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I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
Posted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was told
Posted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...
Yeah she has her immaturity’s for sure, and I’m guilty of my wrong doings. The last month we were together I kinda became a little bit of a bag of shit but tried explaining to her I didn’t realize I was being that way and that I’m doing everything in my power to get all the negative shit out my head and turn things around. She just said next girl will get the perfect guy if you follow thru with it, well I wasn’t joking and I’ve followed thru with it all. Not like it was some devesting relationship ending shit either
life is about learning and growing into better people - that's great but it's just a part of life and people make mistakes even at my age - you are right, that's not a deal breaker - ok so she made you aware of some bad behavior or something and you fixed it - good for you - I would bet that if you mentioned one of her flaws she would be pizzed and not even try to fix it lol - and it sounds like she is trying to stuff you back into the "just friends" category - I'm sure to ease her mind that it's ok now for her to go out with other men
You’re exactly right she’d get upset and then it’d be my fault for pointing out a flaw. And after the first week she had her ex over at her house with some other friends and it’s just like really? I think she’s talking to him again and everything I’ve heard about this dude is that he’s just the biggest price of shit around and has cheated in every relationship of his including on her
well it's either to make you jealous which is not a good move, or he can marry her and take that headache off your hands which I think is best - sorry - I don't wish you pain but she sounds like a freaking pain in the azz to me cause I lived same for a long time and I'm partial to that kind of cray cray
She went on a few dates the first break up and told me she only did it because she know it would get around to me and make me mad because she wanted me to just show up with the answers. Which I fuckin did multiples of times..
you are not dealing with a mature woman, she is still a spoiled childclick to expand
She went on a few dates the first break up and told me she only did it because she know it would get around to me and make me mad because she wanted me to just show up with the answers. Which I treetrunkin did multiples of times..
you are not dealing with a mature woman, she is still a spoiled child
She’s her dads only child(has bro/sis from moms first marriage) and he’s spoiled the butter out of her, her whole life. Pretty decent guy we got a long well. Even me and her mom we got along great. Actually kinda weird they’d say I Acted like her dad but had the same interest as her mom. And she was like my mom but had the interest of my dad? It was true but weird
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was toldclick to expand
you didn't ruin shyte - they all got each other the same thing so why is that your fault lol what a f'd up situation
How embarrassing for the both of you. Neither of you know how to close the door for good.
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was toldclick to expand
WTF with the puzzle pictures? Is this regional thing? And how did you ruined anything if they got it as well?
Do they have not enough walls to put all the puzzle pictures up?
It’s really shitty attitude from her.
She could just hide your gift and stfu! Couldn’t she? Why? Because yours was better? Smh...strange woman...
Posted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was told
you didn't ruin shyte - they all got each other the same thing so why is that your fault lol what a f'd up situationclick to expand
That’s what I’m saying! I even told her they’re gonna enjoy the ones you got them a lot more. Atleast her mom sent me a text and basically said “thank you it was so thoughtful of you and sweet and kind, love you”
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...
Yeah she has her immaturity’s for sure, and I’m guilty of my wrong doings. The last month we were together I kinda became a little bit of a bag of shit but tried explaining to her I didn’t realize I was being that way and that I’m doing everything in my power to get all the negative shit out my head and turn things around. She just said next girl will get the perfect guy if you follow thru with it, well I wasn’t joking and I’ve followed thru with it all. Not like it was some devesting relationship ending shit either
life is about learning and growing into better people - that's great but it's just a part of life and people make mistakes even at my age - you are right, that's not a deal breaker - ok so she made you aware of some bad behavior or something and you fixed it - good for you - I would bet that if you mentioned one of her flaws she would be pizzed and not even try to fix it lol - and it sounds like she is trying to stuff you back into the "just friends" category - I'm sure to ease her mind that it's ok now for her to go out with other men
You’re exactly right she’d get upset and then it’d be my fault for pointing out a flaw. And after the first week she had her ex over at her house with some other friends and it’s just like really? I think she’s talking to him again and everything I’ve heard about this dude is that he’s just the biggest price of shit around and has cheated in every relationship of his including on her
well it's either to make you jealous which is not a good move, or he can marry her and take that headache off your hands which I think is best - sorry - I don't wish you pain but she sounds like a freaking pain in the azz to me cause I lived same for a long time and I'm partial to that kind of cray cray
She went on a few dates the first break up and told me she only did it because she know it would get around to me and make me mad because she wanted me to just show up with the answers. Which I fuckin did multiples of times..
you are not dealing with a mature woman, she is still a spoiled child
She went on a few dates the first break up and told me she only did it because she know it would get around to me and make me mad because she wanted me to just show up with the answers. Which I treetrunkin did multiples of times..
you are not dealing with a mature woman, she is still a spoiled child
She’s her dads only child(has bro/sis from moms first marriage) and he’s spoiled the butter out of her, her whole life. Pretty decent guy we got a long well. Even me and her mom we got along great. Actually kinda weird they’d say I Acted like her dad but had the same interest as her mom. And she was like my mom but had the interest of my dad? It was true but weirdclick to expand
I can't deal with spoiled people personally - I had a difficult childhood and raised my son myself - Cap Moon has no compassion for those that have grown up being handed things - those people do not change and stay spoiled and become "entitled" and then expect that the world is here to serve them
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was told
WTF with the puzzle pictures? Is this regional thing? And how did you ruined anything if they got it as well?
Do they have not enough walls to put all the puzzle pictures up?
It’s really shitty attitude from her.
She could just hide your gift and stfu! Couldn’t she? Why? Because yours was better? Smh...strange woman...click to expand
They forsure have room to put all the pictures up, and I dropped the presents off at my ex’s house and her parents house(her parents live on the same street as me) but yeah idk why it was such a big deal but she made it one
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was told
WTF with the puzzle pictures? Is this regional thing? And how did you ruined anything if they got it as well?
