Libra guys running cold

Okay so this libra guy just broke up with his gf 2 months ago. He was a close friend of mine. I helped him through a lot and he said he had feelings for me. He made it clear he wasn't ready to date but that he was curious about me. I told him I'll let him heal and give it time. I tend to dodge feelings and confrontation and maybe that's throwing him off... He's not as social with me like he usually was. He said he's just been tired so I let him be unless he wants to talk. We have like near perfect synastry. Is he being moody (cuz I know he has his fair share of problems) or is he hurt by something I've said or done?

I have cap sun, libra moon, aqua mercury, venus in cap, mars in pisces, virgo rising

He has libra sun, gemini moon, libra mercury, venus in scorp, mars in virgo, libra rising

he's likely heeding your advice to heal and give it time.

Agree with previous answers. Let him deal with it in his own way, or you will push him away.

You language comes across as odd.. you will let him heal.. saying this to him makes it sound a bit like you are waiting to get together when he’s better, like you assume he will be ready to date later.. but who knows how he feels.. I think chances are you will be friend zoned now. Think about it the other way, if you had broken up with someone and someone else was around, and you told them you weren’t ready, but they said “I’ll let you heal”.. what would you think, honestly? Maybe I’m wrong.

Posted by AriesJo

Agree with previous answers. Let him deal with it in his own way, or you will push him away.

You language comes across as odd.. you will let him heal.. saying this to him makes it sound a bit like you are waiting to get together when he’s better, like you assume he will be ready to date later.. but who knows how he feels.. I think chances are you will be friend zoned now. Think about it the other way, if you had broken up with someone and someone else was around, and you told them you weren’t ready, but they said “I’ll let you heal”.. what would you think, honestly? Maybe I’m wrong.

I mean he is still down to hang with me. Like whenever theres a social gathering he'll ask me if I'm going and come along. Also, he entertained the thoughts of becoming roommates even though I do like my own space... We both never really discuss emotions with each other ( libra mercury aqua mercury lmao) and when we do it's very light, mature, and jovial. I'm seeing him in a bit so I'm going to talk with him...

I agree this is very odd. How come you helped him while he had a woman? What was her zodiac? Did she know about you and him? I would run for the hills maybe even try to get him and her back together you never know if she was a Scorpio or Aquarius they might be in tune to their partners needs and if you’re in the back shuffling she might have tapped. Sounds like he misses her and is questioning if your friendship is the reason behind the breakup only months before his birthday I asssume. I’m not trying to be rude but you should think of your worth as well. Don’t be somebody's good time after a break up. He sounds like he needs to change his ways.

Posted by 102gtN

I agree this is very odd. How come you helped him while he had a woman? What was her zodiac? Did she know about you and him? I would run for the hills maybe even try to get him and her back together you never know if she was a Scorpio or Aquarius they might be in tune to their partners needs and if you’re in the back shuffling she might have tapped. Sounds like he misses her and is questioning if your friendship is the reason behind the breakup only months before his birthday I asssume. I’m not trying to be rude but you should think of your worth as well. Don’t be somebody's good time after a break up. He sounds like he needs to change his ways.

Ya I talked it out with him. She was a Taurus gemini stellium. It was true she was always jealous of me but that wasn't why they broke up. He's fine now and I don't think he's anything special rn