Princely
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Libra girlfriend won't tell me her sexuality
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Prudish? Maybe she thinks you are pestering her for sex? Are you sure she is your gf and you are her bf?
Posted by EarthgoddessWe haven't kissed, she's a girl. We think we should leave sex till after marriage though, but we haven't explicitly discussed it. This is the one time I feel was ok to discuss sex with her, so I started by asking of her virginity. We've been together for 7months. I'm 28, she's 22.
Weird. After seven months of dating she wont even talk about sex.
No shade but u sure its a girl?....could be a guy...how old is she? So many questions
Have you guys meet in person? Kissed?
Idk i would be worried
Sorry im NOT a libra
Posted by LibracookieI'm 28, she's 22
7months and no talk about sex? How old are you two?
Even if he respects her not speaking on it, she's not communicating with him... that seems one sided, at
least say you prefer to talk about it another time with the intent of actually talking about it
least say you prefer to talk about it another time with the intent of actually talking about it
are both very religious?
why spurred you on to asking about it last night?
when she became cold, why did you persist with that conversation? did you feel it is (was) important for you to know?
how did you ask her? what did you say exactly?
why spurred you on to asking about it last night?
when she became cold, why did you persist with that conversation? did you feel it is (was) important for you to know?
how did you ask her? what did you say exactly?
is this the same libra girlfriend of two months that walked out on you 9 months ago?
and are you still exchanging online messages with the horny cap?
and are you still exchanging online messages with the horny cap?
I said " Wait, we've been going for 7months now, and I don't know something. I want to know... Are you a virgin?"
She replied "Am not saying anything".
I said "Come ooon, if you want to be shy, is it me you want to be shy with? Firstly for me, like I told you, I'm not a virgin. Its healthy we know these intimate stuffs within us. Its just us"
She replied "bye"
Then went offline
She replied "Am not saying anything".
I said "Come ooon, if you want to be shy, is it me you want to be shy with? Firstly for me, like I told you, I'm not a virgin. Its healthy we know these intimate stuffs within us. Its just us"
She replied "bye"
Then went offline
Posted by EarthgoddessWe've met in person, a number of times.
Great now my virgo mind is going full speed...
Have they meet in person? Still havent gotten that answer
Posted by jeaneNah
is this the same libra girlfriend of two months that walked out on you 9 months ago?
and are you still exchanging online messages with the horny cap?
Posted by Princely
I said " Wait, we've been going for 7months now, and I don't know something. I want to know... Are you a virgin?"
She replied "Am not saying anything".
I said "Come ooon, if you want to be shy, is it me you want to be shy with? Firstly for me, like I told you, I'm not a virgin. Its healthy we know these intimate stuffs within us. Its just us"
She replied "bye"
Then went offline
i think she is too young. i think you should find someone closer to your mentality and life experience. she's a kid.
Get yourself an older woman
Posted by Saggi212Posted by PrincelyIf you see its other for 7 months as you say...you have not kiss and as i understand you are not in a relationship then yes asking about her virginity is off topic.Posted by EarthgoddessWe haven't kissed, she's a girl. We think we should leave sex till after marriage though, but we haven't explicitly discussed it. This is the one time I feel was ok to discuss sex with her, so I started by asking of her virginity. We've been together for 7months. I'm 28, she's 22.
Weird. After seven months of dating she wont even talk about sex.
No shade but u sure its a girl?....could be a guy...how old is she? So many questions
Have you guys meet in person? Kissed?
Idk i would be worried
Sorry im NOT a libra
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I'm feeling really bad
Ohhh, those shady Leebs!
It's sounds like she has a religious background, and she has grown up believing sex = shame. If this is the case, it is your sworn duty to let her know how utterly ridiculous this is. I'm not even fvcking kidding bro. I'd love to see how high divorce rates are between those who remained "pure" until marriage.
That said, I can respect a person's decision to wait until marriage IF they know what this entails. By 'entails', I mean that they are educated about sexual compatibility. Sexual compatibility cannot be determined outside of having sex. Things can look good on paper, but the reality can prove to be much different. As she gains sexual experience, she may end up not being into the same things you are, OR she might be into all kinds of crazy stuff you never even thought of. This is why I believe it's the stupidest fcvking thing ever to go into a marriage leaving something so substantial in the total dark.