Do they have not enough walls to put all the puzzle pictures up?
It’s really shitty attitude from her.
She could just hide your gift and stfu! Couldn’t she? Why? Because yours was better? Smh...strange woman...
They forsure have room to put all the pictures up, and I dropped the presents off at my ex’s house and her parents house(her parents live on the same street as me) but yeah idk why it was such a big deal but she made it oneclick to expand
You know better but maybe you don’t need her in your future? Imagine union when she is throwing pissy fits and making you miserable just too often...not fun!
Posted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...
Yeah she has her immaturity’s for sure, and I’m guilty of my wrong doings. The last month we were together I kinda became a little bit of a bag of shit but tried explaining to her I didn’t realize I was being that way and that I’m doing everything in my power to get all the negative shit out my head and turn things around. She just said next girl will get the perfect guy if you follow thru with it, well I wasn’t joking and I’ve followed thru with it all. Not like it was some devesting relationship ending shit either
life is about learning and growing into better people - that's great but it's just a part of life and people make mistakes even at my age - you are right, that's not a deal breaker - ok so she made you aware of some bad behavior or something and you fixed it - good for you - I would bet that if you mentioned one of her flaws she would be pizzed and not even try to fix it lol - and it sounds like she is trying to stuff you back into the "just friends" category - I'm sure to ease her mind that it's ok now for her to go out with other men
You’re exactly right she’d get upset and then it’d be my fault for pointing out a flaw. And after the first week she had her ex over at her house with some other friends and it’s just like really? I think she’s talking to him again and everything I’ve heard about this dude is that he’s just the biggest price of shit around and has cheated in every relationship of his including on her
well it's either to make you jealous which is not a good move, or he can marry her and take that headache off your hands which I think is best - sorry - I don't wish you pain but she sounds like a freaking pain in the azz to me cause I lived same for a long time and I'm partial to that kind of cray cray
She went on a few dates the first break up and told me she only did it because she know it would get around to me and make me mad because she wanted me to just show up with the answers. Which I fuckin did multiples of times..
you are not dealing with a mature woman, she is still a spoiled child
She went on a few dates the first break up and told me she only did it because she know it would get around to me and make me mad because she wanted me to just show up with the answers. Which I treetrunkin did multiples of times..
you are not dealing with a mature woman, she is still a spoiled child
She’s her dads only child(has bro/sis from moms first marriage) and he’s spoiled the butter out of her, her whole life. Pretty decent guy we got a long well. Even me and her mom we got along great. Actually kinda weird they’d say I Acted like her dad but had the same interest as her mom. And she was like my mom but had the interest of my dad? It was true but weird
I can't deal with spoiled people personally - I had a difficult childhood and raised my son myself - Cap Moon has no compassion for those that have grown up being handed things - those people do not change and stay spoiled and become "entitled" and then expect that the world is here to serve them
click to expand
My family did well growing up but we weren’t spoiled in the least bit really, you worked for what you wanted and worked a little harder to make sure you got it was my dads motto pretty much. If you looked at my insta grab it’s like a shrine of praise for my ex and when I mentioned that to her she told me how much she loved it and started telling me she wanted me to post more pictures of her and what not, I’d tell her you can’t just ask for something and expect it?? She’d get mad even give then fact I told her and was adamant about staying off social media at that time cause I feel it damages peoples minds
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was told
WTF with the puzzle pictures? Is this regional thing? And how did you ruined anything if they got it as well?
Do they have not enough walls to put all the puzzle pictures up?
It’s really shitty attitude from her.
She could just hide your gift and stfu! Couldn’t she? Why? Because yours was better? Smh...strange woman...
They forsure have room to put all the pictures up, and I dropped the presents off at my ex’s house and her parents house(her parents live on the same street as me) but yeah idk why it was such a big deal but she made it one
You know better but maybe you don’t need her in your future? Imagine union when she is throwing pissy fits and making you miserable just too often...not fun!click to expand
I love her to much! I’ve always wanted to be with her since the day I saw her. And when we have our goods times, they’re amazing.
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was told
WTF with the puzzle pictures? Is this regional thing? And how did you ruined anything if they got it as well?
Do they have not enough walls to put all the puzzle pictures up?
It’s really shitty attitude from her.
She could just hide your gift and stfu! Couldn’t she? Why? Because yours was better? Smh...strange woman...
They forsure have room to put all the pictures up, and I dropped the presents off at my ex’s house and her parents house(her parents live on the same street as me) but yeah idk why it was such a big deal but she made it one
You know better but maybe you don’t need her in your future? Imagine union when she is throwing pissy fits and making you miserable just too often...not fun!
I love her to much! I’ve always wanted to be with her since the day I saw her. And when we have our goods times, they’re amazing.
click to expand
Like I said you know better why you are in it. Wish you whatever you want to happen and all the best...like she will grow up maybe? 😀
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was told
WTF with the puzzle pictures? Is this regional thing? And how did you ruined anything if they got it as well?
Do they have not enough walls to put all the puzzle pictures up?
It’s really shitty attitude from her.
She could just hide your gift and stfu! Couldn’t she? Why? Because yours was better? Smh...strange woman...
They forsure have room to put all the pictures up, and I dropped the presents off at my ex’s house and her parents house(her parents live on the same street as me) but yeah idk why it was such a big deal but she made it one
You know better but maybe you don’t need her in your future? Imagine union when she is throwing pissy fits and making you miserable just too often...not fun!
I love her to much! I’ve always wanted to be with her since the day I saw her. And when we have our goods times, they’re amazing.
Like I said you know better why you are in it. Wish you whatever you want to happen and all the best...like she will grow up maybe? 😀click to expand
Maybe grow up some day, I’m wondering if she’ll ever possibly try and come back at some point
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was told
WTF with the puzzle pictures? Is this regional thing? And how did you ruined anything if they got it as well?
