Carolz
@Carolz
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Libra is back !
BTW I am a cappy
You won't know where you stand with a Libra until you have their heart (when that happens you will know)
That's nor possible . He can't live without me even one month but still what he is doing right now is weird I am literally unable to understand it
Why don't you just come straight out and ask him what his intentions are? That's the only way you're going to really know what his reasoning is for popping back up.
Also what does him popping back up mean to you? Do you want a relationship? Are you willing to just be friends if he doesn't want a relationship with you? Just because he popped back up doesn't mean he wants you to be his girlfriend.
Also what does him popping back up mean to you? Do you want a relationship? Are you willing to just be friends if he doesn't want a relationship with you? Just because he popped back up doesn't mean he wants you to be his girlfriend.
This is what happened-
He has no options right now, and the fact you keep allowing him on your social media gives him the green light that you're an option.
He's coming back because he has no options. Talking to you was feeling out the situation and now he's back to the behavior you saw before.
Don't allow yourself to be conned by this bullshit. When guys come sniffing around, 9 times out of 10 it's because they want something, whether it be sex or ego validation.. Don't get your hopes up until you see more positive action on his part. Him reaching out once means shit.
He has no options right now, and the fact you keep allowing him on your social media gives him the green light that you're an option.
He's coming back because he has no options. Talking to you was feeling out the situation and now he's back to the behavior you saw before.
Don't allow yourself to be conned by this bullshit. When guys come sniffing around, 9 times out of 10 it's because they want something, whether it be sex or ego validation.. Don't get your hopes up until you see more positive action on his part. Him reaching out once means shit.
Posted by Cancer LadyWell right now its just mixed . I am confused myself if I cwant a relation with him again or not and about him . Yes he surely want a relation because he would not say that he still loves me and it was always me if he only wanted a friendship . I told you we were in an on and off friendship from last year which never included our relationship talk . That awkwardness remained in between .
Why don't you just come straight out and ask him what his intentions are? That's the only way you're going to really know what his reasoning is for popping back up.
Also what does him popping back up mean to you? Do you want a relationship? Are you willing to just be friends if he doesn't want a relationship with you? Just because he popped back up doesn't mean he wants you to be his girlfriend.
Posted by busyeyes88Mine came back because he wanted to hook up haha. When he realized that wasn't going to happen, he went back to being a weirdo.Posted by CarolzLibra's play alot of mind games. I dumped one three years ago after he "pissed me off" and told him "we belong with other people"... He came back two years later hoping for a reconciliation and I point blank told him that I don't want anything more with him but platonic friendship...
That's nor possible . He can't live without me even one month but still what he is doing right now is weird I am literally unable to understand it
So libra men do return... Remember to be on your guard... Leopard don't change their spots!click to expand
I'm still waiting to hear from another. I know there's a chance that he'll be back around. It's just a matter of when haha.
But this isn't just a Libra thing. It's a douchebag guy thing. I had a Cap do the same shit as well, except at the time, I wasn't aware of this crap. Surprise, surprise, it ended up being more of the same bs as before. He didn't change or see the error of his ways. He just wanted to see if he could mooch some more.
Awhile back, I also had a Taurus come sniffing around, except we had zero history. It was really, really weird he just popped up out of the blue like he did, pursuing me. I barely knew the guy. Turns out he was just begging for a girlfriend, which he eventually got, apparently. It's like wtf why do guys gotta do that weird fuck shit?
Posted by rockyroadicecreamThat was exactly what I was thinking . So yes its his ego validation either he is still in the picture or not . I am also not gonna waste my time on him if he don't show me any positive behavioral pattern which shows him being guilty .
This is what happened-
He has no options right now, and the fact you keep allowing him on your social media gives him the green light that you're an option.
He's coming back because he has no options. Talking to you was feeling out the situation and now he's back to the behavior you saw before.
Don't allow yourself to be conned by this bullshit. When guys come sniffing around, 9 times out of 10 it's because they want something, whether it be sex or ego validation.. Don't get your hopes up until you see more positive action on his part. Him reaching out once means shit.
