Libra Guy when done with Someone

Hello , will a Libra guy would still reply to your messages once they are done to you?

Posted by Timon
Depends on the context. If it's in early stage of dating they most likely would ghost you. If they are nice they will reply but keep it short.

thank you

Posted by OCJack
Following Timon's logic, if they are casual daters they are probably only interested in casual flings/are players and would have ghosted you regardless of what you do unless they simply were attracted enough that they wanted more slices of that pie but still would ghost eventually once they had the whole pie and most probably still wouldnt want to commit.

I don't casual date, but this is my experience from both observing others and observing myself the few times I did date casually. In my own case and in the case of my first ex who was also a libra who casually dated me. We just dont work like other people at the surface level. We will come up with some sort of excuse to back out eventually.

Your real luck comes if we want to chase /you/, which happens only after we get to know you enough. But that only happens from a distance, like if we were already friends for however long. Kinda reminds me of Libra Venus, and the other 2 air signs also make a big deal out of dating /friends/ specifically.

Hi @OCJack , to make it short , we are casual friends , I could not say we are very close friend as we met in Tinder 2 years ago and we rarely date ,shares few personal secrets to each other. Communication were on and off for two years .How would a Libra chase?

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Posted by OCJack
Following Timon's logic, if they are casual daters they are probably only interested in casual flings/are players and would have ghosted you regardless of what you do unless they simply were attracted enough that they wanted more slices of that pie but still would ghost eventually once they had the whole pie and most probably still wouldnt want to commit.

I don't casual date, but this is my experience from both observing others and observing myself the few times I did date casually. In my own case and in the case of my first ex who was also a libra who casually dated me. We just dont work like other people at the surface level. We will come up with some sort of excuse to back out eventually.

Your real luck comes if we want to chase /you/, which happens only after we get to know you enough. But that only happens from a distance, like if we were already friends for however long. Kinda reminds me of Libra Venus, and the other 2 air signs also make a big deal out of dating /friends/ specifically.

Hi @OCJack , to make it short , we are casual friends , I could not say we are very close friend as we met in Tinder 2 years ago and we rarely date ,shares few personal secrets to each other. Communication were on and off for two years .How would a Libra chase?

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Text you constantly to see how you are doing and how is your day.

They try to talk to you as often as they could.

They smile a lot at your direction.

Loves to take small glances at you.

Tries to see what they have in common with you.

Wants to hang out even thou they have a lot of friends that wants to hang out with them

Observes you a lot while trying to get to know you if you're a good person for them

Honestly a libra guy is really straightforward if they finally decide that it's not working out.

They'll let you know.

But if this is like a virtual getting to know each other, it's more complex. They ghost.

Posted by OCJack

Posted by Echo
Text you constantly to see how you are doing and how is your day.

This is only true if they can't be around you physically, and by cant I mean either they or you or both have too many obligations. Otherwise they will be around physically constantly even if they aren't physically or emotionally clingy.

And again if they've broken the ice, they will try to find any loophole they can to see you anyways. Like when I walked 5 miles just to give Melody her favorite soda. It isn't even that deliberately /romantic/, we just do every little thing we can to show how we feel about the other person.

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Thank @OCJack , I think it is better that my Libra and I stay as friends.

I never ghost, never have, never will. If my response time takes forever, and is short. I am not interested, but am being polite.

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Posted by Kittykitkat
Thank @OCJack , I think it is better that my Libra and I stay as friends.

Sure, and probably just move on for now until you see him acting the way I am talking. But remember like anything it comes gradually if it comes at all, not all of a sudden they are chasing you all the way. Otherwise I would suspect the person just being enthralled by your independence and wanting to prove to themselves that they can attain you. Aka it is all for the chase, not the other person, in that case.

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Thank you, this is very helpful

Ill keep you posted if there is any progress .