Do they have not enough walls to put all the puzzle pictures up?
It’s really shitty attitude from her.
She could just hide your gift and stfu! Couldn’t she? Why? Because yours was better? Smh...strange woman...
They forsure have room to put all the pictures up, and I dropped the presents off at my ex’s house and her parents house(her parents live on the same street as me) but yeah idk why it was such a big deal but she made it one
You know better but maybe you don’t need her in your future? Imagine union when she is throwing pissy fits and making you miserable just too often...not fun!
I love her to much! I’ve always wanted to be with her since the day I saw her. And when we have our goods times, they’re amazing.
Like I said you know better why you are in it. Wish you whatever you want to happen and all the best...like she will grow up maybe? 😀
Maybe grow up some day, I’m wondering if she’ll ever possibly try and come back at some pointclick to expand
Why don’t you take it in your hands and be a man who doesn’t take no for an answer?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by GemitatiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
So I got her mom and dad these puzzle pictures (him with his mom and dad both passed, and her mom with her mom, dad, and my ex and her sister) can’t return them. Apparently she had gotten them the same thing I’m sure different pictures and was pissed about it, and the next day she started telling me that her dad had gotten her mom a puzzle picture and that I basically ruined everyone’s gift in a sense. Idk if it was true or not just what I was told
WTF with the puzzle pictures? Is this regional thing? And how did you ruined anything if they got it as well?
Do they have not enough walls to put all the puzzle pictures up?
It’s really shitty attitude from her.
She could just hide your gift and stfu! Couldn’t she? Why? Because yours was better? Smh...strange woman...
They forsure have room to put all the pictures up, and I dropped the presents off at my ex’s house and her parents house(her parents live on the same street as me) but yeah idk why it was such a big deal but she made it one
You know better but maybe you don’t need her in your future? Imagine union when she is throwing pissy fits and making you miserable just too often...not fun!
I love her to much! I’ve always wanted to be with her since the day I saw her. And when we have our goods times, they’re amazing.
Like I said you know better why you are in it. Wish you whatever you want to happen and all the best...like she will grow up maybe? 😀
Maybe grow up some day, I’m wondering if she’ll ever possibly try and come back at some point
Why don’t you take it in your hands and be a man who doesn’t take no for an answer?click to expand
I’m just not sure how to go about it. I don’t want to see if she’ll meet up with me to talk and me explain everything and end up pushing her away even more
Posted by tctaapPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...click to expand
*sigh* everything has a price, my "maturity" came with a price too 🙂 perhaps when she has faced some heartbreak, she will get there (but I hope not, for the sake of this couple)
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?click to expand
Bless her she is still in her immature phase. I am sure it is difficult for you. You sound like you really love her (which is super cute). Unfortunately, for us Libras, love alone means nothing. Someone can love us deeply but we will still feel unfulfilled as we look at other aspects of a relationship such as compatibility, connection, or anything else that matters to that individual. This time around, I think you should reaffirm your commitment to her and say that no matter who says what, only you and her know the truth of your relationship. But most importantly, I think you are playing it right. Hang in there, and if this is meant to be I seriously hope things work out for you ❤️
Posted by Gemitati
I didn’t get what happened with gifts and who ruined what for whom and why...
Maybe i did 💘😬
Posted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Not this Libra. I have no problems letting go and moving on.
Posted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?
Bless her she is still in her immature phase. I am sure it is difficult for you. You sound like you really love her (which is super cute). Unfortunately, for us Libras, love alone means nothing. Someone can love us deeply but we will still feel unfulfilled as we look at other aspects of a relationship such as compatibility, connection, or anything else that matters to that individual. This time around, I think you should reaffirm your commitment to her and say that no matter who says what, only you and her know the truth of your relationship. But most importantly, I think you are playing it right. Hang in there, and if this is meant to be I seriously hope things work out for you ❤️click to expand
I know the things I did wrong and I’ve gone way out of my way to make changes in myself for the benefit of the both of us. I’ve always wanted to be with her since the first day I saw her when I was like 15. It’s really hard tho I wish she would of heard me out, our last talk any concern she brought up I sat there and kept telling her “I literally just answered that in all my explanation of my misunderstanding of things, and I’m telling you I’m gonna make these changes” none of it went in.
And now she posts all this shit on Facebook of pictures with quotes that basically just bring me down. It’s hard
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?
Bless her she is still in her immature phase. I am sure it is difficult for you. You sound like you really love her (which is super cute). Unfortunately, for us Libras, love alone means nothing. Someone can love us deeply but we will still feel unfulfilled as we look at other aspects of a relationship such as compatibility, connection, or anything else that matters to that individual. This time around, I think you should reaffirm your commitment to her and say that no matter who says what, only you and her know the truth of your relationship. But most importantly, I think you are playing it right. Hang in there, and if this is meant to be I seriously hope things work out for you ❤️
I know the things I did wrong and I’ve gone way out of my way to make changes in myself for the benefit of the both of us. I’ve always wanted to be with her since the first day I saw her when I was like 15. It’s really hard tho I wish she would of heard me out, our last talk any concern she brought up I sat there and kept telling her “I literally just answered that in all my explanation of my misunderstanding of things, and I’m telling you I’m gonna make these changes” none of it went in.
And now she posts all this shit on Facebook of pictures with quotes that basically just bring me down. It’s hardclick to expand
well you've done all you can so stop trying and stop looking at her social media crap - just lay low and take care of yourself and stop beating a dead horse. In time it will be ok - first love is always hard
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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.
I still wonder if maybe she’ll come back?? I thought she kind of was starting too with the whole following me to gym and going out to dinner deal, but giving her and her parents presents ruined all that. Just trying to stay distant for now and give her her space
I think it's a good idea to give each other space. When a relationship ends there is a reason for that and it rarely works the second time. Leave her alone. You were nice leaving the gifts and how would you have known that they were going to gift the same thing. She didn't appreciate it which shows how she feels about you. Let her be.