Posted by CarolzMake him prove where he stands. Don't do all the legwork. Make him work for it.Posted by rockyroadicecreamThat was exactly what I was thinking . So yes its his ego validation either he is still in the picture or not . I am also not gonna waste my time on him if he don't show me any positive behavioral pattern which shows him being guilty .
This is what happened-
He has no options right now, and the fact you keep allowing him on your social media gives him the green light that you're an option.
He's coming back because he has no options. Talking to you was feeling out the situation and now he's back to the behavior you saw before.
Don't allow yourself to be conned by this bullshit. When guys come sniffing around, 9 times out of 10 it's because they want something, whether it be sex or ego validation.. Don't get your hopes up until you see more positive action on his part. Him reaching out once means shit.click to expand
From here on out, don't initiate contact. Let him contact you again. If he doesn't, then you know he was full of shit. If he does, it goes from there via actions. Pay attention to actions. Shit on social media doesn't count, even though it can be confusing and a bit wtf. Real life action. If he reaches out more and more and initiates plans, it's up to you to decide if you want to go there.
But reaching out once and then proceeding to not bother following up is really meh at this point.
Remember, you do not owe this fool shit because he contacted you ONCE out of the blue to test the waters. It's up to you to decide what you want to do in the long run, but right now, there's nothing going on here. Just someone who treated you rudely who's reaching out to see what he can still get. Until he proves otherwise, you should stick by that. It'll save you a lot of emotions and head space.
Posted by CarolzA friend of mine and I both had an experience with the same guy. The difference between us was that she was too "nice" in dropping his rude ass. She still has him on social media and all that. She doesn't really care for the guy, but she's just too passive to tell him to fuck off.Posted by rockyroadicecreamThat was exactly what I was thinking . So yes its his ego validation either he is still in the picture or not . I am also not gonna waste my time on him if he don't show me any positive behavioral pattern which shows him being guilty .
This is what happened-
He has no options right now, and the fact you keep allowing him on your social media gives him the green light that you're an option.
He's coming back because he has no options. Talking to you was feeling out the situation and now he's back to the behavior you saw before.
Don't allow yourself to be conned by this bullshit. When guys come sniffing around, 9 times out of 10 it's because they want something, whether it be sex or ego validation.. Don't get your hopes up until you see more positive action on his part. Him reaching out once means shit.click to expand
I told him to fuck off. I told him what a terrible human being he was, that he fucked up, and bye bitch. He'd gotten his second chance and failed it with flying colors. I have yet to hear from him and to top it off, I blocked him on all social media because I didn't want his loser ass attempting any contact to me whatsoever. I have never heard from him since.
With her, however, he's dipped in, I think twice now. He found her on Instagram and was trying to engage with her a bit there via commenting on her pics and the like. Recently, she sent me text screen caps of him reaching out to her via text. He had a new number and I guess he'd had all his contacts backed up so he still had hers. He wasted no time- "we should go out sometime. Give me another chance?" ...same guy who cheated on various girlfriends, notorious for using them, total trainwreck of a human being. But he kept pushing with her because she was too "nice" in how she handled his awful personality. She was so surprised and really irritated he was bugging her out of the blue. We're talking at least a year or two of zero contact.
We teach guys how to treat us. You HAVE to put your foot down if you don't want one treating you like some disposable option for their varying needs.
Yes so I am not gonna contact him again . If he contacts me then I will straight away put my point across . He is such a bad ass I swear . Playing all kinda mind games with me lol!
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by CarolzA friend of mine and I both had an experience with the same guy. The difference between us was that she was too "nice" in dropping his rude ass. She still has him on social media and all that. She doesn't really care for the guy, but she's just too passive to tell him to fuck off.Posted by rockyroadicecreamThat was exactly what I was thinking . So yes its his ego validation either he is still in the picture or not . I am also not gonna waste my time on him if he don't show me any positive behavioral pattern which shows him being guilty .
