Are Libras Weak?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Shrewdsharp on Sunday, June 4, 2017 and has 27 replies.

Are Libras inherently weak or strong in relationships

Libras are often associated with charm and diplomacy, but their strength varies based on individual placements like the Moon or Rising signs. Many Libras, especially with strong Aquarius influence, can display resilience and the ability to walk away from harmful situations. Strength in Libras depends on their personal chart, not just their sun sign alone.

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I've been reading things in astrology that really do not apply to me as a Libra at all! Like people Pleasers passive aggressive timid shy none of that applies to me. So I'm trying to figure out which of my placements is giving me this indomitable strength that these astrologers are not giving two libras.

So Libra's how many of you know Libras that have gotten out of abusive relationships or have zero tolerance for nonsense? I have an aquarius Moon I'm wondering if it's the Aquarius Moon that is giving me the strength to walk away from just stupid s***.

Libras do you know of Libras that are in relationships where they're getting abused mistreated mentally tormented put down regularly maybe beat or the kids are being molested and they still stay in the situation? Because I know quite a few feminine signs that tolerate enormous levels of abuse so what is your experience with Libras tolerating abuse?

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Posted by Shrewdsharp
I've been reading things in astrology that really do not apply to me as a Libra at all! Like people Pleasers passive aggressive timid shy none of that applies to me. So I'm trying to figure out which of my placements is giving me this indomitable strength that these astrologers are not giving two libras.

So Libra's how many of you know Libras that have gotten out of abusive relationships or have zero tolerance for nonsense? I have an aquarius Moon I'm wondering if it's the Aquarius Moon that is giving me the strength to walk away from just stupid s***.

Libras do you know of Libras that are in relationships where they're getting abused mistreated mentally tormented put down regularly maybe beat or the kids are being molested and they still stay in the situation? Because I know quite a few feminine signs that tolerate enormous levels of abuse so what is your experience with Libras tolerating abuse?

Well...when I told my 2 y/old Libra that this dress goes back to Bloomingdales - she wrestle me for it so I am - back than 250lb woman couldn't get it off of her!!!

And pretty much trough her growing up we preferred not to deal with her because it was easier to level with her than arguing...

Family: Gem, Cap, Cancer...etc.

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Shrewdsharp
I've been reading things in astrology that really do not apply to me as a Libra at all! Like people Pleasers passive aggressive timid shy none of that applies to me. So I'm trying to figure out which of my placements is giving me this indomitable strength that these astrologers are not giving two libras.

So Libra's how many of you know Libras that have gotten out of abusive relationships or have zero tolerance for nonsense? I have an aquarius Moon I'm wondering if it's the Aquarius Moon that is giving me the strength to walk away from just stupid s***.

Libras do you know of Libras that are in relationships where they're getting abused mistreated mentally tormented put down regularly maybe beat or the kids are being molested and they still stay in the situation? Because I know quite a few feminine signs that tolerate enormous levels of abuse so what is your experience with Libras tolerating abuse?

Well...when I told my 2 y/old Libra that this dress goes back to Bloomingdales - she wrestle me for it so I am - back than 250lb woman couldn't get it off of her!!!

And pretty much trough her growing up we preferred not to deal with her because it was easier to level with her than arguing...

Family: Gem, Cap, Cancer...etc.

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Sounds like my kind of girl.

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Posted by Sagiluv27
I know some that were very patient gave many chances to those who broke their heart and stayed no matter what hoping for a happy ending that happy ending never came and finally yearssssss later they left. Doesn't mean they are weak, just means they believe in love and always try their best to make things work.

Doesn't apply to all leeb just a few I knew..

Pathetic! ?

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Posted by TheTinMan

Posted by Shrewdsharp
I've been reading things in astrology that really do not apply to me as a Libra at all! Like people Pleasers passive aggressive timid shy none of that applies to me.

that only applys to Libra risings. so you're in good hands.

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what do you mean you mean what we read and astrology is just referring to rising signs?

