libra guys stressed and confusing.

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Aquaaqua on Saturday, December 27, 2014 and has 3 replies.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Sounds like the timing is still bad. Guys dont act like this when theyre interested.

Imagine that your homegirl wrote this post to you, what kind of advice would u give her? Would you in good faith tell her to wait around?

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Besides baby mama sounds like she wants to be more than just a baby mama. Im sure she wants to be his gf and is pressuring him at the same time you are.

4 questions I ask men when I meet them:

1. Are you married?
2. Do you have a girlfriend?
3. Is there a girl who thinks shes your girlfriend or wants to be your girlfriend?
4. Do you find men sexually attractive?

Ask really fast so they have no time to make up a lie. 3rd question, he hesistates, drop him.

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@justagirl
12 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Aquaaqua
I'm not worried about this girl... she is not a romantic factor here.

She's about to have his baby.. or you saying this is immaculate conception here?

He doesn't initiate, he cancels, he ignores your request to go to the movie, he has a BABY on the way, which should be his focus... not sure what else needs to be said.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Your next move should be exit stage left.

Seriously, he's got baby mama bs going on, he keeps flaking on you, and all of it sounds shady.

Why are you caught up on this other than the stupid "what if" from a decade ago? It clearly didn't work then and it appears it won't be working now. It's not about "bad" timing as it seems more like this guy isn't meant to be.

Your wishful thinking is clouding your judgement. Get caught up with a guy who doesn't have all this ridiculous baggage and who won't flake on you, leaving you wondering if he really wants to bother. ...Because when a guy really wants you, you don't have to worry about all this stupid bullshit.

Are you really that desperate?