This is what happened-
He has no options right now, and the fact you keep allowing him on your social media gives him the green light that you're an option.
He's coming back because he has no options. Talking to you was feeling out the situation and now he's back to the behavior you saw before.
Don't allow yourself to be conned by this bullshit. When guys come sniffing around, 9 times out of 10 it's because they want something, whether it be sex or ego validation.. Don't get your hopes up until you see more positive action on his part. Him reaching out once means shit.
I told him to fuck off. I told him what a terrible human being he was, that he fucked up, and bye bitch. He'd gotten his second chance and failed it with flying colors. I have yet to hear from him and to top it off, I blocked him on all social media because I didn't want his loser ass attempting any contact to me whatsoever. I have never heard from him since.
With her, however, he's dipped in, I think twice now. He found her on Instagram and was trying to engage with her a bit there via commenting on her pics and the like. Recently, she sent me text screen caps of him reaching out to her via text. He had a new number and I guess he'd had all his contacts backed up so he still had hers. He wasted no time- "we should go out sometime. Give me another chance?" ...same guy who cheated on various girlfriends, notorious for using them, total trainwreck of a human being. But he kept pushing with her because she was too "nice" in how she handled his awful personality. She was so surprised and really irritated he was bugging her out of the blue. We're talking at least a year or two of zero contact.
We teach guys how to treat us. You HAVE to put your foot down if you don't want one treating you like some disposable option for their varying needs.click to expand
Blocking him is difficult for sure because we have a lot of mutual friends some of them know about the relation thing and some don't so its like all will go wrong and specially our fam
Posted by CarolzSo your social standing is more important than your personal comfort of keeping assholes away?
Blocking him is difficult for sure because we have a lot of mutual friends some of them know about the relation thing and some don't so its like all will go wrong and specially our fam
You're allowing social media to dictate your life. Don't do that.
I know that's wrong .. That really is ! But may be I need time to reach at that point where I am able to part ways with him and block him from my whole life .
Hello! I never met a libra man with this kind of behavior. They all so clinky, supportive, affectionate, very expressive. He's not that into you and about time you come to terms with it. You allowing yourself to be confused. Jus because he's keeping tabs on you means nothing. Stop talking to him. He doesn't exist. So what if he comes back. If he's not doing anything out of the way for you. It's bullshit. You know you deserve better so start making improvements.
Libra and cap? Don't do it. Just let it go. I went through the same thing. The cap though is more like your Libra. She got the better of me everytime. Trust me don't play into the game. Turn it off now. It sounds like you are considering taking him up on his invitation, and if you give him an inch he will keep going forward, he proved it with your friend. I am a Libra and I can tell you if he wants you there is no games. Mature Libras know what they want and will do what needs to be done to prove it. This guy just proves he is an ass hat
Cap and Libra . yea I know a bad combo !
Posted by busyeyes88Social conditioning from when they're young. Mom usually encourages it without realizing it. Nevermind the rest of society conditions women to be passive and guys not to be, so they take full advantage of women's passivity to things like this.Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou are so right Rocky! All men do it! God knows why but I don't have the time to waste or the patience for that shit!!! LolPosted by busyeyes88Mine came back because he wanted to hook up haha. When he realized that wasn't going to happen, he went back to being a weirdo.Posted by CarolzLibra's play alot of mind games. I dumped one three years ago after he "pissed me off" and told him "we belong with other people"... He came back two years later hoping for a reconciliation and I point blank told him that I don't want anything more with him but platonic friendship...
That's nor possible . He can't live without me even one month but still what he is doing right now is weird I am literally unable to understand it
So libra men do return... Remember to be on your guard... Leopard don't change their spots!
I'm still waiting to hear from another. I know there's a chance that he'll be back around. It's just a matter of when haha.
But this isn't just a Libra thing. It's a douchebag guy thing. I had a Cap do the same shit as well, except at the time, I wasn't aware of this crap. Surprise, surprise, it ended up being more of the same bs as before. He didn't change or see the error of his ways. He just wanted to see if he could mooch some more.