I’m giving her the space but it’s kinda hard with her going to the same gym and our schedules lining for our time to do so being the same. My mail is still going to her house too, she ended up texting me the next day after the present thing to say “I was very upset with you, but thanks. It was a nice gesture”
Maybe she finally realized she was being ungrateful.click to expand
She did the same with our dog, we had plans to be with her family for Christmas and on Christmas Day she worked and I don’t have family in this state so I was alone. Asked if I could have the dog for the day on Xmas day she said maybe and on that morning sent me a text saying maybe next time and later that night another saying I’m sorry you didn’t get to see him, hope you had a very merry Christmas.
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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.
I still wonder if maybe she’ll come back?? I thought she kind of was starting too with the whole following me to gym and going out to dinner deal, but giving her and her parents presents ruined all that. Just trying to stay distant for now and give her her space
I think it's a good idea to give each other space. When a relationship ends there is a reason for that and it rarely works the second time. Leave her alone. You were nice leaving the gifts and how would you have known that they were going to gift the same thing. She didn't appreciate it which shows how she feels about you. Let her be.
I’m giving her the space but it’s kinda hard with her going to the same gym and our schedules lining for our time to do so being the same. My mail is still going to her house too, she ended up texting me the next day after the present thing to say “I was very upset with you, but thanks. It was a nice gesture”
Maybe she finally realized she was being ungrateful.
She did the same with our dog, we had plans to be with her family for Christmas and on Christmas Day she worked and I don’t have family in this state so I was alone. Asked if I could have the dog for the day on Xmas day she said maybe and on that morning sent me a text saying maybe next time and later that night another saying I’m sorry you didn’t get to see him, hope you had a very merry Christmas.
That sucks. Why couldn't she let you have him if she was working?click to expand
My thought from her response on Xmas eve, she was gonna give me some reason why and drop him off at her parents like usual because she has that control.
She has a strong desire to have control over everything pretty much. Plus I think she might of seen her ex again after work so might not of wanted to deal with me.thats only a thought tho
Posted by TimonPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by TimonPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by TimonPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by TimonPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by BathHouseCulture
Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.
I still wonder if maybe she’ll come back?? I thought she kind of was starting too with the whole following me to gym and going out to dinner deal, but giving her and her parents presents ruined all that. Just trying to stay distant for now and give her her space
I think it's a good idea to give each other space. When a relationship ends there is a reason for that and it rarely works the second time. Leave her alone. You were nice leaving the gifts and how would you have known that they were going to gift the same thing. She didn't appreciate it which shows how she feels about you. Let her be.
I’m giving her the space but it’s kinda hard with her going to the same gym and our schedules lining for our time to do so being the same. My mail is still going to her house too, she ended up texting me the next day after the present thing to say “I was very upset with you, but thanks. It was a nice gesture”
Maybe she finally realized she was being ungrateful.
She did the same with our dog, we had plans to be with her family for Christmas and on Christmas Day she worked and I don’t have family in this state so I was alone. Asked if I could have the dog for the day on Xmas day she said maybe and on that morning sent me a text saying maybe next time and later that night another saying I’m sorry you didn’t get to see him, hope you had a very merry Christmas.
That sucks. Why couldn't she let you have him if she was working?
My thought from her response on Xmas eve, she was gonna give me some reason why and drop him off at her parents like usual because she has that control.
She has a strong desire to have control over everything pretty much. Plus I think she might of seen her ex again after work so might not of wanted to deal with me.thats only a thought tho
That's really shitty. I would have demanded an answer to why. What was the excuse to why you couldn't have him. It's your dog too right? So she let you be alone on Christmas day instead? Honestly don't do this to yourself. She's selfish. I would have been pissed and not let the person get away with a lame excuse as "sorry you didn't get to see him". No you're not sorry. If you were sorry you would have made the effort.click to expand
She told me “I already have plans to drop him off at my parents tomorrow so we’ll see” I knew it was a no but hoped she’d come around. I was pretty upset about the whole thing. And the fact that she blew up on me for giving her parents presents not even a week before that. She’s upset me the most she ever has these past two weeks. Especially cause it all started with her approaching me at the gym the one day and us hanging out and getting dinner, than two days later you lose your mind on me and be the biggest bitch ever?
Posted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?
Bless her she is still in her immature phase. I am sure it is difficult for you. You sound like you really love her (which is super cute). Unfortunately, for us Libras, love alone means nothing. Someone can love us deeply but we will still feel unfulfilled as we look at other aspects of a relationship such as compatibility, connection, or anything else that matters to that individual. This time around, I think you should reaffirm your commitment to her and say that no matter who says what, only you and her know the truth of your relationship. But most importantly, I think you are playing it right. Hang in there, and if this is meant to be I seriously hope things work out for you ❤️
I know the things I did wrong and I’ve gone way out of my way to make changes in myself for the benefit of the both of us. I’ve always wanted to be with her since the first day I saw her when I was like 15. It’s really hard tho I wish she would of heard me out, our last talk any concern she brought up I sat there and kept telling her “I literally just answered that in all my explanation of my misunderstanding of things, and I’m telling you I’m gonna make these changes” none of it went in.
And now she posts all this shit on Facebook of pictures with quotes that basically just bring me down. It’s hard
well you've done all you can so stop trying and stop looking at her social media crap - just lay low and take care of yourself and stop beating a dead horse. In time it will be ok - first love is always hardclick to expand
You know how you said your ex bff blames you for everything and how my ex is pretty similar. I went to the dog park with her today(went well, surprised she let me hang with her) and snap chatted me later tonight and basically just blamed every problem in our relationship on me and how it’s all my fault she hates herself now? Like there is no way I treated her that bad what so ever but she makes it out like I abused her in different ways? Wtf?