The other issue is she isn't communicating with you. Seven months, and not even a kiss without giving any kind of reason? You are like the guy on that Taco Bell commercial with the really hot chick and are either seriously friend-zoned and don't even know, or this girl has some kind of an issue going on.
It's sounds like she has a religious background, and she has grown up believing sex = shame. If this is the case, it is your sworn duty to let her know how utterly ridiculous this is. I'm not even fvcking kidding bro. I'd love to see how high divorce rates are between those who remained "pure" until marriage.
That said, I can respect a person's decision to wait until marriage IF they know what this entails. By 'entails', I mean that they are educated about sexual compatibility. Sexual compatibility cannot be determined outside of having sex. Things can look good on paper, but the reality can prove to be much different. As she gains sexual experience, she may end up not being into the same things you are, OR she might be into all kinds of crazy stuff you never even thought of. This is why I believe it's the stupidest fcvking thing ever to go into a marriage leaving something so substantial in the total dark.
The other issue is she isn't communicating with you. Seven months, and not even a kiss without giving any kind of reason? You are like the guy on that Taco Bell commercial with the really hot chick and are either seriously friend-zoned and don't even know, or this girl has some kind of an issue going on.
Either your a troll or each time she's starting to warm to you you start bringing up the status of her pussy. Keep your mouth shut if you ever want to get some. Smooth operator you are not.
Posted by Gob_ShiteBecause being asked if your a virgin is how to get the panties to drop. Smh
Unless she's been a victim of sexual abuse, or you've made it known that you're very religious, there's really no excuse for her being so evasive.
If she doesn't open up to you soon, you should end things with her.
Asking that question sends a very queer message. I'd shut down the convo too. You all need to learn how to speak to people.
Posted by bittercupcakeJust Laugh and never mind! LolPosted by ChrisIsKodaki don't get the humor?Posted by bittercupcakelol
id consider that as an invasion of privacy
maybe shes not comfortable telling you she is
who knows...maybe shes been around the block
and is emberassed.
point is: respect her decision to keep hsh on it.
please englihtentme
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Posted by PrincelyIs yor name Princely because you believe you are royalty of some sort?Posted by EarthgoddessWe haven't kissed, she's a girl. We think we should leave sex till after marriage though, but we haven't explicitly discussed it. This is the one time I feel was ok to discuss sex with her, so I started by asking of her virginity. We've been together for 7months. I'm 28, she's 22.
Weird. After seven months of dating she wont even talk about sex.
No shade but u sure its a girl?....could be a guy...how old is she? So many questions
Have you guys meet in person? Kissed?
Idk i would be worried
Sorry im NOT a libraclick to expand
Sounds to me like you haven't earned her trust yet, dude.
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.
Posted by pinkbird03How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.
Posted by Gemitatilol it's not too common that people are virgins until marriage, but it does exists. There are churches and followers that are super serious about this commitment. He knows this about her. I'm not sure why he's questioning her now just because she's not answering an obvious question. He doesn't seem too smart ?Posted by pinkbird03How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03When did he said he knows? I've missed it. And saying 'yes I am a vifgin' isn't a sin!Posted by Gemitatilol it's not too common that people are virgins until marriage, but it does exists. There are churches and followers that are super serious about this commitment. He knows this about her. I'm not sure why he's questioning her now just because she's not answering an obvious question. He doesn't seem too smart ?Posted by pinkbird03How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.click to expand
Is it? ?
Posted by GetMistedDon't you think he should kiss her first before he starts interrogating her about whether he's the first? Absolutely 0 tact.
If you are, or ever have plans to be physical with someone.. you have a right to know their sexual history.
Posted by GetMistedHe should focus on their first kiss and if there is any chemistry between them. Dating for 8 months but hasn't kissed her...mmmmkay troll alert
What if she has an incurable STD but is too embarrassed to tell him?
Some folks are not okay with that (others are as there are precautions to take) and have the right to know before things get anymore serious.
Posted by GetMistedWhat cult is that? I'm out.Posted by LadyNeptuneNo kissing until marriagePosted by GetMistedDon't you think he should kiss her first before he starts interrogating her about whether he's the first? Absolutely 0 tact.
