Libra male broke up because of a misunderstanding

I have been in a relationship with a Libra male for 6 months. It took me sometime to get used to him. At first I was scared because he told me that he loves me and was happy to show me to his friends and family, he asked my parents if we could live together and told our friends that he wants to pass his life with me. I did not have many relationships in my life and I felt that he was serious towards me so I unintentionally I created a shell to protect myself. With time I developed deep feelings for him.
This past month, I reacted badly because I thought that he had a crush on our common friend. I was sure that it was what was happening and once did not open the door when he came. On the next day I invited him to a restaurant and excused myself but did not tell him the real reason because I was embarrassed. Two weeks ago Saturday we went to her birthday party he was so excited and haven't given me any attention (these couple of weeks we barely saw each other because I'm in mid-term exams and he has been working a lot). I was so angry that called him the next morning and told him he was disrespectful and hanged up.
He hasn't called me. During three days I took time to think and realized some things and one of them is that I wanted us to be together. Thursday he came to my place and told me it was over I explained to him... He seemed sooo angry that he did not want to approach to me.
This Sunday he came to pick me up from my parents house where I spent the weekend (which is 1.5 drive), my mom told him that we're a beautiful couple (many people have told us that)and that we can work it out but he was very cold. In the car I noticed that he lost weight and looked angry. He talked about the subject so I told him -That I know where I made mistakes and that I don't want to hurt you and want to have a future with you. And I'm trying to do everything I can to get you back and I don't know what to do now. And if you don't want to know anything about me then I understand and I will get up and continue my life. He was silent at one point he told me that he was at a dead end and did not know if there would be any paths. So I said ok just don't hold me by a thread- For the rest of the ride we just talked about random stuff and laughed.
I feel like everything happened because of a misunderstanding and such a small reason. One thing that I don't understand is if he had made his mind to brake-up with me why would he be angry and not want to approach me. Will he be back

correction- it wasn't a misunderstanding. It's your insane insecurity that ruined your relationship. How about you work on that first before continuing on with a serious relationship?

Sorry, didn't mean to sound all harsh.

Not apologizing for calling her insecurity "insane" though. She needs to reread what she wrote and maybe she'll see it.

But ditto on what leoliza said.

Posted by astride

I feel like everything happened because of a misunderstanding and such a small reason. One thing that I don't understand is if he had made his mind to brake-up with me why would he be angry and not want to approach me Will he be back

Because he felt disrespected. If you cared why were you distancing yourself? What did he really have to do with your issues? Why did you take it out on him? Why didn't you just talk to him like an equal instead of down cutting him?

As for will he be back that is up to him. You gave him plenty of leeway to slowly and permanently friend zone you. To be honest the male Libra friends and family I have seen in this situation stay friends with their exes, but it usually doesn't re-mesh together. Even if he does give you that chance you must not come off even remotely like you were in the past or he will bolt, and he will be happy he bolted.

Libras will try and find a flaw and look for an exit in a relationship if they are not happy. Leoliza hit the nail on the head! The men at least. My childhood friend of like 20 yrs is a libra and I've seen how he acts in tons of relationships. His last of 2yrs, he loved her and they fought a lot. He dropped her quick and never looked back based on a misunderstanding. He thought she cheated, she never did. That's all it took. So watch yourself!

^^ Are you serious?

How anyone could conclude this is somehow the Libra dude's fault is beyond me....



The Libra wasn't "looking for an out."
You treated him like dirt because of your own insecurities, as Rocky already pointed out.

He probably doesn't even know the real reason you avoided him and acted like an ass...and honestly, knowing the real reason would not help your case because it's a ridiculous reason. :/