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?
Bless her she is still in her immature phase. I am sure it is difficult for you. You sound like you really love her (which is super cute). Unfortunately, for us Libras, love alone means nothing. Someone can love us deeply but we will still feel unfulfilled as we look at other aspects of a relationship such as compatibility, connection, or anything else that matters to that individual. This time around, I think you should reaffirm your commitment to her and say that no matter who says what, only you and her know the truth of your relationship. But most importantly, I think you are playing it right. Hang in there, and if this is meant to be I seriously hope things work out for you ❤️
I know the things I did wrong and I’ve gone way out of my way to make changes in myself for the benefit of the both of us. I’ve always wanted to be with her since the first day I saw her when I was like 15. It’s really hard tho I wish she would of heard me out, our last talk any concern she brought up I sat there and kept telling her “I literally just answered that in all my explanation of my misunderstanding of things, and I’m telling you I’m gonna make these changes” none of it went in.
And now she posts all this shit on Facebook of pictures with quotes that basically just bring me down. It’s hard
well you've done all you can so stop trying and stop looking at her social media crap - just lay low and take care of yourself and stop beating a dead horse. In time it will be ok - first love is always hard
You know how you said your ex bff blames you for everything and how my ex is pretty similar. I went to the dog park with her today(went well, surprised she let me hang with her) and snap chatted me later tonight and basically just blamed every problem in our relationship on me and how it’s all my fault she hates herself now? Like there is no way I treated her that bad what so ever but she makes it out like I abused her in different ways? Wtf?click to expand
what I'm hearing also is same that I observed : said person hangs out and you have a wonderful time, then completely changes later into this rage of bytching with lists of shyte you didn't even know existed - and twisting what really happened - nevermind that it was years ago - yes, WTF is that - I wish someone could tell me what kind of behavior is being exhibited here so I can understand it
I think perhaps we didn't resolve things or at least I thought they were resolve but I was wrong - oh so wrong lol and when I tried to attempt to resolve them completely she shut down and didn't want to work to better the relationship so I completely stopped all communication
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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?
Bless her she is still in her immature phase. I am sure it is difficult for you. You sound like you really love her (which is super cute). Unfortunately, for us Libras, love alone means nothing. Someone can love us deeply but we will still feel unfulfilled as we look at other aspects of a relationship such as compatibility, connection, or anything else that matters to that individual. This time around, I think you should reaffirm your commitment to her and say that no matter who says what, only you and her know the truth of your relationship. But most importantly, I think you are playing it right. Hang in there, and if this is meant to be I seriously hope things work out for you ❤️
I know the things I did wrong and I’ve gone way out of my way to make changes in myself for the benefit of the both of us. I’ve always wanted to be with her since the first day I saw her when I was like 15. It’s really hard tho I wish she would of heard me out, our last talk any concern she brought up I sat there and kept telling her “I literally just answered that in all my explanation of my misunderstanding of things, and I’m telling you I’m gonna make these changes” none of it went in.
And now she posts all this shit on Facebook of pictures with quotes that basically just bring me down. It’s hard
well you've done all you can so stop trying and stop looking at her social media crap - just lay low and take care of yourself and stop beating a dead horse. In time it will be ok - first love is always hard
You know how you said your ex bff blames you for everything and how my ex is pretty similar. I went to the dog park with her today(went well, surprised she let me hang with her) and snap chatted me later tonight and basically just blamed every problem in our relationship on me and how it’s all my fault she hates herself now? Like there is no way I treated her that bad what so ever but she makes it out like I abused her in different ways? Wtf?
what I'm hearing also is same that I observed : said person hangs out and you have a wonderful time, then completely changes later into this rage of bytching with lists of shyte you didn't even know existed - and twisting what really happened - nevermind that it was years ago - yes, WTF is that - I wish someone could tell me what kind of behavior is being exhibited here so I can understand it
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That’s what I’m saying, like we had an amazing time but now all of a sudden she’s telling me it never meant anything basically and it’s all my fault. I know I’m guilty of my own faults, but she definitely played her part aswell. She sent me a couple more texts the next morning and than later that day. I never responded still, I hope it sits in her and she thinks about what she said to me because the majority of it wasn’t true,just pure pain and anger basically coming out and maybe her wanting me to know I hurt her? My friends mom(pretty much always been right about her moves and motives) said she thinks she’s still not done with me and will still probably come back at some point in time but I’m not sure. She put a picture on her snap story last night saying she’s coming after 2019, her hopes are high and fairy tales clear as day. Whatever that means. Maybe something to try and get at me again
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I think perhaps we didn't resolve things or at least I thought they were resolve but I was wrong - oh so wrong lol and when I tried to attempt to resolve them completely she shut down and didn't want to work to better the relationship so I completely stopped all communication
This has happened both times now when we’ve broken up, she’s more than willing to do anything and everything to fix and save us and once I’m like “ok this is exactly what needs to happen” it’s like nope, I’m done.
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she's not kindness she's cruelety. Any plan to take her to court over dog & your property?
No, that’s where we raised the dog is at her house and that’s what he knows and she’s much better set up out here at this point than I am for taking care of him so I couldn’t bring myself to take him from her and his home. My property I can realistically go and get at anytime she’s letting me keep the boat and stuff there.
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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?