If you are, or ever have plans to be physical with someone.. you have a right to know their sexual history.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GetMistedHe should focus on their first kiss and if there is any chemistry between them. Dating for 8 months but hasn't kissed her...mmmmkay troll alert
What if she has an incurable STD but is too embarrassed to tell him?
Some folks are not okay with that (others are as there are precautions to take) and have the right to know before things get anymore serious.
Edit: never believe people when they say their clean. Verify that sheeetclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by pinkbird03When did he said he knows? I've missed it. And saying 'yes I am a vifgin' isn't a sin!Posted by Gemitatilol it's not too common that people are virgins until marriage, but it does exists. There are churches and followers that are super serious about this commitment. He knows this about her. I'm not sure why he's questioning her now just because she's not answering an obvious question. He doesn't seem too smart ?Posted by pinkbird03How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.
Is it? ?click to expand
Well the guy I'm still dating (believe it or not!) tells me a lot about his friend who is a 30 year old Christian that has never had sex and wants to wait until marriage. He's not ugly either. It's so hard to believe! But I have a lot of respect for a guy who can actually keep his thing in his pants! Although I don't know if I could date a guy like that... could u??
Posted by EarthgoddessWhat ya heck is 😆?Posted by Gemitati😆Posted by pinkbird03How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.click to expand
Posted by EarthgoddessWhat ya heck is 😆?Posted by Gemitati😆Posted by pinkbird03How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03NOooooooo! ?Posted by GemitatiPosted by pinkbird03When did he said he knows? I've missed it. And saying 'yes I am a vifgin' isn't a sin!Posted by Gemitatilol it's not too common that people are virgins until marriage, but it does exists. There are churches and followers that are super serious about this commitment. He knows this about her. I'm not sure why he's questioning her now just because she's not answering an obvious question. He doesn't seem too smart ?Posted by pinkbird03How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.
Is it? ?
Well the guy I'm still dating (believe it or not!) tells me a lot about his friend who is a 30 year old Christian that has never had sex and wants to wait until marriage. He's not ugly either. It's so hard to believe! But I have a lot of respect for a guy who can actually keep his thing in his pants! Although I don't know if I could date a guy like that... could u??
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Posted by EarthgoddessWhat's 😆?Posted by GemitatiThey said she/he / itPosted by EarthgoddessWhat ya heck is 😆?Posted by Gemitati😆Posted by pinkbird03How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.
Thats funny as hell lol...😆
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Well all i can say is.. Waiting for marriage is pretty much a guaranteed fail. Shes only 22...she's not gonna wanna only be with you her whole life... Recipe for disaster.who cares if she's a virgin or not?! Really NOT the most important issue.... Which would be if you're even compatible in the sack... You're both being extremely unrealistic.
Sounds like you missed a step or two here. You have been seeing each other for 7 months, but haven't kissed yet? Are you sure you're even dating?
Libra women tend to be more refined with how they approach certain situations since they can be very private people. When she said that she would not discuss the matter with you, you should have let it drop. Libras do not like being forced to do anything. Pushing her only caused her to shut down on you.
Why she's so withdrawn about discussing this subject with you is another story. My guess is that you haven't made her comfortable emotionally yet. Likewise, if you two haven't kissed, it's possible she's not sure what she wants from you. Try getting a kiss first. She may think you're only asking about sex as a way to pressure her into it. If she's not willing to kiss you then she probably has no romantic feelings for you.
Libra women tend to be more refined with how they approach certain situations since they can be very private people. When she said that she would not discuss the matter with you, you should have let it drop. Libras do not like being forced to do anything. Pushing her only caused her to shut down on you.
Why she's so withdrawn about discussing this subject with you is another story. My guess is that you haven't made her comfortable emotionally yet. Likewise, if you two haven't kissed, it's possible she's not sure what she wants from you. Try getting a kiss first. She may think you're only asking about sex as a way to pressure her into it. If she's not willing to kiss you then she probably has no romantic feelings for you.
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Why could this be?
What could it mean?
Are libra girls uncomfortable with their men asking them of their virginity?
Or she's scared of something? I don't understand.
Libra folks, what do you make of this?
Guys with libra girlfriends, ever encountered things like this?
Thanks for opinions please