppl always ask why we're not married...I tell them because we don't want to be and because that's not going to make us stay together any longer or shorter.
Thanks that was really sweet! Whats your sign? We have a great connection i just wish it would lead to more.. I can handle just being friends though i guess..
I'm a cancer I have pictures of my chart on my profile if you'd like to check it out.
Thats great, but at the same time it's okay to be selfish....if you want a real sold relationship I'm sure you can get one weather it's with him or not.
You are worth it!
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Posted by GlaringTruthShut the hell up and/or leave the site. That's how this place always has been and your whining isn't going to change it.
Same fucking shit every time I log in. Some bitch talking about relationship matters. ??♂️
Posted by GlaringTruthStop making everything about yourself narcissist. This has been very pleasant til you arrived.
Oh my gawd! Shut the fuck up! Stop coming here yammering about Libras that are nonexistent to me. Stop comparing the few you met to me.
Posted by Sagiluv27Well he supposed to visit!! Thats what id like... But he woosed out or something.. Who knows.. We have hung out in the past.Posted by boxcarmirntaLong distance doesn't work online relationships don't exist. It won't last that way. They need you around to scratch their back give them hugs and kisses and gaze into your eyes.Posted by Sagiluv27That is really sweet and wonderful. Thanks. He lives far away so.... Can't really win him over when we hang out.. Cuz we don't.. Sigh.. Oh well.. Ill be cyberfriend forever..
Time patience and being genuine loyal kind loving sweet and a good friend and lover. I was just myself all along, he fell in love with me. I didn't sit around and wait for him I continued to live my life and he saw how happy he was when he was with me, & he realized that when I was away he missed me because I was different than what he was used to. His family told him how amazing I am and he begun to see the real picture, he lost me a couple times along the way but managed to fight for me and our relationship in the end.
It takes time for them to realize that you are what they really need in their life.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamHaha... Exactly.Posted by GlaringTruthShut the hell up and/or leave the site. That's how this place always has been and your whining isn't going to change it.
Same fucking shit every time I log in. Some bitch talking about relationship matters. ??♂️click to expand
Posted by Sagiluv27Posted by boxcarmirntaFor now focus on yourself and enjoy your life. Don't sit and wait for any man to decide if they wanna come or not, you'll be fine without him if he's not the onePosted by Sagiluv27Well he supposed to visit!! Thats what id like... But he woosed out or something.. Who knows.. We have hung out in the past.Posted by boxcarmirntaLong distance doesn't work online relationships don't exist. It won't last that way. They need you around to scratch their back give them hugs and kisses and gaze into your eyes.Posted by Sagiluv27That is really sweet and wonderful. Thanks. He lives far away so.... Can't really win him over when we hang out.. Cuz we don't.. Sigh.. Oh well.. Ill be cyberfriend forever..
Time patience and being genuine loyal kind loving sweet and a good friend and lover. I was just myself all along, he fell in love with me. I didn't sit around and wait for him I continued to live my life and he saw how happy he was when he was with me, & he realized that when I was away he missed me because I was different than what he was used to. His family told him how amazing I am and he begun to see the real picture, he lost me a couple times along the way but managed to fight for me and our relationship in the end.
It takes time for them to realize that you are what they really need in their life.click to expand
Oh definitely! 🙂
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....click to expand
I really like this chick, I think it's her Aquarius moon. It takes me about a year.
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by LordComplexityPosted by boxcarmirnta
After dating and being in love with several of you.. And please tell me if im off base, I'm totally fine with that.. You guys are sweet and charming and can really do it up when it comes to pursuing someone. Pull out all the stops...
But ive only had one go beyond the surface niceness and lead to real love (even tho it turned our horrible cuz hes abusive )
I guess I'm wondering what takes it to the next level? When does it stop being surface charm and become deep and meaningful?? Id like a discussion plz.. Not trying to insult any of y'all cuz i do appreciate you. I just wanna understand more. I'm a pisces i like things to be real and intense.. Etc. Thanks dudes.
You need water placements. Period. Only Water and Fire deal with Intensity, and it is 2 different kinds of intensities.
I am a Libra Sun, Pisces Moon. I notice I go against the "Libran Grain" so to speak as I'm incredibly genuine, deep, and intense. Hell there are other factors as well. I do not have 12th house sun, so my ego/personality isn't surpressed. Yet Libra itself is in fact in the 12th. So my Libran traits are indeed suppressed compared to other Libra. I also have Scorp Mars. So I'm very passionate and deep(both physically and emotionally lol) when I fuck.
You want real and intense with a Libra. Date one like me.
Haha.. I don't believe ill ever date one quite like you.... But.. Yes.. His moon is Pisces and venus is scorpio.
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Venus in Scorpio? Oh take a chill pill and relax. Usually I bump heads with Scorpio placements like STRONGLY! But he should be crazy about you - ohhhhh Venus in Aries!! Well no that's not completely true either because I Fallen pretty strongly for some Venus in Aries hmm!
I read on the internet that Libra just kind of chooses whoever stays in the game longer than everybody else.
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I love with everything i've got. Passion, intensity, encouragement, support... My actions toward expressing my love leaves no doubts. Ever.