Bless her she is still in her immature phase. I am sure it is difficult for you. You sound like you really love her (which is super cute). Unfortunately, for us Libras, love alone means nothing. Someone can love us deeply but we will still feel unfulfilled as we look at other aspects of a relationship such as compatibility, connection, or anything else that matters to that individual. This time around, I think you should reaffirm your commitment to her and say that no matter who says what, only you and her know the truth of your relationship. But most importantly, I think you are playing it right. Hang in there, and if this is meant to be I seriously hope things work out for you ❤️
I know the things I did wrong and I’ve gone way out of my way to make changes in myself for the benefit of the both of us. I’ve always wanted to be with her since the first day I saw her when I was like 15. It’s really hard tho I wish she would of heard me out, our last talk any concern she brought up I sat there and kept telling her “I literally just answered that in all my explanation of my misunderstanding of things, and I’m telling you I’m gonna make these changes” none of it went in.
And now she posts all this shit on Facebook of pictures with quotes that basically just bring me down. It’s hard
well you've done all you can so stop trying and stop looking at her social media crap - just lay low and take care of yourself and stop beating a dead horse. In time it will be ok - first love is always hard
You know how you said your ex bff blames you for everything and how my ex is pretty similar. I went to the dog park with her today(went well, surprised she let me hang with her) and snap chatted me later tonight and basically just blamed every problem in our relationship on me and how it’s all my fault she hates herself now? Like there is no way I treated her that bad what so ever but she makes it out like I abused her in different ways? Wtf?
what I'm hearing also is same that I observed : said person hangs out and you have a wonderful time, then completely changes later into this rage of bytching with lists of shyte you didn't even know existed - and twisting what really happened - nevermind that it was years ago - yes, WTF is that - I wish someone could tell me what kind of behavior is being exhibited here so I can understand it
That’s what I’m saying, like we had an amazing time but now all of a sudden she’s telling me it never meant anything basically and it’s all my fault. I know I’m guilty of my own faults, but she definitely played her part aswell. She sent me a couple more texts the next morning and than later that day. I never responded still, I hope it sits in her and she thinks about what she said to me because the majority of it wasn’t true,just pure pain and anger basically coming out and maybe her wanting me to know I hurt her? My friends mom(pretty much always been right about her moves and motives) said she thinks she’s still not done with me and will still probably come back at some point in time but I’m not sure. She put a picture on her snap story last night saying she’s coming after 2019, her hopes are high and fairy tales clear as day. Whatever that means. Maybe something to try and get at me againclick to expand
ok, well whatever it is, let it go and let her alone to do whatever she wants and stop playing some sort of head games with you
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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?
Bless her she is still in her immature phase. I am sure it is difficult for you. You sound like you really love her (which is super cute). Unfortunately, for us Libras, love alone means nothing. Someone can love us deeply but we will still feel unfulfilled as we look at other aspects of a relationship such as compatibility, connection, or anything else that matters to that individual. This time around, I think you should reaffirm your commitment to her and say that no matter who says what, only you and her know the truth of your relationship. But most importantly, I think you are playing it right. Hang in there, and if this is meant to be I seriously hope things work out for you ❤️
I know the things I did wrong and I’ve gone way out of my way to make changes in myself for the benefit of the both of us. I’ve always wanted to be with her since the first day I saw her when I was like 15. It’s really hard tho I wish she would of heard me out, our last talk any concern she brought up I sat there and kept telling her “I literally just answered that in all my explanation of my misunderstanding of things, and I’m telling you I’m gonna make these changes” none of it went in.
And now she posts all this shit on Facebook of pictures with quotes that basically just bring me down. It’s hard
well you've done all you can so stop trying and stop looking at her social media crap - just lay low and take care of yourself and stop beating a dead horse. In time it will be ok - first love is always hard
You know how you said your ex bff blames you for everything and how my ex is pretty similar. I went to the dog park with her today(went well, surprised she let me hang with her) and snap chatted me later tonight and basically just blamed every problem in our relationship on me and how it’s all my fault she hates herself now? Like there is no way I treated her that bad what so ever but she makes it out like I abused her in different ways? Wtf?
what I'm hearing also is same that I observed : said person hangs out and you have a wonderful time, then completely changes later into this rage of bytching with lists of shyte you didn't even know existed - and twisting what really happened - nevermind that it was years ago - yes, WTF is that - I wish someone could tell me what kind of behavior is being exhibited here so I can understand it
That’s what I’m saying, like we had an amazing time but now all of a sudden she’s telling me it never meant anything basically and it’s all my fault. I know I’m guilty of my own faults, but she definitely played her part aswell. She sent me a couple more texts the next morning and than later that day. I never responded still, I hope it sits in her and she thinks about what she said to me because the majority of it wasn’t true,just pure pain and anger basically coming out and maybe her wanting me to know I hurt her? My friends mom(pretty much always been right about her moves and motives) said she thinks she’s still not done with me and will still probably come back at some point in time but I’m not sure. She put a picture on her snap story last night saying she’s coming after 2019, her hopes are high and fairy tales clear as day. Whatever that means. Maybe something to try and get at me again
ok, well whatever it is, let it go and let her alone to do whatever she wants and stop playing some sort of head games with youclick to expand
I’m leaving her alone but letting it all go is the hardest thing I’ve done in my life so far. This girl has been my life long dream and in my head it’s like “let go? Yeah right!” Like I wanna fight for it still even though it’s basically beating a dead horse..
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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?
Bless her she is still in her immature phase. I am sure it is difficult for you. You sound like you really love her (which is super cute). Unfortunately, for us Libras, love alone means nothing. Someone can love us deeply but we will still feel unfulfilled as we look at other aspects of a relationship such as compatibility, connection, or anything else that matters to that individual. This time around, I think you should reaffirm your commitment to her and say that no matter who says what, only you and her know the truth of your relationship. But most importantly, I think you are playing it right. Hang in there, and if this is meant to be I seriously hope things work out for you ❤️
I know the things I did wrong and I’ve gone way out of my way to make changes in myself for the benefit of the both of us. I’ve always wanted to be with her since the first day I saw her when I was like 15. It’s really hard tho I wish she would of heard me out, our last talk any concern she brought up I sat there and kept telling her “I literally just answered that in all my explanation of my misunderstanding of things, and I’m telling you I’m gonna make these changes” none of it went in.