Awhile back, I also had a Taurus come sniffing around, except we had zero history. It was really, really weird he just popped up out of the blue like he did, pursuing me. I barely knew the guy. Turns out he was just begging for a girlfriend, which he eventually got, apparently. It's like wtf why do guys gotta do that weird fuck shit?click to expand
You said "He told me that he has called bcz its been so long we haven't talked and that he know it was all his mistake he had his family probs and studies load and he has never loved anyone or liked anyone else except me ." This doesn't mean he wants a relationship with you. He didn't say I called to get back with you and start all over...
It sounds like he was getting closure. Don't listen to a man's words, listen to their actions. For instance; after the phone dropped did he call you back and invite you to dinner? Did he bring you flowers? After all those pretty words what did he do? Do you two have definite plans for Valentine's Day? After all those pretty words he hasn't called, replied or pursued you.
His actions are not the behavior a man in love or pursuing a woman for a relationship. There is nothing weird about his behavior at all! That's how men act when they are not interested.
You say you can't live a month without each other, but he broke it off with you for some silly reason, kept it platonic and now he's so ambivalent you can't get him on the phone. Girl, keep it pushing. Usually when we get closure with an ex we are ready for then next.
It sounds like he was getting closure. Don't listen to a man's words, listen to their actions. For instance; after the phone dropped did he call you back and invite you to dinner? Did he bring you flowers? After all those pretty words what did he do? Do you two have definite plans for Valentine's Day? After all those pretty words he hasn't called, replied or pursued you.
His actions are not the behavior a man in love or pursuing a woman for a relationship. There is nothing weird about his behavior at all! That's how men act when they are not interested.
You say you can't live a month without each other, but he broke it off with you for some silly reason, kept it platonic and now he's so ambivalent you can't get him on the phone. Girl, keep it pushing. Usually when we get closure with an ex we are ready for then next.
Posted by ElTigre25Posted by lovinglibra
Hello! I never met a libra man with this kind of behavior. They all so clinky, supportive, affectionate, very expressive. He's not that into you and about time you come to terms with it. You allowing yourself to be confused. Jus because he's keeping tabs on you means nothing. Stop talking to him. He doesn't exist. So what if he comes back. If he's not doing anything out of the way for you. It's bullshit. You know you deserve better so start making improvements.
When a libras misses a person, the person will never know
Posted by ElTigre25Feel better now? Lol its my opinions my facts I could post what I want. Got that? So chill
@lovinglibra Exactly, you are no expert on Libra men. Not you, not rockyroadicecream, none of you all are experts on any sign just because of a few encounters or by reading something out of a book. Doesn't matter that you mentioned all or not. Your argument did not quantify the amount of Libra men who are 'clinky(whatever that is), affectionate, and very expressive either way.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI completely agree with you. She should take your advice.
This is what happened-
He has no options right now, and the fact you keep allowing him on your social media gives him the green light that you're an option.
He's coming back because he has no options. Talking to you was feeling out the situation and now he's back to the behavior you saw before.
Don't allow yourself to be conned by this bullshit. When guys come sniffing around, 9 times out of 10 it's because they want something, whether it be sex or ego validation.. Don't get your hopes up until you see more positive action on his part. Him reaching out once means shit.
Posted by ElTigre25Posted by lovinglibraAnd I can/will dissect it for it's flaws as I would anything else.Posted by ElTigre25Feel better now? Lol its my opinions my facts I could post what I want. Got that? So chill
@lovinglibra Exactly, you are no expert on Libra men. Not you, not rockyroadicecream, none of you all are experts on any sign just because of a few encounters or by reading something out of a book. Doesn't matter that you mentioned all or not. Your argument did not quantify the amount of Libra men who are 'clinky(whatever that is), affectionate, and very expressive either way.click to expand
Or you can block this user and not worry about his dissensions
Posted by luckiedollsmith
When a libras misses a person, the person will never know
If I miss a person I let them know. I am very upfront bold and direct about my feelings.
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