But fook me, I guess you're right because in the beginning, I am hard to read and terrified of having my heart on my sleeve. Shy. In fact, I tried pushing my hub away when he was my bf. Not because I had an issue with him. It was that I know I will give a relationship every last bit I've got. After being hurt in previous relationships... It was hard to become vulnerable taking a chance on love.
Now that shit is over. I've never loved anyone this way before. Truly, madly, deeply. The love I recieve in return from.him amplifies the whole situation. Just electrifying. Corntown.
Yeah you do come across grounded - Venus in Virgo.
Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....
I really like this chick, I think it's her Aquarius moon. It takes me about a year.
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Who me? 😉
Posted by ShrewdsharpMan... I dunno even know what venus in Aries means for me... I don't feel aries-y at all.i like intense scorpio placements!!! .. Your last sentence was hilarious.Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by LordComplexityPosted by boxcarmirnta
After dating and being in love with several of you.. And please tell me if im off base, I'm totally fine with that.. You guys are sweet and charming and can really do it up when it comes to pursuing someone. Pull out all the stops...
But ive only had one go beyond the surface niceness and lead to real love (even tho it turned our horrible cuz hes abusive )
I guess I'm wondering what takes it to the next level? When does it stop being surface charm and become deep and meaningful?? Id like a discussion plz.. Not trying to insult any of y'all cuz i do appreciate you. I just wanna understand more. I'm a pisces i like things to be real and intense.. Etc. Thanks dudes.
You need water placements. Period. Only Water and Fire deal with Intensity, and it is 2 different kinds of intensities.
I am a Libra Sun, Pisces Moon. I notice I go against the "Libran Grain" so to speak as I'm incredibly genuine, deep, and intense. Hell there are other factors as well. I do not have 12th house sun, so my ego/personality isn't surpressed. Yet Libra itself is in fact in the 12th. So my Libran traits are indeed suppressed compared to other Libra. I also have Scorp Mars. So I'm very passionate and deep(both physically and emotionally lol) when I fuck.
You want real and intense with a Libra. Date one like me.
Haha.. I don't believe ill ever date one quite like you.... But.. Yes.. His moon is Pisces and venus is scorpio.
Venus in Scorpio? Oh take a chill pill and relax. Usually I bump heads with Scorpio placements like STRONGLY! But he should be crazy about you - ohhhhh Venus in Aries!! Well no that's not completely true either because I Fallen pretty strongly for some Venus in Aries hmm!
I read on the internet that Libra just kind of chooses whoever stays in the game longer than everybody else.
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Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by ShrewdsharpPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....
I really like this chick, I think it's her Aquarius moon. It takes me about a year.
Who me? 😉
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Yes you. Something is wrong with him. I think you have been ignoring the obvious. He may be a little "off" and you don't want to accept it. Or maybe he's already in a relationship??
Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by ShrewdsharpPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPerhaps your definition of real is different to theirs? Deep meaningful conversations become exhausting at some point and very difficult to sustain . You do that stuff at the beginning. What is your happiest memory? When did you learn that your parents were human? When was the last time someone hurt you?Posted by jeaneNo thats drama you're talking about. Which i want none of.... I dunno how to word it any better... So ill quote the real world.. See what happens when you stop being polite and start being REAL.Posted by boxcarmirntayes, passionate and deep but don't expect us to hang off your every word or be some sort of daily emotional roller coaster. i agree with everyone else, what specifically are you missing?Posted by jeaneOk maybe not intense.. But passionate? Deep? I know you guys feel... Haha
do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
i am dependable, consistent and stable in the right partnership. it just takes me a while to get there.
After a while a comfort exists between you and then it becomes all about, what do you want to eat for dinner, does my bum look big in this and God I really hate your friends.
Yea i prefer both lighthearted and real convos.... And have had both...... . .it just doesn't seem to mean anything to said libra.... When does it start to mean something? When do we start to matter? I don't know how to verbalize what i mean....
I really like this chick, I think it's her Aquarius moon. It takes me about a year.
Who me? 😉
Yes you. Something is wrong with him. I think you have been ignoring the obvious. He may be a little "off" and you don't want to accept it. Or maybe he's already in a relationship??
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It takes you a year— Jeeze louise! He was going through some pretty rough times but seems to be much better now.. He definitely was not involved.. Although he might be now, hard to say, with the distance and all.. He gave me a super nice compliment yesterday that i was shocked by. He'll do that... Out of the blue.. Sneak in something super meaningful that I'm touched by. Wish it happened more!!
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I don't pursue, but I think it's true I talk much less after time has passed. Whereas I used to make the mistake of talking a lot and often, at the beginning and it gives off the wrong message as things get more settled.
Not sure what you mean by "the next level".
I've turned abusive when I overlooked making sure there's a healthy line in terms of when/where we can share what's going on between us. Too many times my partners felt it was ok to emotionally unload at whatever time of the day, no matter what is going on in my life and that's of my own doing. They don't realise how much it affects me, nor should they. That part was always up to me to make it clear.
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do we do real and intense? certainly real but intense? i don't know. i just don't think intense is in our nature.
I'm like 80% aqua... Thats why i love the leebs and they love me... I reckon.
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