And now she posts all this shit on Facebook of pictures with quotes that basically just bring me down. It’s hard
well you've done all you can so stop trying and stop looking at her social media crap - just lay low and take care of yourself and stop beating a dead horse. In time it will be ok - first love is always hard
You know how you said your ex bff blames you for everything and how my ex is pretty similar. I went to the dog park with her today(went well, surprised she let me hang with her) and snap chatted me later tonight and basically just blamed every problem in our relationship on me and how it’s all my fault she hates herself now? Like there is no way I treated her that bad what so ever but she makes it out like I abused her in different ways? Wtf?
what I'm hearing also is same that I observed : said person hangs out and you have a wonderful time, then completely changes later into this rage of bytching with lists of shyte you didn't even know existed - and twisting what really happened - nevermind that it was years ago - yes, WTF is that - I wish someone could tell me what kind of behavior is being exhibited here so I can understand it
That’s what I’m saying, like we had an amazing time but now all of a sudden she’s telling me it never meant anything basically and it’s all my fault. I know I’m guilty of my own faults, but she definitely played her part aswell. She sent me a couple more texts the next morning and than later that day. I never responded still, I hope it sits in her and she thinks about what she said to me because the majority of it wasn’t true,just pure pain and anger basically coming out and maybe her wanting me to know I hurt her? My friends mom(pretty much always been right about her moves and motives) said she thinks she’s still not done with me and will still probably come back at some point in time but I’m not sure. She put a picture on her snap story last night saying she’s coming after 2019, her hopes are high and fairy tales clear as day. Whatever that means. Maybe something to try and get at me again
ok, well whatever it is, let it go and let her alone to do whatever she wants and stop playing some sort of head games with you
I’m leaving her alone but letting it all go is the hardest thing I’ve done in my life so far. This girl has been my life long dream and in my head it’s like “let go? Yeah right!” Like I wanna fight for it still even though it’s basically beating a dead horse..click to expand
well yeah, first time is always hard but remember truth is beauty, beauty is not always truth
Posted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibsPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by libsthedibs
This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you
Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet
huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).
She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?
Bless her she is still in her immature phase. I am sure it is difficult for you. You sound like you really love her (which is super cute). Unfortunately, for us Libras, love alone means nothing. Someone can love us deeply but we will still feel unfulfilled as we look at other aspects of a relationship such as compatibility, connection, or anything else that matters to that individual. This time around, I think you should reaffirm your commitment to her and say that no matter who says what, only you and her know the truth of your relationship. But most importantly, I think you are playing it right. Hang in there, and if this is meant to be I seriously hope things work out for you ❤️
I know the things I did wrong and I’ve gone way out of my way to make changes in myself for the benefit of the both of us. I’ve always wanted to be with her since the first day I saw her when I was like 15. It’s really hard tho I wish she would of heard me out, our last talk any concern she brought up I sat there and kept telling her “I literally just answered that in all my explanation of my misunderstanding of things, and I’m telling you I’m gonna make these changes” none of it went in.
And now she posts all this shit on Facebook of pictures with quotes that basically just bring me down. It’s hard
well you've done all you can so stop trying and stop looking at her social media crap - just lay low and take care of yourself and stop beating a dead horse. In time it will be ok - first love is always hard
You know how you said your ex bff blames you for everything and how my ex is pretty similar. I went to the dog park with her today(went well, surprised she let me hang with her) and snap chatted me later tonight and basically just blamed every problem in our relationship on me and how it’s all my fault she hates herself now? Like there is no way I treated her that bad what so ever but she makes it out like I abused her in different ways? Wtf?
what I'm hearing also is same that I observed : said person hangs out and you have a wonderful time, then completely changes later into this rage of bytching with lists of shyte you didn't even know existed - and twisting what really happened - nevermind that it was years ago - yes, WTF is that - I wish someone could tell me what kind of behavior is being exhibited here so I can understand it
That’s what I’m saying, like we had an amazing time but now all of a sudden she’s telling me it never meant anything basically and it’s all my fault. I know I’m guilty of my own faults, but she definitely played her part aswell. She sent me a couple more texts the next morning and than later that day. I never responded still, I hope it sits in her and she thinks about what she said to me because the majority of it wasn’t true,just pure pain and anger basically coming out and maybe her wanting me to know I hurt her? My friends mom(pretty much always been right about her moves and motives) said she thinks she’s still not done with me and will still probably come back at some point in time but I’m not sure. She put a picture on her snap story last night saying she’s coming after 2019, her hopes are high and fairy tales clear as day. Whatever that means. Maybe something to try and get at me again
ok, well whatever it is, let it go and let her alone to do whatever she wants and stop playing some sort of head games with you
I’m leaving her alone but letting it all go is the hardest thing I’ve done in my life so far. This girl has been my life long dream and in my head it’s like “let go? Yeah right!” Like I wanna fight for it still even though it’s basically beating a dead horse..