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Posted by Sagiluv27

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WEAK? NO! But peacemakers yes. An older Libra who was a friend of the family stayed with abusive partner for 56 years.

But they finally leave... they try try try but they don't stay in the end if they realize they are not appreciated

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I don't know any that will tolerate abuse. Now I've been in the situation where it was hard to leave a good man but never anybody that's abusing me.

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Posted by Shrewdsharp

Posted by Sagiluv27

Posted by Goodtimes
WEAK? NO! But peacemakers yes. An older Libra who was a friend of the family stayed with abusive partner for 56 years.

But they finally leave... they try try try but they don't stay in the end if they realize they are not appreciated

I don't know any that will tolerate abuse. Now I've been in the situation where it was hard to leave a good man but never anybody that's abusing me.

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Libra is a masculine sign so the younger ones are more independent; the old Libra was Old school.

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I'm asking this because I have some Taurus in my life who are real weak and wimpy. They tolerate enormous levels of abuse for men and it's just quite frankly pathetic and sad.

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Libras aren't weak at all. They are Cardinal signs and cardinal signs usually kick ass in some sort of way, whether it be literally kick ass like an Aries, sideways kickass like a Cancer, or authority kick ass like a Capricorn. Have you ever, well, has anyone ever had a deep conversation with you? You'll find that they think you have strong opinions and can very well say, "fuck this, screw that. Fuck all of this... reason being etcetera etcetera." So yes, you kick ass, but you have a reason to, you know? And the Venus is just the icing on top of a very sturdy cake.

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Posted by MissLibracookie

Posted by Shrewdsharp
I've been reading things in astrology that really do not apply to me as a Libra at all! Like people Pleasers passive aggressive timid shy none of that applies to me. So I'm trying to figure out which of my placements is giving me this indomitable strength that these astrologers are not giving two libras.

So Libra's how many of you know Libras that have gotten out of abusive relationships or have zero tolerance for nonsense? I have an aquarius Moon I'm wondering if it's the Aquarius Moon that is giving me the strength to walk away from just stupid s***.

Libras do you know of Libras that are in relationships where they're getting abused mistreated mentally tormented put down regularly maybe beat or the kids are being molested and they still stay in the situation? Because I know quite a few feminine signs that tolerate enormous levels of abuse so what is your experience with Libras tolerating abuse?

Libras are a masculine sign and cardinal. Despite their soft exterior they are quite strong on the inside. I think they like to please their partner but if it's not appreciated they will finally leave. Don't know any Libras sticking through abuse.

I have never been abused but I don't think I would tolerate that.

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Right!! Exactly.

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Posted by GlaringTruth
My sister has been abused but she's far from innocent. She likes "thugs" and "tough men". She has Aqua moon too with Aries mars. She gets in their face and starts fights with them and expects them to "take it" because they are the man. She reminds me a little of Alicia on here. My sister has slashed car tires, keyed cars, and tried to physically take on the guys she was with. The consequence was getting her ass beat. Did she learn? Nope. I don't think she's weak, I find her decisions to be ignorant. I've even had to fight my sister. I'm guessing that Aries mars forgets it's inside a woman cause she obviously oversteps and has been in the hospital for fighting with a guy.

Lmao

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Posted by GlaringTruth
My sister has been abused but she's far from innocent. She likes "thugs" and "tough men". She has Aqua moon too with Aries mars. She gets in their face and starts fights with them and expects them to "take it" because they are the man. She reminds me a little of Alicia on here. My sister has slashed car tires, keyed cars, and tried to physically take on the guys she was with. The consequence was getting her ass beat. Did she learn? Nope. I don't think she's weak, I find her decisions to be ignorant. I've even had to fight my sister. I'm guessing that Aries mars forgets it's inside a woman cause she obviously oversteps and has been in the hospital for fighting with a guy.

Is your sister a Libra?