well yeah, first time is always hard but remember truth is beauty, beauty is not always truthclick to expand
She started texting me last night cause I had mail, she was being all “happy” over texts and kinda trynna joke at first, ended up asking how I was and how my New Years was and went off about how she’s gonna go out try all these new things and whatever. Don’t know what to think about it
if you are done, then be done - and work towards totally separation which means no contact - her back and forth emotions will drive you nuts - because Taurus is earth and stable and fixed
Posted by tctaap
if you are done, then be done - and work towards totally separation which means no contact - her back and forth emotions will drive you nuts - because Taurus is earth and stable and fixed
That’s the thing though is I don’t want to be done, but her back and forth is killing me. I want to be straight up with her but if I do it’ll push her away. My plan is to just totally ignore her from now on and if she ends up coming around than she ends up coming around I guess not sure what else I can do here
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaap
if you are done, then be done - and work towards totally separation which means no contact - her back and forth emotions will drive you nuts - because Taurus is earth and stable and fixed
That’s the thing though is I don’t want to be done, but her back and forth is killing me. I want to be straight up with her but if I do it’ll push her away. My plan is to just totally ignore her from now on and if she ends up coming around than she ends up coming around I guess not sure what else I can do hereclick to expand
right - cause it isn't going to work if you can't be who you are (straight up) - that's Taurus law and that's just who we are
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaap
if you are done, then be done - and work towards totally separation which means no contact - her back and forth emotions will drive you nuts - because Taurus is earth and stable and fixed
That’s the thing though is I don’t want to be done, but her back and forth is killing me. I want to be straight up with her but if I do it’ll push her away. My plan is to just totally ignore her from now on and if she ends up coming around than she ends up coming around I guess not sure what else I can do hereclick to expand
#taurusproblems
Posted by jeanePosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaap
if you are done, then be done - and work towards totally separation which means no contact - her back and forth emotions will drive you nuts - because Taurus is earth and stable and fixed
That’s the thing though is I don’t want to be done, but her back and forth is killing me. I want to be straight up with her but if I do it’ll push her away. My plan is to just totally ignore her from now on and if she ends up coming around than she ends up coming around I guess not sure what else I can do here
#taurusproblemsclick to expand
yes unfortunately a young Taurus I am assuming - beating a dead horse - either it gets better with age or my other placements have helped me - or maybe it was environmental - since my mother was seriously cray cray, I can't stand to be around anyone that ain't quite right in the headspace
Posted by tctaapPosted by jeanePosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaap
if you are done, then be done - and work towards totally separation which means no contact - her back and forth emotions will drive you nuts - because Taurus is earth and stable and fixed
That’s the thing though is I don’t want to be done, but her back and forth is killing me. I want to be straight up with her but if I do it’ll push her away. My plan is to just totally ignore her from now on and if she ends up coming around than she ends up coming around I guess not sure what else I can do here
#taurusproblems
yes unfortunately a young Taurus I am assuming - beating a dead horse - either it gets better with age or my other placements have helped me - or maybe it was environmental - since my mother was seriously cray cray, I can't stand to be around anyone that ain't quite right in the headspaceclick to expand
i don't know if this is true for all libras or just the ones i know (me included) but if you let us walk all over you we probably will end up doing so. libras respond to and respect clear boundaries.
this guy should find his spine in regards to this libra. either she'll respond or she won't but at least he'll have a bit of self respect instead of being so wet.
Posted by jeanePosted by tctaapPosted by jeanePosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaap
if you are done, then be done - and work towards totally separation which means no contact - her back and forth emotions will drive you nuts - because Taurus is earth and stable and fixed
That’s the thing though is I don’t want to be done, but her back and forth is killing me. I want to be straight up with her but if I do it’ll push her away. My plan is to just totally ignore her from now on and if she ends up coming around than she ends up coming around I guess not sure what else I can do here
#taurusproblems
yes unfortunately a young Taurus I am assuming - beating a dead horse - either it gets better with age or my other placements have helped me - or maybe it was environmental - since my mother was seriously cray cray, I can't stand to be around anyone that ain't quite right in the headspace
i don't know if this is true for all libras or just the ones i know (me included) but if you let us walk all over you we probably will end up doing so. libras respond to and respect clear boundaries.
this guy should find his spine in regards to this libra. either she'll respond or she won't but at least he'll have a bit of self respect instead of being so wet.click to expand
totally - I have actually lived / learned that with the old Libra gf but in fairness that is mostly true for any sign isn't it / people will treat you however they want until you slam on the brakes and lay down the law
Posted by jeanePosted by tctaapPosted by jeanePosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaap
if you are done, then be done - and work towards totally separation which means no contact - her back and forth emotions will drive you nuts - because Taurus is earth and stable and fixed
That’s the thing though is I don’t want to be done, but her back and forth is killing me. I want to be straight up with her but if I do it’ll push her away. My plan is to just totally ignore her from now on and if she ends up coming around than she ends up coming around I guess not sure what else I can do here
#taurusproblems
yes unfortunately a young Taurus I am assuming - beating a dead horse - either it gets better with age or my other placements have helped me - or maybe it was environmental - since my mother was seriously cray cray, I can't stand to be around anyone that ain't quite right in the headspace
i don't know if this is true for all libras or just the ones i know (me included) but if you let us walk all over you we probably will end up doing so. libras respond to and respect clear boundaries.
this guy should find his spine in regards to this libra. either she'll respond or she won't but at least he'll have a bit of self respect instead of being so wet.click to expand
and so true - I think he sees the light at the end of the tunnel, he's just not sure yet if it's the right train - best to get off the tracks now and not let the train hit you but he's young and still finding his way in that aspect - imho - you know Taurus don't like to give it up - it's hard
Posted by tctaapPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tctaap
if you are done, then be done - and work towards totally separation which means no contact - her back and forth emotions will drive you nuts - because Taurus is earth and stable and fixed
That’s the thing though is I don’t want to be done, but her back and forth is killing me. I want to be straight up with her but if I do it’ll push her away. My plan is to just totally ignore her from now on and if she ends up coming around than she ends up coming around I guess not sure what else I can do here
right - cause it isn't going to work if you can't be who you are (straight up) - that's Taurus law and that's just who we areclick to expand
She face timed me last night for an hour and a half.. it was like good conversation mixed with her trying to make look bad in about half the shit I said or we were talking about I was like seriously... asks me what I’m doing Sunday cause she’s teaching skiing in the morning and after the call texts me and says basically “maybe we could ski another day, I think we should stay and continue on talking terms. Thanks for talking/listening good night” I was like wtf seriously!
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