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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX

Posted by GlaringTruth
My sister has been abused but she's far from innocent. She likes "thugs" and "tough men". She has Aqua moon too with Aries mars. She gets in their face and starts fights with them and expects them to "take it" because they are the man. She reminds me a little of Alicia on here. My sister has slashed car tires, keyed cars, and tried to physically take on the guys she was with. The consequence was getting her ass beat. Did she learn? Nope. I don't think she's weak, I find her decisions to be ignorant. I've even had to fight my sister. I'm guessing that Aries mars forgets it's inside a woman cause she obviously oversteps and has been in the hospital for fighting with a guy.

Except I'm nothing like your sister who sounds just as damaged and mentally unhinged as you are.

I've never slashed anyone's tires or keyed anyone's car. I've never picked fights with men just because they're men and they're "supposed to take it". I don't even think in that way. That kind of mentality is beyond ignorant. I've never in my life been attracted to or dated thugs or "tough "guys. I've always dated men who were (or at least came off as) even-tempered regular guys with good heads on their shoulders.

Literally everything you wrote about your sister is so off from who I am, but it goes to show what I've said to you all along is true. You don't know a thing about me. The only thing you know about me that's accurate is that I don't like you and in real life I'd never give you the time of day.

You're the typical 2017 beta. I mean you just claimed you "had" to fight your sister. Listen, unless she had a gun or a knife, you didn't "have" to do anything. But I can tell you're the kind of guy who's masculinity is so fragile that you'll put your hands on a woman just to feel a sense of superiority. Even if you are well aware of the fact that you're physically stronger. That's one of the many things about you that make you so pathetic.

You're always overcompensating for how weak and insignificant you feel inside by walking around with your bird chest puffed out acting like you have the answers to all of life's questions. Meanwhile the rest of us are written off as "sheep" if we don't agree with your warped sense of reality.

Stay in your lane, beta.

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Damn!

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Posted by GlaringTruth

Posted by Goodtimes

Posted by GlaringTruth
My sister has been abused but she's far from innocent. She likes "thugs" and "tough men". She has Aqua moon too with Aries mars. She gets in their face and starts fights with them and expects them to "take it" because they are the man. She reminds me a little of Alicia on here. My sister has slashed car tires, keyed cars, and tried to physically take on the guys she was with. The consequence was getting her ass beat. Did she learn? Nope. I don't think she's weak, I find her decisions to be ignorant. I've even had to fight my sister. I'm guessing that Aries mars forgets it's inside a woman cause she obviously oversteps and has been in the hospital for fighting with a guy.

Is your sister a Libra?

Yes. Both of us are. Don't really talk to her. She's burned bridges with most of the family.

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I would love to meet your sister, she sounds hilarious!

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My Libra has been through stuff that would destroy most people but he held it together and made it out the other end.

He's the strongest person I ever met.

It's the depression that made him fall apart this time. He had so much pressure and just crumbled. BUT he is clawing his way out. It is taking time but he is still fighting. I would not call him weak at all.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

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My only experience is being abused by libras.. But i can say my aqua moon helps me detach i think. And simply say 'piss off'.

Same.. I've only experienced them being the abusers, not the abused.

Sucks right? Wth!

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You don't have to take it; the first sign of abuse LEAVE! In abusive relationships there is a dance, the abusee and the abuser. If you stay with someone who abuses you then that's your adult decision.

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Posted by Goodtimes

Posted by boxcarmirnta

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My only experience is being abused by libras.. But i can say my aqua moon helps me detach i think. And simply say 'piss off'.

Same.. I've only experienced them being the abusers, not the abused.

Sucks right? Wth!

You don't have to take it; the first sign of abuse LEAVE! In abusive relationships there is a dance, the abusee and the abuser. If you stay with someone who abuses you then that's your adult decision.

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Agree! It takes an enormous amount of maturity to be self responsible it's just easier to blame. Yeah I know this unmarried Taurus who sits and whines and complains about this man who constantly abuses her and you know for six months I've listened to her but finally I asked her, "Is he putting a gun to your head forcing you to stay?"